How to Pull Girls: The Only Guide You Need

You want to know how to pull girls, am I right?

Let me guess:

You haven’t had sex in a while and you want to change this. You finally want to approach girls in malls, in clubs, and at parties and you do NOT want to go home empty handed. No, you want to have the skills to take the hottest girls home.

Let’s get real for a moment:

Enough is enough!

Watching another infield pickup video on YouTube won’t change anything. You need a plan. You need a proven step-by-step system that allows you to get the results you want.

Today I want to share this step-by-step system with you:

Something had to change…

How to Pull Any Woman in Any Situation 

I wish I could turn back the time.

You don’t have to make the same mistakes I made.

Instead, learn how to pull the girl of your dreams (or any other girl) by following seven simple steps…

1. Make the First Move 

Do you know what I did in the past?

I waited. Then I waited some more. I was standing in the middle of the club, ready to approach girls. Surprise, surprise…I ended up doing nothing. The drink in my hand was my life line…and the only thing I touched that night.

Every night the same shit!

I was convinced that no girl would go home with me because…

I did all these things and none of the girls approached me. And none of them chased me. The fact that I was invisible made me bitter. Then, one night, I did something I’ve never done before. I challenged myself.

Here’s the challenge I gave myself:

I ended up approaching 30 women. It didn’t surprise me that 25 rejected me immediately. But I was happy to get one kiss and three phone numbers. And I was even happier that one of these 30 women went home with me.

Making the first move is the foundation for a successful pull.

2. Be Sexual from the First Second 

How do most guys approach women?

That’s not the best way to pull a girl. In fact, it’s pretty pathetic. A woman’s sexuality is like a bonfire. But it can only burn if you provide the wood. If you act like an asexual neuter, she can’t be attracted to you. It’s impossible.

Women want to feel desired.

You can’t expect her to follow you if you talk to her like you talk to your hairy friend Oscar. The first handshake, the first eye contact, and the first compliment should be sexual.

Stop the indirect bullshit!

Now she knows what you want. She might want it too.

3. Build Trust and Comfort  

However, she only wants it when she feels comfortable with you.

Here’s the painful truth:

You can’t pull a girl who doesn’t trust you.

Trust and comfort are Siamese twins. She has to feel comfortable to trust you. And if she doesn’t trust you, she can’t feel comfortable. Then she won’t go home with you.

Here’s what you need to do:

Touching releases oxytocin and oxytocin increases a sense of trust and affection. Heck, I recently read a study in which scientists from Finland discovered that touching increases trust in pupils. If it works in schools, it works when it comes to pulling girls.

Start with her arm, continue with her shoulder, and don’t stop at her leg.

Make her trust you.

4. Be Unapologetic about Your Intention 

Here’s what happens when a woman trusts you:

She becomes bolder.

Now that she feels comfortable with you and trusts you, she’s not afraid anymore. She’s not afraid to ask the questions she wants to ask. Not all girls do it but some test you. They want to know whether or not you have the balls to be honest.

Here are popular tests of girls who want to sleep with you:

How do you react?

This is the moment when most guys mess up big time. They become apologetic. They pretend to be the good guy. News flash: She doesn’t want a good guy. She wants a guy who is confident enough to pull her.

“I’m not that kind of guy” is the worst possible answer.

Here’s what I would answer to each of the above mentioned tests:

Don’t apologize for your desire to pull her. Push back.

5. Take Care of Her Friends 

Not all girls are alone.

Let’s say you want to pull a girl at a party or in a club. You can’t just walk up to a girl who’s in the middle of a conversation and (physically) pull her away from her friends. That’s rude and pretty stupid because now you have three enemies.

Allow me to introduce:

Cassandra, Monica, Bella…your enemies.

Yes, you ask her friends if you can talk to the girl of your dreams for a second. And no, that’s not weak. It’s highly effective.

6. Increase the Tension Slowly  

Her friends like you.

Now you’re alone with her. Or maybe she was alone in the first place and you just went to a more private location. The same principle applies. You need to increase the sexual tension.

Whisper dirty secrets in her ear, look at her lips, and check out these tips on increasing the sexual tension. You can take your time. Learning how to pull girls is not about learning to be the fastest closer on planet earth.

It takes as long as it takes.

Some girls want it fast. Others need a bit more time. As long as you increase the sexual tension and don’t apologize for doing it, she will eventually give in.  

7. Pull the Trigger 

What if you reach the boiling point?

Then you did a great job. You increased the sexual tension. She liked it. Maybe you’ve already kissed her. Maybe you haven’t. It doesn’t matter. She’s ready for more and she’s not ashamed to give you signs.

She wants it to happen…but she’s a good girl. That’s why you have to pull the trigger. You already made the first move. Now it’s time to make the last move.

Please don’t disappoint her.

Don’t be too insecure to ask her to come with you. She wants to go home with you. Take her hand and lead her to the exit. Make her laugh on the way home. Don’t ask her if she wants to come in. Take her hand again and lead her inside.

Close the door behind you and start exploring her body.

How to Pull a Girl in a Club

Now you know how to pull women in any situation.

But let’s face it. Clubs are a unique environment. I mean, there aren’t a lot of places that combine expensive drinks, dimmed lights, half-naked girls, and public make out sessions. I can only think of clubs…and brothels.

So…how to you do it in crowded clubs?

You can use the exact seven steps I shared with you.

But I want to give you a couple more practical tips that are specifically for clubs.  

Let’s get started…

1. Use One of My Crazy Club Openers 

I have good news for you.

Most guys suck at picking up girls in clubs:

Why is that good news?

Well, because your chances to pull a girl on a night out increase dramatically when you use a different strategy. Don’t waste your time with compliments in an environment that forces girls to act like entitled narcissistic brats.

Instead, do what I do for years.

You can use the exact same approaches I use in clubs and achieve the same results. It’s so damn easy once you know what to say.

2. Go Straight to the Dancefloor 

The next step is about pulling her…literally.

You can’t expect her to go home with you when she’s not horny. Going from zero to one hundred is a really bad idea. Sorry, but a five-minute conversation at the bar is not enough. You have to get physical and the dance floor is the perfect place to do this.

Here’s the rule:

Clubs are not the right place for deep conversations. I don’t care if you talked to her for five seconds or five minutes. Go straight to the dancefloor.

No dancing = no pulling.

Remember that before you torture her with a political discussion.

3. Dance with Her and Touch Her 

You’re on the dance floor. Dance with her!

If you want to know how to pull women, you can’t be shy on the dance floor. Don’t stand there like a tree while she uses you as her stripper pole. I once saw a girl taking a guy’s hand and placing it on her ass….and he pulled away. That shit only happens in Germany.

Anyway…

Give her the feeling that you enjoy what she does:

This will turn her on until she goes this extreme…

Remember: You want to have sex with her and she has to know it.

4. Go Somewhere Private

Okay, relatively private…

It’s hard to go somewhere private in a crowded club. People are everywhere. But that doesn’t mean that it’s impossible to find a place to make out and to continue the grinding, kissing and moaning.

You don’t need to be all alone. She might be a bit tipsy and she’s definitely horny as hell. As long as your tongue is in her mouth, she doesn’t care if anyone sits next to you. So don’t pull it out.

5. Give Yourself Permission to Pull Any Girl You Want

“Give yourself permission to pull her.”

Here’s what I mean by that:

Most guys make one crucial mistake right before the finish line. You approached her, danced with her and made out with her. The green light has never been brighter. One last step and she’s naked in your bed.

Please don’t mess it up with a question.

“Do you want to come back to my place?”

Here’s the truth:

She is that kind of girl and yes, she wants to come back to your place. She wants it since you started dancing. But she doesn’t want to be the slut who says “yes”. She wants you to be responsible for what happens.

“Let’s get out of here…”

Now she comes with you because nobody knows what will happen…

How to Pull a Girl at a Party 

Are you ready for a change of location?

Let’s leave the club and go to a party. It’s a house party and your friend invited you yesterday. You accepted the invitation, even though you’re scared as shit that it will be a cock festival. You can’t believe your eyes when you open the door.

You are surrounded by beautiful women.

But you only have eyes for this one girl…

1. Approach Her with the “Shame on Him” Opener

You don’t know her but you want to change that.

Thank God you already know how to pull any woman. But still, you hesitate. You don’t know how to approach her. I mean, you can’t just walk up to her and say “excuse me, I just saw you from over there and had to come and talk to you.” That’s weird.

You need a different approach.

Remember why you are here and turn it into an approach:

Here’s an example:

Now she’s listening.

2. Skip the Small Talk

My advice:

Skip the small talk and dive in deep.

No, it’s not too early to share your craziest stories with her. She wants to hear them. Don’t be afraid to ask her about her life, her passion, and her experiences. Make sure that she has the best party conversation she ever had.

Oh, and don’t be afraid to increase the tension.

Make every second count.

3. Give Her a Reason to Follow You  

Here’s how to pull chicks at a party:

Isolate her.

She won’t touch you in front of her friends. Remember that she’s not that kind of girl. You have to move her away from her friends. That’s how you allow her to transform from innocent angel into naughty devil.

But where do you take her?

Come on. It’s a party. There are so many possibilities:

Now that you’re outside you can enjoy your intimate conversation.

4. Suggest a Walk  

You’re talking to her and touching her.

Now is the perfect time to suggest a walk.

That’s the whole secret. It’s a sneaky tactic because you’re not just walking anywhere. You’re walking in the direction of your house, a love hotel, or a park where you can hide in the bush and play hide and seek with the tree…your tree.

She knows what’s going to happen and she wants it to happen.

You can make it happen.

Click here if you want more information on how to get her in the mood and out of her clothes once you are alone.

Summed Up Wisdom 

Now you know how to pull girls. It’s not about being nice and buying stuff for her. It’s about being unapologetically honest and about increasing the sexual tension. Unless you make the first move, she won’s follow you.

What if you’re at the club? Don’t bore her with small talk. It’s not the place for long conversations. Go straight to the dance floor and spin her around. Have fun and don’t be shy. She wants you to touch her body. That’s why she’s dancing with you.

The same principles apply at a party. You have to be sexual and you have to isolate her. The good news is that it’s easy to come up with a reason. Once you’re alone, you can suggest a walk. She knows where this walk will end.