You have looked at enough pictures of beautiful Mexican girls.
It’s time to learn how to meet them, date them, and make them yours.
But just because some bloggers tell you that they are easy doesn’t mean that it’s true. Don’t fool yourself. Dating Mexican girls can be tricky, no matter how much you love them.
Unfortunately, nobody wants to talk about the tricky things in life because it is way easier to say that it’s all rainbows and unicorns.
- Everyone says that these women are easy, but is it really true?
- Everyone says they love American men more than their own life, but is it true?
- Everyone says that it’s heaven on earth to have a Mexican girlfriend, but is that really true?
Have a look at the following 35 facts, tips, and shocking truths about dating Mexican girls and decide for yourself if you want to cross the Rio Grande…
Hot to Date a Mexican Girl: 9 Things You Must Know about Her
The girls you’ll meet in Mexico City, Guadalajara and Tijuana are not like the girls you can date back home…especially the ones in Tijuana.
You need to understand them before you can meet and attract them.
- Do they all look like the girls on TV?
- Are they really that submissive?
- Is it dangerous to date them?
Let’s find it out…
1. Dating Mexican Girls Won’t Kill You Unless…
“Don’t you know that Mexico is dangerous? Don’t cross the border! Please! You are my only son!”
These were the exact words of my mom when I told her about my plan to cross the border and to visit Mexico. I was 19, visiting my grand aunt in the USA, and my mom was scared to death.
You might be scared too.
I mean, everyone knows that everyone across the Rio Grande gets killed by a drunk drug lord with a Sombrero after a fight about a bottle of Tequila. It’s not that this country is visited by more than 30 million tourists every single year.
They must be all raped, dead, and buried, right?
Come one. Don’t be so naïve and believe when the media in a country with overweight feminists tells you that you should stay out of a country with beautiful traditional women because it’s “too dangerous”.
Unless you start a fight with a Mexican drug lord after you banged his wife and/or deflowered his daughter, you’ll be fine.
If you stay in the areas that I recommend in this article, you are more at risk of dying of a heat stroke than of a gunshot.
2. Mexican Girls are Not as Promiscuous as Dominican Women
Have you ever been to the Dominican Republic?
Jeez! These girls are the definition of promiscuity. All you have to do is to go on Dominican Cupid and you’ll have a girl in your bed within the next five minutes.
That’s how it works in the Dominican Republic, but that’s not how it works in the land of Tequila.
- One night stands are rare.
- Forget about the three date rule and accept the 4-6 date rule.
- Catholicism is more than just a word.
Yes, Mexican girls love to dress sexy, but they are not easy. They love to show what their momma gave them, but they are selective about who can touch it.
But don’t worry. I’ll show you how you can qualify.
3. Yes, Mexican Women are Submissive in Bed
Dating a Mexican woman is like riding a rollercoaster.
In the beginning, you are blown away by their flirtatious attitude. You are excited. Then you slowly drive up a hill until you reach the fourth or fifth date. Now the looping is waiting for you. If you survive the strict dating process, she doesn’t just sleep with you…
She lets you be a man.
Yeah, that’s how I would describe making love to a Mexican woman.
- She is submissive (thanks to her traditional values).
- She doesn’t feel ashamed of being submissive (Catholicism starts outside the bedroom).
- She can show her wild side (But only if you don’t judge her).
4. Pretty Mexican Ladies Come in Different Shapes and Colors
Do you want to date a white or a dark girl?
The choice is yours.
You can travel to Chihuahua, a city up North, and meet beautiful light-skinned Mexican girls with green eyes.
Or you can travel to Puebla, a city in the South, and fall in love with a dark-skinned Latina with hazelnut brown eyes.
The only things that these sexy Mexican females have in common are their thick hips.
What if you prefer the girls in the South? Well, in this case you can visit Peru because Peruvian women look almost identical.
5. Not all Naked Mexican Girls Look like the Hot Weather Ladies
I have to disappoint you.
Not all women in this country look like the hot Mexican weather women you love so much. And you don’t have to be Australian to lust over this chicka…
But she’s just one of millions.
There are a lot of beautiful Mexican single girls (you can find thousands of them online), but compared to Colombia…well…how can I say this…you get what I mean.
The capital city has more than 4 million women and some of them are…
- Chubby (For the Bbw lovers)
- Fat (Nicely said: Voluptuous)
In fact, most Mexican girls are pretty hairy, so pray to God that she shaves before the first date.
6. Traditional Mexican Women are Different than Mexican American Women
Did you really just compare traditional Mexican chickas to Mexican American women?
That’s one hell of a mistake.
I don’t know if you find the hottest Mexican women in America or in the motherland, but I do know that the girls in Puebla, Chihuahua, and Guadalajara are…
- More traditional
- More religious
- Better girlfriends.
How can I be so sure that they are better girlfriends?
Stop comparing the Baywatch girls with the broads from the Ghostbusters movie and continue with number 7…
7. Pretty Mexican Girls Stay Away from Creepy Sex Tourists
“I want a Mexican girl!”
Great. My job is to help you to get one.
But you won’t get one unless you change your style from “Gringo sex tourist” to “Gringo who has a life”.
- Having a dad bod is okay.
- A few grey hairs are better than a young face (I know what I’m talking about).
- Not speaking Spanish is also not a death sentence.
What’s not okay is to walk around like Tom Selleck in Magnum and to expect that Mexican girls throw flowers at you. That ain’t gonna work.
Don’t walk around like a Tijuana sex tourist if you want to date college girls in the capital.
Put on some decent clothes (blue jeans, button shirt) and you are instantly more handsome than 99% of the local guys who think that a tank top is the same as a suit.
8. Every Hot Mexican Chick is a bit Paranoid
I’ll talk about the passion in Mexican American relationships later.
For now, I just want you to know that some Mexican girls can be quite nasty, especially when you look at other women. This nastiness can easily transform into a fight between two passionate women who can’t control their passion.
In case you are allergic against jealous girls, you should not date a Mexican girl. I’m serious.
9. Every Hot Mexican Woman Has a
Strict Crazy Mom
There’s another thing I want you to know. And it’s about her mom.
No matter if you fall in love with Carolina, Selena, or Blanquita, she has a crazy mom. She would probably describe her mother as strict but caring. But according to Western standards, most Mexican moms are batshit crazy. Yes, even the hot ones.
Every Mexican woman I ever met (from girl to mature woman) has a love hate relationship with her mother. She loves her and she’s also terribly afraid of her.
- Mom calls that she has to come home. She does it.
- Mom says that you’re an untrustworthy dickhead. She’ll leave you.
- Mom wants to take care of your children. She gives them to her.
There’s no doubt that the Mexican parenting style affects your relationship, especially if you decide to get married and have children.
I Want a Mexican Girl: 4 Signs that You Will Get Her
So, you want a Mexican girl, huh?
I get it. I’d want her too.
The question is: Are you the type of guy that Mexican women want?
Let’s have a look at what the busty Salma Hayek’s really want…
10. Most Pretty Mexican Girls are Lonely Because Everyone Ignores them
There’s one thing they all want, no matter if you’re black, white, Asian, or a green alien with five arms and seven dicks.
They want a man who loves them, takes care of them, and has never been to Tijuana. In other words, they don’t want to be lonely no more. And they are lonely because thousands of men are flying to Brazil and Colombia to meet women.
None of them even thinks about hot Mexican women.
Because everyone knows that the most beautiful Latinas live in Colombia and Brazil. That might be true but it doesn’t mean that you can’t find thousands of beautiful girls in Mexico. You can and they are lonelier than any girl you meet in Rio de Janeiro or Medellin.
11. Some Mexican Women Love Black Men
Do Mexican girls like black guys?
Well, black guys definitely have a hard time in countries like Vietnam or Cambodia, but they can have the time of your life in Mexico.
Are you a black guy who loves Mexican girls?
Compared to any Asian country in this world, you’ll have more success in Mexico.
I guarantee you that. Don’t be shy. Book your flight and find out for yourself that black men can date Mexican women.
12. Most Mexican Women Love White Men
Yes, black men can date them, but that doesn’t mean that the majority of them prefer black men over white men. Some people call me a racist for speaking the truth, but that doesn’t stop me from doing it.
And the truth is that most Mexican women love white men. They love men like me (and maybe you) because their culture is telling them that the whiter the better.
And they want it even more when he’s European…
13. Beautiful Mexican Girls Love European Gringos
It’s easy to find hot Mexican brides online and it’s even easier to find women who have never been to Europe.
Europe. This mysterious place with beautiful architecture, exotic food, and strict gun laws. It sounds safe, like the perfect place to raise a family…much safer than the USA. And it’s far away, which makes it even more exciting.
I’m sorry to say this but as an American, you are not THAT exotic.
Half of her family already lives in the USA and the other half is waiting at the border.
Europeans are exotic and the thought of dating them is enticing. Don’t get me wrong. They also want to meet American men but I can’t deny that Europeans have a slightly higher Gringo value.
How to Meet Mexican Women: 8 Places You Should (Not) Check Out
How do you meet all these beautiful ladies who like Europeans and Americans?
Some places are good to meet them, others are terrible.
Hint: Tijuana is not the best place to visit if you are looking for a loyal wife.
Have a look at the following 8 places and decide if you want to check out one, two, or three of them. Oh, sorry. I only reveal 7 places because the first point is just a quick reminder of how close you are to the action…
14. Mexico is a Paradise within Touching Distance for American Single Men
Are you American?
According to my reader demographics, there’s an 85% chance that you are American.
In case you are a European like me, you can jump straight to the next point. If you, however, are an American single man, I want you to listen up.
- Do you even know how easy it is for you to meet beautiful Mexican women?
- And do you know how jealous I am that you live so close to the action?
- You should be ashamed of yourself that you haven’t crossed the border yet!
Heck, there are thousands upon thousands of Mexican women who are seeking American men. They are looking for you and they are just a stone’s throw away.
And what do you do?
You are still reading this article instead of setting up dates online.
15. Look for Mexican Mail Order Brides in Small Villages
WARNING: The following lines are only relevant to you if you are looking for a wife and if you speak Spanish.
In case you are looking for a loyal wife, the mother of your children, and the woman you can go to church with every Sunday, small Mexican villages are an insider tip.
- Village girls believe in traditional family values.
- They want to get married at a young age.
- The prospect of marrying a foreigner blows their mind.
Just don’t go there if you want fun and/or a relationship without ever putting a ring on her finger.
16. Mexican Women on Craigslist are Nothing but Trouble
Craigslist is the best place to find anything and everything you don’t need. It’s also a place where women offer their services and “look for love”.
I had a look at the section Mexico City Women Seeking Men.
- Every second profile had the same picture.
- We all know what companionship really means.
- The fact that they were looking for the one didn’t stop them from uploading photos in underwear.
Stay away from craigslist and stick to real Mexican online dating sites.
17. You want a Mexican Wife? Stay Away from Cancun and Tijuana
Cancun and Tijuana are perfect if you’re looking for English-speaking girls. But they are the worst places for finding a (real) girlfriend or wife.
If you want to marry a Mexican woman, you have to stay away from Cancun and Tijuana. Heck, stay away, even if you’re just looking for a short-term romance.
Cancun is full of Western party girls with alcohol problems and daddy issues.
Tijuana is full of hookers with drug problems and even more daddy issues.
Stay away from these places and you will stay sane.
18. You want to Date Girls in Mexico City? Plan Ahead
Mexico City is an incredible place with more than 8.8 million inhabitants, hundreds of thousands of beautiful single women, and at least a dozen sexually abused donkeys.
It’s easy to meet women here and the messages I got from Mexico City girls prove it.
But you have to plan ahead.
You can’t just spontaneously call a girl at 4pm and ask her to come over. She’ll starve to death in the taxi because the traffic in Mexico City is worse than in Bangkok and Manila combined. So make sure that you select the right location when you’re looking for girls online.
19. You Want to Meet Fresa Girls? Check out these Areas
Fresa girls are young middle class and upper class women who…
- Can be spoilt.
- Went to international schools.
- Speak decent English (at least most of them).
They are the perfect girlfriends for Western men who don’t speak Spanish and who are not afraid to spend more than $10 on a meal.
You can find them in…
- Polanco and Bosques de las Lomas in Mexico City
- Cancun (fuck, I just told you to stay away)
- Some parts of Puebla
- Puerto Vallarta
20. Guadalajara is THE Best City to Meet Hot Mexican Girls
However, there’s one city that blew my mind.
It’s called Guadalajara and if you decide to read my Mexican Cupid review, you’ll find out why.
The way these girls responded to my messages was simply amazing. So friendly, so interested, and so welcoming…
I don’t know if Guadalajara is the home of the most beautiful Mexican women, but it’s definitely the best city in this country to meet friendly, open-minded, and down-to-earth girls.
21. Young Mexican Women Love to Take Salsa Classes
One last tip before I show you how to meet Mexican women online:
Take a Salsa class!
Don’t be afraid to look ridiculous and enjoy the attention you’ll inevitable get as the only Gringo in the class.
Besides online dating, this is one of the best, easiest, and fun ways to meet Mexican single women.
How to Meet Mexican Women Online: 2 Facts about the Game
Yes, you can book a flight to Mexico and try to (unsuccessfully) pick up the stewardess on the way to your seat. And you can try to get the number of the receptionist at your hotel. Hell, you can even run around the city and approach every cute girl you see.
- But that costs a lot of time.
- And it’s a pain in the ass.
- Oh, and you have to spend hundreds of dollars without knowing if you will succeed.
There’s a better way, a way that allows you to talk to thousands of sexy Mexican girls who are single, lonely, and who speak English BEFORE you leave your house.
Does that sound good?
Then my friend, you are ready to meet Mexican women online.
22. You Need to Speak Spanish to Seduce Mexican Ladies, Unless…
Let’s face it.
If you approach Mexican girls on the streets of Guadalajara, you have to speak Spanish. The chance that you find a girl who is fluent in English is 1 to 1000.
You have to speak Spanish to pick up women in this country, unless…
…you sign up on a Mexican dating site.
Online dating is THE solution for every Gringo who doesn’t speak Spanish. I don’t know about you, but I’m one of them. I can’t even say a whole sentence in Spanish. But that didn’t stop me from getting dozens of interests and messages from hot Mexican ladies.
23. Mexican Cupid is the Best Mexican Dating Site
You don’t believe me?
I chatted with so many girls in Mexico that I had a hard time to remember their names, their occupations, and their breast sizes. Okay, I admit it. I still remember their breast sizes.
How is it possible that a guy like me, a guy who doesn’t speak a single word of Spanish, can set up dates with dozens of Mexican girls?
Well, I signed up on MexicanCupid, the only Mexican dating site that has more than 700.000 members. And it’s so easy to find girls who speak English. Yes, real Mexican women.
Click on the link above and check out my review. You’ll thank me later.
How to Get a Mexican Girlfriend: 9 Sneaky Tactics that Work
Did you sign up on Mexican Cupid and chat with a few hot Mexican babes?
I bet you can’t wait to meet them in person. And I bet you also can’t wait to make one of them your girlfriend.
However, you have to be realistic.
Meeting thousands of them online is easy. Making one of them your girlfriend is another story. But it’s a story of joy, excitement, and unforgettable memories.
You just have to use these 9 sneaky tactics…
24. Understand the Mexican Dating Culture (Chew, Swallow, and Shut Up)
It’s time for your first date with a busty Mexican beauty.
Are you excited?
You should be because there’s a 78% (could also be 79%) chance that you will mess it up.
No, not because of the way you dress (unless you wear a sombrero). And no, it’s also not because of the way you smell (unless you stink like a donkey in Tijuana). It’s about the way you eat.
It sounds ridiculous, but table manners are an integral part of the Mexican dating etiquette. In fact, one girl I went on a date with looked at me as if she wanted to kill me. All I did was to place my elbow on the table.
25. Know that Dating a Mexican Girl is All about Respecting Her Traditions
Don’t smile. Don’t laugh. And don’t even think about saying something like “that’s ridiculous”.
It doesn’t matter if everyone outside of Mexico thinks that a particular tradition is ridiculous. It’s not ridiculous for her.
When the girl I mentioned above told me that her mother used to wear a red ribbon during her pregnancy to make sure that the unborn child (my date) is safe, I had to chuckle. I stopped laughing when I looked into her serious face.
Making fun of her rituals and traditions = Danger Zone
26. Mexican Girls Love Confident Men
You’re in the country of Tequila, ruthless drug bosses, and mustaches out of a 70s porn movie.
You’re not in Asia, goddammit!
Looking cute and being nice doesn’t help you at all. Why do you think a mature 40-year-old guy has better chances than a baby face like me? These girls want men, confident men.
- You tell her when to meet.
- You tell her where to meet.
- You invite her to your place.
Good-looking Mexican women date leaders. They despise followers.
P.S. You don’t have to grow a mustache.
27. Introducing the Meetup Night Game Hack
Do you want to pick up hot Mexican models in the most exclusive clubs in the country?
Then I have bad news for you.
In Asia it’s normal that guys party with guys and girls party with girls. In other words, you can easily sneak up to a group of girls, introduce yourself and pick the one you like the most. That’s not how it works across the Rio Grande.
People party in mixed groups and Mexican guys can be very protective when a Gringo tries to steal one of their chickas.
However, I found a solution to this problem:
- Go to a meetup that brings locals and expats together.
- Make friends with some Mexican dudes.
- They will go out with you and introduce you to all their female friends.
- Choose the girl you like the most with the support of your new friend.
Just don’t pick up his sister. This could end badly.
28. Pretty Mexican Women Know How to Flirt (You Have 5 Seconds)
Muchacho, you have no idea how good Mexican women are at flirting.
They smile at you in a way that makes your heart beat. Their eyes light up with fire when they look at you. The way they shake their hips when they want your attention drives you out of your mind.
But they will NEVER make the first move.
Girls from Mexico are extremely flirtatious. They are not ashamed to show you that they like you. But they expect YOU to take action. They are traditional and traditional girls don’t approach men. Instead, they give you five seconds to move your ass.
The only Mexican girls who approach you are the prostitutes in Tijuana.
29. Impress Mexican Women with Spanish Compliments
Spanish compliments are like magic spells. They open her heart (and other body parts) faster than anything else…especially when she thinks that you can’t speak Spanish.
And maybe you can’t. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t give her a compliment:
- Eres mona (you’re cute)
- Eres Hermosa (you’re beautiful)
- Eres atractiva (you’re attractive)
Try it. It will work.
30. Prepare Yourself for a Passionate Relationship
She’s a passionate woman.
Doesn’t that sound amazing?
It does and yes, the average Mexican woman is passionate, but there’s a dark side of passion that a lot of men don’t think of. Passion is just one tiny step away from jealousy and when jealously is lived in a passionate way, cups are flying.
I can’t guarantee that your future Mexican girlfriend has a liberal attitude towards flying cups, tables, chairs, Tequila bottles, and donkey.
31. Come to Peace with the Fact that You Mexican Girlfriend Has 492 Relatives and a Dog
You are ready to get a hot Mexican girlfriend, but are you also ready to become part of a big, big, BIG family?
And when I say big, I mean colossal, gigantic, Godzilla-like.
“If I love my Mexican girlfriend, I will also love her family!” I hear you saying.
We’ll talk again after you met her mom, her dad, her three brothers (who kill you if you cheat), her sisters (who wants to bang you), her uncles, and Pablo, the nice neighbor with the two dozen dogs who is always welcome in the family.
32. Accept that You Will Always Have Two Mexican Girlfriends
Oh, I almost forgot to warn you about one more thing…
When you have a Mexican girlfriend, you have two girlfriends.
Nope, I’m not talking about her smoking-hot twin sister. Even though being faithful is definitely harder if she has a smoking-hot twin sister. I’m talking about the fact that Mexican chicks are incredibly talented makeup artists.
Just don’t be surprised when you wake up next to another woman the next morning. Technically speaking, she’s still the same person.
How to Marry a Mexican Woman: 3 Things You Must Know Beforehand
Do you really want to take this step?
Remember, she has 492 family members and if only one of them has connections to the drug cartel, a divorce can be very, very risky…especially if you get caught with her younger sister Esmeralda.
But who am I to judge.
Maybe you find the love of your life on Mexican Cupid. Congratulations. Just make sure that you remember the following three things before you turn your Mexican girlfriend into your loyal wife.
33. Mexico is Heaven on Earth for Americans and Canadians Looking for a Mail Order Bride
I already mentioned that this country is perfect for American men who are looking for mail order brides from Mexico because it’s so close. But that’s not the only reason. You’ll get even more excited when you look at Mexico’s Visa policy.
You have Visa-free access and you can stay up to 180 days.
Come on, half a year is enough time to find a Mexican bride and to find out if she really is the love of your life. According to one of my American friends, she could stay up to 6 month in the USA on a tourist visa. This gives you even more time.
After one year you’ll know if she’s the right woman.
34. You Can Marry Your Future Mexican Wife (As Long as You’re Catholic)
Are you a Muslim?
Are you a Buddhist?
She might forgive you.
No, I’m not talking about one of the single Mexican ladies you can find online. I’m talking about her mom.
The rule is simple. You can only marry your girlfriend if her mom agrees. Remember, a Mexican mom has more power than the incredible Hulk. Her word is law.
That’s a fact, just like it’s a fact that the majority of women in this country are Catholic.
Marrying a Mexican woman is easy, but only if you’re a Catholic Christian. In case you are not a Catholic, you might have to fight a little bit harder to get a “yes” from her mom.
35. You Want to Marry Your Mexican girlfriend? Study Hard
You want to marry a Mexican woman?
Then study, study, and study a bit more.
- Learn about the Mexican engagement traditions and find out what the words Madrinas and Padrinos stand for.
- Have a look at Mexican wedding veils to see how your bride will look on your wedding day.
- Learn about the ceremonies and marriage customs. Yes, also about the famous Pinata.
The more you learn about her world, the more she’ll be willing to become a part of your world. This journey starts with the decision to learn, to grow, and to take action.
Summed Up Wisdom
You want to date a Mexican girl? Well, there are some things that you should know. And no, this article is about more than the fact that they are (on average) less beautiful than Colombian girls and ten times more faithful than Dominican women.
It’s about knowing that Guadalajara is the best city to meet your future girlfriend and that Cancun and Tijuana are places you should avoid. It’s also about understanding your value as a European and American and about realizing that white Gringos are not the only ones who have a chance with the Mexican ladies.
Yes, the relaxed Visa regulations and the fact that it’s easy to meet thousands of beautiful women on the largest Mexican dating site help a lot. But you also have to understand that her passion, her traditions, and her mom are parts of the equation.