Learning how to make a girl do whatever you want is not as hard as it may sound. You don’t need magic tricks, you don’t have to make her drunk and buying roofies from a weird-looking drug dealer under a moldy bridge is also not necessary.
I know some guys who actually believe that they have to lie and play stupid games in order to get what they want from a woman.
Heck, there are even men who believe that they have to pretend to be in love with them.
You don’t have to be another desperate guy who thinks that lying and using ridiculous techniques that no self-confident seducer would ever use, gets you to where you want to be.
All you need to do is to be honest, to be a good business man, to switch off your logical mind while you switch on your heart and to use the perseverance.
I know that it sounds as if you would have to combine a lot of things, but once you are on the right path, it will get fairly easy to find out how to make women do whatever you want.
The Path that Gives You the Magic Power
Being on the right path is the first step that allows you to get whatever you want from whichever woman you share a bed and body fluids with.
What do I mean by being on the right path?
Well, I am sorry that I have to be the one who destroys your illusions, but you won’t get a lot of things from a woman if she looks at you and sees a man who doesn’t deserve anything. Sounds brutal, but it’s the reality.
Of course you need to do and say certain things to get everything other men can only dream of from the women in your life, but the basic requirement to ever get to this level is to be a man who she thinks deserves what he wants.
I know that it sounds complicated, but the relationship between men and women is pretty simple.
A woman will only give you what you want when you deserve it.
As an aspiring Global Seducer it is your duty to communicate to the women in your life that you deserve all the things that you want from them.
The way you communicate this can’t be done with words. You can use words at a later point, but for now it’s important that your non-verbal communication screams: “I am a man who is worthy to get whatever I want!”
Some guys try to fake it by walking around as if they had razor blades under their armpits and by talking like Rambo on sleeping pills. This might work with very stupid girls, but due to the fact that you (hopefully) want to date girls whose IQ is above mentally retarded, I don’t recommend the fake it till you make it approach.
In the long run you are far better off becoming a man who truly believes that he deserves the things he wants. The fastest way to reach this level is by developing high self-confidence and by living the life you truly want to live.
As soon as you live the life you truly want as a confident man who knows that he is a valuable human being, the women you meet will feel that you are a charismatic person who deserves more than all the nice guys she usually meets.
How to Make a Girl Do Whatever You Want: The Honest Way
Have you understood that you are a high value man who deserves amazing women who give you whatever you want?
Good, because now it’s time to show the world and the women around you what you are made of.
A woman might look at you and feel that you are a man who has the right to demand certain things from her, but she won’t give you what you want unless you take action. It’s the same principle as when you approach a girl. She won’t give you her number before you ask her for it, even if she desperately wants to meet you.
In the same way as I am not a big fan of hiding your intentions behind an indirect approach, I am not a big fan of hiding your intentions when you want a girl to do something for you. You might be convinced that women are offended when you directly ask them for the things you want them to do, but the truth is that being honest is one of the best and easiest ways to get everything you want.
Zan Perrion, one of the seducers who inspired me the most, tends to say that honesty is the greatest aphrodisiac.
Watch the following video and you will understand what I mean when I talk about the honest way of getting what you want from women:
Ask and You Will Be Given
There is more than one way you motivate a girl to fulfill all your wishes, but the easiest way is definitely asking in an honest way. No matter if you want to go on a date with a girl, if you want to know the size of her breast, or if you simply want her to do something for you, it’s never wrong to ask.
I think the reason why so many guys are so reluctant to ask women whenever they want something from them is because they don’t think that it works.
Thanks to our logical brain we men tend to overcomplicate easy things.
This can lead to suspiciousness when it comes to reaching a goal with the least amount of effort.
Asking a girl if she can do whatever you want her to do is definitely one of the easiest ways to get what you want from her. The next time you think about weird and complicated tricks that allow you to get what you want after you condition her for at least three months, you should just think about all the amazing things she might do for you when you would only ask her.
Tell Her to Give You What You Want
Asking is a great way to start, but what do I always tell you when it comes to getting a girl’s phone number? Asking allows her to answer the question with no, whereas telling her what to do aka suggesting it in a determined way, makes it nearly impossible for her to say no…
…and it gets even better than that.
I know that it contradicts with the gibberish that hardcore feminists blare out all day long, but women are actually turned on by men who tell them what to do.
Of course that doesn’t mean that you should boss her around and be a disrespectful jerk. That’s not what a self-confident woman wants. What she really wants is a guy who is confident enough to say what he wants to say and to demand what he wants to demand. The last thing she needs is a guy who doesn’t have the balls to say what’s on his mind. It might shock you but the average woman doesn’t have the power to read your thoughts.
She expects you to open your mouth, no matter if you want sex or a freaking peanut butter sandwich.
If she respects you as her leader, she’ll do whatever you want as long as you demand it with respect and empathy.
How to Make a Girl Do Whatever You Want: The Transactional Way
Even though honesty is definitely one of the best and easiest ways to get what you want from women, you can also look at it from the perspective of a business man. If you want, you can offer her a reward for the things that she does.
That doesn’t mean that you should give your girlfriend $50 whenever she promises you to swallow you. If you are turned on by giving women money for their services, you should better look out for some hookers that you can spend all your hard-earned money on, instead of reading this article.
The rewards that I mean have nothing to do with money, but they can be worth more than gold for her.
Promise Her a Reward
Let’s assume that you want to try out the first time and your girlfriend is still a little bit shy about it.
What can you do to make her want to fulfill your fantasy?
Well, you can try to convince her on a logical level that it is the most pleasurable feeling that she has ever experienced. There is a very small chance that you’ll be successful with this tactic.
Promising her an attractive reward might be a better idea.
Is there something that she always wanted to do? Is there something she dreams about since the first day of your relationship?
Whatever it is: do it as long as it doesn’t involve a direct monetary transaction, even if it means being nice to her mother.
Promise to Fulfill Her Fantasies
Let’s jump back to the point where we assumed that you want her to try out something naughty. No matter if you want to make love to her beautiful, or if you want her to do any other naughty stuff – you can always offer her a special kind of reward.
Telling the girl you are with that you will fulfill every sexual fantasy that she has, when she is willing to fulfill yours, is extremely powerful. The thought of satisfying you is already arousing, but if you mix this tempting demand with the offer to please her no matter how she wants to be pleased by you, her wires will melt.
Whenever you want a woman to fulfill your dirty fantasies, you just have to convince her that doing so will lead to more pleasure for her.
Tell her what you are going to do once she fulfilled your wish and let her know how pleasurable this will be by looking her into the eyes as if you want to eat her out for the next couple of hours. The reward can be simple – give her the best oral of her life, or extreme – wear a c cage to give her the control of you.
The good thing about this method is that you can repeat it over and over again and before you know it, you completely changed the sexual dynamic in your relationship from having an average sex life to having an outstanding sex life.
Isn’t fulfilling each other’s desires and having a partner who does everything to please us exactly what we all want in a sexually healthy and fulfilling relationship?
How to Make Girls Do Whatever You Want: The Emotional Way
Get your tissues out of the cupboard and shut down your logical male brain. It’s time to get emotional.
I already hear your voice in the back of my head that screams:
“I hate all this emotional, why can’t I convince a girl to do whatever I want her to do by using my incredible powerful male logic?”
Well, first of all you have to understand that your male logic is not that powerful when it comes to influencing women.
You might be able to solve mathematical equations with it and build some pretty damn good robots, but unfortunately cyborg women that can be programmed to fulfill all your wishes only exist in really weird movies.
You don’t need logic, you need the opposite.
Even the pseudo-logical transactional way that I already talked about involves emotions. No woman on this earth will accept a reward for her actions that gives her negative feelings. The sooner you accept that women are emotional creatures who are a lot more sensitive than men (except boyband members), the faster you’ll learn to influence her emotions in a way that makes her do whatever you want.
Am I the only one who thinks that emotional influence is a much nicer expression than manipulation?
Provide Her with Good Feelings along the Way
The only reason a woman allows you to lead her is when you lead her in a way that is beneficial to her. You are only a good leader if the woman who is supposed to follow you can expect some pretty amazing emotions by following you.
Give her one emotional high after another and learning how to make a girl do whatever you want will become redundant, because not fulfilling your wishes is not an option for her.
How does that look in a practical context?
Let’s say you want from your girlfriend. Unfortunately, she turned vegetarian about a year ago and since then she refused to take your sausage in her mouth. Leading her on a path of good emotions can make her so happy.
Start simple. This can be a long hug, a passionate kiss, or a subtle kiss on her neck. Anything that feels good is okay. After that you can give her even more positive emotions by fully concentrating on her pleasure. Touch her at the spots that drive her crazy and tell her how attractive she is.
The more amazing and desired you make her feel, the higher your chance to get what you want.
Put some Colorful Images in Her Head
There is another way to shower a woman with positive feelings that neither requires your mouth nor your tongue. Besides giving her the time of her life by kissing and licking her, you can make her imagine the time of her life by putting some truly amazing images in her beautiful head.
As a guy who wants to learn how to make a girl do whatever you want, you sometimes have to be a painter who works inside of a woman’s brain.
If you put the right images inside a woman’s mind, she will do anything to transform those images into real experiences.
Play with her imagination and fill it with colors. Let her know how happy you would be if she would do the things you want her to do and describe a vivid picture of how your relationship would look like…and connect with her in less than 3 minutes.
Once she has a clear picture in her mind of how your relationship will look like after she does what you want, she’ll want to make this image come true. Sometimes an image of a content boyfriend and a happy relationship can already be enough to motivate her to fulfill all your wishes.
Give Her Compliments that Push Her Buttons
Maybe you are not the creative type of guy. Maybe it’s a pain for you to think about a colorful image that you can put in the mind of the woman you are with. Well, learning how to make a girl do whatever you want doesn’t have to be hard work.
When I talked about being honest by simply asking a girl to do what you want, I already told you that the easiest steps tend to have the biggest impact. Another easy way of getting what you want is to use the power of compliments.
Telling her that she looks beautiful is a good start, but if you want to motivate a woman to suck the fleshy thing above your balls that she hasn’t tasted in months, you need to bring the big guns in.
Every woman reacts different on certain compliments and I am pretty sure that there are some things the woman you are with absolutely loves to hear.
As a guy who wants to learn how to make a girl do whatever you want it is your job to push the right buttons.
My girlfriend, for example, goes wild when I kiss her nose and tell her that she has the most beautiful smile. Knowing the buttons you have to push can make you a very happy and spoilt man.
Make Her Jealous…but Just a Little Bit
I hope you know that jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. I also hope that you know that jealousy has the power to destroy relationships and to cause a lot of pain. However, I can’t deny the fact that making a girl jealous can open the door to whatever you want.
I already wrote an article in which I told you what you can do to stop forcing your girlfriend to dumb you because of your jealousy. In today’s article I want to show you how you can use the principle of jealousy to motivate a girl to fulfill your wishes.
Even though making her jealous is a great way to get what you want, I still have to warn you:
Be careful that you don’t exaggerate it to a point where you hurt her feelings. Making her wonder how she can keep you is great, but making her depressed, because she thinks that there is no chance she can possibly keep you, is completely unnecessary.
A woman, who has the feeling that no other woman on this earth want’s you, has no reason to give you what you want. She already knows that you won’t leave her. A woman who has the feeling that you are desired by other women will do whatever she can to keep you.
She knows that you could be gone in a heartbeat.
By flirting with other women and by meeting good-looking female friends aka her potential rivals, she’ll understand that you are a man who has options. You are a man who has the possibility to leave her for a girl who is willing to fulfill you every wish.
You can bet that she’ll do everything to prevent this from happening.
How to Make a Women Do Whatever You Want: The Naughty Way
What happens if you combine honesty with some cheekiness and add a little bit naughtiness to it? Then you get a perfect that leads us directly to the naughty way of making a woman do whatever you want.
I have to admit that there is some sort of sexual aspect in all the methods that I have mentioned till now. However, the naughty way of reaching your goals focuses 100% on the sexual energy between you and the girl you are with.
The Interplay of Dominance and Submission Gives You What You Want
What are women attracted to? In case your answer contains the words nice, polite and courteous you are the perfect proof that social conditioning actually works.
No, women don’t want a nice guy who submissively agrees upon everything the little princess says. They want a guy who challenges them, a guy who enlightens their sexual fire and a guy who leads them in a dominant way.
By leading a woman in a dominant but respectful way you give her exactly what she wants. If you give her what she wants, she’ll give you what you want. It’s really that simple.
I might risk that Alice Schwarzer gets a heart attack when I say this, but the truth is that women want to be submissive. Yes, you heard right. The natural behavior of women is to be submissive to a man.
I am pretty sure that the millions of women who can’t wait until the next 50 Shades of Grey movie comes out would agree on that.
This means that you don’t have to learn how to make a girl do whatever you want, at least when a woman enjoys being submissive to you. One part of the interplay of dominance and submission involves giving the dominant character whatever he wants.
Believe it or not, but most women fantasize about being submissive.
The cosmopolitan already knows that.
Do you also know it?
Making Your Wish a Part of a Sexual Game
What else can you do with your submissive little lady to get what you want from her?
It’s just an idea, but have you ever thought about making your wish a part of a sexual game?
In case you haven’t, it’s time to play between the sheets.
I hope that I don’t shock you when I say that a woman who is dripping wet and turned on like Kim Kardashian when Kanye sings Gold Digger is more likely to do what you want, than a woman who you ask while she is washing the dishes.
All you have to do to get what you want is to make her ready as hell and to ask/demand what you want her to do as part of the sexual game you are in. Grab her ass, whisper in her ear what you want and tell her that she is a good girl. She’ll do it.
Women use the exact same tactic when they want their boyfriends to do something for them. No man would ever say “yes” to a weekend with his mother-in-law when he can think clearly. However, he will say “yes” while he is staring at the breasts of the beautiful naked woman who is sitting on top of him.
Fun is the Best Weapons to Make Her Do Everything
Last but not least I want to talk about another great way to motivate women to give you whatever you request.
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Summed Up Wisdom
The first step towards learning how to make a girl do whatever you want is to embark on a path that allows you to become a man who deserves whatever he wants. Once you are on that path there are different ways to reach your goal.
You can choose to get whatever you want through honesty. It might sound simple, but asking a girl or telling her directly what she should do for you can be the only thing that is needed. You can also choose to look at the fulfillment of your desires from a business perspective. A simple transaction can motivate her to give you everything you desire, especially when she gets rewarded with pleasure.
Another way that leads to the fulfillment of your wishes is linked to her emotions. Providing her with good feelings and putting colorful images in her head can be exactly what she needs. You can also shower her with compliments that push her buttons and if you are ready for some risk you can experiment with her jealousy.
However, you don’t have to make her jealous when you are able to turn her on. The interplay of dominance and submission can be enough to make her give you what you want. It’s her natural predisposition. You also have the option to make your wish a part of a sexual game and if everything else fails you can still get what you want by giving her an o.
I love your articles, this one being my fave. I use a combination of your approaches and rarely miss. I romance her from the second she’s in my car. Kiss her on her neck or cheek and quick squeeze her knee or a tickle on the tummy before we take off. Romantic through dinner and paint pictures in her head for her. After dinner offer to grab drinks or dances with her. Depending how you dance this may be over quick. Some dates never make it much past dining. Some times if you did a good job laying ground work they may suggest your place or a room. Love it when it’s their idea. Or when they think it’s their idea. Once alone I work her pleasure with foreplay foreplay and if I forgot to mention….foreplay. The plan is to waste lots of time on her. Kissing,caressing,petting. Then like you said lots of time between her legs. So long as she’s loving it I will keep going with kisses and licks. Use my hand to help and the other for wherever she likes. Explore her thighs,belly, hips,throat wherever. From there there are two outcomes.
1. I roll on my back grabbing a drink saying Its just a short break to catch my breath. Most females will roll right with you and give you your turn. So ready they inhale you so quick you don’t realize it till their face is impaled. From there soft pets and good words urge them on. Squirming and moaning usually doesn’t hurt either. The other path is:
2.after getting her hot and ready, no break. Go straight for her pleasure like you say. Because if you did her right enough and long enough down there she will start cumming the second you penetrate her on the first thrust in. I don’t take too long but at this point they rarely care. By the time I finish they’ve lost their minds.Show a woman passion and pleasure like that and they always want more of you. And will gladly give you what you want just to be with you. I use it all. I use everything you’ve suggested. And you’re right. It does work.
Sebastian Harris says
Find out what you need to improve in yourself to become more effective!
Sebastian Harris says
maybe he read my article before he seduced you 😉
All of these would work on me, and the reason I know is because my boyfriend uses most of them.
Sebastian Harris says
this is very true. Unfortunately, some guys only think about pleasing themselves. I hope I can change their minds.
Doug cormier says
I agree with the more you please her in bed the more she will want to go to bed .this might sound dumb but in 2009 my new truck had sattlelight radio .I started listening to the playboy station that had these 5 women that would explain how a women thinks and ways to get what you want .and let me tell you six months later my wife was foaming from the mouth for her mutable climaxes . Learn to please her and pay attention you will get more than you thought possible .the best sex we have started in our 50s .and honestly around 4 climaxes the women’s Virginia grabs on to your dick like it don’t want to release it .but some guys never get there because they please them selfs
Sebastian Harris says
Mr. Right says
You’re right. At some point, you need to ask her if she wants to make things official.