Are you ready to learn how to get a girl’s number?
You might ask yourself why the hell I am going to write a whole article about getting a woman’s phone number when all you have to do is to ask her for it. Well, I can tell you from my own experience that if you just walk up to a girl and ask her for the magical digest, you won’t end up in bed with her.
I have tried it and the only place where that works is California, because some of those girls desperately hope to meet some famous guy who rescues them from their underpaid waitress job. If you, however, don’t approach girls who hope to meet a famous actor, there is a lot of stuff that you have to consider before you ask her for her contact details.
No matter why you want to learn to get a girl’s number, after you have read this article you will be able to get more numbers than a phone company.
Maybe you are in a phase in your life where you are interested in a serious relationship. Of course I could also be wrong and you are not looking for a girlfriend. If all you want is to have one night stands, motivating a girl to give you her phone number requires a different approach.
However, you absolutely need to follow the blueprint of the perfect approach. The following 10 steps can make or break your success:
No matter what you are looking for at the moment, in this article I will not only show you how to get a girl’s number, I will also tell you exactly what you have to do and to say, depending on whether you want to transform the digits into a relationship or a passionate night of sex without ever seeing her again.
All I want to say is this:
If these guys are able to get 100 numbers a day, you are able to get at least one today:
How to Get a Girl’s Number: The Girlfriend Approach
Let’s say you want a girlfriend, not matter if you want an open or a monogamous relationship. Please correct me if I am wrong but if you are looking for a girlfriend you probably care about what values and beliefs she has.
In case you don’t give a shit about her personality and her values, I can only warn you.
I know from past experiences that having a girlfriend who has completely different views than you, is nothing but a pain in the ass. No matter how good she is in bed, unless she is on the same level with you in terms of her values and her intellect, there is no chance that your relationship will be happy.
In order to avoid ending up in a relationship with a girl who is anything but good for you, you should not only learn how to get a girl’s number. You should also think about whether or not you are talking to a girl who deserves to be saved in your phone.
Find Out As Much About Her as You Can
The best way to recognize if the girl you are talking to is a good fit for you is by finding out a lot about her. No, I am not talking about her address or how long she already works for the company she is working for. These are all things that don’t really matter, at least not in the beginning of an interaction.
Find out what kind of person she is and if she is rather a fan of traditional family values or if she is a very self-centered individualistic person. Find out everything you can possibly find out in your short first interaction.
If you fail at doing this your future will look like this:
Finding out all those things about her provides you with enough information to decide if she is a possible candidate for the role of your future girlfriend, or if you should rather move on and try to get the phone number from another woman.
Connect With Her
Knowing that the girl you are talking to is a caring person who spent her holidays last year helping starving children in Africa is not enough to get her number. Just because you found this out, doesn’t mean that she wants to see you again.
However, if you make clear that you appreciate her decision to take care of other people instead of getting wasted on a crowded beach and if you connect with her through her past experiences, the chance that she wants to stay in contact with you is extremely high.
How do you connect with a woman in a way that magically puts her number in your phone?
The best way to connect with a woman you want to end up in a relationship with is to refer her experiences and her values directly to you.
Instead of just telling her that you appreciate this characteristic of her (which everybody would do), you tell her exactly WHY you appreciate it. Let her know that you are also a caring person, even if you might be the most ignorant motherfucker on earth.
Let Her Know That You Want to Date Her
Have you found out as much as possible about her and have you established a connection with her?
Great, because now it is time to close the deal.
Make clear that you want to see her again and that you want to get to know her.
Don’t just ask for her number.
Tell her exactly why you think that you should meet again. Now give her your phone, so that she can type her number in it.
Giving her your phone is way more effective than asking her for her number.
You are a self-confident man who wants to become her boyfriend and protector. You don’t ask for her number, you lead the interaction in a way that motivates her to give you her number.
How to Get a Girl’s Number: The One Night Stand Approach
Let’s assume the last thing you want is to remove hair from your sink every morning and fighting your way through countless body lotions, every time you want to take a shower. Instead of getting a girlfriend the only reason why you want to learn how to get a girl’s number is because you want to transform those digits into a passionate one night stand.
Due to the fact that the easiest way to get a one night stand is to go to a club and to hit on some girls who are not only tipsy but also horny, I choose a typical club scenario to show you how you can get a girl’s number for a one night stand.
In case you are looking for one night stands you should ask yourself one question before you hit the club:
“Is learning how to get a girl’s number really a good idea if I want to have one night stands?”
The first thing you should do if you want to get a phone number that you can later transform into a night of dirty sex, is to open her in a playful way. Approaching a girl in a serious way is great if you want to set the frame of being the mysterious gentleman who wants to get to know her. This frame is helpful if you want to connect with a girl for a short-term or long-term relationship.
However, if you want a girl for one night of sex without ever seeing her again after you licked her delicious pussy, fucked the shit out of her and came all over her breasts (sorry, I just thought about my last one night stand), you don’t have to be the perfect gentleman.
All you have to do is to let her know that you are looking for fun.
The best way to communicate this to a woman is by being playful. Start to flirt with her as soon as you shake her hand for the first time. Behaving in a playful way communicates that you are a guy who would love to do playful things with her, especially in the bedroom.
Fast Sexual Escalation
I hope you remember that you have to find out a lot about a woman and that you should connect with her if you want to date her. Now it’s time to forget that again.
One night stands are a different playground.
Seducing a woman for a one night stand is not about a strong emotional connection, but about a fast sexual connection. If you want to learn how to get a girl’s number for a one night stand, you also have to learn to escalate extremely fast.
Leave out all the bullshit. Touch, squeeze and kiss her as fast as you can. A horny woman in a club doesn’t want to talk about her deepest fears and dreams with you. She wants to have sex. Period.
Get Her Number
Before I am going to tell you how to get a girl’s number if you want to have a one night stand, I have to ask you a very important question:
“Should you go for the number if you want to have a one night stand?”
Not if you can avoid it.
The best way to avoid asking a girl for her phone number is by taking her back to your place, before she can even think about giving you her number. Giving her a goodbye kiss the next morning, before she leaves your apartment and disappears out of your life is way better than sending her a kiss smiley that she never replies to.
How to Get a Girl’s Number: The Harem Approach
What if you are not particularly interested in having a one night stand, but you want to have a few girls in your life that are down to fuck whenever you want. Building up your own harem is not as hard as it sounds.
Shall I tell you a secret that most men would never believe?
The harsh reality is that there are millions of women on this planet who are NOT interested in becoming your girlfriend.
All they want is to get fucked by a self-confident guy like you. Those women don’t care about whether or not you have sex with other girls and some of them don’t even care if you have a relationship on the side.
How to get a girl’s number if you want to establish your own harem?
There are different ways to do that, but due to the fact that I am German, I am a big fan of the most efficient way. The most efficient way to get as many phone numbers as possible, that you can later transform into a crowd of fuck buddies is by playing the numbers game.
Be Relentlessly Direct
When you follow this approach you can’t beat around the bush. The moment you approach her you have to make clear that you are not interested in a platonic friendship. Don’t leave the impression that you are a guy who is willing to go on three dates before the magic happens.
Be direct, be very direct.
You shouldn’t worry too much about getting rejected.
Your goal is to find women who are interested in becoming your lover without any commitments. The best way to find those girls is by filtering out the ones who don’t want that.
By being sexual from the beginning you scare away the girls who are interested in slowly getting to know you, while you are magnetically attracting the nymphomaniacs that you want to have in your harem.
Don’t invest too much time connecting with her. You don’t plan to move together with her and you don’t need to know that she was bullied in school by a stupid bitch whose name is Britney.
All you need to know is whether or not she wants to feel your dick inside her.
Too many guys make the mistake that they want to connect with every single woman on an extremely deep level. In case you want to end up dating those girls that’s a great thing to do, but in case you meet a girl who is already down to fuck, investing too much time into connecting with her on an emotional level, can destroy the sexual energy that you initially had.
Every time you meet a girl who reacts extremely positive on an approach that is very sexual and straightforward, you have to go all in. Don’t waste any time. Flirt with her for a few seconds and make sure that she already reached the age of consent.
The Phone Numbers Game
How to get a girl’s number if you are looking for a sexual relationship without commitments?
Tell her that you want to meet her and give her your phone, so that she can type in her number.
That’s all you need to do.
You get a girl’s number the same way as you would do it if you would want to date her, but the way you transform the digits into a fuckfest should be different.
Skip the whole dating thing and focus on the most efficient way to meet her for sex.
The most efficient way to make use of the phone numbers that you get is by calling all those naughty girls and inviting them directly to your apartment. Some of them won’t do it, but the ones who come are definitely down to fuck.
How to Get a Girl’s Number: The Friend Zone Approach
Last but not least I want to talk about a tactic to get a girl’s number that a lot of guys use, before they cry themselves to sleep. The so called friend zone approach is a sure way to get a girl’s number.
It is also a sure way to NOT have sex with her.
Because I want you to succeed with women I want to warn you from following the friend zone approach. Whereas all the other ways of getting her phone number that I have talked about till now contain tips that you should put into practice, the friend zone approach shows you all the things that you have to avoid.
Hide Your Sexual Interest
How to get a girl’s number while still landing in the friend zone instead of her pants?
The best way to force a girl to see nothing but a friend in you is by behaving in the exact same way as a good friend would behave.
How do you usually talk to your female friends?
I am quite sure that if they are not your fuck buddies, you don’t flirt with them in an extremely sexual way and you probably also don’t try to touch them in every conversation.
The big difference between a lover who gets the pussy and a friend, who doesn’t get the pussy, is that a friend behaves in a non-sexual way, whereas the lover behaves in a sexual way. If you want to learn how to get a girl’s number, because you want to have more sex, you should never hide your desire to sleep with her.
Ask Her Logical Questions
Asking a girl questions is great if you use them to connect with her, but if you don’t leave your logical male conversation style behind, you will quickly realize that this leads to nothing…at least nothing pleasurable.
If you have a masochistic precondition and you want to learn how to get a girl’s number without ever having sex with her, you should definitely ask her every logical question you can think of. If you, however, want to get laid you should stop torturing her with questions about her weekly schedule
Focus on the aspects that attract her to you, such as her emotions and passions.
Ask for Her Number
How does a self-confident man who is aware of the fact that he has a dick and two balls ask for a girl’s phone number?
A real man doesn’t ask for it. Such a man (and you are such a man!) assumes that she would give him her number anyways, while he acts upon this assumption.
How to get a girl’s number if you are a desperate loser who has severe self-confidence issues?
That’s easy. All you have to do is to ask her for it.
You can even increase your chances of landing in the friend zone by asking her in a needy way while looking at her like a puppy who hopes to get a bone.
Unless you want to land in the friend zone you should stop asking girls for their phone numbers and start behaving in a way that makes them want to type their number into your phone. By doing this you will become a man who never has to ask himself again what he has to do in order to get a girl’s phone number.
But what if she rejects your number close attempt?
Summed Up Wisdom
How to get a girl’s number? It depends on what you want. If you want to have a girlfriend, you should use the girlfriend approach and find out as much about her as you possibly can, before you connect with her on a deep emotional level. Once you have done that you are ready to take her number by letting her know that you want more from her than just sex.
In case you want to transform the phone numbers you get into one night stands you shouldn’t invest too much time on deep conversations. All you have to do is to be playful and to sexually escalate fast. Only take her number if it is impossible to bang her the same night. In case you want to learn how to get a girl’s number because you want to establish your own harem, you should be very direct, invest a minimum of effort to find out if the girls you approach are down to fuck and take as many numbers as possible.
In case you are not interested in sex you should learn how to get a girl’s number while landing in the friend zone. Just hide your sexual interest, ask her logical questions and ask her for her number while looking at her like a desperate puppy.