Do you want to know how to make a woman want to sleep with you?
I mean, who doesn’t, right?
You are a man and you have the natural desire to have sex with beautiful women. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s the most normal (and fun) thing on earth. But unfortunately, it can easily turn into a nightmare.
Let’s face it.
Not getting your sexual needs met leads to…
Just think about all the high school shooters.
Elliot Rodger, Marc Lepine, George Sodini, Chris Harper-Mercer. All of them were men and none of them had a girlfriend or access to beautiful women. If you don’t know how to get girls to sleep with you, your life can turn into hell at any given moment in time.
Here’s the truth:
Men who can’t get laid die inside.
You can deny this urge as much as you want and God knows how many MGTOW’s try it…but we are biologically programmed to crave the naked skin of young and attractive girls.
So I ask you:
Do you want to become the next mass shooter or a successful seducer?
I already know the answer and that’s why I’ll reveal…
It’s time to end the suffering and to turn a life of pure hell into a life of blissful joy…
Make Any Girl Want to Sleep with You with the Right Preparation
Benjamin Franklin once said:
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
Now you know what to do.
Preparing to sleep with girls is about more than carrying one or two condoms in your pocket. It’s about knowing what’s really going on behind the scenes and what you’re capable of.
What is the truth?
Your gene code has survived for centuries. You already have what it takes to be an alpha male who loves women. You already have the power to make women sexually addicted to you. You just have to unlock the box.
And it all starts with seeing the truth in a world that tries to hide it from you…
1. Understand that Women Crave Sex
Most guys live in a false reality.
I call this the Madonna Whore Complex 2.0. It’s more than a complex. It’s a way of life that technology and the society we live in have rammed into our brains. Men who can’t get laid are a product of their environment.
It’s not your fault.
We live in a day and age where young boys have access to the craziest porn in which women beg to get used and abused. On the other hand, you get bombarded with messages about the MetToo movement, women complaining about a non-existent patriarchy.
You are confused and you conclude:
Here’s what I want you to understand:
You have to forget all this negative conditioning. Don’t let the media ruing your sex life. No matter what these crazy looneys say on TV, women like dominant men and they have a ridiculously high sex drive.
Women crave sex as much as you and here’s how to give her what she wants…
2. Realize that You Have What it takes to Get Laid
Yes, you have what it takes.
You just buried it under a layer of guilt, shame, and fear. I say it again. You are not to blame for that. Nowadays, men are conditioned to feel unworthy.
Of course you have approach anxiety and of course you are afraid to kiss her, touch her, and undress her. You are conditioned to feel bad about yourself and about your desires.
Here’s what I want you to know:
You can be the desirable man women want to sleep with. Years ago, long before I’ve written my bestselling book Rise of the Phoenix, I was a desperate virgin with scars all over my body. I still have my scars but my desperation is gone.
I learned, I tried, I failed, and I got up again.
Deep down I knew that I had what it takes to make a woman want to sleep with me. I just had to unlock my potential and something tells me you have to do the same.
3. Get Your Place Ready for Action
Unlock your potential and….
You want to know how to make a woman want to sleep with you. Then get your act together and clean your damn room. No woman wants to get pounded on stinky bedsheets with the leftovers of your latest self-love session.
Don’t laugh. This is really important.
And a girl who feels comfortable peeing in your bathroom feels comfortable doing other things (that don’t involve peeing) in your bedroom. Women have sensitive noses and they are pretty good at detecting dried semen.
So clean your room…and don’t forget the condoms.
Put one under your bed and one in your pocket. Play it safe.
Make a Woman Want to Have Sex with You with the Right Actions
Now you know that you have what it takes.
But having unused potential leads to having an unused dick. Mental masturbation is fine and dandy, but at some point you have to take action. Nothing happens unless you do.
So here’s what you need to do:
You are not a nice guy. You are a seducer who wants to get laid and it’s time to prove it…
4. Make Her Feel Comfortable and Safe
Here’s how to get a girl want to sleep with you:
Make her feel comfortable and safe in your presence.
How do you make a woman feel comfortable?
And how do you make a woman feel safe?
When it comes to sexual desire, we are trapped in the Stone Age. Women want men who protect them. Men want women they can protect. Embrace it.
5. User Your Body to Communicate Your Intent
Do you want to sleep with her or get friendzoned?
“Oh Sebastian, you’re a dickhead. Stop asking such stupid questions!”
Yeah, really? I’m a dickhead?
So many guys say they want to know how to make a woman want to sleep with them. The same guys end up doing everything in their power to NOT make her want to do it.
They say A and do B:
“Me? Oh, no. I’m not just looking for sex. I’m not that kind of guy. Don’t worry. I’m a good guy” says the friendzoned nice guy.
Here’s what you can say when a woman asks you if you want sex:
“I can’t deny that I’m extremely sexually attracted to you, but I’m also good at making pizza.”
Don’t ever hide you dick!
You want to sleep with her and she wants to know it.
6. Touch Her like a Seducer
No, you’re not a predator if you touch a woman.
Here’s the truth:
She loves it when you touch her. I mean, she gave you her number. She went on a date with you. And she’s all dressed up. Believe me. She wouldn’t wear a tight dress and a thong if she didn’t want you to touch her.
But you have to do it the right way.
A seducer slowly increases the sexual tension:
It’s a step by step process and every step makes her want to sleep with you more.
Make Her Want to Sleep with You with the Right Words
What do you say to a woman you want to sleep with?
Well, you can’t just walk up to her and say “damn girl, I want to dance Samba with your ass tonight.” I mean, you can try it. But it probably won’t work (let me know if it does). You have to be more subtle.
Use your words to create an experience.
For men, having sex is the experience. For women, the experience starts way earlier. Men enjoy the action but women enjoy the process that leads there. I mean, let’s be honest. We’d like to press a button and voila, we’re inside…
You can either continue waiting for a magic remote control or do this…
7. Share Sexual Stories and Inappropriate Jokes
The perfect words can make any girl want to sleep with you.
But what are the perfect words?
The perfect words have a sexual undertone:
Your stories can contain naked skin, your jokes can be sexist and your sexual innuendos can be, well, the “deep lake” and the “wet rain” will light a fire in her pants. And she doesn’t even know why she has these naughty thoughts.
But these thoughts don’t go away…
8. Express Your Desire for Her
Remember what I said earlier?
Don’t hide your dick!
You don’t want to be like one of my friends. He’s extremely handsome, but also extremely shy. He gets tons of dates…but he NEVER gets laid.
How is this possible?
He hides his dick. He’s so inoffensive and so nice that it hurts. This guy is a 25-year-old virgin and he desperately wants to get laid. But he keeps on going on three, four, and sometimes five dates without ever seeing a girl naked.
I told him a million times to make one simple change:
“Dude, you have to let her know what you want!”
She won’t sleep with you unless she knows that you actually want it.
9. Establish a Don’t Kiss and Tell Environment
Here’s the number one reason why girls refuse to have sex with you:
They are scared.
A naughty and kinky girl is hiding behind her good girl mask.
She’s scared to take off her mask because she made bad experiences in the past. Guys called her a slut. Her ex-boyfriend shared her naked pics with his friends. She needs to know that you’re different.
Tell her. It’s that easy.
Now she feels safe enough to take off her clothes.
Make Any Woman Want to Sleep with You with the Right Tension
You have to create sexual tension.
No tension = No sex
My sincere apologies to all the gender mainstreaming fanatics, but women and men are not the same. Guys want to get in, have fun, and get out. Girls, on the other hand, enjoy everything that happens before the in and out game.
Or let’s say they want to enjoy it.
Unfortunately, only a handful of men know how to turn the hours and minutes before the sex into a pleasurable experience for her…
10. Tease Her for Being a Tease
What if she doesn’t tease you?
It doesn’t matter. Blame her for teasing you. She’ll love it.
You want to give her the feeling that she makes you horny. That’s how to make her want to sleep with you.
Here are some ideas:
Tease her for being a tease and she’ll want to tease you. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy… a very pleasurable one.
11. Let Her Imagine What You Want to Do with Her
Okay, this is controversial.
Most dating coaches disagree with me on this. Whenever you ask one of the self-proclaimed gurus if you should verbalize your intent, the answer is always the same.
“Oh God, don’t do it. It doesn’t work!”
Well, I tested it and I came to the opposite conclusion.
If you do it in a confident way that allows her to imagine what you want to do with her, this technique is highly effective. I tell girls that I want to kiss them. I do it all the time. And it makes them so horny.
Here’s how I do it:
Here’s an example:
“The longer I look at your beautiful red lips, the more I have the desire to kiss you.”
Then I do it.
I don’t care what the other pickup gurus think. It works.
12. Check Her Out, Smile, and Mumble
One last tip to increase the tension:
This might be the most effective technique for anyone who wants to know how to make a woman want to have sex. And it’s so dead simple.
Here are the three steps:
Yep, that’s how simple it is. But it’s so effective because you’re sexually confident (you check her out), you are playful (you smile), and you are mysterious (you mumble). This is a deadly combination and it works every single time.
She hears you mumbling and asks herself:
“What is he thinking? What did he just say? What does he want to do with me?”
Let your eyes and your smile reveal what you want.
Make Her Want to Sleep with You with the Right Escalation Techniques
It’s time to escalate.
She knows that you’re into her. I mean, you used my infamous check her out, smile, and mumble technique. She knows it…and she wants it to happen. But remember: She’s the good girl. She’s innocent.
Yeah, we both know that she’s not.
But you have to allow her emotional female brain to believe it. That’s why you have to do the dirty work. Yep, it’s your job to take things further.
Here are the last steps you need to take to make any woman want to sleep with you…
13. Take Her to a Place Where it’s Easy to Have Fun
Man, I’ve heard some crazy stories…
What do all these dudes have in common?
They need a crash course in logistics!
If you don’t take her to a place where she feels comfortable to sleep with you, it won’t happen. It’s really that simple. That’s why I asked you to prepare. So in case you already forgot…
Take her to a place where you don’t get interrupted.
How about your bedroom?
14. Prepare Her for the Kiss by Kissing Her
That sounds confusing as hell.
But it’s actually quite simple. You don’t prepare her for a French kiss with a French kiss…obviously. You kiss other parts of her body to prepare her.
No, not her ass and her apple pie. That’s for later.
Now you’re already kissing her lips.
It’s just a matter of time until you allow the hungry red snake in your mouth to walk through the door. She’s ready for a snake fight.
15. Use Your Hands to Prepare Her for More
Your tongue does a good job, but it needs support.
You can’t kiss her for hours without touching her. That’s kind of weird. She wants to feel your desire. She wants to feel it all over her body.
If you use her hand to prepare her for more, she’ll want more. By now she’s so horny that you don’t have to make her want to sleep with you anymore. She wants it more than anything…
…just like you want instant access to all these powerful seduction techniques.
Summed Up Wisdom
I don’t want you to become the next mass shooter. That’s why I decided to write this article. I mean, let’s face the truth. Men who can’t get laid are miserable and depressed. And they don’t even know how much women love sex.
I want you to realize that you have what it takes to get laid. But you have to clean your room. No girl wants to spread her legs on bedsheets that smell like rotten Sushi. She deserves a clean bed and you deserve a woman who feels comfortable and safe with you.
Oh, and stop being so shy. Share your naughty stories and be honest about how you and the guy in your pants feel about her. Use my check her out, smile, and mumble technique. Do whatever it takes to let her know that you want to make her want to sleep with you. She’ll want it too.
Sebastian Harris says
I already have. And I have a whole chapter about it in my book 😉
because you are going to publish an article about that ?? 🙂
Sebastian Harris says
you’ll soon figure that out too.
Sebastian Harris says
I’m sure you’ll reach this state.
i’ve gotta man up! its so hard for me to approach random women in person. its so intimidating. i do better with online sites like tinder–because you don’t gotta face the girl in person—at least not right away.
i’ve got this girl who is really into me–much more so than most girls are–so hopefully i can reach what you discussed in this article with her eventually
thanks to your blog i don’t have issues anymore to make a woman sleep with me…however make her fall inlove with me and stay with me i still didjn’t find the answer