Are you ready to pick up German girls?
I doubt it.
Just because you want to date the women in my home country doesn’t mean that you will succeed without any war wounds. Just because someone told you that German Fräuleins show their big boobs in the same traditional costumes that they wear during the Oktoberfest doesn’t mean that attracting and seducing them is a cakewalk.
I think the real reason why you want to hook up with girls in Germany is because you made a Google search and you found a picture like this:
Of course they all look like her
Well, I don’t want to disappoint you, but the percentage of women in my beloved home country who look like this is below 1%.
Please don’t get me wrong, there are some hot women, but if you think that all you need to do in order to get them is to invite them to a beer garden in Munich, you need a wake up call.
That’s exactly why I decided to write this article for you. As a German I know that many foreigners are completely deluded when it comes to German women, their characteristics and the dating dynamics in Germany.
The following article will show you what you have to deal with in the country of the Krauts and how you can use the local dating customs to thrive and succeed. I am going to share all the information you need to succeed with a blond beauty with blue eyes and I don’t apologize for what I am about to say.
In case you are not a German the following video provides you with a few basic expressions that will help you to sweep the Fräuleins off their feet:
IMPORTANT NOTICE: In my opinion it is important to support refugees who came from war zones. And no, I am not a racist, but after I received over a dozen emails in which so-called refugees asked me for advice on how to impregnate German women in order to spread Islam, I see myself forced to make this statement: Do NOT send me an email if you are one of them. Thank you. Now enjoy the article.
What You Have to Know About German Women
I once met an American who complained that all American girls are fat and rude. He then told me how jealous he is that I live in a country in which all girls look like Heidi Klum and behave like well-mannered traditional women. I guess he has neither seen a picture of Angela Merkel, nor a picture of Claudia Roth.
It is no secret that the majority of women in Eastern European countries are extremely beautiful and very feminine. Everybody knows that. The tricky thing about my home country is that a lot of foreign men think that German women are the busty sisters of Russian women.
When it comes to dating in Germany, the space between fantasy and reality couldn’t be further apart.
Yes, this country has feminine, beautiful and caring women, but they are definitely NOT the majority. There are basically two types of women in this country and unless you want to end up in a toxic relationship, you should avoid German girl #1.
German Girl #1: The Socially Conditioned Victim
The politicians in my home country did a great job and no, I am not talking about transforming it into a Muslim country. They did a great job by making the women in this country believe that female qualities are a sign of weakness, feminine clothes a sign of oppression and that being a career woman without a family but with a lot of antidepressants and cats is the path towards happiness.
While German politicians (thanks Ursula) sell the idea of becoming a female soldier and getting killed for the fatherland as an important achievement of the feminist movement, Germany has now the lowest birth rate in the whole world.
Well done…
The offspring of this cultural and social conditioning is the typical German woman.
She is a fascinating species. She managed to delete her mother instincts, which leads to nausea whenever she sees a child and to a big smile whenever she hears the words promotion and manager.
Once she finds a desperate German wimp for a relationship, she complains about everything, makes fun of him in public and tortures him with subliminal aggression. As I found out at the last party that I have been to in my home country this behavior is completely socially accepted and encouraged by laughter.
If there wasn’t a second type of girl, I wouldn’t be writing this article right now…
German Girl #2: The One Who Woke Up
Do you already want to close this article and forget about your dream of finding a busty blonde girl with shining blue eyes?
Don’t bury your head in the sand. There is still hope.
translation: “I am not a feminist because my man is my tower of strength and not my enemy”
A small fraction of women was able to switch on their brains, to rethink the conditioning and to reconnect with their feminine energy. There are mainly two reasons why a German woman figures out that being an old sexually frustrated cat lady with a management position is not the perfect life goal:
- She is sick and tired of dating wimps who tolerate her bitchy behavior. The craving for a real man and a happy relationship becomes so strong that she sees herself forced to become a woman again.
- She has immigrant ancestors and her parents raised her with traditional family values. Now her traditional values collide with the “values” that the political institutions throw at her. Thanks to her ability to think logically (yes, women have this ability) her traditional values win.
I think it should be obvious that these are the women that you want to date in the motherland of sausages.
What You Have to Know About Your Competition
I just told you the unapologetic truth about German women. Now you probably want to know everything about your competitors. The following lines are dedicated to your strong, confident and skillful competitor, the German warrior.
It’s time to make my old self and a lot of young German men very, very angry…
What kind of German man do you find in history books?
What kind of German man do you actually find in this country?
Let’s hear it for what we call evolution…
Yes, we’ve come a long way. The German warrior that was once feared by the Romans has become a sterilized and shy individual who can’t even look a woman in the eyes without sweating and shivering.
If there weren’t so many Russian, Turkish and Italian men in Germany I would say that there is no competition. Besides Max from RSD (and he is Austrian) there are nearly no German men who have the courage to approach a woman. That’s just a fact.
When I returned from my bootcamp with Sasha the few guys who were able to talk to women still used Mystery’s stuff from 1999. I don’t even remember how many girls I approached who wanted to see my ID card, because they didn’t believe me that I was German.
The German Dating Paradox
If you want to learn how to pick up German girls you have to understand the German dating paradox. Even though the competition is vanishingly low, the German dating culture is haunted by a very disturbing condition.
My mentor Sasha Daygame described this paradox with the following words:
“Germany is the only country in the world where a 5 thinks that she is a 10. It’s insane.”
One of my best female friends, who is originally from the Ukraine said:
“This is the only country I have been to where I see tons of handsome and well-groomed men who date women who don’t care about how they look. In my home country no man would look at them.”
They are both right and there is a simple reason for this dilemma:
As I already mentioned, most German guys are so shy and insecure that they would do everything to get some pussy, no matter how the owner looks or behaves. Women then end up in relationships with those wimps, needless to say that it is impossible that they are happy with this decision. Their increasing frustration leads to more bitchy behavior. Coupled with the knowledge that guys are all over them, even when they look like train wrecks and behave like ill-behaved brats leads to this fascinating paradox.
Now you probably ask yourself “do you have more bad news for me?”
No, but I have some good news.
Most German men are pussies who would do everything to get an average woman. That’s good to know, but it’s even better to know that 99% of them would NEVER in a million years approach an above average woman.
The crazy thing about this country is that the average and below average girls think that they can get everyone, which is actually true, while the really hot girls are lonely as hell.
She is so lonely that she has to make out with her ball
No German man approaches them!
That’s why it is your duty to do what my fellow countrymen are not able to do.
How to Pick Up German Girls
Are you ready to pick up the few German women who are not completely destroyed by the political propaganda of Ursula von der Leyen?
Are you ready to compete against the ten German guys who actually know how to approach a woman without shitting themselves?
Then read the following instructions very carefully. Ignoring the fist-hand insights that are the result of years of approaching, seducing and dating girls in my home country would be a terrible mistake.
You Have to Be Direct
Let me test your cultural knowledge with a simple question:
What do Germans hate the most?
No, I am not talking about stupid Hitler jokes and I am also not talking about losing a football match. The one thing that we hate the most is beating around the bush, or how we would say it: “talking around the hot puree”.
Yes, it is true that a lot of men in this country don’t have the courage to talk to women, but that doesn’t change anything about the fact that we appreciate a straightforward way of communicating. We are no big fans of small talk and unnecessary gibberish.
I lived in England for more than a year and I still get goosebumps whenever I have to answer the “hello, how have you been?” with “I am fine, thank you. And you?” even though I know that nobody gives a shit.
If you try to win a Fräulein’s heart with small talk, you will fail. That’s a fact.
You have to be direct and make it clear why you approach her. If you try to beat around the bush, she won’t respect you. This is also true for women from other countries, but it is even more important when you try your luck in German territory.
In addition to that, you automatically put yourself in the top 1% of men by simply having the courage to walk up to a woman and tell her what you feel.
The New Definition of “Cold” Approaching
One of the most common stereotypes of Germans is that they are cold.
In case you also think that I am very offended!
Nah, just kidding…
It’s actually true. A lot of Germans are colder than a fridge.
However, we are not cold by nature. We are just the product of the society we live in. Believe me, if you are surrounded by serious and formal people all day long, you inevitably become one of them.
Why do I tell you this?
Because you shouldn’t worry when a girl just gives you an “okay…” in combination with a confused look when you tell her that she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen.
Don’t tell me that you don’t see her wide and happy smile?
Flirtatious and passionate conversations might be normal in South America, but definitely not in the country that I have been born in. Whereas you as a foreigner have a huge advantage over the local guys who still believe that logical computer programming language is the best way to score a date, you shouldn’t be surprised when the women you approach respond like robots.
They don’t do this on purpose. They are simply not used to passionate and flirtatious conversations. Make them feel passion and excitement and they will unbutton their shirts for you.
Be The Leader She Never Had
Did she give you the “I am fucking confused” look?
Did she smile after she said “okay…” or “thank you…”?
Good, this means that you are in. If you expect a firework of emotions for telling her how beautiful she is, you are in the wrong country. As long as she smiles at you, even if it’s just a subtle movement, you can interpret this as a good sign.
A shy smile from a German woman is the cultural equivalent to a kiss from a South American woman.
Now that you have broken the ice, it is time for the next step. It is time to establish a communication. It’s time to lead, lead and lead.
One of the first things she learned as a child is “man spricht nicht mit Fremden”. If you translate this it means “one does not speak to strangers”. It is your job to make her forget what mommy said by leading the conversation.
She will be thankful for your leadership. Chances are high that you are the first real man, the first leader, she has ever talked to. Germany is the only country in which I have seen couples holding hands in a way in which she leads him. I think that says it all about the women’s experience with being led.
She misses it and she craves it. Give her what she needs.
What About Touching?
Being direct is great. Telling her that you think that she is an incredibly beautiful woman is awesome. But touching her might be a bit too much.
We Germans appreciate a direct and straightforward way of communicating, but we are not that comfortable with fast physical contact. While it is very common in many parts of the world to give women (and men) a kiss on the cheek when you meet them, it is not that common in Germany.
I even met some girls who were confused when I hugged them after they gave me their phone number.
They obviously enjoyed it. They just never experienced it before.
We are not in Spain, gentleman. It is always good to touch a woman and it is definitely a necessary step of the seduction process. Just don’t interpret it as a negative sign when she looks at you as if you had a gigantic pimple on your nose when you go for the hug.
The face of a German woman when you hug her after the number close
How to Date German Girls
You approached her with a direct compliment. You transformed her form a fridge into a sauna and she didn’t run away when you went for the hug.
Congratulations. You have mastered the first step. You officially know how to pick up German girls.
But do you also know how to date them?
Getting the number is fine and dandy, but having ten German names in your phone without ever tasting the lips of your blonde dream woman won’t make you happy. You have to take her on a date and you have to know what to do on that date in order to make her yodel.
Let’s have a look at the pitfalls that you are faced with when you decide to date in my fatherland.
Be Prepared to Talk 95% of the Time
Her confused facial expression and her nervous stuttering during the approach is just the beginning. I already told you that Germans are conditioned from a young age to not talk to strangers. In combination with their lack of experience in dating confident men, this can lead to extremely one-sided conversations.
Don’t be angry at her for not being able to hold an interesting conversation. I am sure that the last five dates she has been on were with serious dudes who used the German way of seducing aka the job interview style.
Take it slow and try to start the conversation in a fun and playful way.
Whenever I am on a date with a girl in my home country I usually start the conversation with the following introduction:
“Don’t worry. This won’t be a typical date. I know you worried about that. Instead of listing my house, my boat and my car (that’s from a German banking commercial), I want to find out who you are and I want to get to know you as a person.”
She usually smiles like a happy child before I can finish the introduction.
Connecting With German Girls Takes Patience
Your introduction put a smile on her face. Now she knows that you are not one of those boring guys who torture her with the German job interview.
You don’t know what the German job interview is?
“Where are you from?”
“What do you do?”
“Where do you study?”
“What do you study?”
“How long do you study this?”
“What do you want to do after your studies?”
This is the brutal reality of most women in Germany who are courageous enough to go on dates with local guys. I hope you now understand why she is a bit suspicious within the first couple of minutes. She has been through a lot before she met you. That’s why you need to be patient with her.
I remember one date where I asked the girl who was sitting next to me about her biggest passion. Without even thinking about my question she responded “I am working in a small company in the city center”.
She was so used to the job interview date, that this was the only answer she could give me. Of course I teased her about her answer, which eventually resulted in a deep conversation during which I found out what she was really passionate about.
Connecting With German Girls Takes Time
As you might know, one of my friends is married to an American girl. She is completely nuts, but that’s not why I mention her in this context. When she came to Germany for the first time she told everyone after a couple of minutes that they are friends.
While this might be normal for Americans, it is completely incomprehensible for Germans. We want to slowly get to know people. We don’t rush with words like friendship, connection, relationship and love. Those words actually mean something to us.
We don’t allow fast connections, but we demand strong ones.
While some people would say we are not normal, I say that this is one aspect that I like the most about the people in my country.
In the same way as you won’t become best friends with a German man in one day, you won’t be able to connect with a German woman in ten minutes. It takes time for us to open up, but when we open up you can confidently assume that the connection is 100% honest, authentic and real.
You Don’t Have to Pay But You Will Be Rewarded
Now that you have learned everything you need to know about seducing and dating women in Germany I want to close this article by revealing one last truth about dating in this country.
A lot of German women might have lost their connection to their feminine side, but their self-proclaimed independence has one big benefit that your wallet will love to hear.
German girls don’t expect you to pay for their drinks and food.
I promise you that the majority of girls you’ll end up dating will insist on paying on the date.
If you follow the advice that I shared with you in this article you will of course also be rewarded with an incredible deep connection with a girl who is happy that she can finally live out her sexual and feminine side with a man who knows how to lead her.
Enjoy hunting in my home country! But read my book first (Hint: It works on Germany girls)!
Summed Up Wisdom
In case you dream about seducing and dating sexy German Fräuleins you should know what to expect. A lot of women in this country are victims of a social and political conditioning that disconnects them with their feminine self. However, there are still girls who managed to reconnect with their feminine side. These are the girls you want.
The good news is that your competition is basically non-existent. However, thanks to the shy and insecure guys, a lot of average women think that they are the prettiest models on the planet and that it is absolutely okay to behave like a spoilt brat. The positive aspect is that the really hot girls are alone, horny and waiting for a leader like you.
Be direct when you approach her. If you want to beat around the bush you are in the wrong country. She might be a bit cold and confused at the beginning, but if you lead her, she will soon melt in your hands. You might stare in a confused face when you hug her, but that’s not necessarily a bad sign.
Dating a German girl can be quite exhausting. If I were you I would let her know that you are not like the boring guys who she dated before and that you won’t torture her with a job interview. You will be the one who does the majority of talking and you have to be patient and persistent. We Germans don’t connect fast, but strong and deep. If you are patient and persistent you and your wallet will be rewarded.
Don’t even think about giving up. Just do it 😉
Thank you for the great article.
As you said in the comments, and as my personal experience says, when you can’t speak German, your chances are much lower. Can you probably give me rough estimation of how much lower?
Should I totally give up on thinking about German girls because of that?
Please don’t suggest to “learn German” because if I could do it, I would have done it by know and it takes ages to learn and it takes more ages to get fluent. I mean being articulate is a key in dating matters and even if I can “just speak” the language, I would sound just like a stupid and illiterate person compared to when I speak English. What’s your thought on this?
To be mentioned that I’m an atheist middle-eastern guy who has studied in Germany and live here for a long time.
😀 I love that comment
What about how to seduce a German guy being an expat?? I assume climbing the Mount Everest would be a quicker task to accomplish:D
Thank you för your Replay.I forgot to mention that before i ask her out ,she told me that she already booked her ticket to travelling and after coming back from travelling she will start her study where I am going to live after finishing this job..So now when I asked when she have time then she also said , as she is busy now with her coming exams and trips so after coming from travelling she will start her study in August where I will live after this job.Then she asked me when I will be back in that city where her university is, as she will start her study in that city.
Any advice ?
I’m sorry to say this but she might not be interested in more.
Hello Sebastian,
I recently Met a German Girl in My Workplace.I Really like her.we dont Talk that much.as we Meet only in break Time.so oneday After talking with her i asked her if she wann go Out with me för Kaffee.She said she dont have Time after as she working Weekend night Shift (me too) and she has exams.so she said we will Talk about this later.Then i ask her Number, she gave it to me without any hezitation.afte that whenever i See her in break Time i tes to do small Talk, but she bring her Study Here and use her free Time to study.So its Really difficult to communicate with her.Then i sent her One Food Pictures (Asian Food Cooked by me) she Replay with looks great.I ask her if she wann try, she would like to.then i ask her when do you have Time Then? She Afrin Check her calendar and dont find any Time as she is Leaving Germany After her exams to Travels and will be back 2 month later.So she said as After Coming Form Travel when she will have Time.Then i say okay no Problem, just write me when you have Time.
So could you Please give me any advice? I am Really confused.
In the South.
I am wondering where you live since I have very rarely met a close-minded young German chick. They are all tolerant and accepting.
i am muslim and look middle eastern and I get tons of girls in Germany. Don ‘t make up excuses. Go out and approach!!!
Speaking German is deffinitely a big thing. Germans don’t like people who live in the country and don’t learn the language…that’s just how it is.
Hey Charlie,
my advice: appraoch Russian or Ukrainian girls in Germany. Less drama and headache.
Hello Sebastian, hope you’re doing well man – just wanted to give you a quick update. Turns out she is a female player who had a secret boyfriend.
I was on to her since day 1, but my desire to learn about another culture well, life is just one big gamble isn’t it? Anyway, it will take a while to recover, but I had one question to hopefully close this chapter finally.
Can you give me a quick typical story of what a German girl interaction looks like – a girl who wants to sleep or date you after meeting her – assuming it is different in Germany vs America?
HI Sebastian,
Thanks for your article. I’ve been living and studying in Germany for more or less one year now, and my German still needs a lot of improvement until I feel “comfortable” communicating in German. So my question is, in your opinion, what is the role of language skills in dating German girls (or even girls from other countries, for that matter)? In other words, do you think it’s necessary for a guy to be relatively good in German language to be able to date German girls “effectively”?
Looking forward to hearing your answer, cheers
I might be offensive for you but I received enough digusting emails to stand behind my “disclaimer”
Those replies and this article is highly offensive. When Christians oppress people do you say “Christians”?! Hitler was a christian and loved the bible, do you hear anyone saying “The Christian Reich”? Did anybody said the “Christians” while the US bloody bombarded twice Japanese? Or when they massacred the Vietnamese? Do you hear anyone saying “The Atheist” when people talk about the Soviet Gulag? I could go on… So why? Why muslim?? Why using this word and hammer people non stop with that??! Why using muslim where there is no fit? Why do we have to pay the price for a bunch of guys who happen to have an arabic name. So if an american named John, either stab a black guy or kill his schoolmates with heavy weapons then the atheist and the christians can get away with that? But if a guy happned to be named Karim and rape someone then THATS THE MUSLIM?!
The immigrants who have done that are economic immigrants who come from north africa. Who told you they are muslim? Is is enough to be called Ahmed? Do I assume every german is christian just because he’s german and his name is Jorg or whatever?
Stop bashing on muslim for no bloody reason! The real muslim don’t do that.
Appreciate it man.
Hey Charlie,
if a German woman touches you, she is REALLY into you
Haha thanks Sebastian. One last question: what are some signs she is into you?
American women are usually pretty obvious, this girl is a head scratcher….
Hey Charlie,
dating German women can be a pain in the ass. They can be very distant. Give her time.
Sebastian! Thanks for your info man. Currently, I’m an Indian American and this beautiful German girl moved to my building here in America. We met at the pool and hit it off really good. Exchanged numbers, but then she never responsed – then kept trying to “run” into me at the pool and such – even bringing a guy to get me jealous which failed.
Bottom line, she kept trying to get my attention back for a long time (I don’t like to waste time with ghost responders). Eventually, I caved in and asked her out again, but she told me she was super busy (I believe her) and she’s leaving for Germany for a few weeks, but will be back.
I asked her to bring me back some chocolates (a fun way for her to stay in contact), and she responded enthusiastically.
Now, I’m not sure if this girl wants to date me or just have fun or may even be just teasing me. Sorry for the long post.
Thoughts?
Hey Jake,
good point.
As a native German man, I have to say that a lot of what you stated is true, but it lacks one crucial part of German dating culture (if something like this even exists). Based on my experience, dating in Germany is always about social circles. As you mentioned, Germans are not used to a cold approach by a stranger. Instead, they stay in their friends’ company and rely on their group as if their survival depends on it. To get in contact with a German girl, you have to be part of that group. The “who knows who” is crucial here. If you go this route the traditional way, it is a really long and tedious task, but even being introduced by one of their friends into the “group” would give yourself a big boost already. If someone who they trust on trusts you, you’ll have to be a fine person. It is not a cold approach anymore and you overcame her icy barrier without much effort.
You are welcome.
I hope to come to Germany some day, I even wish to marry a German woman if I would be able to come over, I just love German girls. Thanks for the article.
Hey Yuda,
you can approach them everywhere, but as a student you can do it on the campus. Unfortunately, I don’t know any good online dating sites to meet German women as a foreigner. Sure, shoot me an email. You can find my contact page in the navigatoion bar.
Hallo, Sebastian Harris,
Thanks a lot for your transparent article.
I’m a male foreigner studying in a German university.
Where do you think is the best place to approach German girls (especially students).
I’m very shy to approach women, especially when there are other people around. The other day, I summoned up enough courage to talk to a girl that I found attractive in the locker-room of a library, but because there were other people standing around who were able to hear me, I stuttered while talking to her, and she could easily detect my nervousness. Needless to say, nothing came out of our conversation. My problem is that I care a lot about what others think, especially if I have a high chance of being seen again by those people. For example, I go to the library where I approached the girl very often, and I hate to think that if I try to pick up girls there several times, some people might recognise me as the guy who just comes to the library to pick up girls (and fail).
I also want to know if there are any good online dating applications.
I also want to ask your opinion on one more issue in private, so I’d really appreciate it if you can send me an email that I can reply to.
Thanks again.
Hey Vern,
thanks a lot for your feedback.
Oh, just finished reading this article. Very great content you got there. Totally following your blog! Thank you for everything.
Hey Oksana,
I will tell my friend that you see it the same way 😉
And a lot of Western men like Ukrainian/Russian women.
“One of my best female friends, who is originally from the Ukraine said:
“This is the only country I have been to where I see tons of handsome and well-groomed men who date women who don’t care about how they look. In my home country no man would look at them.” – it’s really true. I’m a Ukrainian and I have a similar point of view. In my opinion, West European men looks so much better than Ukrainian/Russian men.
Hey Buddy,
I am happy to hear that my article helped you so much.
OMG this post explains so much!
So I’m an American (of Indian origin), living in Cologne, Germany for the summer to improve my German and meet new people. I’ve tried to daygame, but have just not had the success I’ve had in America. To summarize, here are the experiences I’ve had.
– Been told “no” at a tram stop when I told her I thought she was cute
– She looked fucking confused at the beginning and after like 10 seconds of conversation she said “I need to catch my bus/tram”
-Continually get interview style questions
I initially thought, as someone said above, it had something to do with the NYE thing that happened here and they have their guard up against “Muslim-looking” men, but your post explains it perfectly. I was able to get one number, but she never replied. Thank you so much for this article, I guess I just need to do a better job of leading conversation. And I also need to get past the resting bitch face that so many of these girls have haha.
I think if you have thak kind of issue, your dress code is the key.
For example for me as a cocasian, it’s great to wear a blue jean with a leather jacket, boots and a shirt, when i’m out of work of course.
However for you you should adopt a dress code communicating that you are somebody classy and civilazed, even when you are out of work.
Hey Yago,
this is sad but very true. You could bring the issue up in a fun way. Approach her with “Hey, I am a peaceful Indian guy who just wants to say hi”….or something similar.
Another concern, I like to share is that, in wake of recent Muslim refugee attacks on German women and childern, I feel coloured men like me have a disadvantage due to prejudice. I know most people can not differentiate between a non-Muslim Indian and a Muslim Indian, Bangladeshi or Pakistani.
I do not want a girl to think that I am a Muslim and approaching to rape her. How could one effectively deal with it, unless actually starting a conversation saying that I am a non-Muslim.
Hey Yago,
yeah, our language is comparable to egyptian hieroglyphics. It’s nasty. If only all men would realize that they deserve much better 😉
Sebastian…Good job (German way..short and direct).
I must say that I don’t generally comment on online posts but here I couldn’t really resist. The style you approached actually made me laugh alone. I am an Indian, non-Muslim, have studied for a Masters M.Sc, in Germany, worked for a year and then returned to India to work for a German subsidiary.
I liked living in Germany a lot, mostly because of the sense of order you have everywhere as opposed to the chaos we have in India, within which we are expected to find an invisible sense of order.Crazy I know.
Some of the biggest reasons, for which I had to leave Germany were, firstly I was unable to grasp the language needed to progress within my job (non IT certainly) and my inability to find a social/love life. I have always thought that both the reasons were completely interwingled, I perfect the language and get a blonde on cracking the TestDaf. But now it seems there is more to it, more than the almost impossible German language.
I remember hooking to a fat, ugly and dumb who could speak some English, out of utter frustration. Although, I succeded even with the pitfalls you mentioned but after few months, I realized that I deserve much better.
I could see, that I was mainly evaluating average or above average German girls but never even dared to gaze at the Ivy league girls. I suppose its a bell curve with the German girls instead of linear, where the average ones are in most demand. I would also like to add that I found the Ivy league ones are often the smartest, have travelled extensively, knows good English and are more open to foreginers. As you said, I too noticed that the Italians and Spaniards were far more successful with them then the best looking Germans.
I have plans to go to Germany again next year for an MBA,and this time I would certainly want to be more prepared with the language and your golden words 😉
I sent you an email.
Hey Sabastian Harris, How Can I Get European Girls To Date Online Especially German Ladies? I Mean The Website, Maybe The European/german Dating Site,I’m FRm Africa. Jst Beep Me On My E-mail Please
Hey Buddy,
feel free to send me an email through my contact form. I’ll reply 😉
Nice Article!
Should I expect that she ask me out after three times that I asked her? Should I tell her that I like her? How can I start to say that? I am trying to know her better but I got very confused about how she feels about me! She is my friend (not for a long time though!). She is outside of Germany now!
It would be great if I can send you an email or something like that!
then follow my advice 😉
I’m here in germany I’m 43 yearsand Like to meet a german women
That’s not how I mean it. I have many Muslim friends and I welcome every refugee who actually is a refugee. I am just sceptical to the cultural impact that this can have on a country (watch the video from Paul Joseph Watson and you will know what I mean). Shoot me an email if you want to discuss this topic further.
Coming from you, this disappointed me a lot…well i guess a german is the german…you can’t be anti jew anymore for obvious reasons, so no you are going to fo after the muslims
“The politicians in my home country did a great job and no, I am not talking about transforming it into a Muslim country.” That’s all I am saying 😉
Hey Alex,
I am happy that I could help you.
Hi thanks alot for this aticle.after many failures i realise my mistakes and now know what to, and not to do.
Really? Where? I must have missed it? By the way, we now know it was not just in Germany but all over Western Europe. Here in Belgium we had similar incidents. Scary stuff.
Hey Rust,
if you read the article very carefully I reveal my thoughts about this issue 😉
I feel bad for German women now. The amount of sexual harassments and assaults inflicted upon them from mainly Muslim men is staggering. What are your thoughts on this? It was all over the country, and not just in Cologne.
I thought that title would be more accurate 😉
haha yes…they can be very sweet and happy…however i never succeed to pick up a french girl…thanks god now i’m in the university so i can easily find Young beautifull sweet asian women to date 🙂
I think you changed the title of the article if i make no mistake, very funny ! 🙂
French girls are nice….in comparison 😛
I wasn’t very motivated to read the article since there is no way i would try to date a girl from that country…it’s even worse than french girl…but that’s actually a great article because of the political side 🙂 also many advices are thrue no matter the country