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The 11 Best Compliments for a Girl

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What are the best compliments for a girl?

Let’s find it out…

Overcoming your approach anxiety is great and walking up to women without is even better, but saying “hi” and smiling like a drunk dog won’t magically put her number in your phone.

 

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Thanks for the Compliment! Call Me…

 

In order to get the digits you have to do more than just standing there and hoping for the best. You only have a chance to get inside her heart when you say the right things to her. The first few seconds of a conversation with a woman are absolutely crucial for your future seduction success.

And what besides “excuse me, I know this sounds a bit direct” is the first thing that you should say to a woman with whom you have never spoken before?

I give you a little hint. It’s not “who lies more, men or women?”

Instead of saying some indirect stuff that leads to nothing but frustration, blue balls and an entry pass to the friend zone, you give her an honest and genuine compliment that clearly communicates that you are attracted to her and that your interest in her is not particularly asexual.

Of course it isn’t wrong to say the typical compliment that everyone else uses. Telling her that she is beautiful is great, but it won’t set you apart from the masses. Even though there are not many guys who have the balls to approach women, chances are high that the ones who had the courage to talk to her, already told her that she is beautiful.

There are way better compliments that have the power to make her want to jump in bed with you right after you approached her and there are even more good compliments that you can use later in the dating process.

Later in the dating process?

 

The Best Compliments for a Girl When You Approach Her

There are a million compliments that you can give a woman that she has never heard before. That’s why I want to share all the best compliments for a girl with you that I can spontaneously think of. Before I am going to reveal the magic words that you can say during the seduction process, we have a quick look at the best compliments you can use during the approaching phase.

I think I don’t have to tell you that the next woman will be flattered and fascinated by you, when you give her a compliment that she has never heard before.

But before you can go out into the world and put a smile on the face of every woman you meet, I want to share a short video with you that shows how powerful compliments really are:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opMQxa1JkuM

 

1. You Are Gorgeous

Where the hell is the difference between “you are beautiful” and “you are gorgeous”?

Thanks to my in field tests I know that the word gorgeous is a lot more effective than beautiful. Even when I translated this word into German and used it instead of the German equivalent of the word beautiful, my success rate increased.

That’s what I call an efficient A/B testing.

The word gorgeous is definitely a lot more powerful than the word beautiful. You tell a woman that she is beautiful when she smiles at you or when she has a new hairstyle, but the word gorgeous is usually used when you see a woman in the most incredible dress that you have ever seen. That’s exactly how she will feel when you tell her that she is gorgeous.

 

2. I Love the Way You Walk

When I see a woman on high heels who walks like a professional model while she swings her hips from side to side, I am in a parallel universe. I once met a girl who simple blew me away. All I did was staring at her. She walked in the most elegant way that I had ever seen.

woman with crutches

Remember, not all women can walk in high heels 

A woman with a confident and feminine walk is unbelievable sexy. 

Unfortunately, these girls are also very rare, at least in the Western hemisphere. When you see a girl with such a walk in a Western European country you have to approach her by telling her that you absolutely love the way she walks. Let her know that her walk makes you want to put a baby in her belly.

Okay, you shouldn’t actually tell her that, but your words should make her feel that the way she walks turns you on.

On the one hand, she will love you for saying something that no one has ever said to her before and on the other hand, she will love you for actually complimenting her on something that other men get intimidated by.

A man who likes a woman’s confident walk must be a self-confident guy. Saying that you are attracted to her confident walk will already make her feel attracted to you.

 

3. You Have Such a Positive Charisma

One of the best compliments for a girl, besides “I want to slap that all night” is telling her that she has a positive charisma. Of course you should be honest enough to not use this compliment when you approach a naughty gothic girl who walks around as if she would plan to jump in a mountain of razor blades.

Remember that women are very sensitive and that they instinctively feel. 

The best compliments for a girl are the honest ones and if you approach a girl who is obviously happy and relaxed, you can tell her that she has an amazing charisma.

This communicates that her monstrous…well…are not the only reason why you want to talk to her and it also communicates to her that you are a man who is attracted to her positive energy. Therefore, you must also have a very positive energy. Connecting your sexual organs….um your positive energies might be a good idea.

 

4. I Like Your Style

I know, telling a girl that you like her style doesn’t sound like one of the best compliments for a girl. It sounds more like the most boring lines ever. Nevertheless, it can be extremely effective when you say it the right way.

gothic girl

Okay, I take it back…

 

Telling a girl that you like her style doesn’t mean that you should tell her that you really like her handbag, or that you really like the shoes she is wearing.

Not even a mentally disabled woman will believe you that crap.

Unless you are gay and want to know where you can buy the same handbag, you shouldn’t say that you like her handbag, while you ignore her face, her body and even her personality. How do you tell a girl that you like her style without sounding like her gay best friend?

Let her know that her style attracted your attention because the way she dresses reveals her personality and her interest. You don’t have to be a psychic to realize that a girl who walks around like a catwalk model is interested in fashion and that a girl who walks around in a Nike tank top and yoga pants is not the biggest couch potato.

Enjoy her smile while you are giving her one of the best compliments for a girl and make sure that you lead over to a conversation about how her style and her personality and interests are in alignment. This enables you to directly dive into her hobbies and her passion.

 

5. You Hair Looks Amazing

While women are used to guys who tell them that they have beautiful eyes, they usually don’t get a compliment for their hair every day. On average women spend a lot of time washing, drying and taking care of their hair.

Don’t you think she is happy when she finally meets a man who has eyes for her hair and not only for her breasts?

african woman with beautiful hair

Thank you so much!

Before I am going to lead over to another best compliment for girls, I have a message for all the guys who are attracted to black girls. In my experience this compliment works perfectly with black women.

It is no big secret that a lot of black girls are very uncomfortable because of their hair and that a lot of them wear wigs.

When you see a black girl with natural hair and you tell her that you love the way her hair look, she will love you for it.

I don’t know if this also works when you are a black man, but as a white guys this works like magic.

 

6. There’s Something About You

Telling a woman that there is something about her that made you want to talk to her sounds a little bit cheesy, but it is actually one of the best compliments for women you can think of.

Of course this compliment has to be 100% authentic, otherwise it doesn’t work.

If you tell a woman that there is something about her that you couldn’t resist, while you are nearly falling asleep, she will reject you.

I want to see some gestures, I want to see a fascinated smile and I want that your voice clearly communicates your excitement. After you told her what kind of impact she has on you, you can put your hand in front of your mouth and say “wow…” while you look her in the eyes as if you would want to undress her right here and now.

 

The Best Compliments For a Girl When You Date Her

Using the right compliment during your approach can determine whether or not she puts her number in your phone. Getting her number and going on a date with her is amazing, but if you tell her on the first date that she looks like your mother, you won’t see her a second time.

Make sure that you don’t ruin all your achievements from the approaching phase by telling her some random stuff while you are sitting in a café with her.

There are better things you can do than telling an Asian girl that you like her cute little eyes, or convincing a black girl that you love the fact that she is not so ghetto.

ghetto meme

 

7. You are Different than the Other Girls

This is a powerful sentence and definitely one of the best compliments for girls who you already got to know a little bit better. Every person on this god damn planet wants to be special. Especially the members of the Generation Y are obsessed with the thought that they are a special snowflake. Telling a woman that she is this special snowflake for you is incredibly powerful.

crazy woman

I am sure she is different, but is she really the special snowflake you are looking for?

 

 

Use this compliment to address her personality features and her behavior. Tell her that she is more caring, more intelligent and more eloquent than other girls. Those are the kind of words she will love you for.

 

8. Every Time I Look at You I Have to Smile

One of the best compliments for a girl that guarantees a red face with a big smile is that you tell them how much she makes you smile. Telling a woman that she makes you smile whenever you look at her can mean so many positive things.

You might smile when you see her, because looking at her reminds you that you have such a beautiful girl in your life. You might smile when you see her, because you think of all the amazing moments you had together. You might smile whenever you see her because her presence makes you happy.

smiling batman

 

Whatever the true reason for this compliment is, she will interpret all the above mentioned aspects in your words.

Telling a girl that she makes you smile has the power to make her smile and to make her fall for you.

 

9. I Wouldn’t Change a Single Thing About You

I have never met a girl who wouldn’t at least change a small thing about herself if she could. Every girl and especially the really beautiful ones have issues with how they look. A woman always thinks that she is too fat, or that her are too small and her nose is too big.

Women don’t think that they are perfect.

What if you tell a girl that she is perfect for you?

happy woman smiling

Awwww! He thinks I am perfect…

 

Tell her that you wouldn’t change a single thing about her and she will melt in your hands. By telling her that she is perfect the way she is, you take away all her insecurities with a couple of words.

A guy who tells her that she is perfect must be perfect for her.

 

10. Do You Know What I like Most About You? Your Intelligence!

Telling a girl that you love her intelligence doesn’t have to get across as phony or inauthentic. When I tell my girlfriend that I appreciate the fact that she is not one of those dumb girls who don’t even know if Obama is the president of the United States of America or the leader of Al-Qaeda, I really mean it.

Tell her that you respect and appreciate her for the fact that she is more intelligent than the average girl.

retarded girl

“You like my intelelligence? Sweeeet!”

 

Now she knows the reason why you date her and not one of the brain-dead party chicks who drink away their pain and their brain cells every weekend.

Knowing that you want her and not those blond bimbos will make her trust you even more.

 

11. I Can Talk About Everything With You

What’s one of the best compliments for a girl when you want to communicate trust, appreciation and love at the same time?

Tell her that you feel that you can talk about everything with her.

This little sentence shows her that you trust her, otherwise you wouldn’t tell her everything. It also shows her that you appreciate her for the conversations you have and it shows her that you love the time you spend with her.

From all the best compliments you can tell women, this one is the nuclear bomb.

young relaxed couple

 

How would you feel if you had a beautiful girlfriend you can talk about everything with ?

Read chapter 5 and you’ll know how amazing it feels…

 

Summed Up Wisdom

What are the best compliments for a girl? Instead of telling every girl you approach that she is beautiful, you should try to come up with some more creative and uncommon compliments. In my experience telling a woman that she is gorgeous has a lot more power than simply saying that she is beautiful.

Appreciating a woman’s feminine and confident walk is also something that she doesn’t hear every day. When you then also tell her that you like how her style represents her personality, she won’t be able to stop gaping. Let her know that you are attracted to her charisma and in case she has really beautiful hair, you shouldn’t keep that a secret. Maybe there is something about her that you can’t explain. Let her know with enthusiasm and a fascinated “wow”.

Knowing about the best compliments for a girl and putting them into practice when you approach women is great, but it was all for nothing if you tell her on your first date that she reminds you of your mother. Instead of saying ridiculous stuff like that you should tell her that she is different than other women and that she makes you smile whenever you look at her. Appreciating her physical features is good but appreciating her intelligence is even better. Once you have told her that she is perfect the way she is and that you have the feeling that you can talk about everything with her, she will melt in your hands.

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What are the best compliments for a girl? Saying “hi” and smiling like a drunk dog won’t magically put her number in your phone.
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Comments

  1. Sebastian Harris says

    May 12, 2019 at 9:40 pm

    Awesome!

  2. Daniel says

    April 24, 2019 at 7:57 pm

    i like how you do this, it really helps me and i’m 16!!!

  3. Daniel says

    April 24, 2019 at 7:56 pm

    the lord has put chalenges in youre life for a reason, dont just fall apart and say “i cant do this” or “i give up” you should be thankful of the women you know and if youre in the right place doing the right things for the right reasons, then it will work out.

  4. Danny says

    December 9, 2018 at 1:15 pm

    Anonymous Guy, Find a new way to compliment them, don’t be emasculated, there are still women who want to be women, ask Lord God to show you.

  5. Stevjohn says

    October 29, 2018 at 6:18 am

    The ‘anonymous’ guy is exaggerating.

  6. Sebastian Harris says

    March 5, 2018 at 4:42 pm

    Yeah, as a German I can’t understand what’s going on in the USA. It’s insane.

  7. Anonymous says

    March 2, 2018 at 1:56 pm

    I’m afraid to compliment women in any way. I don’t want to be accused of sexual harassment or of being culturally insensitive or something like that. Male bosses now will not be left alone with a female employee. At some colleges, including Berkeley, they’re saying that even asking a woman for a date is sexual harassment. Some women are even offended if you tell them they’re attractive. Men are being emasculated in America and are even becoming afraid to even approach women. Women in our culture had better get very used to always making the first move.

  8. Sebastian Harris says

    February 14, 2018 at 8:07 pm

    Thanks Darlington

  9. Darlington N. Kilay says

    February 13, 2018 at 8:03 am

    These compliments really help .

  10. Sebastian Harris says

    January 29, 2018 at 5:48 pm

    Wow…I didn’t expect a comment like that. I guess my compliments are also good for poetry.

  11. Ashlyn G Cornelius says

    January 29, 2018 at 12:39 pm

    Alright… i am a female and i have a girlfriend i write her poetry every week and this site really helped that you sooooooooo much

  12. Sebastian Harris says

    December 17, 2017 at 6:03 pm

    Hey Bhart,
    I’m glad that I could help you

  13. Bhart Oberoi says

    December 16, 2017 at 10:31 am

    Thank you soo much
    You just helped me and you have written it so well

  14. Sebastian Harris says

    October 28, 2017 at 6:20 pm

    Hey Chu Nam,

    thanks a lot for your comment!

  15. Chu Nam says

    October 27, 2017 at 8:39 pm

    There are many great ideas in your article.
    I also have some things to share with everyone about what I used to do.
    I tell the truth about the issues that the girl said, or what happened to the girl.
    I pay attention to the girl and always think about the positive things, even she only has normal things but she can do something good that deserves to receive her compliments fom me.
    For example, young girl and look like a little girl had learn to drive car. Or, the girl is going to work while attending a high school. Or compliment she is very friendly in communication and she is really good girl.
    There are many things to compliment a girl if we are honest, think positive and focus on make funny things.
    I also wrote a post about the topic.

  16. Sebastian Harris says

    September 19, 2017 at 8:40 am

    thanks!

  17. Eashak SAMIR says

    September 17, 2017 at 1:38 pm

    Excellent and decent post. I found this much informative. I’m impressed by the details that you have on this web site. Thank you for this post.

  18. Sebastian Harris says

    August 26, 2017 at 2:41 am

    Thanks Thomas!

  19. Thomas says

    August 21, 2017 at 8:58 am

    Great post! Have nice day ! 🙂

  20. HANZE says

    July 17, 2017 at 7:54 pm

    This will make her heart melt:

    When someone tells you that angels only exist in heaven.. Yet here I am chatting/talking with one.

  21. Sebastian Harris says

    July 14, 2017 at 4:15 am

    Happy to help

  22. Waseem Khan says

    July 11, 2017 at 7:47 am

    this article is very helpful i was a bit confused how to deal her on my first date but you solved my problem

  23. Sebastian Harris says

    May 4, 2017 at 12:37 am

    He Smilodon,
    I would try it with a compliment that doesn’t focus on her physical beauty, but on her energy or the way she walks, or her confident appearance. These are the things that she hasn’t heard before.

  24. Smilodon says

    May 2, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    This article was informative and good for average women. But what about stunners, model types, tens. I know people say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But some women know they look above average because every guy they’ve come across has told them so. What do you say to a woman who’s heard it all before? As impossible as that may seem. An early thirties, well traveled, no nonsense, no games, last sibling left to get married, independent woman looking for a life partner.

  25. Upen says

    February 24, 2017 at 2:49 am

    Being humble , polite , way of expressing and approaching, your body language, dressing sense, along with compliment is going to work before rejection ?

  26. Sebastian Harris says

    February 17, 2017 at 7:10 am

    Hey Dylan,
    I wrote an article about how to avoid the friendzone. Check it out.

  27. Dylan Banis says

    February 16, 2017 at 4:00 am

    Hey, your tips are great but what should I do if the girl is my friend and friend zoning even though I used all your compliments.

  28. Sebastian Harris says

    November 29, 2016 at 8:07 pm

    Hey Rambo,
    make it as personal as you can. And use the advice I shared with you in this article 😉

  29. Rambo says

    November 28, 2016 at 8:28 am

    Hey I need some help. I’m trying to create some really special complements for a girl that is special to me. I could really use some help right now

  30. Sebastian Harris says

    November 5, 2016 at 10:41 am

    Hey Chu,
    specific compliments are always better, but it’s also okay to show a bit nervousness. It’s better to be a nervous guy who approaches than a nervous guy who doesn’t take action.

  31. Chu Kem says

    November 3, 2016 at 9:52 am

    Getting the attention of a woman is not exactly easy sometimes. But one thing that is going to help you gain the upper hand is simple, compliments. However, you cannot just learn how to compliment a girl on the fly. You could, but you’ll have a lot of rejections. Compliments only go so far, and you have to focus on simple elements moving forward. When you consider a few things, you will be able to not only get their attention, but win their affection.
    First and foremost, when you’re serious about learning how to compliment a girl, then you need to go to a mirror and start speaking. You need to clearly speak, and enunciate things that you would say to a girl that you want to gain affection from.
    As you move forward, you will need to have a very specific compliment to say. Focus on something that they are wearing, something that they may have said, or are drinking at a bar. Do not be generic.
    Be confidence with what you’re saying and how you’re saying it. Do not just spew it out, don’t show nervousness, make sure that you are confidence.

  32. Sebastian Harris says

    October 14, 2016 at 3:07 am

    Glad to hear that.

  33. andycooper says

    October 14, 2016 at 2:00 am

    I like your hair works the magic………I have used it before and its good to find it here too

  34. Sebastian Harris says

    July 14, 2016 at 2:44 am

    I have written an article on that. Just type “topics to talk to” in the search bar above.

  35. maweeliye says

    July 12, 2016 at 8:00 am

    hy, thanks for the tips.

    very usefull but i dont have any problems when it comes to complements or approaching girls; i do it confidently but i run out of words and confidence when she accepts me.

    hope u can give me some usefull tips.
    thanks. ”

  36. maweeliye says

    July 12, 2016 at 7:56 am

    hy, thanks for the tips.

    very usefull but i don’t have any problems when it comes to complements or approaching girls, i do it confidently but i run out of words and confidence when she accepts me.

    hope u can give me some usefull tips.
    thanks. ”

  37. Sebastian Harris says

    July 6, 2016 at 10:02 am

    Hey Nalu,

    the best way to continue the conversation is by making assumptions about her. For example “you look like an adventurous girl. I bet you love traveling”.

  38. Nalu says

    July 5, 2016 at 3:53 pm

    Hey quick question. I have the balls to approach women and directly compliment them but i am still a little fogging on what to do after she smiles and says thank you and I shake her hand and we exchange names.

  39. Sebastian Harris says

    June 18, 2016 at 8:14 pm

    Glad to hear that Steve.

  40. steve says

    June 18, 2016 at 5:30 pm

    yo thanks for the tips…they’ve been really helpful…

  41. Sebastian Harris says

    June 7, 2016 at 12:32 pm

    you are welcome

  42. BOB says

    June 5, 2016 at 5:49 am

    Very useful … I will field test one or two and get back to you… Many thanks for taking the time to compile these and sharing ….

  43. Sebastian Harris says

    April 3, 2016 at 9:07 am

    You are welcome

  44. Kp says

    April 2, 2016 at 5:22 am

    Thank u soo much..

  45. Sebastian Harris says

    August 16, 2015 at 9:00 am

    thanks a lot!

  46. Vanessatan says

    August 15, 2015 at 8:14 am

    Your post is detailed and different from many other articles about this topic. Well, I think complimenting a girl and making her feel that compliment natural and sincere is not easy. Most men often compliment girls for their appearance, yet it becomes too common. I love your 6th, 7th, and 11th compliments. That sounds sincere but still highly appreciated by girls. Anyway, thanks for your helpful post.
    To men, I also like the compliment like “I love talking with you”, “I love the way you think”. And, I also have some tips to naturally compliment a girl, hope that you find it interesting.

  47. Sebastian Harris says

    March 3, 2015 at 8:59 am

    If you know her a little bit better those compliments are great. As long as you don’t say “my princess” in a very needy way.

  48. ForestGump38 says

    March 1, 2015 at 9:01 pm

    And what do you think about giving a compliment in the form of a nickname, like “princess” ? (“my pretty” seems creepy in my opinion…but i may be wrong)

  49. Sebastian Harris says

    February 24, 2015 at 9:54 pm

    I know that it was a joke 😉 I don’t know how it sounds in French but I guess you are good to go.

  50. ForestGump38 says

    February 24, 2015 at 12:18 pm

    The last one was just a joke, referring to your compliment ” every time i look at you i have to smile ” 😉
    okay so i screwed up with that compliment…
    what about the second one ?

  51. Sebastian Harris says

    February 24, 2015 at 8:33 am

    If she has a good humor you can do it, but I know that a lot of Asian girls are sick of “the exotic eye” compliment. The last compliment you just listed can be uses at a later stage 😉

  52. ForestGump38 says

    February 20, 2015 at 9:03 am

    Would you say that talking to an asian girl about her eyes is just that not original or is it a major mistake ?

    ” Your hair are sweeter than a cloud ” (while having my hand in her hair, sound better in french 😉 )
    Which is the true for the one Asian girl that i know.

    ” Every time i look at you my dick has to get hard ” Just kidding…

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