What are the most powerful first date questions that you could possibly ask a girl?
In case you don’t have a lot of dating experience I simply assume that going on dates is not the easiest thing in the world for you. For a lot of guys, especially the ones who are not used to having several dates a week, meeting a girl for the first time is a very nerve-racking experience.
The five or ten minutes you talked to her before you got her phone number were stressful enough, but if you think about how you can possibly get through two hours sitting next to her, your heart starts to race.
However, I am sure that the following fact will calm you down:
While you think about what to say, she worries about whether she is too fat, too skinny, to pale, too loud, too shy and too smelly. Yes, women think about such stuff. In fact, there are so any other weird things women think about…especially when it comes to sex.
However, there is one thought that women have to cope with before every date that has nothing to do with them. When it comes to going on dates the biggest fear of a woman is to waste her time with a guy who asks them the same boring questions as anyone else.
To give you a few examples of what you should NOT ask her:
“Could you find it?” Duh! Otherwise she wouldn’t be there!
“Where shall we go?” Are you a leader or a follower?
“sooo…where do we start?” You are the man. It’s your job to start the conversation!
Instead of destroying the sexual energy right from the start by asking those shitty questions I want you to succeed on your dates. The next girl you go ona date with deserves to hear the right questons from the right guy.
Some of these questions will appear counterintuitive, but I can guarantee you that she’ll regard you as a self-confident, adventurous and interesting man that she would love to spend more time with, after you asked her one or two of them.
Of course there are also some questions that you might want to keep for yourself…
1. Why Are You Late?
In case you have already been on quite a few dates in your life you know that a lot of women show up late.
Some show up one hour too late and others only two minutes. When a girl belongs to the first category I usually leave the venue before the date. You should do the same if that happens to you.
This behavior is too disrespectful to cope with.
If she, however, belongs to the second group of girls and she is only a couple of minutes late, it is still okay. Just don’t make the mistake and think that it wasn’t on purpose, even if she says that she is “so sorry”.
If she wanted to be on time she would have been on time. The reason why women show up late is because they want to test you. This can be a very good thing, at least when you know how to handle the test. Showing up late for a couple of minutes is an ambivalent behavior. On the one hand, she wants to see if you are man enough to address this issue, on the other hand she doesn’t want to exaggerate it because she is scared of losing you. That’s the sweet spot.
One of the simplest first date questions you can ask in this situation is:
“Why are you late?”
Just don’t ask her in an angry and upset way. This would only show that you are a weak little pussy who feels insulted. Ask her this question in a calm and objective way, wait for her response and tell her afterwards that you hope that she will be on time when you meet her again.
By doing this you communicate that you are a confident man who has his boundaries and who doesn’t want to play games. You also let her know that you want to see her again. This combination will impress her.
2. Is it Okay if We Go to X?
What does the X stand for? Nope, I am neither talking about Malcolm X nor about the X Men. The X simply stands for any place YOU want to take her to.
Do you know why I wrote the word YOU in big letters?
Because it is absolutely crucial (at least if you want her to respect you) that YOU think about a dating venue before you go on a date with her. Despite the propaganda of our society, women hate nothing more than taking over the leadership role. One of the worst first date questions you can ask a woman is “where should we go?”
You are the man and you lead. It is your job to decide to which place you go.
Of course you shouldn’t drag her to a Chinese restaurant if she is allergic to rice and soy sauce.
That’s why the best thing you can do is to choose a few possible dating venues in advance and then ask her if she is okay with going there.
Start with your favorite and if you have to, you can ask her three times if she is okay with going there. The reason why this question is one of the most powerful first date questions that you can possibly ask is because it combines leadership qualities with the interest in her opinion.
3. Are You also Worried that This Will Be a Typical Date?
When it comes to dates one of the biggest fears of women is that it will be as boring as the last ten dates she went on.
The last thing she wants is the same boring questions, the same boring topics and the same boring procedure. Luckily for her, her next date will be with you, a guy who read this article before meeting her. You know which first date questions you should avoid like the plague and which ones you should definitely ask her.
We’ve all been on terrible dates. This fear is completely rational. I know women who get attacks of sweating when you just mention the word date. Unfortunately, a lot of guys just hope that they are not boring and that the things they do bring them closer to her vagina.
You don’t have to make it harder than it has to be.
The best thing you can do is to address the elephant in the room and ask her if she is also worried that this will be a typical date. The moment you ask her this question she will become more relaxed and her tense face will transform into a big smile.
This is one of the first date questions that take away all her worries. The moment you ask her this simple question she instantly knows that you have the same worries when it comes to dating and that you must be different than the other guys she dated before.
4. Do You like to Play Games?
If you could choose between two types of girls, which one would you seduce, date and have sex with:
- You can either decide to spend your time outside and inside the bedroom with a serious woman who thinks that laughing is for stupid people and who is more uncreative than Kanye West has been during the production of his latest album.
- Alternatively, you can choose to spend your time with a girl who loves to joke around and who is more playful than a child in a candy store.
I know which type of girl I would choose and if you want to have an exciting date and a good chance of having amazing sex, you should also choose the playful girl instead of the serious one.
How do you find out if a girl is playful or not?
By asking her one of the simplest first date questions:
“Do you like playing games?”
There are two good reasons you should ask this question.
On the one hand, a girl who is really playful will answer this question very enthusiastically, whereas a girl who just pretends to be playful won’t be able to hide the truth. On the other hand, you can use the information you get from this first date question for the further dating process.
In case you are spending time with a playful girl you can spice up the date with different games. If she isn’t playful you shouldn’t do that. To be honest, you probably shouldn’t even be there.
5. What Would You do if You Would be a Millionaire?
Do you want to have a girlfriend who loves to sit around and do nothing all day?
Do you want to have a girlfriend who has no interests, passion and goals in life?
In case you answer those questions with “no” you should better find out if the girl you are dating is interested in self-actualization or if you are wasting your time with a lazy little princess.
In order to find this out you have to test her. Of course every girl will lie to your face if you ask her the wrong first date questions. You can ask her if she is very energetic or rather lazy but I promise you that if she is really lazy, she won’t be honest to you. Instead of asking directly for those qualities you can ask a playful question that seems innocent, but reveals a lot about her personality.
“What would you do if you would be a millionaire?”
In my experience you generally get two types of answers.
You either have a girl who doesn’t think about the question and tells you that she would just go shopping all day and party all night.
On the other hand, it is possible that the girl you are asking this question takes some time to think and tells you about all the amazing things that she would do if money wasn’t an object.
After this first date question it should be clear if you want to go on a second date with her or not.
6. How is Your Relationship with Your Parents?
Unless the girl you are dating had a tragic childhood and lost both her parents, she still has a father and a mother. Even if the last thing that you want is to get to know are her parents, you should ask her about her relationship with them.
One of the most important first date questions is:
“How is your relationship with your parents?”
The relationship with her mother is secondary. It is way more important to find out about her relationship with her father.
It is no secret that women always choose their boyfriends based on the personality traits of their fathers. It might sound a bit creepy, but the majority of women end up dating guys who look exactly like their fathers on old pictures.
The best thing that can happen to you is when she tells you that she loves her father and that she has a very close relationship with him.
The likelihood that she had happy and supportive relationships in the past and therefore a healthy opinion of men is very high.
In case this little question changes her mood and she starts swearing, you know that the relationship with her father is anything but good. As a consequence, the relationships with her past boyfriends were probably anything but supportive and her opinion of men is also irreparable. If you meet such a girl she will probably cut her hair at some point and post man-hating paroles on Twitter. Run!
7. What’s the Most Adventurous Thing You have Ever Done?
I am a very adventurous guy. I love to travel the world in search of beautiful girls and to experience incredible sexual adventures on the road. Due to the fact that you landed on my website I assume that you are also adventurous, or that you at least want to become more adventurous.
Then you are probably also interested in seducing adventurous girls. I hope I don’t have to tell you that a girl who is adventurous outside the bedroom is also adventurous inside the bedroom.
How do you find out if she’s the girl you are looking for? By asking her!
Don’t just ask her “are you adventurous?” No girl will ever answer this question with “no, if I am really honest I am boring as fuck.”
By asking her about the most adventurous thing she has ever done you force her to tell you about a concrete experience. She simply hasn’t enough time to make up a story and if she would try it, you’d most likely detect the lie.
If she, however, smiles and tells you a story about how she and her friends got naked and jumped into a freezing cold lake (a girl really told me this exact story), you not only imagine her naked, but you also know that having her in the sheets should be fun.
8. What’s the Naughtiest Thing You have Ever Done?
Let’s take the previous question to the next level. Now that you know whether or not she is adventurous you should also find out if she is sexually open. No, it is not too straightforward to ask this question. Remember that you are on this date to find out if you want to fuck her her and she is on this date to find out if she wants to get fucked by you.
If she would want a pen friendship she wouldn’t have dressed up in a way that emphasizes her juicy tits and her delicious ass.
By simply asking her about the naughtiest thing she has ever done you not only find out about how open she is about her sexuality, you also show her that you are confident with your sexuality. Every woman is attracted to a sexually confident man. This is one of the first date questions that reveal quite frankly how she ticks.
A woman who starts to giggle, who gets red and who is totally overwhelmed with such a question won’t bang you like a pornstar (unless she hides it very well). A woman who reacts calm and tells you about a kinky experience she had, is most likely very open to relive this experience.
9. Do You Want to Get a Drink at My Place before I Kick You Out?
Now we come to one of the most important first date questions that you should ask her at the end of the date. At the end of a date a lot of men are too nervous and too scared to do what they actually want to do.
What you want to do is to kiss her, to ask her if she wants to get a drink back at your place and to undress her as soon as you are at your apartment. What you do instead is to (hopefully) kiss her and to say “thank you for the nice evening” before you go home alone while thinking about the next date.
What if I tell you that (if you have kissed her), the chances that she fantasizes about coming back to your place and sucking your dick are extremely high?
Don’t miss the goal without goalkeeper.
One of the first date questions that will eventually get you laid is:
“Do you want to get a drink at my place before I kick you out?”
The last part of the question is extremely important. It communicates to her that you don’t want her to spend the night with you and that you only go back for a quick drink. If she has sex with you it just happened and nobody can label her as a slut with bad intentions. Do yourself a favor and consider this female logic before you ask her.
10. And the Most Important First Date Question: Do You Take the Pill?
Let’s say you asked her if she wants to come back to your place for a couple of minutes and she said “yes”. As soon as you close the door, you start to kiss and to undress her. The moment you arrive in your bedroom you are both naked and ready for a night of passionate and rough sex.
You may or may not know it but when a woman gets really horny her logical mind switches off and her animal instincts take over the thinking.
No matter how careful she usually is in her normal state, she won’t care about anything else than having your dick inside her when she is really turned on.
That’s why it is never wrong to ask her one of the most important first date questions before you put your penis inside her vagina:
“Do you take the pill?”
If you forget to ask her this question you might regret it for the rest of your life…
…or if you are dumb enough to believe her and you go to war without your most impotant weapons.
oh…and have you ever wondered what women want to ask you on the first date?
Summed Up Wisdom
Ask her why she is late. Ask her if she wants to go to the place that you chose. Ask her if she is also scared that this will be a typical date. Ask her if she likes to play games. Ask her what she would do if she would be a millionaire. Ask her about the relationship with her parents (especially with her father). Ask her about the most adventurous thing she has ever done and the naughtiest thing she has ever done. Ask her if she wants to go back to your place and ask her if she takes the pill…
…just don’t be naive enough to believe her.