Are you ready to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you? Maybe there is a cute girl who you see every day on your way to work and the only thing you can think of is how you can make her your girlfriend. Maybe you have been on a date with an interesting and adventurous girl and even though you just know her since a few days you can’t stop thinking of her.
All you want is to be the man she falls in love with.
No matter what situation you are in at the moment, the following lines will provide you with an answer to your question. I have applied everything I am going to share with you in this article in my life. As a result of learning how to make a woman fall in love with me, I was able to seduce the most amazing girl I could ever imagine.
She is everything I ever wanted and she even fulfills the one need that no woman can ever fulfill on her own. She loves me so unconditionally that she allows me to do everything I want when I am not with her. That’s the combination of true love and freedom that so many men crave for but never experience.
Maybe you are not even interested in living in such a relationship and the only reason why you want to learn how to seduce women is because you want to end up in a relationship with the love of your life.
If you really want that, more power to you!
You wouldn’t be the first man who begins his journey as a Global Seducer with the goal to have sex with exotic women from every county in the world, just to end up living the life of his dreams with the love of his life on a remote island in the Philippines.
Whatever kind of relationship you want to have and whoever the lucky girl will be, I am 100% sure that you want to be together with a girl who loves you unconditionally. In order to experience this feeling of unconditional love you have to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you.
Overcome Popular Misconceptions about Falling in Love
Before I am going to share dozens of practical tips with you that make her fall for you within seconds of knowing you, I shortly want to talk about three popular misconceptions that you have to overcome if you want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you.
Unfortunately, this topic is not only one of the most important ones for men and women all over the world, but also one of the most misunderstood concepts of human nature. Besides believing that jealousy and love belong together, there are other misconceptions that will hinder your intent to end up with the perfect girl.
Love Has to be Dramatic
In case you have ever seen any romantic Hollywood movie, there is a 99% chance that you think that love has to be dramatic. You might not even believe it on a conscious level but whenever you meet a woman and you don’t feel a rush of emotions streaming through your body, you automatically assume that she is not the right girl for you.
People who always talk themselves into believing that they are in love will say that they have butterflies in their stomach and people who know what it really means to be in love will interpret this feeling as nothing but a harmless gastrointestinal disease.
Since we are young we are conditioned through movies and music that the process of falling in love involves pain, suffering, tears and an incredible feeling of joy when it is finally time for the happy end.
In most movies you see a guy who is unhappy in love and who has to go through a lot of drama in form of jealousy, cheating and intrigues, until he can finally hold the love of his life in his arms.
All this bullshit makes us believe that we have to experience an emotional rollercoaster ride.
Don’t make the mistake and assume that she is not in love with you, just because you don’t experience this kind of drama. Not every girl who falls in love with you needs to cry whenever she sees you.
Even though love involves a lot of emotions, the truth is that the process of falling in love can be a very calm, quiet and unspectacular process.
Love Makes You Happy
I respect that you want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you, but at the same time I hope that filling a whole in your heart is not the reason why you want to learn it. If you want to learn it because you want to have the ability to attract the girl of your dreams into your life and if you want to be prepared for the day you will meet this girl, you should continue to read.
If you, however, hope that attracting and keeping an amazing woman will finally make you happy, you are heading towards an impass.
Not only will you have a really hard time making a woman fall in love with you if you are not happy with who you are and with where you are at in your life, but your plan to become happy as soon as you have the right girl will also fail miserably.
I know it sounds corny but it is true that the only person who can make you happy is yourself. The foundation of true happiness comes from within and no material possession and no human possession aka a girl who belongs to you can replace this inner contentment.
Of course knowing how to make a woman fall in love with you and finding the love of your life as a result can increase your happiness level, but you are the one who has to provide the foundation that allows her to fall for you in the first place.
Love Will Magically Show Up
Another popular misconception that you have to get out of your mind is that love will simply show up. It is true that the girl you will end up falling in love with might simply show up, but she won’t just fall in love with you, the moment she will look you in the eyes.
Love at first sight is nothing but an illusion that is often used in order to express an initial feeling of sexual attraction and fascination for another human being. If you really want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you, you have to be willing to do more than standing there and looking at her.
Love will show up, but only if you allow it to show up.
How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You: The Internal Process
What are the things that you have to do besides looking at her? Well, unless you don’t have the x-ray vision of Superman you should first of all work on becoming a man who allows women to fall in love with him.
I can’t even tell you how many men I met who told me that they don’t believe in love.
They are convinced that it doesn’t exist and that only idiots believe in it. After they shared their inner beliefs about themselves and about women with me, I didn’t wonder why they have never dated a girl who felt in love with them.
Don’t be one of those guys who force women to NOT fall in love with them, by sabotaging your own belief system.
Learn to Love Yourself
Have you ever heard the saying that you can only love someone when you love yourself?
This is true but if you modify this saying a little bit it becomes even more powerful for your future dating success.
You can only make someone fall in love with you if you love yourself.
Can I get a “hello there”!
No woman wants to be in your life if you don’t even want to be in your own life. No woman wants to be with you if you don’t want to be the person you are.
She can only be attracted to you if you are attractive. A man who hates himself and his life can never be attractive, no matter with how many designer clothes he tries to conceal the painful truth. Once you have developed the feeling of self-love, learning how to make a woman fall in love with you will be a walk in the park.
Learn to Love Women
Do you love women? If not, how can you expect that any woman will fall in love with you? I have met a lot of sexually frustrated guys who have never been in love in their whole life and they all had the same attitude towards women.
Some of them said that they hate women, others didn’t like them very much and none of them loved them.
That’s definitely not the right attitude to make a woman fall for you.
Do you think you could fall in love with a woman who obviously doesn’t like men? Just look into the eyes of one of those angry hardcore feminist that you see on TV and tell me if you could ever fall in love with the woman you see. Unless you have severe psychological damages your answer would be “hell no!!!”
A woman who looks you in the eyes and sees a guy who doesn’t like women will think the same thing when she asks herself if she could imagine falling in love with you.
What if you still have problems with loving women?
Allow Love in Your Life
Do you allow yourself to attract women who will fall in love with you? I know that it might sound weird but I have met a lot of guys who only pretended to be interested in learning how to make a woman fall in love, just to see them sabotage themselves as soon as they had the chance to end up in a relationship with a woman who truly loved them.
I was one of those guys.
After I came home from my coaching with Sasha Daygame, I promised myself to never fall in love again. Deep down I wanted to have relationships with women who I loved and who loved me, but whenever I met a girl who fell for me I ran faster than the road runner.
On the one hand, I wanted to avoid ending up in the same position that I saw myself trapped in before I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. I wasn’t ready to focus all my sexual energy on one woman. On the other hand, I was conditioned by the pick-up community and the alpha movement in the manosphere that basically labeled every man who allowed love in his life as a weak beta male.
It was only about one year ago when I finally broke free from those hindering beliefs and allowed the feeling of love in my life. It was about that time when I met my current girlfriend. I don’t feel trapped, I don’t see myself forced to focus all my sexual energy on one woman and I don’t feel like a weak beta male.
If you really want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you, you have to allow yourself to meet and attract the woman who will love you.
How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You: It’s All about Emotions
Making a woman fall in love with you is all about triggering the right emotions in her. Even though a lot of men try to logically convince women to fall in love with them, she will only fall for you if it feels right for her.
You can try to impress her as much as you want but even if you tell her a hundred times that you are a great guy with a great job and a big car, she still won’t fall in love with you if she doesn’t have the feeling that you are the right guy for her.
What do you have to do in order to give her the feeling that you are the right guy for her?
Do Things that Make Her Feel in Love
The number one thing you have to do is to do things that cause an emotional reaction in her. However, you don’t just want any emotional reaction. Even though fear and the feeling of dependency can be quite powerful to keep another human being in your life, you want to avoid such negative feelings at all cost.
You want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you and not how to control an emotional fragile woman while destroying her and your life. The emotions that you want to trigger are the feelings like happiness, joy, security, trust and protection. You want her to feel in love, as soon as she sees you.
Let Her Know that You are Open for Her Love
Besides causing emotional reactions in her and making her feel in love, you also want to communicate through your actions that you are open for love. If a woman has the feeling that the only thing you are looking for is a one night stand or a sexual relationship that involves no feeling, she will do everything she can to avoid falling in love with you.
You might still end up in bed with her but you will have a hard time to end up in her heart.
If she, however, has the feeling that you see her as the woman you want to make your girlfriend, you give her the security she needs to allow herself to fall for you.
Practical Tips to Make a Woman Fall in Love With You
You have to trigger positive emotions in women and you should give her the feeling of love whenever she sees you. You also have to communicate that you are open for love and you have to give her the security she needs. In theory that sounds good, but what concrete steps can you take in a practical context to put all of this into practice?
Let’s have a look at the specific things that you can do from the moment you meet a girl to the moment she tells you that she love you while she has tears in her eyes.
Make the First Move
The first thing that you need to consider when you want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you is that women will only fall for a man when they are convinced that he is self-confident enough to make the first move.
Women fall in love with men, not with pussies who happen to have a dick. If you won’t make the first move and approach the girl you are interested in, she won’t respect you and she won’t have the positive feelings when she sees you that she needs in order to fall for you.
Being the needy dork who humiliates himself until the gorgeous model finally realizes that he is the love of her life is a concept that only works in movies but not in real life.
The reality is that woman can’t feel safe and secure with a guy who doesn’t even have the courage to talk to her.
Too bad that those are the emotions that she needs to feel in order to see you as her lover. Make the first move and give her such an impressive compliment that she already thinks about bearing your babies after she talked to you for five minutes.
Be Honest about Everything
How do you show a woman who you are open for love?
How do you give her the feelings of trust?
By openly communicating to her that you are ready for love and by being honest about everything.
How can you communicate to her that you are ready for love without sounding like a pathetic wimp?
Instead of telling her that you hope that she is the love of your life while you try to hold back your tears, you simply tell her that you don’t know what the future brings. Let her know that you don’t know whether this thing between you and her will be friendship, a short passionate fling or the beginning of a love story.
In the same way you should also be honest about everything else. Of course being mysterious is attractive but if there is something she wants to know in order to trust you 100%, you should not hesitate to share it with her.
Show Your Vulnerability
If you want to know how to make a woman fall in love with you and if you are ready to reveal everything she wants to know, you also have to be willing to reveal the parts of you that you don’t really want to reveal. Women are not used to men who show their vulnerable side, because many guys are scared that she will see this as a weakness.
The truth is that a woman will only truly be able to fall in love with you, if you allow her to see beyond the surface.
Women are drawn towards guys who have the courage to share their positive, but also their negative experiences with them. Being the first guy she ever met who is man enough to show his vulnerable side will force her to fall for you.
The moment you lie in bed with her and tell her about your deepest fears will be the moment where she loses her heart to you.
Listen and Respond
If you want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you, you should learn how to listen. A lot of men never do it and even more of them don’t care about the words a woman says.
This is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
And if you don’t believe me that listening to women can make her fall for you, you might believe my colleague Tripp:
Listening to her gives her the feeling that you respect her and her opinion and that you truly want to get to know her. As a little bonus she will tell you everything you have to know in order to make her yours.
When a woman is just slightly attracted to you, she will give you countless hints that can help you to seduce her. Don’t ignore those verbal hints. Act upon them and cause the positive emotions in her that she wants to feel.
The Little Things
Sometimes the little things have the most influence. Despite the fact that movies tend to portray falling in love as one big boom that suddenly shakes your world, the truth is that falling for another person is a process that happens in small steps. In the same way ass success in every other area of your life won’t happen overnight, success in love won’t happen within a few seconds.
Every little thing you do and every habit that triggers positive feelings in her will make her want you more.
Tell her that she looks absolutely gorgeous in her new dress. Hold her hand in a romantic moment. Lay your jacket around her when she is freezing. Hug her when she has a bad day. Let her know that you are there for her when she feels lonely.
Each one of those things alone might only make her smile for a few seconds but this smile can then make her feel even more comfortable when you hug her the next time. All those little things add up and have the power to eventually make her fall for you.
Be the Lover, Not the Love-Seeker
In case you are serious about learning how to make a woman fall in love with you, you have to stop being a love-seeker and start being a lover. The love-seeker is a person who desperately looks for love without ever finding it. Every day he hopes to find the one who will finally make him happy. Of course this day will never come.
The lover, on the other hand, is a creator. He doesn’t look for love and he also doesn’t hope that this wonderful feeling will magically come to him. In contradiction to the love-seeker he is not passive but active. He purposefully creates chances that promise him the feeling he desires.
He knows that love is something you have to work for and not something that you get served on a silver platter. Whenever he meets a woman he does everything to give her positive emotions.
This also includes emotions that are caused by sexual escalation.
Whereas the love-seeker is afraid of losing the woman he wants to end up in a relationship with by being too forward, the lover is not afraid of touching and kissing her, because he knows that sexuality is an important component of love.
Give Her the Best Sex She Ever Had
I know that Disney as our major opinion leader in the matter of love propagates love as a romantic fairytale without touching and tongue kissing, but reality is different. In reality you are too old and too intelligent to believe this crap. You are ready for the truth.
You are ready to hear that one of the best ways to make a woman fall for you is by giving her the best sex she ever had.
If you fuck her better than the guys she had before you, chances are high that she will have stronger feelings for you than she had for the guys who she had sex with before she met you.
At this point it shouldn’t shock you that sex has such a power over a woman’s feelings for you. Every trick I shared with you up to now has the purpose to give her positive feelings, such as security, trust, happiness, comfort, protection and joy.
If there is one thing that combines all those emotions it is sex. Great sex can make a woman feel alive, secure, happy and protected at the same time. Depending on how much empathy and passion you add to your lovemaking, you also communicate that you are open for love.
In case you really want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you, you have to be willing to work on your lovemaking skills. I know it is not a romantic end but if you consider everything I shared with you up to now and then give her the best sex she ever had, she will fall in love with you.
How would you feel if you had the most loving and caring girlfriend who loves you unconditionally?
Summed Up Wisdom
If you want to know how to make a woman fall in love with you, you first have to overcome a few popular misconceptions. You have to realize that love doesn’t have to be dramatic and that a girl who loves you can increase your happiness level, but the foundation for your happiness has to come from within you.
The belief that love will just show up is a lie. You have to do something to deserve it and the first thing you have to do is to work on yourself and on your beliefs. Learn to love yourself and women and allow love in your life. Only then will you be ready to do the things that you have to do and to show her that you are open for her love.
There are several things you can do in a practical context if you want to learn how to make a woman fall in love with you. Make the first move and be honest about everything, even if it means to show your vulnerable side. Listen to the little hints she gives you and do many small things that cause more and more positive emotions in her. Be the lover she dreams of and give her the best sex she ever had. If you do that, she will fall in love with you.