Do you want to know how to find your dream girl?
A lot of guys who are new to the game and who first hear of a magical world in which they have the choice to meet the women they truly desire have absolutely no clue what kind of women they really want.
They either live in the belief that they have to seduce models, because every successful pick up artist brags about having sex with models or they think that they have to seduce girls who look like a mixture of Playboy Bunnies and pornstars, because those are the kind of girls that other men want to bang.
Of course it is possible that you are attracted to blond girls with fake tits who have more silicone than brain but maybe that’s not really what you want.
Isn’t she lovely?
What I want to do now is to help you to find out what you really want.
I want you to make a little exercise with me that won’t take longer than 20 minutes. This short exercise has the power to save you 20 years of frustrating dating experiences. I don’t want you to waste your time with women you don’t really want.
All it needs to find your dream girl are a piece of paper, a pen and about 20 minutes of your time. I know you have 20 minutes, especially when the girl of your dreams waits for you at the end of that piece of paper…
How to Find Your Dream Girl: How Does She Look?
I thought about whether I should begin this exercise with the looks or the inner values of the women you want but then I remembered that we men are completely dick-driven. Please correct me if I am wrong, but I am pretty sure that the first thing that comes to your mind when you think about your perfect woman is somehow related to her tits, her ass and her two pairs of lips.
That’s why I want to start with her looks.
Think about how your dream girl looks. Go into detail and imagine every aspect of her body.
What hair color does she have? What size are her boobs? How does her face look? What skin color does she have? How big is her ass? What color do her eyes have?
Think about every possible part of her body. Do you have everything? Great!
Now I want you to write down all the aspects of her body you imagined. You can write it under the heading How She Looks.
Why Does She have to Look like That?
Now you have a list of all the physical features that your perfect 10 has to have. That’s great, but before you put your paper aside and start hunting I want to ask you a tricky question:
Why does she have to look like that?
The goal of this question is to find out whether your perception of what is beautiful really originates from your own preferences and your own fantasies or whether it is nothing but a portrayal of the social conditioned way women have to look nowadays.
Does she have to look like that because you want her to look like that or because society tells you that you should desire such a girl? Do you want a girlfriend like that or do you want jealous friends who want a girlfriend like that?
I once asked these questions a friend of mine who always bragged about dating slim women. The moment I asked him those questions was the moment where he finally admitted that he was totally into chubby girls with D-Cups. For years he was too scared to date them because he wanted to date the girls everybody would envy him for.
It was the same with me and tall models. For a long time I thought sex with tall models was something that every successful seducer has to experience.
It wasn’t until I had sex with them that I finally admitted to myself that I am rather into small women.
How to find your dream girl who looks like YOU want her to look? If those questions make you find out that the physical features that you have written down are actually not what you really want you can simply correct your notes, continue the exercise and be grateful that you now your dream girl looks.
What is Unacceptable?
I am completely honest with you. It is very, very hard to find a woman who fulfills ALL the physical features that you desire in a woman. Perfection doesn’t exist but if you combine the outer appearance and the inner values of a woman, she can still be your dream girl, even if she doesn’t fulfill all the criteria in the looks department.
Nevertheless, I don’t want you to make the same mistake that millions of men make by settling down with a woman that doesn’t match the image that you have in mind when you think about your dream woman.
I want you to learn how to find your dream girl and therefore you also have to think about the physical features that are an absolute no-go for you. Even if you meet a girl and she has the best personality in the world, you shouldn’t date her if you are into thin women and she is fat like a whale.
That would be settling for less and that’s the last thing I want you to do. That’s why you should write down all the physical features in a woman that are a reason to not seduce and date her. This ensures that you won’t fall in the trap of settling with girls you don’t really want to settle with.
How to Find Your Dream Girl: What is Important to You?
Now we leave all the superficiality behind us and focus on the inner values that your perfect 10 or at least your nearly perfect 9.9 should have. I am no psychic but I am pretty sure that the characteristics that the girl of your dreams should have are closely related to the way you are.
It is the most natural thing on earth that human beings want to spend their time with other human beings who have the same interests, beliefs and personality traits. This is true for friendships and for sexual relationships.
Before you can find out all the characteristics that the woman of your dreams has to have, you have to write down everything that is important to you. Without this self-analysis it is impossible to find your dream girl.
Think about all the stuff that you love to do and write it down. Think about all the hobbies that you have and all the stuff that you do every week or even every day (besides taking a shit).
It doesn’t matter if one of your biggest passions is to travel the world or if you rather collect some ancient sport cards.
Don’t write down stuff just because it sounds cool. Write down what you really want to do.
I promise you that there are girls on this planet who are into the same stuff as you are, no matter how uncommon your hobbies might be.
Your Values and Your Personality
How to find your dream girl who not only has the same hobbies but also the same values as you? If you don’t know your values yet, it is time to finally think about them and to write them down.
Is honesty important to you? Is punctuality important to you? Is freedom important to you? Is harmony important to you? Are experiences important to you? Is discipline important to you? Is passion important to you?
Think about all the values that are important in your life. When you have a look at your personality you will find out that your personality traits are directly related to your values. If punctuality is very important to you it is very likely that you are a very punctual person. Makes sense, right?
After you have written down all your hobbies, values and your personality traits it is time to carry on.
How to Find Your Dream Girl: Who is She?
Now that you know who you are and what is important for you it is time to have a look at how this relates to your dream girl.
No, I am not a sadistic asshole who forced you to write down your hobbies, your values and your personality traits without any reason.
You should now use all the things that you like and that you stand for in order to find out what a woman who is perfect for you likes and what she stands for.
What is Important to Her?
What is important to the woman you are dating? Even though there is the widespread belief that people who are very opposing attract each other, it is important to have certain similarities with the girls you are dating.
This is especially true if you don’t want to spend your life running from one one night stand to the other. If you actually want to have sexual, open, monogamous or whatever other forms of relationships with women, the girls you are with should have at least a few similar hobbies, beliefs and personality traits that you also have.
The easiest and probably the best thing you can do now is to copy all the stuff that you have written down under the heading What is Important to You and to directly write it down under What is Important to Her.
Can/Should She be Different?
Before you think that all you have to do in order to find your dream girl is to find the female version of you, I want you to imagine that for a second.
Think about dating a person who is exactly like you, just with a vagina.
I don’t know about you but when I think about dating a girl who is exactly like me, I am getting a little bit scared. Of course it is important that you have a lot of similarities and that you see things the same way. Otherwise, a harmonic relationship is simply not possible.
But should she also have your negative characteristics? You and I are both not perfect and I am pretty sure that there are some habits or characteristics about you that would drive you insane, if the women you are with would have them.
Think about all the aspects in which she can or should be different than you and write them down.
What is Unacceptable?
In the same way as you want to avoid dating a whale who doesn’t even fit in your bed you probably also don’t want to date a manic-depressive psycho bitch who wants to hug you one day and kill you another.
Think about all the personality traits, the hobbies and the values of a girl that you couldn’t live with.
In case you are an honest person and you couldn’t live with a girl who cheats on you every week, write that down. If you love to travel the world and you couldn’t date a girl who hates traveling and who never left her home town, write that down.
In order to find your dream girl you not only have to be aware of the things you don’t accept in the looks department, you also have to become aware of the things that you simply can’t accept terms of how she is.
How to Find Your Dream Girl: Go Out and Get Her
Now you know how your dream girl looks, why she looks like that and what is unacceptable for you in regard to her looks. You also found out what kind of hobbies she should have, what values she has and what personality traits she has to have. You know exactly in which aspects she should be like you and in which aspects she can or should be different than you.
Congratulations, you’ve found your dream girl by thinking about all this stuff and writing it down. When I did this exercise it took me a little bit under 20 minutes.
You did this exercise in order to find your dream girl. Now it is on you to go out there and to get her. Depending on her look, her hobbies, her values and her personality type you have to search the girl of your dreams in certain places and you have to seduce her.
If you are into party girls you probably won’t find them in libraries and if you are into nerdy girls who love to read and study you probably won’t find them in clubs.
No matter to which country you travel and how many girls you approach, you know what you are looking for and eventually you will find what you are looking for.
I wish you with all my heart that you find identical twins who have the same hobbies, values and personality traits and that you’ll experience one threesome after another with them. May the force be with you…
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Summed Up Wisdom
How to find your dream girl in 20 minutes? The first thing you probably think about when you imagine the girl of your dreams is how she looks. That’s why you should start with writing down how your perfect dream girl looks and how she shouldn’t look, while also thinking about whether or not your preferences might be influenced by our society’s ideal of beauty.
Before you can write down her personality, her values and her activities you have to think about your own preferences in those three areas. After you have done that you can decide whether the woman of your dreams has to be like you or whether it would be quite good if she differs from you in certain aspects. After you have not only written down what is unacceptable in terms of her looks but also in terms of the way she is, you are ready to go out and to not only find your dream girl but to also seduce her.