Learning how to read female body language has so many benefits…
Imagine you are in a bar and you see a girl you are instantly attracted to. You look her up and down and the more you do that, the hornier you get. You look her in the eyes and she looks back. You interpret the fact that she took the effort to look back at you as a clear sign of attraction.
You go over to her, approach her and get the nastiest rejection that you ever received from a girl. You are confused.
I mean, she looked at you and if a woman looks at you this is a clear sign of attraction, right?
Well, it depends on how she looks at you.
In this situation the girl clearly communicated to you that the last thing she wants is your ass next to her. If you would have been able to read female body language you would have ignored her.
There was a girl in a red dress right next to her who looked at you in a way that a girl only looks at a man when she thinks about a lot of naughty things.
Unfortunately, you didn’t approach her and while you were getting rejected by the hot girl next to her, she went home with a complete douchebag in order to overcome her sexual frustration.
The next time you are at your local bar you know how to read female body language and you will be able to approach the right girl.
How to Read Female Body Language: Her Walk
The way a woman walks says more than a thousand words.
It is true that every woman has a different walk and women from all around the world differ in their ability to walk in a feminine way. You simply can’t deny the fact that Russian girls have a far more feminine walk than German girls.
However, even if a woman can’t walk in high heels without breaking all her ten toes, she can at least show you with her walk if she is interested in getting approached by men or not. Even if she doesn’t do it on a conscious level, her subconscious mind will signalize the external world if she wants to be stopped by a potential sex partner or not.
Let’s have a look at how girls signalize men that they either want to get approached or that every guy who comes near them risks a penis amputation.
Tense and Refusing
Interpreting female body language is not the easiest thing in the world. Not every girl who walks fast automatically refuses to get approached. Maybe she is in a hurry and she would still be open to meet you. In addition to that, not every woman who walks slowly is receptive for an approach. Maybe she has a lot of time, wants to relax and thinks about last night when that guy she met in a club fucked her so good that she had three orgasms.
Even though the walk of a woman can be interpreted in many ways, it is pretty obvious that she doesn’t want to get approached when she walks in a way that is very tense and aggressive. The most obvious sign in this context is when her foot touches the ground very fast and her steps are comparable with soldiers who march in a parade.
When you see a woman who walks like that, you should definitely have a look at her face. If she has an aggressive facial expression the likelihood of a rejection is pretty high.
Confident and Receptive
If a woman walks in a confident and receptive way she shows with her entire body that she loves the world and that she is open for men who rock her world. Even if she walks very fast her open body language is still noticeable.
Those girls ten to walk while moving their whole body.
Their hips swing and their feet touch the ground in a way that doesn’t cause open fractures. If you see such a girl with a friendly facial expression you have to approach her.
The likelihood that she reacts positive to your approach is very high and even if she rejects you, she probably does it in such a nice way that it makes you feel good for putting a smile on her face, even if you might never see her naked.
How to Read Female Body Language: Her Smile
A smile is the biggest sign of attraction, right?
Yes and No.
Let’s first have a look at what this bubbly and a bit crazy chick has to say about a woman’s smile:
If you receive a smile that is real, you can definitely assume that she is interested in you. If you, however, meet a girl who smiles at you in the most fake way possible, she might just want to get rid of you without tearing your heart into pieces.
Let’s assume you embark on an adventurous trip through Eastern Europe and you end up in Belgrade or another country that still has to recover from the communist influence. If you meet a girl from Belgrade and she smiles at you, you can assume that the smile is real.
Maybe you haven’t been to Belgrade and you are an American who never left the USA. Then you are used to girls who smile at you. Unfortunately, most girls do it without actually meaning it. I don’t want to insult your country, but it is no secret that many Americans are raised to behave in a fake way and to display a fake friendliness.
The question is: how to find out if the smile is real?
Fake and Flaky
In contrast to the tense walk, a fake smile is very easy to detect. One physical sign that most people are not aware of is that the eyes are always smiling more than the lips.
When human beings smile in a way that is real, their eyes are always a little bit closed and you can see small wrinkles next to the eyes. We do this every time we have to smile because of an emotional reaction. This is an uncontrollable process.
The only way you can control your eyes is when your smile is fake and when not emotions but a logical process causes you to smile.
Just compare your party photos with your application photos and you’ll see the difference.
Happy and Nervous
A happy smile is accompanied by little wrinkles around the eyes. A girl who smiles because she is totally smitten by your compliment is probably also a little bit nervous, because she wants to leave a good impression.
Her hands and her lips might shiver whereas a girl who smiles at you because she wants to get rid of you doesn’t show any signs of nervousness.
Once you have learned how to read female body language, you will be able to expose those girls within seconds.
Girls who smile in a fake way often combine this facial expression with a behavior that is totally exaggerated, whereas a girl with a real smile tries to appear as normal as possible, because she doesn’t want to appear desperate.
How to Read Female Body Language: Her Eyes
Even if the rock band Three Doors Down sings that a woman can lie behind her eyes it is actually pretty hard to lie in someone’s face without revealing the truth through your eyes. The eyes of a woman are the mirror to her soul.
Women reveal everything through their eyes.
If she is sexually aroused you will see a gutter in her eyes that communicates very obvious what her vagina feels. In the same way that her eyes reveal her sexual feelings, they reveal whether she wants to talk to you or not.
But her eyes are just the beginning.
If you approach a woman and you look her in the eyes you know exactly where you are at and if it makes sense to continue the conversation. If a woman is annoyed by your approach she normally shows this very clearly by looking at you in an aggressive and bugged way.
As soon as you have the feeling that the woman you talk to looks at you in such a way, you should have a look at the area around her eyes. When she pushes her eye browns together and shows you a slight frowning, you should expect a “no” when you ask her if she wants to go for a coffee with you.
Of course you should try to continue the conversation but you shouldn’t be disappointed if you don’t get the results that you hoped to get.
The exact opposite of annoyed eyes are eyes that display joy and happiness. A woman who is excited and delighted by the fact that you approached her usually shows her emotions through her eyes. Her eyes don’t lie.
Her eyes shine and transform into a sparkling diamond.
This is the reaction that signalizes you that you should do whatever it takes to seduce her. You can be sure that she wants it. Looking in eyes of a woman that shine like diamonds is the most rewarding aspect of learning how to read female body language.
How to Read Female Body Language: Her Posture
You might hate me for saying this but the truth is that every human being has a feminine and a masculine side. Men and women have both sides inside of them. Of course in men the masculine side should be stronger than the feminine side, whereas women tend to live more in alignment with their feminine side, at least when they were not born and raised in Germany.
The fact that women (usually) use their feminine side more than their masculine side doesn’t prevent them to switch between both whenever they need to.
A woman who has a job interview behaves completely different than a girl who tries to attract a man she is interested in. The reason why so many women in the Western World seem to behave like men is because they lost the connection to their feminine side by being forced to behave like men at work.
Even if you might find more women who display feminine postures in Asian countries and Eastern European countries than in Western Europe, no woman can completely suppress their feminine energy that bubbles deep inside of them. Dependent on the feelings you trigger in her she will change her posture from masculine to feminine, or the other way around.
If a woman stands in front of you with crossed arms and a posture that hides the fact that she has a sexy ass, you should definitely buckle down and do everything you can to change her mind about you.
Women usually use this kind of posture only in situations in their professional life, in which they see themselves forced to appear unapproachable. A woman who uses this posture in a conversation with a man wants to achieve the same effect. She wants to appear unapproachable.
If you meet a woman and she shows a feminine posture you can be quite sure that she is interested in you. If she sits in a bar she might straighten her back, so that you have a better view on her breasts. She probably also crosses her legs to show you her hips.
If you meet a woman on the street or talk to her in any situation in which she stands in front of you, she does the same thing.
She wants you to see her breasts and her feminine hips.
She might even run her fingers through her hair while talking to you in this quite uncomfortable position. Decoding the female posture is the most important aspect of learning how to read female body language.
Once you are experienced in recognizing this posture, your success with women will skyrocket.
The funny thing is that women don’t even realize when they do it. It is an unconscious command from their brain to initiate the reproduction process with the guy who provokes naughty thoughts in them.
If you follow the exact steps I share with you in Rise of the Phoenix, you will see the feminine posture with every girl you approach.
Summed Up Wisdom
How to read female body language? If you see a woman you are attracted to you should have a look at her walk. If she walks in a relaxed way and shows the assets she has, she is most likely receptive to an approach. If her walk is very tense and aggressive you probably get a negative reaction.
The smile of a woman can be either fake or it can be honest. The best proof of an honest smile is when she has little wrinkles around her eyes. A woman who is attracted to you shows her feelings with eyes that shine like diamonds and a posture that reveals all the good stuff you miss out if you don’t walk up to her.
Thanks for this reply. Now I know even more that he’s right. Lol! 🙂
Sebastian…I don’t know who you are but it is extremely scary how much you know about our movements! Just one thing. Not every fake smile is easy to detect. Some women are just too good at this.