Let’s have a look at the most common reasons for sexual frustration that you suffer from.
Ready for a little shock to start with?
In case you are currently not experiencing the fulfillment of your deepest desires, you are probably NOT a happy man.
I am sorry to say this but it is completely senseless to tell yourself that your life is one amazing adventure, if you haven’t had sex for about a year.
Nearly everything that we men do and that we try to achieve is motivated by the goal to attract women. The reasons why most men work themselves to death in the hope that they will get that promotion, is not because they hope that their retirement fond gets bigger. They do this because they subconsciously hope that a higher stress level at work leads to a higher chance to get a trophy wife.
Yep, social conditioning did a great job in making you believe that being the head of your department makes women wet.
The urge to have sex with a physically attractive woman is an omnipresent feeling that has the power to make you a happy and fulfilled man, at least when you act upon your desires and put your dick inside a delicious pussy.
What if you ignore your sexual desires and what if you don’t get what you need?
What if all the sexual energy and power that is within you fizzles out without ever having the chance of getting released?
The result of this unused and wasted energy is nothing but misery and frustration that makes it impossible to ever life a fulfilled life.
However, just because you are living in a state of sexual frustration, doesn’t mean that you can’t change this state. The first step towards solving a problem is to become aware of the causes. This allows you to analyze and eradicate the problem.
1. Sexual Frustration Through Complexes
How long is your dick?
Mine is 25 cm and I know from my experience with women that every guy whose dick is under 25 cm is a complete loser in bed who will never be able to satisfy a woman.
You and your average dick are doomed to end dry and lonely!
Joking apart, my dick is not 25 cm. To be honest, my dick is maybe about 1 cm longer than the national average. And even if it would be a few centimeters shorter than the national average I wouldn’t have any reason to sing the blues.
Knowing how to use your dick is way more important than having a bigger dick than a rhinoceros.
Unfortunately, a lot of men have severe complexes when it comes to the shape and the size of their penis. However, there is absolutely no reason to have such complexes. I know that porn movies, Hollywood movies and sometimes even some mainstream magazines conditioned you to believe that girls only go for the extremely hung football players.
This is simply not true and the only reason why a lot of institutions in our society want you to believe in this myth is because they want to sell small but very expensive pills to you that promise a few additional millimeters.
2. Sexual Guilt
Did you know that you are a sinner if you decide to live out your sexuality?
Did you know that you’ll end up in hell when you have sex before marriage?
Did you know that you are a bad person when you have sex without being in a strictly monogamous relationship?
And what’s even more important:
Did you know that all the rhetorical questions I just asked you are complete bullshit?
One reason why so many men (and women) live in a state of constant sexual frustration is because their sexual guilt that makes it impossible for them to enjoy sex.
As a result of this they avoid sexual contact wherever they can.
My mentor and good friend Sasha Daygame knows how dangerous sexual guilt can be:
In order to live a fulfilled sex life you have to overcome all those limiting beliefs that were caused by years of social conditioning.
Maybe your parents were religious, maybe your jealous friends criticized you for having multiple girlfriends and maybe you are one of those poor guys who believe angry feminists when they blare in the camera that saying hello to a woman is sexual harassment.
No matter what issues you have, unless you overcome your sexual guilt you will never be able to live a fulfilled life, nor to fulfill the life of a woman.
To be honest, I wouldn’t have overcome my sexual guilt without Hypnotica’s powerful hypnosis.
3. Suppressed Desires
Tell me about your deepest desires. Tell me all the kinky stuff that is in your brain that you wouldn’t even tell your best friend. Share your deepest fantasies with me and let me know what’s going on in your brain.
What, you can’t do that…why? What is holding you back?
I know why. You are afraid that other people think that you are a pervert when you would tell them the truth. You are terrified that people will judge you when you say that you are attracted to younger women, even though this is true for nearly EVERY man.
You fear that other people judge you for having the desire to try out some kinky BDSM shit, even though women masturbate to books like Fifty Shades of Grey. You couldn’t handle the eyes that stare at you with despite when you would reveal that your deepest desire is to have a threesome with two sexy Asian girls.
No matter what fantasies you have, I am convinced that there is at least one that you consider as too embarrassing to reveal and to dangerous to live out. In case you have already promised yourself that you will never live out your deepest desires, I have to tell you the truth about your situation.
Suppressing your sexual desires might work for a short period of time but in the long run they will always come to light.
If you live with the fallacy that your desires will go away, you will become more and more miserable with every day you suppress your desires. I think we all know what terrible consequences it can have if you try to suppress your sexuality for your whole life…
Don’t settle for a life of sexual frustration, just because you are afraid that somebody will judge you for your fantasies.
As long as you don’t harm anyone, you have the right to experience your sexuality the way you want to experience it.
Stop suppressing your sexual desires and find out what women really want in bed (Warning: It’s sexist as hell!)
In case you watch a lot of porn movies, chances are high that you are a sexually frustrated wimp. I know that hardcore movies are extremely easy to access and that they promise instant relief, but not every quick fix is a good solution. The promise to get relief with just a mouse click can easily lead to a life of quiet desperation.
I mean, why should you try to overcome your fears if all you have to do to “sleep with” amazing women is to turn on your laptop?
Why would you invest the time and effort to approach and date girls, if you can have ten naked girls in your living room by clicking on a screen?
Porn has the power to suck your motivation to meet women in real life.
Porn might give you the instant release in form of a quick orgasm but all the other aspects that make sexual relationships worthwhile get left out.
You won’t experience the life-changing confidence boost when you finally overcome your fears of women. You won’t experience the proud feeling of seducing a beautiful woman. You won’t experience the affection, love and respect from a woman who snuggles up to you after you gave her multiple orgasms.
A man who misses all those feelings in his life can’t be happy.
5. Wrong Expectations
Another common reason for sexual frustration is having the wrong expectations. We are constantly bombarded by advertisement, porn movies, mainstream movies and music that women are those perfect creatures with completely flawless bodies.
Women are portrait as perfect dolls that have nothing in common with a real human being.
I once had a conversation with a young guy that shocked me and that showed me how sick this conditioning really is. He told me that he and his girlfriend had sex for the first time and that he was confused when they tried out doggy style. He told me that he thought something was wrong with her, because her asshole had a slightly different color than the rest of her skin.
I was completely speechless.
This young man watched so many porn movies with girls who had bleached assholes, that he thought this was normal. Not only porn but also other forms of mainstream media constantly advertise photoshopped flawless women who smell like roses and shit glitter.
As stupid as it sounds but these wrong expectations are the cause for a lot of sexual frustration in men. Maybe you are one of the guys who are completely shocked when you find out that the asshole of your girlfriend doesn’t smell like lavender.
6. Bad Experiences
Bad experiences can also be a major reason for sexual frustration. If you think that only women can have bad sexual experiences you are completely wrong. I also had one experience that I don’t want to relive.
I once approached a girl who was down to fuck from the minute I met her. When she came back to my place she was extremely receptive to my compliments and to the way I touched her. I never forget the moment when I kissed her for the first time. Something must have snapped in her brain. She suddenly transformed from a regular horny girl into a sexual vampire.
I actually like rough sex but the stuff that she did was too much for me.
She bit my lip so hard that it started bleeding and after I finally threw her out I had to wear a scarf for two weeks because she left a hickey on my neck that was bigger than my balls.
Even though I locked the door twice for the following days, I didn’t allow this negative experience to dictate my life. No matter if a girl laughs because you can’t get it up or attempts to rape you like the one I met, you have to get over such things if you don’t want to end up miserable.
7. Sexual Dysfunctions
There are a lot of different sexual dysfunctions that we men have to battle with, but the most common ones are definitely erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.
Of course a successful seducer like me doesn’t even know how these problems are spelled, right?
Wrong. I haven’t met one professional seducer in my life who didn’t admit that he had to deal with it at least once in his life. The men who tell you that they never had those problems are lying to you.
Show me the man who has never had any problem to get it up and who never came in a woman in under 20 minutes and I will show you Jesus Christ in person.
Most men lie when you ask them if they ever had to deal with a sexual dysfunction. I won’t lie to you. I admit that I had experiences in the past where I was so nervous that I couldn’t get it up and I also had experiences where I came after one minute.
This is completely normal. The only way overcome those issues is by gaining more experience in the bedroom. Being ashamed of it only motivates you to avoid experiences that can lead to sex. This self-sabotaging behavior ultimately leads to a lot of sexual frustration.
8. Monogamous Relationships
Do you want to know something that no marriage and relationship counselor will ever reveal to you?
If you are living in a long-term monogamous relationship you will be quite shocked and if you just escaped out of one you will probably feel relieved.
The unspeakable truth is that monogamy is a major reason for sexual frustration.
At the beginning of a relationship everything is amazing. You are in love, you desire every inch of her body and you want to fuck her all day long. After about three months this desire slowly fades away. You start to gaze after other women and you spend more time on Pornhub than in the bedroom. After about a year you don’t even touch her anymore when you are showering together.
Our society tries so hard to convince everyone that a long-term monogamous relationship (with kids and white picket fence) is the path to fulfillment that they try dissuade you from believing that your sexual frustration might be linked to the fact that you have banged the same women for 986 times in a row.
I don’t say that happy mongogamous relationships don’t exist, but if you are miserable and you don’t want to sleep with your partner you should stop denying what’s obvious.
It might be worth considering if it wouldn’t be smarter to move on and to live a sexually fulfilled life, instead of wasting away in a relationship that only brings fulfillment on the photos on Facebook.
9. Modern Feminism
“Don’t sexually harass women!”
“Kill Julien Blanc for making funny videos!”
Modern feminism has a huge impact on the level of sexual frustration that men experience nowadays. If you hear all day long that you are bad when you talk to women, that you are a pervert when you want to have sex with women and that you are a misogynist for seeing women as sex objects, there comes the point at which you start to believe it.
If you believe all of this you will start to feel bad whenever you gaze after a woman and whenever you think about approaching one. As a result, you won’t allow yourself to meet girls, let alone to approach them with a sexual intent. The truth is that the men who ignore those tirades of hate get laid left and right.
There are millions of women out there who appreciate the fact that they were born as women and who desire sexually confident men.
Find those women and ignore the ones who cause sexual frustration all over the world.
10. Your Inability to Seduce Women
Another very common cause for sexual frustration is the inability to seduce women. The equation is very easy. If you don’t approach women, you can’t date women and therefore the chance of having sex with women is very low.
What if there were scientifically proven techniques make women emotionally and sexually addicted to you?
Summed Up Wisdom
What are the most common reasons for sexual frustration? If you have complexes because you think that your penis is too small and if you suffer from sexual guilt, you probably won’t be happy at the moment. Don’t ever suppress your desires and don’t waste all your sexual energy while jerking off in front of a screen.
I don’t care if you had bad experiences and if you have wrong expectations of women who shit glitter. Overcome that shit and become the man you want to become. Sometimes you have setbacks in form of sexual dysfunctions and sometimes you have to fight with sexual frustration in a monogamous relationship. Those things are completely normal.
Modern feminism also contributes to sexually frustrated men all over the world who believe that every form of sexual expression is a crime. But don’t worry, you can ignore this gibberish and learn to seduce the women that you truly want.
It all starts with a simple decision to finally leave all your sexual frustration behind you and to go down the rabbit hole…