Today I want to talk about the most painful rejection I ever got. This was one of the nastiest experiences in my entire life and the only thing I could think of in that particular moment was to never talk to another woman again.
Seriously, I wished the ground would open and swallow me up.
The moment it happened I was shocked, terrified, irritated and I felt a bunch of other weird emotions that I can’t really describe. Until this day I have never again been rejected like this. You might ask yourself what kind of girl I ran into who shook me to the very foundations.
A German feminazi!
I think the only thing that this girl hated even more than men was herself. In retrospect I doubt that she was a woman, even though she obviously looked like one. Now you might think that I am an idiot for approaching a girl who is obviously a hardcore feminist.
Well, I am not as stupid as I look. I know that I have to stay away from fat girls with short hair and facial hair. I know that. The tricky thing was that she didn’t look like a typical feminazi. She was blond, had long hair and a beautiful face, at least until it changed into this:
There was really no sign that said “ATTENTION: You are entering feminist territory!”
Maybe her boyfriend just left her, maybe she watched too many Desperate Housewives episode, or maybe her dad was just convicted for sexual harassment. Who knows? The only thing I know is that this experience had quite an impact on my life.
The Day I Got Emotionally Castrated
The most painful rejection I ever got happened on a sunny day in a boring city in Southern Germany. I met a good friend of mine to go out for some daygame and some really weird social freedom exercises.
After I had approached four girls and got one number I approached HER.
She had a cute face, long blond hair and a confident walk.
I liked what I saw and both my heart and my penis gave the “okay” to run after her.
The moment I stopped her she already looked at me with a slightly annoyed face. Before I could say a single word she hissed “what!?”. She said it in the same tone that women usually use when a guy tries to fuck them in the ass without prior notice. What she really wanted to say was “fuck off!”.
I already doubted that this approach would lead to a pleasurable experience, but I had no idea how unpleasant this experience would really be.
“I know it might sound a bit direct, but I just saw you and I had to approach you. You look absolutely amazing.”
Those were the words I used. The reaction that I usually got from girls was a smile, a red face and some giggling. Her reaction was slightly different.
“Seriously??? That’s why you stopped me? That’s the fucking reason why you stopped me? You freaking pervert. Do you think you can just talk to a girl like that and she will immediately jump in bed with you? I can’t believe that you really think that I am that easy!”
I couldn’t say a word. I was completely shocked and when I looked at my friend AND at the dozens of people around me who stared at me, I only saw shocked faces. The people around us must have thought that I tried to rape her.
She was screaming so loud that nearly all people on this goddamn street stopped to stare at me.
If you want to relive the feelings I had in this very moment you have to watch the following video and imagine that you are standing right in front of this dragon (Oh and let me know in the comments below if you were able to watch the whole 12 minutes. I wasn’t):
She was so angry that her head turned red and she even spit at me while screaming. It was really scary. Today I would probably tell her in a clam way that I have to go now, without thinking about it for another second. Today I have enough experience to know that some girls are just a little bit weird. Back then I was anything but calm.
I was paralyzed. I started to sweat, my knees were shaking and my head must have looked like a red balloon. I was completely overwhelmed with this situation. The only thing I could do was to look at the people around me with a face that said “Do something. Help me!” and to walk away.
While I walked away she kept on insulting me and thanks to her powerful vocal chords I could still hear her when I sat down with my friend who tried to calm me down. My heart was still racing. I never expected a woman to react like that.
On this day I wished I would have never approached this girl. Today I am glad that I made this experience.
What You Can Learn From My Painful Rejection
What can you learn from my painful rejection? Well there are a lot of things that you can learn but let me first ask you a question:
“How would you have reacted?”
Would you have reacted calm? Perfect!
Would you have reacted like me? That’s still not that bad.
Would you have promised yourself to never approach a woman again? Welcome to the biggest mistake of your life…
Whenever I talk about my most painful rejection there is at least one guy who says that he would never talk to another girl again, if he would ever have a similar experience. I can promise you one thing:
This would be the biggest mistake of your life!
As a Global Seducer you don’t give up after a rejection. You don’t run to mommy and cry when it gets tough. You stick it out and you are confident that the next approach is going to be better.
Some Girls are Not Good for You
What’s the first thing that you can learn from my painful rejection?
Besides the fact that you need a bulletproof vest in case you ever visit Southern Germany and have the pleasure to run into the same girl who wanted to cut my balls off, you should remind yourself that not every girl is good for you.
Just because a girl is attractive, doesn’t mean that she is mentally stable and a good companion for you, no matter if it is just for one night or the rest of your life.
In the same way as there are crazy men, there are crazy women out there who you shouldn’t end up dating.
Of course it would have been impossible to convince that girl to go on a date with me. However, I know some guys who are together with girls who have mental issues and who take medication to not freak out every day.
The only reason why guys end up dating those broken girls is because they don’t think they have an alternative.
You have an alternative. You are determined to learn how to seduce women and to become a man who is desired by women.
Accept the fact that some girls, no matter how beautiful they are, are just not good for you. Stay away from them and focus on all the pretty girls who are good for you.
Failure Will Eventually Lead to Success
During the minutes I got this harsh response from this seemingly innocent girl, I felt like crap. I admit it. I felt like the biggest loser on the planet. It took me a couple of minutes to calm down and to get my heartbeat back on track.
It even took me two days until I was able to approach the next girl. However, I did it. I didn’t stop approaching women, just because this one girl freaked out. I didn’t make the mistake to doubt me and I didn’t start to believe that this whole seduction thing is just not for me.
If I would have done that I wouldn’t have started this website, I wouldn’t get encouraging emails from you guys and I certainly wouldn’t live in an amazing relationship with the girl of my dreams.
The genius thing that I did after this experience was to not quit.
I expect the same thing from you!
Even if you probably won’t ever experience such a painful rejection as I experienced, you will get rejected and you will fail a few times until you reach success. Everybody who tells you that you will never get rejected is a liar.
The one quality that distinguishes the successful seducers from the ones who flush their potential down the toilet is that they don’t give up. Every failure offers an opportunity to learn, to grow and to improve. Experiences like the one that I had will eventually lead to success.
Don’t you also NOT want to get rejected?
Summed Up Wisdom
What can you learn from the most painful rejection I ever got?
That not every girl is good for you and that failure will eventually lead to success.
Don’t give up!