“Getting girls is so hard!”
First you have to find them, then you have to approach them, then you have to connect with them and in the end you even have to undress them.
Man, that’s a lot of work!
I know that seducing women is hard and that undressing them is even harder…at least when they wear a sports bra and a belt.
In case you really think that getting girls is difficult, exhausting and nerve-wracking, I want to ask you a question that might make you a bit angry:
Are you out of your fucking mind?
You are a man and your only biological purpose on this planet is to stick your penis in delicious vaginas to make as many little babies as possible.
Thank god we are living in a day and age in which condoms, the pill and thousands of other insecure contraceptive methods exist. You have a privilege that millions of men who lived before you don’t have.
You can have sex with as many women as you want without worrying about becoming a daddy. You can travel the world and seduce beautiful foreign women. You can make use of the sexual freedom that women have nowadays and sleep with more women in a week than a man who lived about 100 years ago had in his whole life.
You have every freedom in the world, so why do you think that getting girls is hard?
I tell you why you think that…
Your thoughts are poisoned and your logical mind controls you.
Why So Many Guys Make Their Life So Hard
Have you ever seen a dog that is too shy to walk up to a female dog, to look her into the eyes, to sniff her ass and to fuck her doggy style?
I don’t say that you should sniff every girl’s ass right after you approach her (some might like it), but looking at the animal kingdom can show you quite frankly what you are doing wrong.
When a male dog is horny he doesn’t ask himself if the female dog he wants to bang is busy and would be offended if he walks up to her. When a grizzly wants to make some babies he doesn’t wonder if he is handsome enough or if he has enough fish at home to impress the ladies.
Animals just follow their instincts and do what they are supposed to do. We human beings are nothing but animals.
The only difference between us and a dog is that we have the ability to think logically. That’s exactly what kills us when it comes to dating.
At least there are some guys who have already understood how easy it is to get girls:
Your Logical Mind Is a Barrier
I don’t say that you have to be dumb as a bucket of shrimp to seduce women. I am also not a complete retard and I know that intelligence is very attractive. However, I can’t deny the fact that your logical mind can be an obstacle when it comes to dating.
Besides the confidence and the abundance mindset there is another reason why bad boys are usually good with women. They don’t think so much. I don’t say that they are dumb, but I am pretty sure that some Harvard geeks who are still virgins at the age of 25 tend to think more on a logical level than a typical bad boy who doesn’t give a fuck about anything.
I am convinced that you have above average intelligence.
Otherwise, wouldn’t be on this site. We intelligent guys tend to overthink and to rationalize everything. I know how that feels. I did it for years.
As a result, we make all those excuses that sound so logical when we think about them, without even realizing that we build a construct of fear in our mind that eventually sabotages us.
The Approach as a Rocket Science
“What do I have to say to her? How do I start the approach? What line do I use?”
Approaching a woman is no rocket science. Unfortunately, a lot of guys seem to think that approaching women is more difficult than solving a complex mathematical equation. Believe me, it’s not.
You don’t have to think about the perfect pick up line for hours. You don’t have to impress her with the perfect compliment. You don’t need to memorize the best indirect and the best direct openers. Approaching women is not the same as passing a math test.
There is no need to complicate something that is so easy.
There is no need to transform a few honest words into a scientific problem. An approach should be friendly, honest and authentic. You don’t need science for that.
Rules Over Rules
We all know that you shouldn’t give women direct compliments because this puts them on a pedestal, which would destroy all your chances of getting her number!
We all know that you should call a woman after three days, not one day earlier and not one day later!
We all know that you should wait at least twenty minutes before you reply to her text message, otherwise you would appear needy!
Rules over rules!
Too many rules are not good for your seduction success.
Maybe that’s why I am always so depressed whenever I am in Germany. There are simply too many rules in this country. Besides Germany I know another place that is filled with unnecessary rules that don’t help you to become good with women. The place I am talking about is your head. Yes my friend, your head is full with those rules.
How do I know that?
If you wouldn’t live by all those rules, you wouldn’t constantly overthink anything and as a result of that you wouldn’t have any problems attracting girls into your life. You would approach a girl with an honest compliment, you would call her whenever you want and you wouldn’t start any weird texting games.
The only rule you would live by is that you are always 100% authentic without following any rules. Women like this rule.
The Wrong Information From the Wrong Sources
Where do you get your information from?
I hope you get it from this website or at least from the few other sites that are not completely poisoned by mainstream propaganda.
Where do guys who don’t have the luck to land on this site get their information about dating and seducing women from?
They read dating tips of popular mainstream sites (I don’t say any names) that give them the advice to just wait until the special someone comes, or to invite women to expensive restaurants and to pay for the dinner.
Oh, they also get their information from popular movies that basically train guys to be weak little pussies who have to humiliate themselves until they finally get a kiss on the cheek. And don’t forget all the music videos in which the only guys who get girls are the ones with luxury cars and grillz.
If you consume this bullshit 24/7 by watching TV and wasting your time on YouTube I know why you think that getting the girl is impossible for you.
There are already too many guys who believe all this crap. Don’t be one of them.
The Negative Influence of Your Social Circle
Maybe you are lucky and your father is a retired playboy and your friends are all extremely successful with the ladies. I didn’t have that luck when I embarked on my journey. The only woman my father ever seduced was my mother and besides one of my friends who had one average girlfriend after another I was surrounded by male virgins.
Do you think my social circle taught me anything about seducing women?
There was no one who told me “hey buddy, the only way to get good with women is to overcome your fears, to become an amazing person, to become confident with your sexuality and to approach women in an honest way”.
There was no one who taught me anything helpful.
The only things I heard over and over again was that I need money to get women, that I just don’t have what it takes to get good with women and that I should stop dreaming about something that I couldn’t achieve.
Those were the words that my supportive social circle tortured me with and I am pretty sure that there are a lot of guys who experience the same. Please ask yourself if you only think that getting the girl is impossible for you, because the people around you believe that it is impossible for you.
The Inability to Be in the Moment
What do you do during a date?
You think about what to say next. You think about whether or not you should make that inappropriate you were thinking about for the last twenty minutes. You think about when and how you should go for the kiss.
All those thoughts are running through your head and while you are thinking faster than the clock is ticking, you totally forget to be in the moment.
You can’t even concentrate on one word she says, because you already plan what you are going to say once you are back at your place.
While you are trapped in your thoughts, she gives you one hint after another.
She tells you that she is spontaneous and that she likes adventures (take her on an adventure). She even reminds you of the fact that it is already getting laid (it’s time to go back to your place).
Unfortunately, you are not in the moment and don’t notice any of her hints. At the end of the evening you ask yourself why getting the girl has to be so hard.
Why Getting the Girl is Not as Hard as You Think
Do you really want to have such a hard time getting the girls?
I hope not. I hope that you realize that attracting and seducing women doesn’t have to feel like hard work. In fact, it shouldn’t.
Attracting women into your bed and into your life should feel exciting.
Every new woman you meet and every date you go to should feel like a new adventure. The best thing is that the odds are in your favor. All you have to do is to score a penalty kick with a goalkeeper who wants you to score.
It Takes One Second to Decide
How long does it take to make the decision to do whatever it takes to become successful with women?
It takes one second.
How long does it take to make the decision to approach a woman you are attracted to?
It takes one second.
Getting the girl is not that hard. It all comes down to a simple decision.
You can decide to watch porn every day, to not leave the house anymore and to eventually develop such profound social anxieties that getting girls gets more and more difficult.
On the other hand, you can decide to face your fears, to stop wasting your life in front of your laptop and TV, to leave your house and to approach the first hot girl you see every day. If you do that your anxieties will decrease, while your seduction skills will increase. Eventually, getting the girl will be a walk in the park for you.
Women Want to Be Approached
“What if my compliment offends her?”
“What if I disturb her by walking up to her?”
“What if I would finally realize that women want to be approached?”
The last question makes sense, the other two don’t.
Do you know how much money big corporations make by selling dildos and vibrators?
They make millions every year. The sex toy industry for women is huge.
One reason why there are millions of women who buy dildos and vibrators is because there are millions of women who are lonely and horny.
Some of the most beautiful women are single and haven’t had sex in months and you ask yourself if you would offend her when you tell her that she is beautiful?
Women love having sex with real men instead of their mechanical sex toys. They want to be approached. They dream about a confident guy who walks up to them, looks them into the eyes and tells them how gorgeous they are.
They masturbate to that shit, while NOT your dick but some lifeless sex toy is inside of them!
Getting the girl is not that hard when you finally realize that she wants you to get her.
The Simple Approaches are the Best
“What shall I say?”
“Shall I use one of the lines that Pick Up Artist XYZ used in his video?”
“Is a direction opener or an opinion opener better?”
Do you really want to know which opener is the best? The honest one, the simple one and the authentic one is the best. The last thing you need is an overcomplicated pickup line that doesn’t represent your thoughts and feelings.
Make it simple and make it real.
If you see a beautiful girl you tell her that she is beautiful. If you see a cute girl you tell her that she is cute. That’s not hard at all.
Authenticity is Inherent
Giving a girl an honest compliment that reflects your thoughts and feelings is the most natural thing you can possibly do. Being authentic is our natural state of being. It is no secret that people who constantly play-act and to pretend to be someone they are not, suffer from that in the long run.
Authenticity is inherent.
Therefore, being authentic with women is completely natural.
All your thoughts that tell you that it is not natural and that it is way more logical to let her walk past you are learned and conditioned.
These are not your inherent thoughts.
The thoughts that hold you back from acting according to your natural instinct are nothing but lairs of conditioning from the society you live in. Follow your instincts and getting the girl will be easy.
Emotional and Sexual Connection Is Natural
Do you know what’s also natural?
Connecting with women on an emotional and sexual level.
While you are thinking about what you can say to connect with her and how much of your sexual interest you should reveal, you could simply listen to your instincts and let them do the work for you.
Your instinct is a way better seducer than your logical mind.
As human beings we are social beings. Without social contact we atrophy. The ability to connect with other people and with women is something that we all have inside of us. All you need to do is to talk about the things you love and the things that the girl who sits next to you loves.
Boom… you connect with her!
It’s the same with sexual connection. As a human being we are also sexual beings. The desire to have sex is inherent in both men and women. It is completely natural for a man and a woman to connect with each other on a sexual level.
As soon as you push aside all the politically correct beliefs that demonize sex and allow yourself to talk open about your sexual desires, you’ll see how easy it really is.
Imagine you had a girl like her in bed…
Summed Up Wisdom
Getting the girl isn’t really that hard. Unfortunately, a lot of guys tend to make their life so difficult. Approaching women is no rocket science and you don’t have to follow every stupid dating rule that’s out there. Stop listening to your logical mind and to the misleading information from your social circle and from the society we live in. Otherwise you will stay a prisoner of your thoughts without ever being able to experience the moment.
Getting the girl isn’t as hard as you think. It takes only one second to decide if you want to become good with women or not and it doesn’t take longer to decide if you approach the hot girl in the red dress. Women want to be approached in an honest way, not in an overly complicated and scientific way. Being authentic and connecting with women on an emotional and on a sexual level are inherent abilities that are completely natural. All you have to do is to push away all the unnatural crap you learned over the years.
Some cute women are bored of men underlining all the time their physical attractiveness, it could even be depressing because she feels that men are only interested because she is good looking, not because of what she really is.