Singaporean girls are hot.
But I think I don’t have to tell you that. You already know it. Otherwise, you wouldn’t want to meet, date and God knows…maybe even marry one.
And hey, I already proved that they are among the most beautiful women in South East Asia. You just have to take a look at my SingaporeLoveLinks review to understand how baffled I was when I saw that the average Singaporean woman looks like THIS…
But just because a woman is beautiful doesn’t mean that it’s a good idea to date her.
- She might be stuck up.
- She might be a spoilt brat.
- She might be materialistic to the core.
In case she was born and raised in Singapore, she’s beautiful and feminine…but she might as well be a combination of the three negative qualities I just mentioned.
There’s one thing you need to know:
Dating in Singapore is not the same as dating in other parts of South East Asia, but this place might be heaven on earth for a guy like you…
3 Stereotypes of Singaporean Girls that are (Kind of) True
I would love to say that none of what they say about Singaporean women is true. But I can’t.
Not because I don’t want to but because one of my best female friends is Singaporean.
Whenever she visits me in Thailand, she wants to go to some place that’s stylish and hip. She would rather die than go to any other café than Starbucks.
Of course, not all Singaporean girls are like that. But some of them are. And even though she’s stunning, I would never date a girl like her.
1. Hot Singaporean Women are Not into Self-Improvement
My girlfriend is Thai and one of the things I love the most about her is her hunger for knowledge. She loves to read, to watch documentaries and to improve her English skills. She takes an effort to become a better person.
I know that it’s not easy to find such a girlfriend, no matter where you are searching. But no matter where you live, it’s ten times harder in Singapore.
These girls don’t even know how to spell self-improvement. And it’s their parents fault.
Approximately 74% of the people who live in this country are Chinese. They have the most beautiful daughters and their daughters are more open to dating Western men than the Malays and Indians. They also have the most money.
In other words, your future Singaporean girlfriend is…
- Into you
Can it get any better?
Well, there’s a snag to it.
She grew up rich and she has everything and her parents give her everything she wants. All she has to do is to snap with her cute little finger.
So, why should she get off her ass and improve herself?
The Singaporean girl I’m friends with would rather spend $1000 on a nose job than $5 on a book.
2. Your Singaporean Girlfriend is Beautiful and Materialistic
Singapore is one of the three richest countries in Asia.
Some of the older Chinese immigrants know what “we made it from the bottom now we here” really means. These people are, unlike their spoilt grandchildren, hard workers who were proud to give their children everything they never had.
What’s the result of this mentality?
Young Singaporean women are more materialistic than Kim Kardashian.
Okay, not all of them. There are a lot of sweet girls who are sick and tired of their superficial culture. They are looking for men who are not materialistic. Some of them are rich, others are not so wealthy.
I chatted with dozens of them.
Even though your future Singaporean girlfriend can be materialistic, the hot Singaporean girls I chatted with wanted to go on a date with a minimalist.
3. Rich Singaporean Girls are Still Feminine
What comes to your mind when you hear “career woman”?
You probably think of a woman who looks like her…
When I hear this expression, I think about a woman who….
- Walks like a man
- Talks like a man
- Looks like a man
I think of a woman who has lost touch with her femininity.
Singaporean women are different.
Most of them are very career-oriented. They earn twice as much as the average career woman in the USA, but they are 100 times more feminine.
No matter if the girl you meet is a secretary, a manager, or a CEO of a big company, she’s also proud to be a woman. Earning more than $100.000 a year doesn’t stop her from looking like this…
The Brutal Truth about the Singaporean Dating Culture
Dating in Singapore is not hard, but it’s harder than in other parts of South East Asia.
The women don’t need your money. They don’t need to get married. They can provide for themselves. And yet, Singaporean dating sites have thousands of female members.
Isn’t it strange that in a culture that is so focused on material gain, so many girls are looking for love and affection?
Their culture made them successful, but it won’t help them to find love.
The Singaporean dating culture is the reason why thousands of hot Singaporean women are looking for a man online.
You Don’t Need to Be a Sugar Daddy to Date in Singapore
Singapore is an expensive place and a lot of the girls are materialistic. But that doesn’t mean that they expect you to buy them stuff. They have enough money to buy the designer knick-knack they want.They don’t need a sugar daddy.
And yet, the local men try to buy their attention, affection and love.
That’s the Singaporean way of courting a lady. Buy her stuff and she will sleep with you. There’s just one problem. It doesn’t work, at least not with all girls. Not with the kind of girls you and I want to date.
Do you want to know the secret to dating success in Singapore?
Do the opposite.
I’ll show you how in just a few minutes.
Not All Asian Girls in Singapore are Singaporean
You are looking for girls in a multiethnic country.
No matter if you look for them on an international dating site or at one of the places that I’m going to share with you later, she might not be Singaporean. You can find all kinds of girls in the financial hub of Asia.
You can find…
- Indonesian girls
- Vietnamese girls
- Filipino girls
- Chinese girls
- Japanese girls
- Thai girls
Just because you booked a hotel in Singapore doesn’t mean that you have to spend your nights with a local girl. The choice is yours.
Interracial Dating in Singapore Is Only an Issue If You Are Black
I don’t want to sound racist. I just want to tell you the truth.
The truth is that most Singaporean women would not date a black man.
Some of the Malays or Indians might, but when it comes to Chinese girls, most of them won’t. It’s not because they aren’t attracted to black men. I’m sure that some of them are. They just know that their traditional Chinese parents wouldn’t accept such a relationship.
Remember that these girls grew up in an extremely superficial culture. It’s all about showing status and status has many faces.
- It can be the car you drive.
- It can be the apartment you live in.
- It can be the person you date.
And according to my beautiful Singaporean friend and Forbes Magazine, the highest status in this country is white skin…
Singaporean Women are Seeking White Men
I have good news for you, at least if you are a Caucasian man.
Singaporean women love you!
All over the internet people ask themselves the following question:
Well, it’s a simple question but there’s no simple answer. I mean, it’s no secret that white men are sought-after all over Asia, Mostly because Asians are obsessed with fair skin.
But there’s more to it.
According to my friend and various Singaporean girls on the internet, there are plenty of reasons why they prefer dating white men:
- They are more confident.
- They flirt and don’t just show their black credit card (like many Singaporean guys).
- They are more romantic.
It doesn’t matter whether or not you believe that this is true. Singaporean girls believe it. And they will continue to seek white men.
Where to Meet Girls in Singapore
But where do you meet all these Singaporean girls who are looking for a guy like you?
You have two choices:
Get off your couch and to the airport
Stay on your coach and go online
Unless you want to spend hundreds of dollars on an airplane ticket and an overpriced hotel room, you should choose the second option.
But maybe you already are in Singapore.
And maybe you want to experience the adrenaline rush that you only get when you approach girls at night or during the day.
Let’s find out where you can meet Singaporean girls in the field before I’m going to show you where you can meet them online…
The 3 Best Places to Meet Singaporean Babes during the Day
Do you like loud music and drunk people?
No? I don’t like it either.
You and I have more fun meeting Singaporean women at one of the following three places…
1. The ION Orchard Shopping Mall
Singapore has many incredible shopping malls. And even though the Paragon Shopping Center and VivoCity Mall are awesome, there’s one mall that beats them hands down.
The ION Orchard is the king, especially when it comes to meeting beautiful girls.
It’s located at the end of the Orchard Road and it’s the best place to meet rich Singaporean girls who are yearning for an adventure with a guy who doesn’t try to impress them with money.
2. Sentosa Island
This is not your typical island. This is the best island in Asia. It’s one big playground with three beaches. No matter if you go to the Palawan beach, the Tanjong beach or the Siloso beach, you can meet hundreds of stunning girls.
Some of them are Western tourists. Most of them are either Singaporean or tourist girls from other Asian countries. You’ll have fun.
3. The Mambo Beach Club
You can meet dozens, no hundreds of beautiful Asian girls at this beach club. The best thing about this place is that it’s a great place to meet women, no matter if you want to hunt during the day or at night.
Visit it during the day and you can enjoy a cocktail with a cute Singaporean girl who came here to relax (and to meet foreigners). Come during the night and you’ll know what it looks like when Singaporeans party…
The 3 Best Clubs to Meet Hot Girls in Singapore
Are you ready to find out what it really looks like when Singaporean girls party?
Then have a look at the following three venues that are perfect for meeting hot party girls in short pants…
1. 28 HongKong Street
No, I don’t want you to sit at the street corner until you see a beautiful girl you can approach. The 28 HingKong Street is a bar. And even though it has a really weird name, it’s one of the best locations to meet hot Singaporean girls.
It has been crowned the best bar in Asia by Drinks International, which is known among bar lovers and notorious alcoholics as the magazine that awards the World’s 50 Best Bars Awards.
It’s a great place to get wasted…and to meet cute girls.
2. The Attica
The Attica is the perfect place if you are not sure if you want to date Hip Hop girls with baggy pants and belly button shirts or classy girls in tight dresses who dance to house music. The club is huge and offers both.
The Attica is open seven days a week and crowded seven days a week. I think that says it all.
3. Zouk Club
Let’s end this section with the biggest and most popular club in Singapore. It exists for over two decades, which is almost a miracle when you consider how fast-paced this country is.
It’s located directly at the Singapore River and has numerous rooms and zones in which you can find sexy Singaporean girls who know how to dance and how to dress…
How to Meet Singaporean Girls Online
What if you don’t want to spend hundreds of dollars for an airplane ticket and accommodation without even knowing if Singaporean girls are interested in you?
Well, there’s an alternative. It’s called online dating.
Thanks to this weird thing called the internet, you can chat with hundreds of hot Singaporean women within seconds.
Let’s have a look at where to meet Singaporean girls online and why some online dating services are a waste of money…
Singapore Dating Agencies are a Waste of Money
Scream at me. Ridicule me. Beat the crap out of me. I will continue to speak the truth.
And the truth is that most Singaporean dating agencies are…
I found a few on the internet and yes, they offer personalized profiling and personal date preparation coaching. But let’s be honest. You’ll have more success when you take a Skype coaching with me than when you pay some middle-aged woman to tell you that you should smell good and pay for her drink.
Some of these Singapore dating agencies charge you more than $350 for a date.
Heck, you can get at least two high-class escorts for this money. That’s absolutely insane. I don’t know about you but I would never pay more than $1000 to go on four dates.
Especially not because you can pay less than $10 to go on as many dates with sexy Singaporean girls as you want…
OkCupid Only Works if You Want to date Singapore Expats
Just not on OkCupid.
In fact, OkCupid is the worst online dating site for Western men who want to meet and date Singaporean women.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s a great dating site, at least if you want to date Western expats. You can find a lot of American, Canadian, Australian and European girls on OkCupid.
You just won’t find many Singaporean girls.
SingaporeLoveLinks is the Best Singapore Dating Site to Meet Single Ladies
I said it, and I mean it.
This is the best and the biggest Singaporean dating site on the internet. You can find hundreds, no thousands of beautiful Singaporean girls who are looking for Western men.
They are financially independent, educated, feminine, and they want to meet YOU.
You don’t believe me?
Then check out my SingaporeLoveLinks review
In this review I reveal everything…
- I prove that a lot of these girls care more about you than about your bank account.
- I share screenshots from the replies I received.
- I guide you through the whole signup process.
If you really want to meet Singaporean girls, this is the best dating site. Period.
How to Get a Singaporean Girlfriend
Did you check out my SingaporeLoveLinks review and join for free?
Then you already know that the girls on this dating site are stunning. And I’m sure you already dream about your future Singaporean girlfriend. Just imagine her beautiful smile, her seductive smell and her tasty lips.
But let’s be honest.
You don’t want to end up dating a materialistic gold digger who only sleeps with you if you buy her a Gucci bag. No, you want a girl who does neither need nor want your money. She wants you.
Here’s how you get such a Singaporean girlfriend…
Do Not Try to Impress a Singaporean Girl with Your Money
Singaporean men flirt in a simple four-step process:
- Buy expensive clothes.
- Try to impress girls with their lavish lifestyle.
- Buy shit for the girl.
- Hope that she sleeps with them.
I asked my Singaporean friend, read countless forum posts, and asked some of my other female friends who traveled to this country. They all said the same.
And to be honest, I can’t really blame them.
It’s a rich country and I’m sure that it works with some girls. I mean, gold diggers are everywhere. But come on, do you really want to date these girls?
Be careful what you wish for.
The good news is that a lot of Singaporean girls are sick and tired of this attitude.
Don’t make the same mistake. Be different. Flirt with the girls and you’ll spend less money and have more fun.
It makes finding the perfect girl so much easier because she looks at you in a different way…
Focus on Singaporean Babes Who are Looking for a Boyfriend and Not a Servant
Yes, a lot of guys in this country confuse throwing money and gifts at girls with flirting.
The consequences are severe.
I mean, no matter how many gold diggers you “attract” with your money, none of these women respects you. No woman on earth respects a guy who tries to buy her. These girls use these guys but they are not attracted to them.
Singaporean women treat the local guys like servants.
You don’t want to be like the guy in the video.
Make clear from the beginning that you are NOT like the local men and NOT her servant. She’ll be happy that she finally found a man she can respect.
Take Your Future Singaporean Girlfriend to One of These 3 Fun Dating Spots
I could list dozens of fun dating spots in Singapore, but there are three that really stand out. Take her to one of the following venues and she’ll give you cute nicknames after the first date.
1. Changi Point Coastal Walk
This dating spot has three advantages:
- You can enjoy a romantic coastline walk
- You have enough space to get to know each other (if you know what I mean)
- It’s free
Do I really have to say more?
Oh, one more thing: Go there when the sun sets and she will fall in love with you faster than you can say rough endoplasmic reticulum.
2. The Esplanade Roof Garden
Another fun dating spot that’s free. Hurray!
As the name already reveals, this is a garden on a roof. It’s the perfect place to have a picnic or to just sit, cuddle, and enjoy the view of Marina Bay Sands.
3. Gardens by the Bay
“Oh no, not another garden…”
If you want to have a hot Singaporean girlfriend, this is one of the best places to take your date.
This crazy futuristic garden has a romantic Skyway and thanks to all kinds of chemical perfumes it smells like love mixed with candy cake.
Understand that Sexy Singaporean Girls Can’t Flirt
You are on a date with a beautiful Singaporean woman.
She looks amazing. Her long hair, her bright smile, and her tight dress that shows her cute little booty put romantic imagines in your mind…and a few naughty ones.
You are ready to win her heart with your flirting skills.
Great! There’s just one problem.
Singaporean women can’t flirt
No matter what you do, she just smiles at you and giggles. She doesn’t flirt back. You don’t get a single compliment.
These are the moments that make you want to cut your wrists, jump from the Esplanade Roof Garden and call it a night.
Not so fast.
Just because she doesn’t flirt with you, doesn’t mean that she’s not interested. Heck, she’s a Singaporean woman. You are the first guy she meets who knows that flirting is not the same as showing your credit card.
None of the local guys ever flirted with her. Give her some time.
How to Make a Singaporean Girl Like You
Don’t ask yourself how to make a Singaporean girl like you. Instead, ask yourself what you can give her that a local man can’t give her.
Obviously, it’s not money.
You biggest advantage is that the local guys think that money can replace positive emotions. But seduction is always about emotions. Don’t ever forget that.
Here are a few things you can do to make her like you:
- Impress her with your confidence, not with your money.
- Be the romantic gentleman she secretly wants to date.
- Show her that you want a partner and not just a trophy girlfriend.
The secret to winning a Singaporean girl’s heart is to be the first man who makes an effort to seduce her.
3 Things You Need to Know about Marrying a Singaporean Girl
Let’s imagine for a second that you have joined SingaporeLoveLinks, chatted with a few girls and took three of them to the three fun dating spots that I shared with you.
One of these girls makes your heart beat faster.
- She’s incredibly sexy.
- She’s not materialistic.
- She loves your confidence and emotional strength.
You can’t get rid of the feeling that this woman is wife material.
Here are a few things you should know about marrying a Singaporean girl before you take the next step…
1. The Average Age for Marriage in Singapore is Not in Your Favor (But the Divorce Rate Is)
Let me guess…you want to have a young and beautiful bride, right?
Well, I have bad news and good news for you.
The bad news is that the average age for marriage in Singapore is not in your favor. Back in 2004 Singaporean women got married at 26.7. Today they are 28.2 years old.
But just because your wife is already 28 doesn’t mean that the marriage can’t last a lifetime.
I also have good news for everyone who wants a beautiful Singaporean mail order bride.
Even though more Singaporean brides get married, fewer women want a divorce. The divorce rate went down 2.9% within one year.
1. Singapore Brides are 75% Western Brides
Don’t get me wrong.
Singapore brides are different than Western women…at least in some ways. But it’s a rich country that values materialistic gains and a successful career above everything. I can’t deny the effect this has on the local women.
Here are a few things that Singapore brides and Western women have in common:
- They are independent
- They are career-focused
- Most of them don’t want to have children
Sounds pretty bad, huh?
Well, it’s actually not that bad. Dating in Singapore is still different than dating in the West. The 25% difference can be the missing link to a happy marriage.
Here are a few reasons why marrying a Singaporean girl can be a good choice:
- They are feminine
- They take care of their bodies
- Most of them dream of marrying a foreigner.
3. Singapore Mail Order Brides Want to Marry Foreigners
“Sebastian, do Singaporean girls really dream of marrying a foreigner?”
Yes, many of them have this dream and turn it into reality. In case you don’t believe me, you might believe the official statistics.
In 2016 there were 1.622 marriages between Singaporean mail order brides and foreign men. That’s a 39% increase within the past ten years.
Okay, mail order bride is the wrong word because you might be the one who will move to Singapore, but that doesn’t change anything about the fact that…
Singaporean girls love to marry foreigners, especially Western men.
Summed Up Wisdom
Yes, the stereotypes are true, at least kind of. Some Singaporean girls are spoilt and materialistic…but not all of them. In fact, being a sugar daddy is one of the worst things you can do, at least when you want to attract feminine Asian beauties who are looking for Western men.
They want you for a reason. They want you because you understand that flirting is not the same as showing your credit card. And no, they don’t just want you for one night. Marriages between Singaporean women and foreign men are on the rise.
But no matter if you meet your Singaporean girlfriend on SingaporeLoveLinks or if you meet her in the Zouk Club, make clear that you are not her servant and that she can’t treat you like the local guys. Be different and show her what it means to be in a relationship with a confident man she want to fall in love with.
Sebastian Harris says
Thanks for sharing your opinion.
I am a North Indian. Having spent my time in UK and northern parts of India, I must say that Singapore women are more smart and confident. Coming to dating I won’t prefer coz I don’t find Singapore women very attractive and as per my taste. they are thin, not curvy and lack facial features like westerners or Indo Aryans.
However I have loved talking to them and admire their confidence and independent mind set. And yes, this also adds that they prefer Western men, then why put effort in wrong direction.let the girls be happy with their dream to be with a western man .
Sebastian Harris says
Thanks for sharing.
I just saw this post and I think it is the closest approaching about singaporean girls. I currently have a girl friend who is Singaporean. I am not a white man so I am not sure if white men can really work well over there but at least they seem to hate guys boasting their money and want a compensation from it. It is actually so common between native Chinese and Singaporean guys since they usually least have money. It is such a good point.
Sebastian Harris says
Thanks a lot for your feedback!
Mr. Harris, I read your article thoroughly and I have to say it was very good with the exception one thing, I am black. True most Asians in general are racist. Let’s call it what it is. I have been to 133 countries, this I know. Unfortunately you failed to report this fact in a true way. Every Asian women I have confronted about this told me that her opinions were formed because of what she was told by someone White about blacks. Because racism is basically ignorance or stupidity, I always make an effort to confront people that I come into contact with them. I would say 90% of the time I have done this the answer to why they are racist is because some white guy told them they should be for whatever reason. Sounds like insecurity or some kind of SHORT coming to me but hey to be honest Mr. Harris, I have no problem dating Asians. I don’t let other people set my agenda or squash my legitimate aspirations in life . I know who I am and what I have to offer so I feel embolden when I go to Asia because for sure their are smart women there that don’t judge quality by color but by substance. The article definitely was not meant for people like me, but thanks for the useful information. I will not let the part about being black discourage me. I have done extremely well in all nine Asia countries I have visited. True Singapore is challenge, but I only need to meet one intelligent nice looking lady that has a mind of her own to make my journey a success. Good luck Brothas reading this article. Keep it real Sebastian keep it real. Peace.
Hatim Chang says
You are right, Indian Women dating/marrying White Men is very rare in Singapore or in Malaysia, Same goes for Malay Women. Indian Women are just not interested or attracted towards White Men may be because Indian Women prefer their own Indian Men all the time. on the other hand Indian Men dating White Women in Malaysia or Singapore is very common.
Sebastian Harris says
I know quite a few guys who are happilly married without children.
David Hall in Australia says
Singapore girls sound nice, but making a mistake, culturally, l don’t want. Neither would the mythical she. I will never know, but love to them all. You say they are not into having children , but surely that is what marriage us all about.
Sebastian Harris says
then good luck with them 😉
Those high quality singaporean girls are so conservative you can’t notice them. No wonder you call them mostly materialistic and spoilt. They go for asian guys like me. hehexd
Sebastian Harris says
Yep, keep your eyes wide open. Good point.
Shema Troy Lo says
Guys i think good and bad stay together. Keep your eyes wide open to find real one.
Sebastian Harris says
some but not all.
Most of the Singaporean girls are crazy about money.