Why do white men like Asian women?
My girlfriend is Asian and she is the most amazing woman I have ever met. Question answered?
I am a young Caucasian man and I absolutely love women from Asian countries. Yes, I admit it, even though I am aware of the fact that I earn a lot of criticism, whenever I say that in public.
The relationship constellation that I am going to talk about in this article is one of the most popular, most criticized and at the same time one of the most natural constellations that you can find in the sphere of interracial dating.
From all the men I ever talked about this subject I have only met a handful of guys who were not attracted to Asian women. Nearly every man has yellow fever, even though I personally don’t like this expression, because it implicates that being attracted to Asian women is a sickness, a perverse fetish.
Isn’t it ironic that we men are labeled as liberal-minded, tolerant and progressive, when we say that we are attracted to women from races that are not so popular on the dating market, but we are automatically creepy perverts with psychological issues, when we say that we are attracted to Asian girls?
I don’t have any strange fetish, I have never paid for sex in my life and I also don’t have any psychological issues that make me afraid to date women from my race. Yet, I am still immensely attracted to Asian women.
The more Asian girls I have dated, the more I realized that there are quite a few logical reasons, why I prefer them.
In the following lines I want to get to the bottom of the question:
Why do white men like Asian women?
Why Do White Men Like Asian Women: The Misconceptions
Unfortunately, the majority of people on this planet are extremely narrow-minded and intolerant. For average-minded drones it is very common to hate everything that is slightly popular. No matter if this is a popular musician, blogger or a popular relationship constellation.
Dating Asian women is extremely popular and widespread and because a lot of white men are attracted to those women, there must be a fly in the ointment. There must be something odd here, right?
Especially for frustrated women who lost their men to sweet and tender Asian girls, this feeling of suspicion offered the perfect platform to develop hatred against every white man who dares to think about touching an Asian girl.
Eventually, those negative perceptions became widespread stereotypes that were propagated by normal people who don’t know any better and who don’t have the intellect to question their beliefs.
A lot of people think that way and as a result of this ridiculous way of thinking, a lot of reasons why white guys like Asian women bustle around that are not only far from reality, but also an insult for both races.
They Want a Submissive Slave
One of the most common and also most negative stereotypes that Caucasian men have to face is that of the evil man who wants to have a submissive slave for the bedroom. I don’t know why this stereotype is so popular, but I am sure that it is somehow related to the fact that so many people believe that Asian women are nothing but submissive little dolls.
Neither the assumption that all Asian women are submissive dolls who do everything that you want, nor the fact that every man who is into them wants to have a submissive slave is true.
Those girls are human beings like every other woman and everyone who has at least a little bit of dating experience with them knows, that they also have their own opinion.
Of course there are some men who want to have submissive sex slaves, but those guys only go for the hookers. Their fetish for girls who do everything they want has nothing to do with their supposed preference for Asian girls.
Those guys would go for girls without an own will in every other country and with girls of every other race. While doing research for this article I had a look at a dozen of brothel sites that advertise submissive slaves and none of the girls who worked there were Asian.
They Can’t Get a Woman Back Home
Why do you go to another country in order to seduce women? Because you are a loser and going abroad is the only chance for you to get your dick sucked. If you really believe that, you will never do what you really want to do, which is the fastest way to end up completely miserable.
Why do white men like Asian women? Because they can’t get any woman back home and they have to end up dating the only girls who will take them…those poor guys. This is the biggest bullshit that I have ever heard.
Of course there are a few guys for whom this is true but those are not the ones who are interested in dating amazing Asian women. Those are the ones who are interested in having a girlfriend experience with a girl who they give monetary incentives for the experience.
Do I want that? I am in my early twenties, have an athletic body and if I would want to date women who drive me nuts, I could have a lot of girls in Germany, the USA or any other part of the world. Nevertheless, I like Asian girls.
You are one of my readers and therefore I know that you also don’t want that. You don’t want to end up having sex with a hooker who bathed in STD’s and who only fucks you because you give her some money.
You want to overcome your fears, you want to learn how to seduce women and you want to be able to attract the most amazing women into your life that this planet has to offer. I know that you are determined to get girls from every country, even if you prefer Asian women.
Why do white men like Asian women? Not because they have to end up with them or because they can’t get girls from other races, but because they prefer them for several reasons.
They Want to Pay for Women
I still remember that one day when I told a group of people that I have an Asian girlfriend and one of them turned towards me and said: “so, you like to buy your women…I understand.”
I think I don’t have to mention that she was the ugliest, fattest and probably most sexually frustrated woman in the room. On the one hand, I felt extremely sorry for her and for her non-existing intellect. On the other hand, I could somehow understand why she really believed the shit she said.
Have you ever wondered why nearly every documentary that you see about Thailand or the Philippines is about the red light districts?
Sometimes I think that our society wants you to believe that escaping your mortgage paying existence and dating women who make you happy instead of talking you to a stroke, is something bad.
If every man would move to Asia, live on a fraction of the money he spends back home and date amazing women who make them happy, our government would run out of working slaves and tax payers.
Nevertheless, saying that all Asian women can be bought is simply ridiculous. How many red light districts that are packed with women who want your money are in Asia?
You have Nana Plaza, Soi Cowboy and the Walking Street in Thailand and you have Angeles City in the Philippines. Those are the most well-know.
How many red light districts are in Europe? Whole Europe is a fucking brothel. Germany alone has 400.000 prostitutes and those are only the ones who are registered.
Well, saying that Asian women are the ones who do everything for money makes total sense, right?
My girlfriend comes from a very rich family and I also know a lot of other guys who date Asian women that don’t need and don’t expect any money from them.
Why do white men like Asian women? It has nothing to do with the lie that they want to buy them. Let’s have a look at the reasons why we really love them.
But before we are getting all serious, I want to give all the people who have the same weird humor as me the chance to find out why they need to date Asian women:
Okay, let’s get back to serious again 😉
Why Do White Men Like Asian Women: The Short Answer
To say that there are only one or two reasons why white men like Asian women would be the same as to say that the Great Wall of China was built with one or two stones. There are plenty of reasons why we prefer the petite dark-haired beauties and why we enjoy ever y moment we spent with them inside and outside of the bedroom.
Before I want to share all those reasons in detail with you, I want to provide you with a short answer to the question:
“Why do white men like Asian women?”
Okay, if I am really honest I want to provide you with two short answers before we have a look at the individual characteristics that make those girls so special. In the process of thinking about an answer that bolls it down to an essence, I realized that there is another essential aspect that shouldn’t be neglected.
Asian Women Give You Everything You Could Ask For
Why do white men like Asian women? If you want to sum it up you could say that they give them everything they could ask for. It is really that simple. Every man has a perfect picture in mind when he thinks about his dream girl. Every man has a list of things that his future girlfriend must have and should have, in addition to a few nice-to-haves.
Even though every man has different preferences, beliefs and values, there are overall characteristics in women that all men appreciate. Physical beauty and emotional tenderness are only two examples. When you combine all the individual physical, mental, emotional and intellectual characteristics of Asian women, you will get a full package that matches with the ideal image of 99% of men on this earth.
You can bet that being loud, aggressive and always complaining are not part of this ideal image. When I am going to talk about all the individual characteristics that make dating women from Asia such a pleasurable and fulfilling experiences, you will see that you will find the personalities and the values of those girls extremely tempting.
In case Asian women are the last girls on this planet you would date and in case you consider the fact that they are perfect girlfriends who love to take care of their partner as negative, you should shoot me an email. Give me the chance to ask you if you lost your sanity.
Why do white men like Asian women? They give them everything they could ask for. A man who is perfectly happy would be stupid if he would stop dating the girls you can find on countless Asian dating sites, just because someone judges him for what he does. Never change a winning team.
Asian Women Make Settling Worthwhile
Speaking of a winning team…
In my experience dating Asian women feels like being part of a winning team. Being in a relationship with such a girl will teach you what it really means to support each other and to treat each other with respect.
You will forget pretty fast that your past relationships were dominated by never-ending arguments about stupid things that nobody really cared about. You will forget that you were used to relationships that were based on the need to always have the last word and to fight for the throne with the inscription “here sits the one who is in charge”.
Why do white men like Asian women? Because you will forget all those negative things once you are in a relationship with an Asian girl and you will finally see that settling down can have not only disadvantages.
You finally start to believe that it is possible to have a happy relationship with a woman without playing power games all the time. Having a partner who supports you, who loves to take care of you and who respects you, will change your perception on things that you thought are not worthwhile to pursue.
Why Do White Men Like Asian Women: Their Special Characteristics
Why do those women give a man everything he could ever wish for and why can dating them change your beliefs about the likelihood to have a happy relationship?
Like I already said, listening one or two characteristics are by far not enough to explain the reason why Caucasian men like beautiful women from Asia. However, the fact that most of them are extremely beautiful just explains a fraction of the fascination for those girls.
In the following paragraphs I tried to accommodate a number of things that are determining for the fact that Asian girls are in demand. Their values, their personality and the way they treat their partners makes it impossible to not fall for them.
Beauty and the Promise to Stay Beautiful
Due to the fact that I just mentioned one important reason why white men like Asian women, it is no mistake to discuss this reason in detail. Do you remember what I said?
I said that Caucasian men like beautiful women from Asia. Of course men from all other races also like beautiful women.
The only difference is that we white men who live in the Western hemisphere are usually not used to that many beautiful women. As a result of that we are completely blown away, as soon as we land the first time in any cosmopolitan city in Asia.
Men from Brazil and Colombia, who are used to an abundance of incredibly gorgeous women, won’t experience the same culture shock as the average white guy. Especially when you live in the USA or any Western European country, you are used to see a lot of obese women who don’t even care about how they walk around.
Seeing a girl with perfect makeup and an attractive slim body who can walk perfectly on her high heels is somehow a revelation for us. Unless you are really, really turned off by the facial structure of Asians, it is impossible for you to not find those women beautiful.
I can’t deny that their straight black hair, their tiny bodies, their slim physique and their feminine facial features have a certain impact on the heartbeat of most men. Even though popular fast food chains do everything they can to destroy this reason, there are still millions of Asian women who are incredibly beautiful.
The best thing about their beauty is that it remains for a long time. I know a lot of Asian women who are over 30 and who still look like girls who just celebrated their 18th birthday.
Their Feminine Features
Why do white men like Asian women? Well, one reason is that they are incredibly gorgeous and that men are instinctively attracted to beautiful women. However, the way God, Mother Nature or the holy Buddha made them is not the only reason why you and I can’t stop looking at them.
It’s not all about their beauty. It’s also about what they do with it.
Those girls know how to utilize their feminine charm and how to turn your head. They don’t just rely on their physical features. They put their perfect bodies in beautiful dresses, they walk in an elegant way and even when they speak they are attentive to appear feminine
The way they dress, the way they walk, the way they talk and the way they behave are all part of the full package that blows us away.
Respect and Loyalty
Do you have a friend whose girlfriend sometimes makes fun of him in public? I have one and whenever I witness this behavior I am happy that I decided to date women who don’t do this.
Have you ever seen a woman who treated her boyfriend in a disrespectful way in public or who even became aggressive and scathing while talking to him? I have seen it a billion times and every time I have seen it I prayed to God that this guy will eventually find out about my website.
In case you have ever been to Asia I want to ask you another question:
Have you ever seen this behavior in Asia?
You probably haven’t and if you have, the couples you have seen were most likely tourists or an Asian guy did something really bad, such as setting his mother-in-law on fire. In the same way as you usually won’t see children who throw themselves crying on the floor because they didn’t get the sweets they wanted, you won’t see women who treat their boyfriends in a disrespectful way.
In the Western society it became a fashion to treat men with disrespect.
We are mocked in advertisements, in movies and in women’s magazines. Disrespecting a man is always funny but you better not do the same with a woman. That’s what I call equality.
Respect is not the only thing that got lost in many relationships. Loyalty is also a word that doesn’t appear in the dictionaries of many women. Thereby, I am not even talking about sexual loyalty. I am talking about the loyalty to support each other, to be there for your partner and to not stab him in the back whenever you get the chance to do so.
If you want to know what I mean you just have to date an Asian woman and talk about your vision to start a business.
She won’t tell you that you should stay realistic and stop dreaming. She will give you a kiss and tell you that she believes in you.
The Charm of Novelty
I already said that Asian women are beautiful, that they know how to utilize their God given features to make themselves look even more attractive and I also told you that a lot of Caucasian guys from the Western hemisphere get a heart attack when they see those women.
Even though this is all true I want to talk about one last reason why white men like Asian girls, that has to do with their physical appearance and that I simply can’t deny. Actually, this reason has nothing to do with the fact that they are Asian but with the fact that they are not white. Latin women and African women would have the same effect on us.
We men might end up dating girls who are similar to us in regards to our personality but before we get to know such a girl we are magically drawn towards women who we perceive as different and therefore as exotic. This is one reason why people from every race, no matter if men or women, are mysteriously attracted to what they perceive as exotic.
The charm of novelty does exist in the dating world and having a sexual experience with someone outside of our race is always something that we fantasize about and that we want to experience at least once in our life. Once we managed to chop this experience from our bucket lists, the personality traits of Asian women are responsible for making us falling in love with them.
Their Peaceful Attitude
Why do white men like Asian women? Well, I just said that their personality traits are the reason why so many men fall for them. Their peaceful attitude is definitely one of those attractive personality traits.
Some people call it reservation, others call it uptightness and I call it peaceful attitude. Many of the Asian cultures, especially the ones that are influenced by traditional Buddhist beliefs, emphasize harmony and peace.
For a lot of Asian people the worst thing that can happen is when they lose face.
This happens when somebody criticized them in front of others or said something insulting to them.
Sometimes this attitude can be quite annoying, because you never know when they are really pissed at you, but all in all the advantages prevail.
Dating a woman from an Asian country means no more never-ending discussions about every irrelevant trivia, no more contentiousness because she had a bad day and no more aggressive teasing because she wants to test your boundaries every few seconds.
Why do white men like Asian women? We Caucasians are only human and we also thrive for harmonic and peaceful relationships.
It’s not our fault that the prospects to end up in a harmonic and peaceful relationship are pretty high if we decide to date Asian women.
The Feeling of Being a Protector
The combination of their petite physique, their soft facial features and their loyal and peaceful behavior triggers one important feeling in us men, which we all want to feel. No matter how strong and independent the women we date are (and there are a lot of independent women in Asia), we all want to have the feeling that we are needed.
Even though a lot of women nowadays mistakenly think that we want to be needed in the household or when it comes to making the decision to buy a minivan, the feeling that we really crave for has nothing to do with those things.
We want to be needed in the classical cavemen sense. Unless we men have the feeling that we are strong enough to protect our girlfriend and that she is dependent on our protection, we will never feel fulfilled in our relationships.
The way an Asian woman looks and behaves makes you believe on a subconscious level that she needs a protector and this protector is you. The moment you are starting to date an Asian girl you will promise yourself that you will protect this soft, petite and nice girl. This is the feeling that men need to have in order to be happy in a relationship.
The Values of a Perfect Girlfriend
In case you are only interested in having a short-term sexual experience with a random girl, you probably won’t care about the fact that Asian women have extraordinary family values and don’t regard settling down as a burden that you have to do once you are tired of drinking and fucking around.
However, I know from my own experience and from a lot of guys I met how easy it is for a short-term sexual adventure to develop into a long-term relationship. This is especially easy because Asian women are the perfect girls to end up in relationships with.
I already told you that Asian women have the incredible talent to make settling worthwhile. The question is:
How do they do that?
Well, you just have to combine everything I said until now with the fact that family means everything to them. Due to the fact that you as her boyfriend are part of her family, she will do everything to please you and to make you happy.
Why do white men like Asian women? She will take care of you in the bedroom and outside of the bedroom and she will make sure that you don’t regret being together with her. Asian women are amazing girlfriends.
Summed Up Wisdom
Why do white men like Asian women?
Let’s first have a look at the lies you have been told, before I am going to share the true reasons why white men like Asian girls. Frustrated women who got dumped by men who decided to date Asian women might tell you that the only reasons why men go for those girls is because they want submissive slaves, can’t get any other women and want to pay for women. I know that this is not true for you and me.
We want Asian women because we know that they give us everything we could ever ask for and that they might be our only hope to settle down without regretting it. What are the specific characteristics that we can’t resist?
They are beautiful and they know how to use their feminine charm. They treat you with respect and loyalty is more than just a word for them. Their peaceful attitude in combination with their subjectively perceived exotic look makes them irresistible, while their physical appearance and their behavior trigger our protective instinct. Asian women have values that can only lead to happy relationships. They are the perfect girlfriends.