Do I really have to tell you how beautiful, hot and sexy South Korean girls are?
I mean, the only reason why you are here is because you want to date them. You know that they are stunning and I know it since I signed up on the largest Korean dating site on the internet.
My friend Jill is stunning.
When I first saw her I thought “wow, she looks like a perfect Asian Barbie doll.”
Now I know that she’s not only beautiful but also intelligent, educated and helpful. In fact, she is so helpful that she agreed to do an interview with me.I wanted to ask her three or four questions about the South Korean dating culture.
We ended up talking for five hours.
Yes, it took us five hours to discuss what it’s like to date Korean girls and how Western men like you and I can get a Korean girlfriend, or wife. It would have taken only three hours, if I could’ve stopped staring at her flawless face. But I couldn’t.
Now I know more about these girls than my brain can handle.
I know everything about…
- The truth behind the magnetizing beauty of South Korean women.
- The weird process of meeting them in clubs.
- The power of Aegyo (You’ll soon know what that is).
- The sexual fantasies of these cute Asian ladies and why it’s dangerous to sleep with them.
- The agenda of South Korean mail order brides.
You’re about to read the most comprehensive guide that has ever been written on this subject. This guide is only for men who really want to meet and date Korean girls.
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You are serious and you have what it takes to read the whole goddamn guide...
What Are South Korean Women Like?
They are hot, but what else?
I’m sure that you don’t want to date a hot Korean girl who can’t read, is spoilt as hell, and evil to the core. Okay, maybe if she looks like her…
You deserve to know if South Korean girls are girlfriend material. And you also deserve to know that appearances are deceiving.
Hot Korean Models are Not Made by God
No, they are also not made by the devil. They are made by the best plastic surgeons in the world.
You don’t believe me?
Have a look at the following pictures.
In my KoreanCupid review I mention that I was shocked when I saw how stunning most female members of this dating site are. They looked flawless. And they replied to my messages. I was on cloud nine.
What I didn’t know was that there’s a simple explanation for their stunning sameness.
They all went to the same doctor.
Of course, their beautiful porcelain skin, their perfect hip to waste ratio (the Koreans call it S-Line), and their long legs are real. That’s a mixture of awesome genetics and the right diet.
However, some of the faces you see on Korean online dating sites are made by skilled artists with scalpels. So don’t complain when your daughter doesn’t look like your wife. You have been warned.
Hot Korean Chicks (Think that They) are the Queens of Asia
They are not made by God, but they think that they are God.
I didn’t know that until my friend Jill sat on her sexy ass and started talking.
Of course, these pretty Asian ladies are not as entitled as your average Western girl, but they can be quite arrogant.
No wonder. Half of Asia is obsessed with K-Pop, their hairstyles and their white porcelain skin (the most sought-after Korean facial feature).
Not only white guys can become arrogant when they are in Asia.
And due to the rapid development after the Korean War, they are even more convinced that they are the queens of Asia.
But just because your future Korean girlfriend can be a bit arrogant from time to time doesn’t mean that she doesn’t treat you with respect. She respects you, even if she thinks that you are dumb as a rock…
Most Korean Beauties are more Educated than You and I
I neither want to insult you nor myself. But I have to admit something.
The beautiful South Korean women I know are smarter than I am.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not an idiot. I have a Bachelor of Arts and a Master of Science. But I only know a fraction of what Jill knows. And she’s not the only sexy Korean girl with long legs and voluptuous lips who has a brain like Albert Einstein.
Even though their insane school schedule (16 hours a day is normal) has led to depression among students and an increase in suicides, these ladies know what it means to study. When we are burned out, they are just getting started.
So yeah, your girlfriend will be smart as hell.
South Korean Babes are Well-Traveled
Do you travel a lot?
I do and no matter if I arrive in a hotel in Kuala Lumpur, Jakarta, or Kiev, there is always at least one Korean backpacker girl in the lobby. They are everywhere. I assume that at any given point in time, 20 million of the 50 million inhabitants are traveling somewhere.
South Korean girls are well-traveled.
What does that mean for your dating success in South Korea?
The bad news: You are not as exotic as you are in other parts of Asia.
The good news: She’s familiar with the Western culture.
Don’t worry. Even though you are not as exotic as in a village in the Philippines, she still loves white guys (more on that later). And she’s not afraid to immerse in your culture.
How to Meet South Korean Girls in Seoul
Do you really want to do that?
I mean, a flight to South Korea isn’t cheap. And the hotels are also more expensive than in Thailand, Vietnam or Indonesia. It’s quite risky to travel to this country without setting up dates before you land.
And it’s way more exciting to have a sexy Korean girl waiting for you at the airport.
But hey, if you want to travel to this country without meeting girls online before you book your flight, you can of course do that. But I have to warn you. There are only three ways to meet Korean women in Seoul or other parts of the county.
They all have one thing in common. They are awkward.
Say Yes to the Weird Korean Matchmaking Process
Dating in Korea is weird.
You will understand why when I tell you about the wonderful word seon.
A seon is a blind date and according to Jill, there are different types.
- So-gae-ting is a blind date where you meet one person.
- Mi-ting is a blind date where a group of girls meets a group of guys.
- Mat-seon is a blind date that’s organized by the parents.
I have to be honest. I’m not 100% sure that the Korean names are correct. Feel free to correct me in the comment section.
Anyway, blind dates are popular in South Korea.
Good luck finding a Korean guy who is willing to introduce you to his fat female friend that he wouldn’t touch if you put a gun to his head.
There are better ways to meet South Korean girls…
Approach Gorgeous Korean Women in Seoul
Approaching them is one of them.
Walk along the streets of Seoul, look out for beautiful girls, and approach the ones you like the most. You need cojones to do that, but it is possible.
Okay, it’s kind of possible.
I don’t doubt that you have the confidence to walk up to a stunning South Korean woman, but I doubt that she has the confidence to talk to you (let alone the English skills).
She’ll blush and giggle, but she won’t say a word.
Korea is a very, very, and I repeat, very traditional country. It has a patriarchal society (no, not the fake Western patriarchy), that has trained women to smile and act cute. Nobody taught them how to talk to strangers. It’s not a part of the Korean dating culture.
Approaching her in bright daylight makes her happy. No doubt. But it might also make her pee her pants.
Learn How to Get a Beautiful Korean Girl at Night
Meeting girls in clubs is weird, no matter where you are.
Bright lights, loud music, drunk people…it’s a crazy environment and it gets even crazier when you are in South Korea.
How do you usually pick up girls in clubs?
- You see a girl you like.
- You look her into the eyes and smile.
- She smiles back and you walk over to her.
That’s how people all over the world pick up girls in clubs…with the exception of South Korea.
Here’s how it works in the clubs of Seoul, Goyang, and Changwon:
- You arrive at the club with a group of guys.
- You get a table and a bottle.
- The waitress takes a group of girls and introduces them to you.
No, I’m not joking. In Korea it’s all about blind dates and getting introduced, even in clubs (yes, normal clubs). Or maybe Jill only said it because she doesn’t want me to have fun during my next trip to Seoul.
3 Reasons Why You Should Meet Korean Girls Online
Blind dates can be disappointing, especially when you would rather go blind than to date the girl your friends choose.
What about club game?
Well, a table and bottle costs more than a premium membership on the largest Korean dating site on the internet. And meeting Korean girls online is so much easier.
1. Most South Korean Girls You Meet Online Can Speak English
Jill is fluent in English, but she’s the exception.
Nevertheless, there are a lot of girls who can speak English at a conversational level. And they are waiting for a guy like you. No, they are not waiting in a café in Seoul.
They are waiting for you online.
The math is simple:
- A lot of Korean girls are attracted to Western men.
- Most of these girls know that learning English is the only way to meet their dream guy.
- They also know that online dating is the easiest way to live their fantasies.
2. Using a Korean Matchmaking Service Pushes Her Closer to Her Fantasy
Did I say fantasies?
Don’t forget that South Korea has a patriarchal culture. Women are there to please men.
What about men pleasing women?
According to my friend Jill “South Korean men believe that giving expensive gifts is more important than giving sexual pleasure. They don’t really care. We fantasize about men who care…”
That’s where you come in to play.
The only reason why a traditional South Korean girl might sleep with you on the first date is because she wants to know if it’s true what they say about the romantic Western lover. And she knows that meeting you online is the best way to hide her desire from her conservative parents.
3. Online Dating Sites Allow Her to Avoid the Korean Interracial Dating Judgement
Even though beautiful Korean girls love white men, interracial dating is not that easy.
Korean men are the best cock blockers in the world.
I don’t know if it’s because of their superiority complex, or because the women are the hottest in Asia. Korean men hate everyone who tries to steal one of “their” girls.
I experienced this first-hand when I asked Jill for a coffee.
One of her Korean friends looked at me as if he wanted to stab me. She told me that it’s because Korean men feel superior to other Asian men but inferior to Caucasian men.
And there’s only one place where South Korean girls can escape the judgement of the local men…
How to Meet Korean Women Online (And Why THIS is the Best Korean Dating Site)
You want to meet stunning South Korean singles without leaving your apartment?
It has never been easier.
There’s a small site called KoreanCupid that makes it possible. Okay, it’s not really that small. The site has more than 500.000 members and as you’ll see in my review, quite a few of the female members replied to my message.
Just don’t make the same mistake as I made and joke about plastic surgeries while you are chatting with a pretty Korean girl. I got some nasty replies because of that. Use the second message I sent and you’ll get replies like this…
3 Reasons Why Sexy South Korean Women Dream About Dating Foreigners
I already told you that South Korean women love Western men.
No, it’s not because of the money. Salaries in South Korea are higher than in some Western countries. It’s also not because they want light-skinned babies. It’s hard to be paler than South Korean women, even if you are from Sweden.
There are other reasons why they are so into you.
1. Korean Women Love Caucasian Men
It’s no secret that Asians are obsessed with Caucasian facial features.
Even though plastic surgeries are risky and painful, hundreds of thousands of Korean women operate their eyelids and jaws to look more Western.
It shouldn’t come to a surprise that you have a dating advantage as a white man. Korean girls love you, especially when you are white…
What about the girl in the video who is into black guys?
2. Korean Women Dating Black Men is a New Thing
Most foreigners in Korea are white.
As a result, a Korean woman dating a black man is still a novelty. You don’t see this kind of couple often. In general, they prefer white guys. Even though it sounds brutal (especially if you are a black man), here’s how Jill answered the question do Korean girls like black men:
“Some Korean women are into black men. It’s just so rare that they see one. The idea of dating one is exciting. But at the same time, their cultural conditioning kicks in. Koreans are raised to be proud of their white skin. The girls know that they would break their parent’s heart by having half-black children.”
I know that it sounds brutal, but there’s hope for black men.
There’s a popular Korean YouTuber, Lily Petal, who is married to an African-American man. She even has a video on how to pick up black men which has more than 196.000 views and thousands of comments.
So yeah, there are definitely some beautiful Korean girls who like black men…at least when their parents don’t watch.
3. Single Korean Ladies Believe that Foreigners are Different than Korean Men
I currently study Thai in a language school in Bangkok. That’s where I met Jill…and eight other Koreans. Jill lives healthy. She doesn’t smoke and drink. I wish I could say the same about the other eight Koreans.
They smoke like the Marlboro Man and drink like Jimmy Fallon.
It’s absolutely insane!
For some reason the male smoking rate in this country is one of the highest in the world at 36.2% and the female smoking rate is one of the lowest at 4.3%. Since July 2013 the government tried to handle this problem with smoking bans. It doesn’t work.
What about drinking?
South Korea has more alcoholics than any other country. I’m serious. They are half the size of a Russian man but drink twice as much. They drink at least twice as much as any other freaking country in the world.
Now guess why South Korean girls dream about dating foreigners.
- We don’t pass out every night.
- We don’t stink like an overflowing ashtray.
- We don’t get lung cancer or liver cirrhosis by the age of 30.
It sounds stupid, but one of the reasons why South Korean girls love foreigners is because they are sick and tired of dating men who drink and smoke themselves to death.
4 Things You Must Know about the Korean Dating Culture Before Your First Date
The Korean drinking culture is unique. So is the dating culture.
If you don’t know everything (yes, everything!) about the Korean dating culture, you will fail. No matter how much she likes you; you will do one of the following things:
- You’ll show affection…the wrong way.
- You will go crazy after she forces you to make the 54th selfie.
- You forget her ring and I’m not talking about the wedding ring.
Familiarize yourself with the weird Korean dating culture before you make a mistake that you’ll bitterly regret.
1. Hot Korean Chicks Don’t Kiss in Public
Kissing a Thai girl in public is a sin, but you will be forgiven. Kissing a Korean girl in public is a sin that won’t be forgiven.
Yes, South Korea is more developed than Thailand and Vietnam, but they are conservative to the core (except when it comes to drinking).
Showing affection in public is a no-go.
Nevertheless, she wants to feel your affection from the moment you meet her...via text messages. Forget what you have learned about texting Western women. It doesn’t apply here.
Send a Western girl ten text messages in a row and you are weak. Do the same with a Korean girl and she falls in love with you.
2. Korean Relationships are a Constant Social Media Battle
Warning: Do not date a South Korean girl if you hate texting, calling and social media.
I hate social media. And to be honest, I would go crazy with a Korean girlfriend. But maybe you like to make hundreds of selfies and to post at least ten couple pictures a day.
South Korean women love their smartphones more than Thai women and they are hard to top.
Have you ever heard of the Korean Social Media Relationship Battle?
My friend Jill defines the KSMRB (I love my abbreviations) as the constant battle to show that you have the happiest relationship. This war is fought on social media and you can only date a Korean woman if you are ready to fight.
3. Hot South Korean Women Don’t Want to Date Badly Dressed Men
Social ladder, status, hierarchy…all these things are incredibly important in the Korean dating culture.
You don’t have to be a millionaire to compete with the local men and you should definitely not use the same “buy her affection” approach. But you have to show that you have status.
No grillz required. All you need is style.
Jill told me that South Korean women would love my style. I usually wear a button shirt, blue jeans and brown shoes that look quite expensive. Apparently, that’s enough.
I think I shouldn’t tell her that I bought all my shirts at a run-down mall in Bangkok for less than $5.
4. Dating South Korean Women Requires a Good Memory
Let’s say you meet a sexy Korean girl online. You date her, you fall in love with her, and boom…she is your girlfriend.
Now it gets tricky.
There’s one thing about the Korean dating culture that will shock you more than anything else:
“But Sebastian, that’s no big deal. I’m ready to buy a gift for my Korean girlfriend when we have our one-year anniversary.”
Sure, but are you also ready to buy her a gift…
- On day 100, 200, 300, 500…
- Every 14th of the month.
- On a bunch of other days that I can’t remember.
This is how dating in Korea works. You celebrate every 100 days and every 14th of the month you celebrate again with candles, movies, silver and all kinds of other things. Oh, and don’t forget the anniversary ring that you have to buy for her on day 100.
Did I mention that dating Korean girls is pretty time-intensive?
How to Get a Korean Girlfriend
Are you ready to meet thousands of hot Korean girls online?
And are you ready to fight the social media battle with the one girl who makes your heart thump?
I’m sure you want to know how to get a Korean girlfriend and whether or not it’s easy to seduce one of these sexy Asian beauties.
Well, it all depends…
Are Korean Girls Easy? Yes and No
Before you can date South Korean girls, you have to forget everything you learned about dating in the West. Yes, also the three-day rule.
In my experience, there are only two types of Korean girls.
The ones who sleep with you on the first date.
The ones who let you wait for at least five dates.
Her decision to close or open her legs depends on two very important questions she asks herself:
Do I want to hook up with this guy?
Do I want to marry this guy?
In the Korean dating culture you are basically married as soon as you are in a relationship. People don’t hook up and they usually don’t break up. They stick with the first person they date (maybe that’s why there are so many alcoholics).
That’s why so many Korean girls fantasize about dating a foreigner.
They want to date you because it’s exciting and because it goes against the social paradigm. She wants to sleep with you on the first date. She wants to be naughty. But she doesn’t want to introduce you to her parents.
What if she thinks that you are marriage material?
She won’t sleep with you on the first date and sooner or later she wants you to meet her parents. But be careful. Once you get the approval from the parents, she assumes that you are going to marry her.
Picking up Korean Girls Makes Your Fingers Bleed
Did I mention that Korean girls love their smartphones?
But wait. There’s a positive side to it.
She doesn’t make herself rare.
- No more waiting until she replies.
- No more guessing if she ignores you.
- No more staring at an empty screen.
The one thing I love the most about Korean girls is that they don’t play the stupid “who replies first” power game. They love to show their affection. When a Korean woman likes you, she sends you ten smileys before you wake up.
What if you don’t reply?
Expect a few thousand missed calls. She might call the police because she thinks that you are dead.
What Do Korean Girls Like? Leaders
Don’t ever ask your Korean girlfriend where she wants to go.
She doesn’t know and to be honest, she doesn’t care. She wants you to decide. And she wants you to lead. Always.
You are the leader in this relationships and she is the follower.
It starts when you get her number and it doesn’t end when you sleep with her for the first time. You can get a Korean girl out of the patriarchy, but you can’t get the patriarchy out of the Korean girl.
Gorgeous Korean Ladies Want a Loyal Boyfriend
So, you want her to be your girlfriend?
Remember, she is smart, educated, and well-traveled. She knows that you have a high value in South Korea.
She knows that Western men can get laid left and right.
Of course she wants to be sure that you don’t have ten other Korean girlfriends. So prepare yourself for:
- Regular Facebook messenger checks.
- Cute temper tantrums when you tell her how many girls stared at you today.
- A jealous girlfriend.
When I told Jill that I wouldn’t want my girlfriend to check my email, messages and phone calls, she replied with “uh-oh”.
I think that says it all.
How to Impress a Korean Girl: Carry the Purse of Your Future Korean GF
It’s easy to impress a Korean girl. You just have to carry her handbag.
Let me explain what it REALLY means to carry the handbag of a Korean girl, before you call me a beta male with a white knight syndrome.
It’s not what you think and it’s definitely not the same as in the West.
Carry the purse of a Western woman and you are in the Friend zone
Carry the purse of a Korean woman and you are Boyfriend material
In the West, it’s a sign of weakness. In Korea it’s the opposite. The women in this part of Asia want to feel feminine. And they feel the most feminine when you give them the feeling that they are weaker and submissive to you.
In Jill’s words: “I feel protected when a strong man carries my bag.”
It seem like feminism hasn’t reached South Korea yet.
How to Get a Korean Girl to Like You: Live Jeong
But just because attractive Korean women are anti-feminists, at least when it comes to dating, doesn’t mean that you have to pay for everything.
“Jeong…what does it mean?” I asked Jill.
She thought for a second and then said that “Jeong is a strong feeling of affection that makes you want to share things with another person. “
You can share a lot of things.
- You can share special moments.
- You can share body fluids.
- You can share money.
If I can trust my cute South Korean friend, you don’t have to pay for everything, but you are expected to pay the bigger share (about 60-70%).
That’s the power of Jeong.
How to Date a Korean Girl (What it’s Really Like)
You carried her purse like a man and she’s happy that you are not one of these guys who have three side chicks (or maybe you have but you’re good at hiding it). Your relationship is at a stage where you share your love, affection, and your body fluids with her.
Congratulations, you have a hot Korean girlfriend.
It’s time to find out what you can expect in a relationship with her…
Dating a Korean Girl Means Eating a lot of Kimchi
Korean food is amazing, but Kimchi sucks.
Jill forced me to eat it and I nearly puked in her cleavage. I’ll never understand how you can like salted cabbage and radish.
I just want to prepare you for the moment when your Korean girlfriend wakes you up with a smile on her face and Kimchi in her hands.
And yes, they eat that shit all the freaking time…
The Hottest Korean Girls Live with the Strictest Parents
“Can my Korean girlfriend stay the night?”
“What if I get the approval from her parents?”
The upside of dating Korean girls is that they are hot, feminine, and loyal. The downside is that they have strict parents.
I know how much you want to cuddle with her at night (and to other things), but unless you want her dad to chop off your dick, you should respect her curfew. Oh, and whenever she’s at your place her mom will call her at least 325 times. But don’t worry. She will lie about who she’s with.
Dating South Korean Women Can Make You Lonely
If you want a girlfriend who can spend a lot of time with you, you should date a Filipina. You won’t get happy with a Korean girl.
Remember how I told you about the insane 16 hour schedules and high suicide rates?
That’s only the tip of the iceberg.
- You date a college girl? She has to study 16 hours AND at least 2 hours after class.
- You date a secretary? She finishes work at nine and then has to binge drink with her coworkers.
- You date a business woman? She hasn’t slept in months.
The insane work ethic is the reason why there are so many Koreans in my language school. They escaped. If you are dating a Korean girl in Seoul, she won’t be able to escape this insanity.
Understanding Korean Women‘s Attitude to Female Friends
One thing you should never say to your Korean girlfriend:
“Honey, I’m going to meet my friend INSERT FEMALE NAME at the mall.”
The moment you tell her that you meet your friend Britney she assumes that you’re cheating on her.
She will get angry and she might even break down crying.
When it comes to friendship in Korea, there are two rules:
- Women don’t have male friends.
- Men don’t have female friends.
Now you probably understand why the whole matchmaking process in this country is based on introducing women to men.
Love in Korea Means Walking around in Couple Shirts
If you are single in South Korea, you are fucked.
You are like an outcast, a leper. This country doesn’t have a hookup culture, but they definitely have a relationship culture. And no matter how many Disney movies you have watched, the South Koreans take it to the next level.
Here are just a few examples of what’s normal in this Asian country:
- You celebrate your relationship every month.
- Restaurants have special menus for couples.
- Couples walk around in awkward couple shirts.
Go ahead and promise yourself that you will never wear couple shirts. Sooner or later you will break that promise. Or your Korean girlfriend will break up with you.
Cute Korean Women Control You with the Power of Aegyo
What if you still refuse to wear couple shirts?
Well, she won’t break up with you immediately. She loves you and she wants to be with you. That’s why she already has a Plan B…and Plan B is evil and highly effective.
Plan B is called Aegyo.
“An egg you?!”
Nope, it has nothing to do with eggs. It has everything to do with the way South Korean girls behave around men. This little word is the reason why you are so into these cute Asian ladies.
Aegyo is the art of acting cute and some Korean girls have perfected this art…
Your girlfriend will use it whenever…
- She wants you to do something for her.
- She wants to win an argument.
- She wants to have sex with you.
You can’t deny that this is a nice way to get convinced.
How Are Korean Girls in Bed? The Truth about Korean Women and Sex
You naughty bastard…
Admit it. You think about this question since you started reading this guide. You want to know how it feels to have sex with a Korean woman.
Hey, I don’t judge you.
I wanted it too when I asked Jill about sex with Korean women. She blushed. Her hands started to sweat. She was nervous…and aroused.
I placed my hand on her thigh, looked her deep into her eyes, and asked her everything I wanted to know...
Korean Women Love to Have Sex (But Hush!)
Beautiful South Korean women…
- Are conservative
- Have traditional values
- Love to have sex.
They would never admit it. The patriarchal society they’ve been raised in doesn’t give a flying fuck about female sexuality. If you ask her about her sexual preferences and fantasies, she will lie.
The numbers, however, don’t lie.
Even though the majority of South Korean women feel guilty about masturbation, 70% of female high school students think that masturbation is natural. Another study shows that about 50% of the female students who didn’t have sex yet, are open to the idea and blame the lack of opportunities.
Be her opportunity.
She fantasizes about it anyway, because you are the only option for her to enjoy her sexuality without getting judged.
Sex with Korean Women Can Be Dangerous
South Korean girls are afraid that you judge them for their sexual desires. Sweet little lies about what she really wants are one consequence. Passiveness is another.
According to Jill, Korean women are dangerously passive in bed (she smiled when I asked her if she’s one of them). And yes, it can get dangerous because…
- A Korean woman expects you to sexually escalate (so far so good)
- She wants to be your submissive lover (it gets better)
- She doesn’t stop you from having unprotected sex (dangerous territory)
The idea of sleeping with a sexy Korean girl is enticing. I know. But what if I told you that only 2.5% of South Korean women take the pill?
In the West, a girl can go to a gynecologist, get the pill, and smile on her way home. In South Korea, her parents, her friends, and maybe even the gynecologist will judge her.
And she doesn’t want you to think that she’s a slut.
That’s why she keeps quiet and doesn’t stop you from doing whatever you want to do with her. As a result, Koreans don’t just drink twice as much alcohol as Americans. They also have twice as many abortions than in the USA…with a sixth of the population.
The South Korean Sex Culture Turns Her into Your Loyal Girlfriend
The bad news about having a Korean girlfriend is that you have to talk to her about birth control. There’s no way around it.
The good news is that you don’t have to worry that she’ll cheat on you.
How can I be so sure about that?
Until recently, adultery was a crime in South Korea.
But the fact that Korean women could end up in jail for adultery is not the only reason why they are loyal. Just think of all the other consequences they have to face when they cheat on their spouse.
- The culture she lives in shames her for it.
- She is a disappointment to her family.
- No Korean man would marry a woman who cheated in a past relationship.
When a Western girl cheats on her husband, she cries crocodile tears, plays the victim card, and gets half of his money.
See the difference?
3 Things You Must Know about Marrying a Korean Woman
Wow…you really want to do it.
You have found the perfect girl and you want to marry her. She’s one of the most beautiful, educated and kind girls on KoreanCupid.
You made her your girlfriend and now you want to take the next step.
Well, there’s nothing I can do besides congratulating you and telling you the truth about marrying a South Korean mail order bride…
South Korean Mail Order Brides Want to Opt Out of the Local Culture
No, Korean mail order brides don’t want you because of your money. She earns enough.
- She likes you because you are an amazing man (I know you are)
- She wants to be with a man who cares about her emotional and sexual needs.
- And of course she’s crazy for Western men.
But that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have an agenda.
You, the way you treat her and the fact that you are not a chain-smoking and binge-drinking South Korean guy make her want to say “I do”. The dream of escaping a culture that forces her to work herself to death while her family dictates her life makes her say it even faster.
Your Korean GF is Already Your Korean Wife
I told you about the couple rings, right?
And I also told you that your Korean girlfriend only introduces you to her parents if she wants to marry you.
In her mind you are already married.
She felt like you were married from the moment you bought the couple ring for her. You don’t have to find a Korean wife. You already have one.
No Korean Marriage without the Family’s Ne
“Ne” means “yes” and unless you get a loud and happy “ne” from her mother and her father, you can already book a one-way ticket out of the country without your Korean bride.
That’s the reality you have to face.
If her mother reacts like THIS, you are fucked…
But that doesn’t mean that you have to give up. There are a few things you can do that can turn an “ani” into a “ne”.
Try one of the following:
- Tell her mom that you are really serious and that you will take care of her daughter.
- Don’t ever judge or disrespect her parents (your Korean girlfriend is obedient to them)
- Drink with her dad and brothers until you pass out.
The last tip might lead to an alcohol poisoning, but at least you can get married after you wake up in the hospital.
Marrying a Korean Girl Means Becoming a Korean
If you answer all of the following questions with yes, you are ready to marry a Korean girl.
- Are you willing to learn Korean?
- Do you wear your couple ring every day?
- Do you think that couple shirts are kind of cute?
- Are you ready to sacrifice your liver for love?
Then, my friend, you are ready to marry your beautiful Korean bride.
Summed Up Wisdom
I spent five hours with a stunning South Korean girl to gather facts for this article, but I have the feeling that five hours are not enough to understand every part of the Korean dating culture. It’s a fascinating country with breathtaking women.
Once you understand that not all South Korean girls are made by God and that your future girlfriend might be more educated than you, you need to understand the Korean dating etiquette. But don’t worry. Dating Korean women is not that hard. It’s all about introducing each other and following the rules.
The only way to escape this madness is to meet Korean girls online. But even if you find the perfect girl online, you still have to know why she wants you to buy couple rings and why she sends you ten text messages within 60 seconds. Understanding the Korean dating culture is the first step to making her your girlfriend or your bride.