How to Make a Woman Desire You (By Jordan Peterson)

Why?

Well, because this feeling is way more intense than liking, wanting, and being attracted. We’re talking about raw sexual desire. That’s a powerful feeling and if you know how to trigger it, the hottest girls will beg you to sleep with them.

Be honest:

You tried to do it but it didn’t work, right?

No need to be ashamed. I tried it for years by...

Guess what happened …

Nothing happened. None of the girls I wanted to sleep with took their clothes off. It was so painful because I thought I had done everything right. Little did I know that I had done everything wrong.

Here’s what I should have done:

How to Make Her Desire You with Dr. Jordan B. Peterson 

a couple of years ago nobody knew about Dr. Jordan B Peterson.

Things have changed...

Now that I think about it…Dr. Jordan Peterson knows more about female nature than some of the best pickup and dating coaches in the world. In fact, his ideas are very similar to the ideas of one of mentors.

Here’s what my mentor once told me:

These words came from a 42-year old man who had just introduced me to his 24-year-old girlfriend who worshiped the ground he walked on. She adored him. She desired him with every part of her body and soul.

Maybe it was because he had read dozens of erotic novels for women or because he lived a secret double life as a werewolf…

Why Werewolves and Pirates Are Desired by Women  

Since this day I have read dozens of erotic novels for women.

This year I stumbled upon this talk from Dr. Jordan B. Peterson:

That’s spot on!

But what’s even more interesting is what Dr. Jordan B. Peterson says about the archetypical men women desire. You can’t possibly believe in “just be nice” after you had a look at this data-backed list.

Let’s have a look at what the Google engineers discovered: 

The women in the audience were laughing when Dr. Jordan Peterson listed these archetypes. And their laughter revealed the truth. Every woman in the audience tried to hide their approval behind their laughter and red cheeks.  

“You’ve got me there. Let’s hope that my laughter makes me appear clueless and innocent.”

These are the male archetypes that women think of. I’m sure the Google Engineers who collected this data are right. But please allow me to add five additional archetypes to the list.

My experience forces me to add:

“Why the hell did you include husband in your list?” I hear you asking.

Well, read this article till the end and you’ll know the reason…

1. Be Dangerous Like a Vampire  

Let’s start with the first archetype.

Why do you think Twilight was such a success?

It's not because the lead actress has the emotional expression of a stone. Nobody cares about this chick. The books and the movie were made for women. 99% of the audience care about the guy who played the vampire…and the dude who plays the werewolf, but more on that later.

But why? Why are women into vampires?

Well, I don’t want you to run around and bite girl’s necks. Think about True Blood or Vampire Diaries. The story is completely irrelevant. It’s about sex and yes, it’s made for a female audience.

Here’s why:

Every woman is addicted to this ambivalence. 

She wants a guy who selfishly pursues his goals. The same guy has to be selfless and romantic when he’s with her. She wants a guy who needs nobody in his life but her. She wants a fearless man who is vulnerable when he’s with her.

Be this man and women will beg you to be theirs…

2. Transform Like a Werewolf  

Why on earth are women sexually attracted to werewolves? 

Werewolves mastered the art of transformation.

Remember what Jordan Peterson said:

“What women want are dangerous men that are civilized and they want to help civilize them.”

Think about it. This sentence describes werewolves perfectly…and of course, female desire. Women want a man who is a gentleman in public and a sexual beast at night. They love this dance between good guy and sensual lover.

Here’s how to make a woman desire you:

Use eye contact and polite words to let her know what dirty things you want to do with her later. That’s the polarity women subconsciously crave for. They want a man who’s torn between the “reputable mask” he wears in public and the “sexual beast” he is in bed.

What about untamable loyalty?

Women want to tame the wild animal.

That’s why being a world-traveling seducer is so attractive. You are wild. You are free. She wants to tame you and be loyal to her. Deep down, she knows that it’s (almost) impossible.

What if you’re a tamed dog instead of an untamable werewolf?

Then you’re harmless because she’s certain that you’ll stay. That’s when she realizes that she doesn’t want you anymore.

3. Carry Yourself with the Pride of a Billionaire  

I can already hear your screams…

“All women are gold diggers. I knew it!”

Not so fast. If money was all you needed to create desire in a woman, I wouldn’t have so many rich coaching clients. I coached guys who have way more money that I will ever have and they still had a hard time getting girls.

Here’s the truth:

Women desire billionaires but NOT because of their billions.

It’s not about flashing cash. It’s about having the qualities and characteristics that most billionaires naturally possess. Unless he has inherited the money like this Travers Beynon Candy Shop Mansion dude on Instagram, your typical billionaire worked.

Billionaires have the mindset, the beliefs, the posture, the self-confidence and the aura of a winner. Without these qualities, they wouldn’t have made so much money.

Do you have these qualities?

Then you’ll be able to make any woman desire you…

4. Be Selfish and Altruistic Like a Surgeon  

This archetype gave me a short WTF moment.

I mean, just think about all the blood, bones, and other disgusting things surgeons have to deal with all the time.

Let’s focus on the last aspect for a moment:

Yes, women want men who selfishly pursue their path. Nobody can deny that surgeons do that. I mean, you have to sacrifice a lot to end up slicing people for a living. But don’t forget that they save lives.

Being altruistic is one of the most desirable qualities in men.

According to two independent studies, men who are altruistic report to have more sexual partners, more casual sex, and sex more often in a relationship. Men who donated money also had more lifetime dating partners.

I guess I’ll continue to donate money.

5. Lead her Like a Pirate Captain  

No, not like Captain Jack Sparrow…

You can do better. Getting drunk, burning down your own ship, and running away with your hands in the air is not enough to make a woman desire you. Sorry, but if that was the case you just needed a bottle of rum to make it happen.

But no, you need more.

You need the leadership qualities of a real pirate captain:

That’s exactly what women want.

Forget about having an annoying parrot on your shoulder and forget about drinking until you fall from the mast. Leadership qualities! That’s what women desire in a man…no matter how many times you hear the opposite.

Be the captain of your ship and she wants to be your crew.

Women are loyal to men who lead them, make the decisions, and protect them. This was true in the year 1718 and it’s still true in the year 2018.

5 Archetypes Dr. Jordan B. Peterson Might Want to Include 

These were the five archetypes that Dr. Jordan B. Peterson mentioned.

But why stop now? 

My experience tells me that there’s more to it. Vampire, werewolf, surgeon, billionaire are all very attractive to women. But that’s only the beginning. There are more qualities, characteristics, and mindsets that deserve to be addressed.

I had to include the following:

Please allow me to explain why I added them and how they can help you to make women desire you…

6. Paint Colorful Pictures Like an Artist  

Why do you think Pablo Picasso had his last child with a woman who was decades younger?

Women love artists!

One of my best friends is a painter. Okay, let’s be honest. He’s an amateur painter and he knows it. He can’t earn a living with it. That’s why he works part-time in an office. But he never talks about his office job with girls. He only talks about his paintings.

That’s why girls line up to date him.

Artists, no matter if rich or starving, have something that most men don’t have:

Be passionate, raw, and creative. That’s how to make a girls desire you. A man who loves his job and knows how to express this feeling is ten times more attractive than a man who hates his job and therefore his life.

Oh, and don’t forget the pictures he’s painting.

I’m not talking about actual pictures. An artist can make music, act, or paint. It doesn’t matter. There’s one thing these people have in common. They have the ability to excite women by painting colorful mental pictures.

Paint a colorful picture of the future and she’ll want to be part of it.

7. Dress Desirable Like a Secret Agent 

Looks matter but not in the way you think.

Being a desirable man is not about having rock-hard muscles and chests that are bigger than Pamela Anderson’s. Whenever guys hear “looks matter” they think they have to run in the gym or worse, to the plastic surgeon.

They tend to forget that a look in the closet is often enough.

Nobody can deny that most women would chase a guy like James Bond. It doesn’t matter if it’s Roger Moore, Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan, or Daniel Craig. Millions of girls run to the cinema and you can bet that it’s not because of the action sequences.

They love James Bond because…

Never underestimate the power a suit has over women.

A suit communicates, style, class, manners, success, status, confidence and a million more positive attributes. Most women can’t resist guys in suits.

8. Have Options Like a Husband  

Here’s an interesting fact:

According to a study, 90% of single women were interested in a man who they believed was taken, but only 59% of these women wanted the same man when they were told he was single. Women desire married men and some do anything to get them.

It’s one of life’s bad jokes.

A lot of men marry out of fear of dying alone and not having anyone who wants to bang them. Now that they are married, they could bang almost any girl they want. Maybe that’s why so many married men are miserable. 

The question is:

Do you really have to get married to make use of this biological loophole?

Thankfully, you don’t.

You just have to get the same approval:

Women want men who are desired by other women…whether they wear a ring or not.

9. Protect Her Like a Knight  

Nope, this is not a crash course in white knighting.  

I don’t want you to cockblock other guys and I also don’t want you to start a career as Captain Save a Hoe.

I’m talking about being a real, a legit night who…

Okay, you won’t fight any dragons and I’m pretty sure you don’t have a castle. In case I’m wrong, you can invite me and we’ll have a castle party.

Anyway…

Women feel chemistry with a man who protects them, listens to them, and is the rock that makes her feel safe.

10. Be Unpredictable Like an Adventurer  

Adventurers are desirable.

Why do you think Indiana Jones gets the kiss?

And that’s exactly why he gets the kiss. Or should I better say that’s why she tries to eat him alive and licks his ear. That’s what happens when you’re the type of guy who’s always looking for the next adventure.

Be fearless like a Vampire and untamable like a werewolf.

I had to travel to four continents, seduce more than 35 girls, and write down everything I know about women and seduction to figure this out.

You’re welcome…

Summed Up Wisdom 

You want to know how to make a woman desire you. That’s great. You just have to turn into a vampire or werewolf. What? You don’t know how to do it? Then change jobs and become a surgeon or a billionaire.

But don’t worry. You don’t need to grow teeth or fur to trigger arousal, lust, and untamable sexual desire. However, you need to an untamable man because women hate harmless men. They want civilized men and help to civilize them.

What does this mean for you? Be selfish but altruistic. Be fearless but vulnerable. Be impressive but unimpressed. It’s this ambivalence that drives women crazy. She wants what’s out of reach and she won’t stop chasing after this ideal.