Let’s have a look at how to break the touch barrier with a girl…
“The WHAT?” I hear you asking.
This article is not simply about placing your hand on her body. First, you have to find a way to get there. I mean, you can try to give her a big fat hug while she’s walking past you. But I doubt that it will work. She might run away or kick you in the balls.
Nope, that’s not what you want.
You want her to look at you and to think “I wish he would touch me”. That’s what you want. And I want to show you how to get her in the mood for that. If you follow the advice in this article, you’ll be able to break this barrier and to explore her body whenever and wherever you want.
Here’s why I’m so confident about that:
Are you ready to break down the walls of her resistance and to conquer her body?
Then let’s get started…
How to Break the Touch Barrier with a Woman
Let me first bore you with three important questions:
- 1What the heck is the touch barrier?
- 2Why is it there in the first place?
- 3How do I get rid of it?
Answer to question #1:
It’s the invisible barrier between your body and her body. It’s the line that you need to cross if you want to get physical and escalate sexually. And let me guess. That’s exactly what you want. So yeah, you have to break this barrier.
Answer to question #2:
It’s there because the two secret components are missing. She still doesn’t trust you and she doesn’t feel comfortable around you. As long as she doesn’t feel these two emotions, that damn thing won’t go away.
Answer to question #3:
You get rid of it by creating intimate moments that make her feel comfortable and that make her trust you.
Sounds easy, right?
Here’s how to do it the right way…
1. Observe How She Reacts to Eye Contact
This is the first sign.
As a Global Seducer, you should be a fan of direct eye contact. In fact, you should hug and cuddle it…and use it whenever you can. Look her in the eyes. Do it like a Tiger who’s about to attack his prey. Your eyes are hungry and she’s the snack.
How does she react?
The first and second options are good. The third option is not so good. But it happens. In this case you shouldn’t touch her, at least not yet. She needs more time. But whenever you see a smile and hear her giggling, you can take the next step.
A woman who wants to be your prey wants you to touch her.
2. Test the Waters with an Innocent Hug
Don’t jump into hot water.
I bet your mom told you not to touch the hot stove. I tell you the same about hot water. First, you have to test the waters. Then you can swim. I don’t want you to burn yourself. You have to be more patient than the average ADHD patient.
Here’s what I mean by that:
Don’t touch her ass when she’s not even comfortable with a hug. Okay, that’s an extreme example. But you wouldn’t be the first guy who falls into this trap. Take baby steps. After a while you can increase the intensity of your attempts to turn her on.
An innocent hug is the best way to start.
Observe her reaction. She either leans in or she takes a step back. When you feel her breasts pressing against your body, you can be sure that she wants to increase the temperature. Give her a foretaste of your body heat and hug her again.
3. Walk Close to Her
Here’s how to break the touch barrier with a girl by walking:
Yes, by walking and it’s as boring as it sounds. Sorry to disappoint you. I can’t offer you an incredible sneaky super stealth pickup technique (that doesn’t work). Instead, I give you a simple solution to a complicated problem.
How do you know that she wants to touch you?
Walk next to her and see how she reacts.
Get closer and closer and closer. What does she do? Does she also get closer? That’s a good sign. But even if she doesn’t move…continue with your evil plan. As long as she doesn’t move away from you, you can continue to walk close to her.
What if she imitates your move and comes closer, too?
Take this opportunity and hold her hand…
4. Use Every Opportunity to Hold Her Hand
Here’s how I look at life:
Everything is an opportunity. Every time you walk down the street, you could meet the woman of your dreams. And every time you walk next to a woman, you could hold her hand.
It sounds so simple, but it works for me.
What about you?
The choice is yours. But if I were you, I would use every opportunity you can get. Heck, even if it’s just a high five after a terrible joke. That’s also a way of touching her hand. So do it. You won’t regret it because next time you’ll touch more than her hand.
5. Reveal Your Evil Plan in a Cheeky Way
What’s your evil plan?
You’re here because you want to know how to break the touch barrier with a woman. That’s you’re evil plan. You want to make her want to touch you. That’s your secret. Actually, it doesn’t have to be a secret. You can reveal your plan.
Here’s what I like to say:
“I’m so sorry, but I have to hug you now. This voice in my head keeps telling me to hug you.”
Here’s what I say after the hug (in a funny voice):
“Mhhh…that feels so good. Your body is so warm.”
She’ll laugh throughout the hug. That’s exactly what you want. By making fun of your evil plan, you make her laugh. And a woman who laughs is more likely to touch you than a woman who cries. Oh, and she’ll know what you want from her. That’s also good.
You can be Dr. Evil, but you don’t have to keep your plan to yourself.
6. Don’t Start Where You Want to Finish
Where do you want to finish?
Oh God, I’m so sorry. That’s an inappropriate question. You might say “on her ass”, but that’s not what I mean. I’m still talking about touching her…with her clothes on. So please don’t start where you want to finish. You can’t just grab her butt without prior warning.
You already tested the waters with an innocent hug.
Now it’s time to increase the intensity:
Your job is to work your way up (or down). Start with her arm. Then you can continue with her legs. And after that, you can tickle her belly…or touch her at another spot. But yeah, I love to tickle a girl’s belly. The ladies love it.
Start with the innocent body parts until you arrive at the danger zone.
7. Ask Her if She Trusts You
“Sebastian, it can’t be that easy…”
That’s what one of my coaching clients thought when I asked him to ask this one simple question on the first date. Ask her if she trusts you. That’s all you have to do. My coaching client did what I said, even though he considered this question ridiculous.
“Do you trust me?”
He asked her this question and the result left him speechless.
She said “yes” and from this moment on he could touch her wherever he wanted. He hugged her, he touched her arm, and he held her hand. It was like magic. But it wasn’t. It’s simple psychology. By letting her answer the trust question with “yes”, she convinces herself that she trusts you.
This is the unwritten rule:
When a woman trusts a man, he’s allowed to touch her.
8. Create Drama to Make Her Touch You
I had no idea what was about to happen…
I was on a date with this beautiful Lithuanian girl. We met at a local bar and she was all dressed up. She looked phenomenal. Long blonde hair, a short skirt…but an ice cold facial expression. She neither looked happy nor sad.
She had the Eastern European winter in her face.
After thirty minutes, I wanted to give up.
Her facial expression didn’t change. Every attempt to get closer failed. It was a disaster. For some reason I ended up talking about a friend who had some problems and how I wanted to help him. I guess I did it because it was on my mind and I already considered the battle lost.
This conversation changed everything.
Suddenly, she was touching me and hugging me. Yep, even the coldest woman is controlled by her emotions. Now that we were talking about an emotional topic, her ice cold expression melted and her true feminine nature emerged.
Create drama and women will touch you in a dramatic way.
9. Tell Her That You’re a Big Fan of Cuddling
Here’s a simple way to break the touch barrier with women:
Be a fan!
Yep, it’s that simple. You just have to tell her that you’re a fan of cuddling. She’ll regard this as an invitation to cuddle you. Life can be so easy. Just think about it. Imagine a woman would tell you that cuddling is one of her favorite hobbies.
What would you do?
You’d cuddle her!
You can do the same. Tell her that you enjoy nothing more than cuddling. Heck, I write that in almost every online dating profile. I let the ladies know that I love to cuddle (which is true). Of course, I love it even more when cuddling leads to naked wrestling.
But yeah, let her know.
You wouldn’t believe how many women don’t touch you because they are too shy. She doesn’t know if it’s too soon. She also doesn’t know if you’re ready or not. Now she knows.
10. Invite Her to Touch You First
What if you don’t want to reveal your cuddling fetish?
Well, you can still use other ways to invite her. You can do so many things to make her touch you first. Think about it. You can use words, actions, jokes, “I bet you won’t” challenges...and that’s only the beginning. Be creative and she’ll sit on your lap within seconds.
Here are some ideas:
Invite her to touch you first and she’ll do it. You just need the right invitation.
11. Use Romantic Moments to Get Physical
Let’s get romantic…
I know. You don’t want to do it. Let me be honest with you. I’m also not a big fan of all this romantic bullcrap. But sometimes you have to do it. And hey, if being a bit romantic leads to crazy sex in the bathtub, I’m all in.
Here’s the truth no man wants to hear:
Women love romance.
Just think about why they read romance novels, watch movies with Richard Gere, and love candles. I mean, come on. Candles have no purpose whatsoever. We have electricity, goddammit! But yeah, women love it.
That’s why you have to make use of the romantic moments the Game Gods provide you with:
These are all perfect opportunities. Don’t waste them.
12. Touch Her Even if You’re Scared
What if you’re still scared?
At some point you have to do it. You have to push through your fear and escalate. Come on. It’s not that scary. It’s just a woman’s body. I mean, her arm doesn’t burn you when you touch it and her belly won’t shoot razor blades.
There’s nothing you have to be afraid of.
You have to touch her. If you don’t do it, she won’t sleep with you. It’s that simple. Getting physical is not just the fast track to her panties. It’s also the only path you can take. You have to take this path, otherwise nothing will happen. I can promise you that.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know how to break the touch barrier with a girl? Let’s start with her eyes. Look into her eyes and see how she reacts. What if she smiles? Then you can continue with the next step. Give her an innocent hug and observe how she reacts. Maybe you’re lucky and she presses her body against yours.
What if you’re walking? Walk close to her and take every opportunity to hold her hand. Her hand is a good start. You don’t want to go all the way down to her butt when you touch her the first time. That’s too much. Start with baby steps and work your way up (or in this case down) to the danger zone.
And don’t forget the drama, baby. A bit drama helps to make her emotional. When women are emotional, they want to hug someone. This someone can be you, but only if you invite her to touch you first and if you’re not completely against romance.