Don’t you also want to know how to get a girl to touch you?
You’re walking down the street. Suddenly, you see this beautiful girl. Damn, she has such a sexy body. You have to approach her. That’s why you walk up to her and say “hi”. You want to touch her, but you’re too nervous.
You can’t believe what happens next…
And no, she doesn’t do it because you did all these things first. You didn’t do anything. She touches you because she wants to feel your skin. She can’t help it.
How is this possible?
Well, I have to admit something. I just said that you didn’t do anything. But that’s not entirely true. You did something. In fact, you did all the right things. You manipulated her female mind into wanting to touch you.
Here are some of the things you did:
It’s time to stop dreaming and to start doing what you have to do in order to get what all the other guys can’t get…
How to Get a Girl to Touch You (In Many Crazy Ways)
What is it that other guys can’t get?
Let’s face it. Only a few guys know how to turn a girl on with touch. Even less men know how to get a girl to touch them. You will soon be one of the few who know the secrets.
But how do you do it?
It comes down to three core principles:
I know. That sounds a bit too abstract.
I mean, what does it mean to give her the green light?
And how do you invite her to touch you and make her react?
Let me show you how it’s done…
1. Realize that Women Love to Touch Guys
The first step is to realize that women love to touch men.
Unfortunately, we live in a day and age where men are shamed for their “toxic” masculinity and where every form of sexual expression is labeled as creepy. As a result, many of my coaching clients believe that women don’t really like to touch guys they just met.
Here’s the truth:
Touching is the most normal and natural thing for women.
Just think about how women interact with each other:
They love it, even if they just met you.
2. Show Your Interest in Her
You can’t expect a girl to touch you when you’re acting like a friend.
Women are good at reading men, but they can’t look inside your head. She doesn’t know if you want to ask her out on a date or make new friends. If you act like a friend, she won’t do it.
She knows that…
That’s why you have to act like a seducer.
Don’t hide the fact that you’re attracted to her. Give her a compliment. And don’t forget to ask her out on a proper date. Show your interest in her and she’ll show you what she can do with her hands.
3. Touch Her Straight Away
Here’s how to get a girl to touch you within seconds:
Yep, that’s the whole secret. Sorry if it’s not fancy enough. But that’s a surefire way to do it. Remember what I said by giving her the green light? That’s exactly what you do by touching her before she does the same.
What’s the next level?
She’ll touch your legs, your shoulders, and every other part of your body. Go first and she’ll follow.
4. Get as Close as You Can
I know what you’re thinking:
“I came here to learn how to get a girl to touch me first!”
Okay, I get it. You don’t want to go first. That’s fine because you don’t have to (even though it makes things easier). But anyway, if you don’t want to take action, you can at least get closer.
You still don’t smell her bubble gum?
Then you’re not close enough!
Most men don’t believe me when I say this, but women are way more relaxed than men when it comes to invading their private space. I mean, look at how girls interact with each other. They snuggle up and sit on each other’s laps all the freaking time.
Men don’t do that.
Coming closer speaks a clear language: You are okay with body contact and she speaks the same language.
5. Laugh and Make Her Laugh
You have two options:
Option #1: You make her laugh.
Option #2: You laugh.
I hope you’re not sick and tired of all the simple advice I share with you. In case you are, you have to listen to Albert Einstein:
“Everything should be made as simple as possible.”
Here’s why this simple technique is so effective:
Think about what you do with your friends.
Someone tells a funny joke. You laugh your ass off. That can easily lead to high fives and all kinds of other touches. And to kisses…now I’m talking about you and the girl.
Do this a couple of times and she’ll touch you like crazy.
6. Share Touching Stories with Her
Nope, I don’t mean touching in the sense of “Oh my God, I have to cry”.
If you want to know how to get a girl to touch you, you have to tell different stories. You should share stories that contain a lot of (physical) touch. Skip the day you rescued a baby duck from drowning in your soup.
Here are some better stories:
Okay, skip the last one.
You can use one of the other two examples. Share stories that contain a lot of physical escalation and she’ll feel inspired to physically escalate. It’s like the old saying “don’t think of a pink elephant”. We human beings think about the things we talk about.
That’s why touch(ing) stories are so powerful.
7. Come Up with a Reason Why You Need a Hug
It can be any reason.
I’m serious. Don’t overcomplicate it. Come up with a simple reason why you need a hug or why she has to touch you and she’ll do it. Remember what I said earlier. Women want to touch men. That’s how biology has designed them.
Heck, you can even offer her a free hug...
I did this many times.
I was on a date with a girl and for some reason things weren’t flowing. The energy was tense (not in a good way) and I desperately wanted to increase the sexual tension. Out of the blue, I said “free hugs” and opened my arms.
She hugged me and it turned everything around.
Here are some other things you can do or say to make her touch you:
No reason is stupid enough when you have a girl who hopes that you come up with one.
8. Talk about How Much You Love to Cuddle
Cuddling can be the key to make her touch you and let you touch her.
Actually, I have to admit something:
I write “I love to cuddle” in most of my online dating profiles. And no, I don’t do it because I’m a beta male with severe white knight syndrome. I do it because it works. Women love to cuddle and I use this fact to my advantage.
Now they know that they have the permission to get physical on the first date.
Here’s what I want you to do on your next date:
Now she knows that you love cuddling and hey, she’s a woman. There’s a 99.99% chance that she also loves to cuddle. You’ll be surprised at how many girls initiate the cuddling process now that they know how much you like it.
9. Let Her Prove You Wrong
I love to play this game.
Imagine you’re on a date with a girl who’s kind of serious. She is distant and the handshake was the only physical contact you had. Even the handshake felt as if you were shaking Donald Trump’s hand. She’s a weird girl.
But you don’t want to give up.
That’s why you invite her to prove you wrong:
I can already tell you how she will react:
“No, that’s not true. I’m just…you know…don’t be so mean. I’m not like that.”
Now it’s time for the deadly strike:
“Prove me wrong!”
Now she feels challenged. And believe it or not, but women can’t deal with this pressure. That’s why qualification works so well when you approach girls. They do everything to release the tension…even if it means touching you.
She’ll prove you wrong. I guarantee it.
10. Take Her Hand and Lead Her to Touch You
Now it’s getting sexual.
You already know that women are attracted to leaders. In case you don’t, you need to read some of my other articles and listen to my podcast. So yeah, women love leaders. And there are two types of leadership. You can lead a woman emotionally and physically.
Here’s the simplest form of physical leadership:
You take her hand and lead her to touch you.
There are many situations where you can get a girl to touch you (and your dick) with this simple technique:
- It’s cold outside: Lead her hand to your cheek.
- She’s into fitness: Lead her hand to your biceps.
- You are hot: Lead her hand to your forehead.
- You ran after her: Lead her hand to your legs.
- She’s in your bed: Lead her hand to your crotch.
Don’t force her and don’t push her. Take her hand and gently lead it whenever you want to feel it. If she wants it to happen, she’ll follow.
11. Pretend to Be Sulky
You’ll love this way of getting a girl to touch you.
Or maybe you’ll hate it. I don’t know. All I know is that it works because girls want to be liked at all cost. It started when she was a little girl and she wanted to please daddy. Now she tries the same with you.
But shock horror:
Of course, you do all these things in an exaggerated way. You want her to know that you’re joking.
But what if you’re not? What if you’re serious?
She’s not 100% sure if you’re really joking or if you’re overcompensating.
Now you got her where you want her.
She’ll hug you, touch you, and embrace you to make sure that you still like her.
12. Accept the Challenge to Make Her Smile
Here’s another fun way to get a girl to touch you:
Accept the challenge to make her smile because she looks so sad. I mean, look at her face. She smiles like a child and she’s jumping up and down like a kangaroo. She’s so sad. Oh, wait. She’s not sad at all.
What if she’s not sad?
Challenge her with something else:
- She’s sad: Challenge her to put a smile on her face.
- She’s happy: Challenge her to make her even happier.
- She’s stressed: Challenge her to make her feel relaxed.
- She’s grumpy cat: Challenge her to turn her into smiley cat.
Her curiosity forces her to ask you what you have in mind. You don’t say anything. Instead, you open your arms and say “come on. Bring it in. I’ll give you some love”.
She’ll laugh and hug you.
13. Play the I Bet You Won’t Game with Her
If the “I bet you won’t game” was a woman I would marry her.
That’s how much I love this stupid game. I’m sure you’ve seen one of these YouTube videos where two friends challenge each other with “I bet you won’t” and then jump in a lake or do other stupid shit.
You can do the same with girls.
Of course, you shouldn’t ask her to jump in a lake, set her hair on fire, or get naked in public. That’s a bit too much for the first date. But I bet she won’t touch your body in public.
Here are some ideas:
Yes, I really had girls touching my butt in the middle of the street. The good-old “I bet you won’t” game can lead to incredible results.
I bet you won’t check out this page and buy my book Rise of the Phoenix.
Prove me wrong…
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know how to get a girl to touch you? Then you have to realize that women actually enjoy doing this, even if they just met you. One of the easiest ways to achieve your goal is to take the lead and start touching her first.
What if you don’t want to go first? That’s okay. You can still get closer and closer and share some naughty stories with her. Oh, and don’t forget to come up with silly reasons why you need a hug. No reason is too dumb.
Speaking of silly…is it stupid to tell a girl how much you enjoy cuddling? Nope, I do it all the time. If that doesn’t work, I let her prove me wrong or play the “I bet you won’t” game with her. That works for sure.