Why Do Filipinas Prefer Dating Foreigners?

Thousands of Filipinas are already dating foreigners. Millions of Pinay girls are still looking online for the Western man of their dreams.

The question is: Why?

Why are sexy 20-year-old girls looking for men in their 40s?
How can it be that a Pinay dating site has more than 3.5 million members?
Why are you still single even though millions of Filipinas would date you?

Did the last question make you angry? Good!

One of my psychology lecturers used to say that “anger is a motivating power”. So get angry. Get angry at yourself because you still haven’t taken action, even though millions of sexy Filipinas would give everything to date a guy like you.

You don’t believe me?

Have a look at the messages I received on the largest Filipino dating site and read this article to the very end…

Quick Navigation

Why Filipinas Are Looking for Foreigners Online

How Filipinas Imagine a Relationship with a Foreigner

Why Filipinas Want to Marry Foreigners

Summed Up Wisdom

Why Filipinas Are Looking for Foreigners Online

No, Filipinas are not looking for foreigners on dating sites because they want to have a pen friendship or because they want to improve their English. Some of them write “I want to improve my English” in their profile. It’s a lie.

Just think about it:

The average Filipina works 10 hours a day and has only one day off a week. She has better things to do.

She does it because she has a vision, a goal and a purpose.

A Filipina on an online dating site is like an entrepreneur at Shark Tank. She’s there to sell herself, to attract the ideal prospect, and to achieve her goal.

And you are the prize…

They Know that Foreigners Love Filipinas

Filipinas prefer foreigners. That’s no secret. And Western men love Filipinas. That’s also no secret.

She can put one and one together.

One of the reasons why millions of these sexy Asian princesses are looking for foreigners on online dating sites is because they know that foreign men want to date them. It sounds so simple, but it’s true.

They wouldn’t be doing it if they thought that foreign men are not interested.

She knows that you are hungry

Yes, there are way more women than men on Filipina dating sites. You are definitely in demand. But she knows that you are looking for her. And she wants to be ready when you send her a message.

She wants this message so badly because…

Filipinas Have a Fetish for White Skin

“Men who have yellow fever are sick and racist!”

God, I’m so sick and tired of that crap. I can’t even remember how many articles I’ve read in which embittered Western feminists bash white men for falling in love with Asian women. They call it yellow fever and whenever someone asks me if I have it (I have an Asian girlfriend), I say proudly “yes”.

What amazes me is that none of these feminist writers mention that 90% of Asian girls and probably 98% of Filipinas have milk fever. They love white men. Ask any Filipina on the streets of Manila or Cebu. She will tell you that White skin is more beautiful.

Ask her what kind of guy she’s attracted to. The answer: a white guy.

Filipinas are looking for foreigners for the same reason that you are looking for them:

They like the way you look.
They like the way you treat them.
They like that you are different than the locals.

Heck, you are reading this article because you want to date women who are not obese, don’t disrespect men, and are different than the women in the West. I know it because I was looking for the same before I met my amazing girlfriend.

But why is it so important for Filipinas that you are different than the local men?

They Got Disappointed by Filipino Men

She’s looking for foreigners online because she prays to God that you are different than her Filipino ex-boyfriend.

Domestic violence is a huge issue in the Philippines
Alcoholism is often the source of the problem.
Filipino men are not very responsible.

She wants a better relationship.

And she believes that she can have a better relationship with a foreigner because she thinks that you are more responsible, more respectful, and more responsible.

I can only hope that she’s right.

They Already Have a Child from a Filipino Man

Many Filipinas like us because of the way we look, behave, and think. Others like us because they don’t have another choice.

"No, daddy won't come back..."

“Wow…that sounds brutal!”

It does. But it’s the truth because the girls who don’t have a choice have something that no middle-class or high-class Filipino man would accept.

They have a child.

In the West, the stigma against single mothers is high. In the Philippines, the stigma against single mothers is higher than the Burj Khalifa. They are treated like leprous by the local men.

Marriage? No chance!

Marriage with a foreigner? It’s possible, as long as they set the bar low.

In other words:

You can meet thousands of young Filipina single moms on Pina Love and on Filipino Cupid who are looking for guys in their 50s and 60s.

So Many of Them are Starving for Excitement

Some Filipinas are seeking foreigners for the thrill.

Believe it or not, but not all girls who sign up on online dating sites are looking for a husband. Some of them are looking for fun because that’s what they are missing in their life.

Imagine you are a 19-year-old call center worker….

You have to talk to rude customers all day long.
You work at least 10 hours every day.
You go to bed alone every night.

The next day you wake up, go to work, and do the same thing again.

These girls are bored and craving for an adventure. And you don’t kiss and tell. No fears, no worries, just fun.

What’s more adventurous than a weekend of travel, dining, and sex?

They Want a Fairytale Relationship

Sorry, I have to disappoint you.

I would say that less than 10% are looking for travel, dining and sex. 90% of the girls on Filipino Cupid and Pina Love are looking for a serious relationship. But they don’t just want any relationship.

They dream of the perfect relationship.

"Why do I have such smooth skin? And why the fuck am I blonde?"

These girls have heard so many stories about the white man Filipina woman relationship that their biggest goal in life is to experience this phenomenon. They believe the stories and tales. They want them to be true.

Do you want to be her fairytale boyfriend?

How Filipinas Imagine a Relationship with a Foreigner

You can’t be her fairytale boyfriend. It’s impossible.

But that doesn’t matter because you just have to be 10% fairytale and 90% human. That’s enough for her. She doesn’t want more. Nevertheless, it’s fascinating how Filipinas imagine a relationship with a foreigner.

It’s like a naïve child dreaming of being a pirate.

If you understand how they think, you’ll understand why they want to date you.

Foreigners Buy Filipinas Everything They Want

Filipinas are not just beautiful, they are also smart. In fact, they are smarter than their fathers, brothers and ex-boyfriends.

In the Philippines, men are more likely to be illiterate and uneducated than women.

The result:

A beautiful college girl can choose between two local guys. One of them is a mechanic and another one sells street food. Both of them earn less than she will and both of them can’t afford the lifestyle she dreams of.

The solution:

She wants to date a foreigner who is educated AND who can afford a romantic dinner that doesn’t end in a diarrhea festival.

Foreigners Treat Filipinas Better than Filipino Guys

Did I mention the domestic violence and alcohol issue?

I think I did. And I think I also told you that there are millions of Filipinas who have been abandoned by the man who put a baby in her belly.

She doesn’t want to end up like that.

That’s why she chooses to be proactive and to look for the right guy online. In her mind the right guy is responsible, nice, caring and a foreigner.

Foreigners are Not Shy to Express Their Feelings

I have many Pinay friends, most of them are women. And they all tell me the same sad story.

Even if they wanted to date a Filipino guy, they wouldn’t have the chance because they are so passive. Heck, I coached Asian guys who looked at me as if I was insane when I told them to approach a woman.

Filipino guys don’t make the first move.
They don’t show their interest.
They don’t talk about their feelings.

Ask a Filipina and she will tell you that foreigners are more direct, more sincere, and more romantic….even Germans.

"I love you with all my heart, you are my light and my star. Shit, I have to cry."

Germans, for God’s sake!

I’m German and we are the most unromantic species on this planet. But we say what we think and feel. The local guys don’t.

Foreigners are Better in Bed

Nope, it’s not about the dick size (or is it?).

It’s about something else. It’s about what your mom told you when you were 13.

“What the f…?”

Hear me out:

I’m sure your mother told your horny teenager self that you should respect women, make them happy, and please them. Of course, your mom didn’t think about satisfying them in the bedroom (or did she?), but she laid the foundation.

The Philippines is a patriarchal and macho society:

Filipino guys don’t care about her pleasure.
They don’t ask a woman what she likes in bed.
They judge women for expressing their erotic desires.

In the Philippines, sex is something you do, not something you talk about. In the West, sex is something you talk about and experience together.

She likes the Western philosophy.

Why Filipinas Want to Marry Foreigners

When Filipino women are looking for foreigners online, they always have their goal in mind.

The goal is marriage.

She wants to hear the bells ringing and she has some very good reasons for that…

A Filipina Wants to Marry a Foreigner Because of Her Neighbor

She’s so envious of her neighbor.

No, I’m not talking about her neighbor who has the house on the left. This woman lives in an old woodhouse with broken windows. I’m talking about her neighbor who has the house on the right. She sees it every day when she walks to the market.

It’s a big house that was built by an American man.

And the neighbor has such an amazing view

His wife smiles…every day.

She wears beautiful dresses.
She has been to the United States.
She brought gifts for the whole village.

“If I could only have a life like that…”

That’s what she thinks whenever she’s looking for foreigners on Filipino Cupid.

Marriage in the Philippines with Foreigners is Easy

Do you know how hard it is to get married to a Thai woman?

Most Thai girls have limited English skills.
Thailand has incredibly strict visa regulations.
It’s hard to set up and run a business in the country.

What about the Philippines?

Everyone speaks English.
You can get a retirement visa with 35.
It’s easy to set up a business and to hire English-speaking staff.

The culture, the language, and the openness towards foreigners make it so easy to get married to a Filipina. The girls know that AND they can speak your language.

That’s why there will always be more Filipinas who are looking for foreigners online than Thai girls, Vietnamese girls, or Indonesian girls.

A Filipina Married to a Foreigner Can Have Cute Children

This is controversial but true.

Remember what I said about milk fever?

This isn’t just about you. It’s also about your (potential) children.

In a culture where white skin is the beauty ideal and where only light-skinned people can become famous, it’s not hard to understand why the women are obsessed with half-white babies.

My advice:

In case you don’t want to have children, tell her before the wedding…and wipe away her tears.

A Filipina Married to a Foreigner Has a Different Status

Do you know how a dark-skinned Filipina gets treated in a shopping mall?

Unless she throws a shoe box at them, the staff doesn’t even look at her. She gets ignored. No smiles, no “welcome madam”, no nothing.

What if she walks hand in hand with a foreigner?

The security guy doesn’t even check her bag. The staff runs towards her and addresses her with “madam”. They show interest in her and they treat her like royalty.

Imagine you had the choice…

You can choose between being treated like you don’t exist or like a VIP.

The way Filipinos think about and treat Pinay girls with foreign boyfriends makes the choice easy. Everyone assumes that they are richer, more beautiful and…better. She wants to be on top of the food chain and she knows that you get her there.

That’s why she is desperately waiting for your message on Filipino Cupid.

Summed Up Wisdom

Thousands of Filipinas are dating foreigners and even more are looking for men like you online. This is not a coincidence. They have the goal to find you, to date you, and to marry you.

Some of them are bored, but most of them are attracted to your white skin and to the beautiful babies you can make. A young Filipina knows that older Western men are attracted to her. Why shouldn’t she try?

She will try because she wants to have the same standard of living as her neighbor and yes, she wants the special treatment that she only gets when she’s dating a foreigner.