“What can I expect from an article about creative dating ideas?“
“Please don’t tell me I should take her for a romantic dinner or go for a picnic in a park…”
“I have done stuff like that hundreds of times and it was anything else than creative!”
Nope, I won’t tell you to take a girl for an expensive dinner or for a picnic, even though I am a big fan of picnics, especially when they are followed up by outdoor sex.
I want to present you four creative dating ideas that you might haven’t thought of and that could fascinate the girl you want to seduce. Are you ready to take your dating life to the next level by taking the next girl you meet on four unforgettable dates?
The first date will be a warm up.
The fourth will be shocking, surprising and incredibly exciting at the same time…
1. The Amusement Park
In case you think that amusement parks are only something for couples who are together for a long time or families with children, I am happy to convince you from the opposite. I once took a girl to an amusement park on the first date and it was a total success. We had a great time together and the kisses in the car after our last ride on the rollercoaster were quite intense.
Why is an amusement park a perfect venue to seduce a girl on your first date? There are several reasons for that.
The atmosphere is fun and playful and it offers plenty of opportunities to touch her.
Just imagine how she embraces you while the rollercoaster is going down.
However, the biggest benefit is that you have a 99% chance that no other guy has ever taken her to this place on the first date. Most guys won’t put in the effort to plan such a day. Heck, most guys won’t even think of more than going for a coffee or watching some shitty movie in the cinema when they think about creative dating ideas.
Another reason why amusement parks are an excellent creative dating idea is the fact that you share a lot of experiences in a short amount of time. Just think about all the activities that you can do together. Some couples don’t experience that much within the first year of marriage.
At the same time you trigger flood waves of positive emotions in her. She will love you for both the experience and the endorphins.
2. Hot Air Ballooning
Even if this is a very expensive date, it can be an unforgettable experience for both of you. In case you ever wanted to sit in a hot air balloon and enjoy the view over a big city, you can share this wonderful experience with a sexy girl while you are up in the sky. During the hot air balloon ride you have plenty of time to connect with her and to stay within touchy distance. The basket of a hot air balloon provides the optimal space to come closer. Holding her hundreds of meters above the ground will make her feel safe and secure.
After this romantic and exciting experience she will for sure go on a second date with you.
Even if she wasn’t quite sure if she wants to let your mouth near her pussy when she first met you, she can’t resist the thought of you going down on her after you took her on one of the most romantic trips she has ever been on.
The only thing you should make sure before planning such a date is that the girl you want to end up in bed with isn’t afraid of heights.
Otherwise, her desire to go down on you can easily turn into the desire to vomit, to scream and to cut your balls off. Make sure that she has no acrophobia. Once you made sure that the chance that her lunch will leave her belly is very low, you can cast a spell over her by being the most romantic guy she ever met.
3. The Sexy Photo Shoot
A photo shoot can also be one of the creative dating ideas that allow you to amaze the girl you want to seduce. A photo shoot has a few positive features that make it perfect for a date. On the one hand, it shows that you are imaginative when it comes to preparing a date and that you also have a sense for art, which is very rare for guys but interesting for quite a few girls.
On the other hand, a photo shoot presents a lot of possibilities to come closer to somebody. The atmosphere is chilled out, you can kid around and you can touch her during every pose you make. With a little wiliness and cheekiness you can turn the whole photo shoot into an erotic photo shoot.
It is so incredibly easy to get sexual during a photo shoot.
You probably have an idea about boudoir photography. If not, let me tell you why women like it. This photography has a seductive theme, wherein women usually want to surprise their boyfriends, fiancé, or spouses. They get into a boudoir session to come up with sexy photos specially made for their special someone, which serve as gifts during honeymoon or anniversary. Hence, doing this photography idea makes your date even more exciting.
Another theme for photography is taking photos of the both of you. Uploading cute dating photos on social media will show her that you’re serious with her. If you want to go the sexy route, your sexy photos can help her loosen up, because it’s not just her posing and getting photographed. Another upside? You’ll both see how good you look together—in and out of the bedroom.
Deep down every girl dreams of being a professional model. Till this day I have never met a girl who doesn’t want to feel beautiful, desired and validated for the physical features that Mother Nature gave them.
During a photo shoot she gets the feeling of being a model and at the same time she gets constant validation from the photographer and from you. This atmosphere can easily motivate her to take off one piece of clothing after another.
The more fun she has taking off her clothes in front of the camera, the less inhibition she’ll feel to take them off in your bedroom.
4. The Ultimate Travel Adventure
Have you ever thought about traveling with a girl you have never spent more than ten minutes with?
When I talk about traveling as one of the creative dating ideas I don’t mean the kind of travel where you take the girl you want to seduce to the next bigger city in order to visit a special restaurant. I also don’t mean the kind of traveling where you drive twenty minutes to the nearest park.
When I talk about traveling as a creative dating idea I really mean flying with her from Germany to Spain on the second or even on the first date.
Are you crazy? What kind of girl would say “yes” to a trip to another country for the first or second date?
Girls who are seeking adventure!
Girls who are sick and tired of living a boring life full of boring dates!
Girls who want to experience something completely crazy that they can and will tell their children and grandchildren about!
I don’t want to lie to you. It won’t work every time. There are a lot of women who think you are absolutely nuts and who don’t believe you that you are serious about flying with her to another country. On the other hand, there are women who are so paranoid that you are a psychopath who wants to kidnap and rape them that they say “no” before you can say “let’s go to the airport”.
But let me tell you one thing:
The percentage of women who are happy to travel to another country with you is higher than you think. The reason for that is pretty simple.
As a guy who takes her on an exciting travel adventure you embody everything that is attractive.
Expecting her to travel to another country with you, even though she doesn’t really know you, embodies confidence, playfulness, wanderlust and a spirit of adventure. She will fall in love with you before the airplane lands.
I once took a girl to Mallorca for a weekend (it was our second date) and the first thing she did when we entered our hotel room was to take her clothes off and to hop under the shower. While I was locking the door she was waiting for me to soap her back and other parts of her body.
Your ultimate travel adventure doesn’t really need to be overseas if you’re on a tight budget. It’s a good idea to think of exciting ways to explore the country while making a good impression on your first date. If you want an explosively fun travel adventure without spending that much, here are some suggestions for you:
- Grab a tent and spend the night on a local beach.
- Rent an RV and bring her to the mountain peak to watch the sunset.
- Invite her to ride in your motorcycle for a nature trip.
- Engage in a body painting session (just the two of you).
Have you ever wondered how many girls you could seduce if you had even MORE ideas for your next date?
I put 66 first date venues in this book
Summed Up Wisdom
Creative dating ideas can lead to a more exciting evening than sitting in a restaurant and staring at each other for a couple of hours. If you have approached a girl who obviously has a very fun and open personality, you should definitely check out the nearest amusement park before you take her out on a date. In case you want to do something that is even more adventurous you can decide to take her on a hot air balloon ride. Just make sure that she isn’t afraid of height. Otherwise, the exciting trip could turn out to be a disaster with a lot of vomit on your shoes.
If the girl you want to seduce seems to be sexually open and loves to get validation for her beauty (every girl does) you can take her to a photo shoot. Taking a few innocent pictures can easily lead to some half-naked pictures that you definitely want to keep. The ultimate adventure that you can give a girl is to take her on a short vacation trip. Traveling might sound like the weirdest creative dating idea ever but it can actually lead to a very intense connection in a short period of time.
Sebastian Harris says
Sitting next to her is always good. This allows you to touch her and to have intimate conversations. Later you can then take a walk in the park. At this time she is already comfortable with your touch, so that you can take her hand.
Would you say that it’s a unavoidable key during a first date to do something which implies to sit next to the woman confortably, so you can be very close and tooch her ?
For example, if for the first date you take her to eat an icecream and simply walk with her in a beautifull district or along the city river, is it problematic if i want at the end to kiss her ?