“This guy doesn’t know how to stop being a little bitch!”
That’s what I thought to myself after his third email. I had enough. I was frustrated and I couldn’t take it anymore. I had done everything to help him. Everything. After three long emails that took me almost an hour to write, I received another reply.
“I asked for your advice, not for the title of your book…”
Guilty, your honor…
I suggested him to check out my book after I answered more than ten questions without charging anything. His last reply inspired me to write this article.
Look, I’m happy to answer your questions and your comments. But if all you can do is complaining, whining, and crying, you won’t achieve anything in life.
Here’s what this guy whose name I won’t reveal did:
Enough is enough!
I know I risk losing you as a read and friend, but if you want to continue to cry like a little baby instead of accepting the truth about your situation, you shouldn’t be here. The Global Seducer Community is for men who want to learn how to attract, seduce, and date the hottest girls in the world WITHOUT bitching about it.
Seriously, you have to stop being a little bitch and get laid…
How I Stopped Being a Little Bitch and Got Laid
Heck, I was the best at being a little bitch. And guess what: It led to nothing. In fact, it led to me wanting to commit suicide, as you can see on the sales page of my book Rise of the Phoenix.
Oh shit, I hope you won’t blame me mentioning my book.
I’m so not sorry for doing this because I want you to wake the fuck up. I want you to realize that you don’t have to continue this vicious cycle. Heck, you don’t want to end up like a triggered Feminist Tiggly puff.
I mean, you can continue to act like a little bitch and end up like her…
Or you can finally take responsibility for your life and stop being such an entitled brat…
1. Stop Being an Entitled Brat
We live in a crazy world.
Sorry, but there is no instant gratification. It’s a myth.
Yes, you can jerk off to porn and feel good for a couple of seconds. Two minutes later you’ll feel bad about yourself. And yes, you can gratify yourself instantly by buying every shit Jeff Bezos wants to ram down your throat. But you’ll be miserable and broke after spending hundreds of dollars on shit you don’t need.
As a millennial, I have entitlement in my DNA. It’s a part of me and I hate it. But let’s have a look at the truth. You are already entitled and I’m not talking about white privilege or some patriarchy bullshit.
I’m talking about real privilege.
The fact that you’re reading this article shows me that you’re better off than 99% of people on this planet. I’ve been to the slums in the Philippines. Guess what? They don’t have the laptops, tablets, and smartphones that allow you to consume my content.
Oh, but you have to go out and approach women.
They don’t just show up in front of your door like the pizza you ordered yesterday. That’s too bad. Life is really hard. Why don’t you buy a sex doll? I’ve heard they feel really good. You might end up like this weirdo, but at least you don’t have to do anything about your situation…
Stop being such an entitled brat and do something for your success!
2. Say Goodbye to Your Victim Mentality
“I can’t attract girls because…”
Why? Tell me. Is it because of feminism? Or is it because little Sally didn’t respond to your love letter in 5th grade? Or maybe it’s because you don’t have a six-pack? Get over yourself. It’s so easy to stay trapped in this victim mentality.
You have to understand one thing:
You are not a victim, but the creator of your life.
Say “goodbye” to your victim mentality. It only makes things worse. There will always be external influences that give you a hard time. There will always be hardship. As a powerful man, you overcome this hardship and find your way.
Victims will never succeed.
A victim gives up after the first rejection because he comes to the conclusion that it’s not his fault and that all women are heartless whores. A real man continues after the first rejection because he’s willing to do whatever it takes to succeed.
3. Think About Your Excuses
Oh, these sweet excuses.
I know, I know. You can’t get laid because…
Let me tell you something:
I look like a mentally-retarded version of Justin Bieber, my legs are skinnier than the legs of a Giraffe, and I have a 30-cm scar on my belly. I have every reason in the world to stay at home, to jerk off to porn, and to cry myself to sleep.
In fact, that’s what I did for years.
I had no idea how to stop being a little bitch and I ended up with severe depression. Great, if that’s what you want, you can continue to make excuses. But if you want to have success with women and success in life, you have to throw all your excuses out of the window.
I don’t care if you are taller than Shaquille O’Neal or shorter than Tom Cruise.
Take action and results will follow.
4. Don’t Think about Your Overthinking
Do you know what little bitches do?
They overthink everything.
Stop it and do it!
You’ll never know if she likes you unless you walk up to her and find it out. And you’ll never know if you can approach her unless you do it. And no, she’s not too far away. God, your parents, or whoever is responsible for you being on this earth gave you two legs. You can walk…and run.
Run after her!
Stop thinking about all the things that could go wrong! You’ll find out by doing it. Life wants to be lived. Nobody can think himself to success. Thoughts, ideas, and dream don’t mean jack shit unless they are put into action.
The only thing that can stop you now from taking action is YouTube…
5. Stop Consuming Food for Bitches
Here’s how to stop being a little bitch:
And no, I’m not talking about McDonalds or Burger King kind of junk food.
I’m a dating coach, not a nutritionist.
I’m talking about all the bullshit you consume on a daily basis. Yes, I’m talking about the gold digger prank and the fame digger pranks that make you think all women are bitches. And yes, I’m talking about the latest Catch a Cheater episode that makes you believe that all women are cheaters.
I have news for you:
99% of these videos are fake!
Do you really think a middle-aged Pakistani with traditional Muslim beliefs who can’t even speak English hires a YouTuber to find out if his wife cheats and THEN explains how he will physically punish her…while looking directly into the camera?
Give me a break!
If that’s the kind of shit you consume on a daily basis, you don’t have to wonder why you can’t stop being a little bitch.
6. Ask Yourself What You Really Want to Achieve
It’s so easy to get frustrated when your goals are unrealistic.
Why do you think I always tell you to start small?
You’ve been fed so many lies by so-called dating gurus. It’s sad. And it makes me furious that guys like the one who sent me thousands of questions believe these lies. I even had a guy who told me he didn’t buy my book because another dating coach promised INSTANT results.
Mhhmm…what could possibly be wrong with that?
These fake marketing claims destroy your success with women. Come on. You know that you need more than one line and that it’s impossible to seduce a girl without opening your mouth at least once. You know these things.
But you want to believe it because it sounds so good.
As a result, you devalue every little success you have because you’re not able to do what the gurus promise you. Heck, I’m also not able to get a threesome in five minutes.
It doesn’t work that fast.
Celebrate the small wins and stop setting the bar so high that nobody can reach it.
7. Go Out Into the Wilderness
Inaction leads to hopelessness.
That’s not a quote from some famous dude. That’s a simple realization I made over the years. Whenever I’m faced with a problem, I have to take action. If I don’t take action, I feel bad about myself and this triggers a vicious cycle.
You want to know how to stop being a little bitch, right?
Then take action!
You’ve wasted enough time sitting at home doing nothing. Go out and talk to girls. You can read this article or my book on the way. That’s fine. But one the bus or the train stops, you go out and you take action.
Go out into the wilderness and become a man.
Practice makes perfect. No practice turns you into a little bitch.
8. Try, Fail, and Stand Up Straight
Will it work the first time?
No! Of course not!
Nothing works the first time you try it. It took me more than 20 approaches to get my first phone number. I want to turn into the Hulk whenever a guy sends me an email with “I approached five girls and I didn’t get a phone number. This is not working.”
No my friend: You are not working!
The only people who have never failed are the ones who never tried. Or as Arnold Schwarzenegger said it…
Try, fail, and stand up straight.
What do you do once you stand up again?
You get the dirt off your shoulder and you try again. Then you fail again…until you succeed. Celebrate your first success, but don’t get lazy. Get back out there and do it again. You’ll fail again. Then you succeed again and again.
Suddenly, you have three girls who want to sleep with you.
That’s how life works.
9. Stop Being Exhausted When You Haven’t Done Anything
“Sebastian, I spent one hour approaching girls and I got no results!”
I spent hundreds of hours approaching girls. For one year I approached at least ten girls a day. I had a full-time job and after work I went out and did what I had to do to master the art of seduction. That’s more than 3.650 approaches a year.
It’s IMPOSSIBLE to approach 3.650 women and to not get laid!
“Sebastian, but that’s so exhausting…”
Success takes work.
Arnold Schwarzenegger had to lift more than one weight to become a champion.
Mark Zuckerberg had to write more than one line of code to found Facebook.
You have to approach more than one girl to become a master seducer.
Stop pretending to be exhausted from doing nothing and do something!
10. Stop Blaming Girls for Rejecting You
This is important.
Every man who wants to know how to stop being a little bitch has to take responsibility for his life. Can you do that? Great! Then stop blaming women for rejecting you.
Here’s the uncomfortable truth.
I know. It’s shocking…especially because all these dating gurus told you that THIS is how it works. You can get any girl at any time no matter what you do. You just have to press this button and if she doesn’t ride your dick within three seconds, you’re doing something wrong.
Some girls are not into you. And some girls are not into me. I loved to blame women for rejecting me. That’s why I couldn’t get laid for years. Eventually, I decided to work on myself and to find out what I can do to improve the odds.
Stop blaming others and start working on yourself.
11. Stop Whining about Failure and Start Learning
You are here because you want to know how to stop being a little bitch.
This alone is a huge step in the right direction. This proves that you have what it takes to become successful in life and with women. I mean, you don’t want to continue on this negative path. You’re here because you’re yearning for a fresh start.
It’s time to start your journey.
Ups…I did it again.
Feel free to complain about the fact that I mentioned my book after spending three hours writing this article for you WITHOUT bitching. But I have to warn you.
I will reply to your complaint with “stop being a little bitch!”
Summed Up Wisdom
You really need to hear this. It’s time to stop being such an entitled brat. You’re already better off than 99% of people in this world. So don’t complain. And no, you’re not a victim…even though the victim mindset makes things so much easier.
Why does it make things easier? Well, if you’re not responsible for your circumstances, you don’t have to take responsibility for your life. Then you can continue to feed your mind with negative beliefs. You won’t take action anyway.
But what if you stopped complaining and embarked on a new path? That’s how to stop being a little bitch. Decide to stop blaming girls for rejecting you and find a way to improve yourself. That’s how to succeed.
Sebastian Harris says
True, very true.
yup, a simply way to put it, is that the world, life, society, owes us NOTHING!!!!!!, although it definetley feels that way for men more than women.
Sebastian Harris says
I will publish an article about approaching girls at the gym within the next two days 😉
very inspiring article, Sebastian! you approaching at least 10 girls PER DAY for 1 year is awesome!
i’m not too good with women, but i also don’t approach women nearly as often as i should. in other words, i don’t even try. you can’t expect to get results if you don’t take action.
i go to the gym regularly, and there some beautiful women at the gym, but i feel like that’s a bad place to approach/strike up a conversation with a woman. i think they just want to focus on their workout and not be bothered by guys.
what do you think?