Long distance relationships can sometimes be a real torture session. Whether it’s an unexpected result of life happening (like career paths and what have you), or if you willingly chose an arrangement where you’ll see each other once in a blue moon, it can get really dry and lonely. Now, sexting and phone sex are always an option, but what if that’s not your jam?
Well, time to get playful! You can spice up your separate togetherness with some toys, and Sex Toy Education says you have way more options than the traditional vibrator + titty magazine combo. For our part, we put together a little guide of unusual sex toys ideas that will turn some stuff from your average day into some unexpected, extraordinary fun!
Craft a replica of your genitalia
Just because you’re apart does not mean you should give up on your partner’s “parts”! Seriously, you can literally make a clone of your own genitalia (or your significant other’s, if you prefer). There are home kits available that are easy to use, which allow you to make a mold of a penis or vagina that you can then carry with you.
Some of these kits come with the fun bonus of a vibrator unit for added enjoyment. Why not make a strong sexy impression on your partner by requesting that they make and send you a “little me”? Bet you they will have loads of fun and lusty thoughts while doing it! You can also make a mold of your own and send it as a surprise gift, or slip it into their suitcase as a secret parting present for them to find. Of course, you can also use one of these toys, especially when you are in a long-distance relationship and you want to improve your sex life with your partner.
Set a sex task for the day
Have you ever though about using your own mind as a toy? Okay, obviously, wet fantasies are always welcome. But what if you knew for a fact that a fantasy of yours is going to come true at a specific day and time? Try it out! There is no reason why masturbation should be a one-person job.
Give each other some self-pleasuring tasks, like using a new prop, doing it in a specific place, and so on. When you know what is happening miles away, your day will instantly be way more enjoyable. If you are feeling up to it, you can step it up a little and request some video evidence as well – that will certainly make your own next self-play session spicier!
To make sure you never run out of ideas, keep a sex fantasy journal! Click here for some advice on how to get started on writing one.
Play games with your games
This does wonders for people in long distance relationships who are also into gaming in their spare time, or who just like a little competition to juice up their situation. Even “nerdy” stuff like a word puzzle game can get really hot, really fast. The trick is in the rules.
For example, using a certain letter means you take off a certain article of clothing. Reaching a given score earns you a little “reward”. Getting to a save point or clearing a level lets you make one sexy request that your partner must fulfill. You can apply this model to multiplayer online RPGs, or any phone apps geared towards shared use.
Try your hand at writing some erotica
We fully recognize that explicit phone calls or sexual photos and videos might not float everybody’s boats. With the constantly present fear of getting overheard or having someone peek at your phone screen from behind your shoulder, getting the right mood going can really be a struggle. So why not use your words in a different way?
Sit down and write exactly what you want to do to your significant other, and what you want them to do to you. You can even make it into a fully developed piece of fiction, like a short story, complete with teasing dialogue, grunted demands, and juicy background setting. Heck, you can even make it into a poem! Never mind if you have no sense of rhyme and meter – free verse is actually the best way to go about this stuff.
You don’t need to be a writer. You don’t have to imitate the notorious 50 Shades of... series either. You just need to be horny and physically able to write or type. Nobody will get their hands on this except the two of you, so be as explicit and bold as you could ever want.
Write about touch, breath, temperature, goose bumps, fabric texture, voices. Use the power of your language to get all of your partner’s senses tingling, and drop this sensual bomb into their email inbox or snail-mailbox. Give a fair warning that it’s NSFW, though.