It has been a bit over two years since meeting a funny guy with long hair changed my life forever.
Two years ago I was an insecure and depressed young man without any success with women. I just came out of a destructive relationship and thought that only a magician could change something about my hopeless situation.
Today I am glad that I met this magician. His name is Sasha Daygame.
I believe that every young man needs a mentor who guides him on a way to success with women and in life. In the same way that Sasha Daygame was (and still is) my mentor, it would be an honour for me to be your mentor and to help you along your journey.
I already wrote about how he changed my life when I told you everything about me. Instead of repeating myself I want to express my gratitude by sharing an e-mail with you that I wrote to him a couple of months ago.
I wrote these lines a few weeks ago when I travelled to Warsaw. I know it is a little bit long but it comes from the bottom of my heart 😉
I haven’t corrected it again because I just want to send it to you the way I wrote it in this exact moment with a beautiful woman lying next to me and feeling totally happy. Here it is:
Sebastian here, the German guy who took a bootcamp with you in November 2012 in Oslo and who also attended the direct dating summit in Berlin. I think you remember me; at least you stayed at my place in this tiny German city when you had your talk in Stuttgart. It would be great if you could also send this email to James Marshall. I know I thanked you guys a lot for starting a change in my life but I feel like thanking you again.
I sit here in bed in an Apartment in Warsaw with a beautiful girl lying next to me. I just met her yesterday at the train station and we had an instant connection. I apologize for any spelling mistakes but I am tired as hell because of a wonderful night with that girl. She is still sleeping and she is just amazingly beautiful. Without you and James I would not experience a life like this right now.
I just want to show you what happened in my life since you “took the German out of me” and showed me how to “not be so German” :-P.
Maybe you remember that with my 23 years I look more like 16-17. Or how Alan Roger Currie said to me at the Direct Dating Summit in Berlin: “Maaan, you look like motherfucking 15 maaaan. Grow some facial hair!” Alan, I would love to but there is nothing growing. But it doesn’t matter at all. I had sex with women who were older than me, the oldest was 36 and they kind of liked it. I’m the perfect toy boy. 😀
I told you that I was scared that women don’t like me because of the big scar of a heart operation I had as a child. Not even for one woman that was a problem. It just doesn’t matter.
In the last months I had affairs with Asian girls, with Polish girls, with Russian girls, with a girl from Mauritius and if you believe it or not, even with German girls….
But the most important thing is not the sex. For me the most important thing is to see my own personal development. I learn through every mistake and every success and I just feel how I get more confident and how I love my life more and more.
My life has changed completely. I hope I quote you right but at your talk in Stuttgart you said something like “…and suddenly it spreads to the other areas of your life and you just go for what you want because you are not afraid of rejection anymore. You just go for it.” This really inspired me to live a life true to myself.
I studied economics and worked in the sales department but I always wanted to do something with psychology. I wanted to experience the life in another country and I wanted to help people with my job. Also I wanted to travel the world. So I just went for it.
Since the bootcamp I travelled to Thailand, to the Philippines and to Poland.
Even more important: I quit my job, quit my apartment in this small German city and this September I will move near London to start a master’s study in business psychology. I just did it. Why? Because I’m not afraid of it anymore.
So in a few weeks I will leave Germany and move to England and at the moment a beautiful girl is lying next to me. Life is good…