Why do women like to be dominated?
That’s a good question…and a controversial one.
I can already hear the screams of bitter women with short hair and “Girl Power” imprinted on their handbags. Uhhh…it will get nasty. One year after publishing this article, the comment section will be filled with hate and rage. I guarantee it.
This will inevitably happen because we are no longer allowed to…
I’m sure I’ll be labeled as a misogynist with too much toxic masculinity. Well, nothing could be further from the truth. I love women with all my heart. If I don’t have enough feminine energy around me, I wither and suffer.
Feminine energy wants to be dominated.
I promise that this article will open your eyes. You might not like what you’ll read, but sooner or later you’ll understand it. A man who opens his eyes to the true dynamic between the sexes is a man who knows how to attract and seduce incredible women.
Follow me down the rabbit hole and you’ll see that nothing is as it seems…
Why Do Women Like to Be Dominated?
What does it actually mean to dominate a woman?
Well, there’s the true definition and the definition you’ll see in the hate comments that will inevitably follow. I’m sorry if I disappoint you, but being a dominant man has nothing to do with being domineering.
Women don’t want that and you don’t want to be like that.
Here are some qualities of a domineering man:
Do you want to be this guy?
The only women who feel attracted to this kind of guy are borderline crazy. Stay away from them. And please stay away from this dark path. There are already enough MGTOW’s who end up bitter and full of hate. There’s an alternative path.
Here are some qualities of a dominant man:
The words sound almost the same but the meaning is completely different. You don’t want to be a domineering tyrant. You want to be her leader, the man who she wants to submit to. That’s what you really want.
There are several reasons why women want you to be this man…
1. Women Want to be Led By Dominant Men
What does it really mean to lead a woman?
Think about it:
It’s impossible for a submissive man to do these things. A man who has not even one ounce of dominance in his blood is not able to give a woman what she wants. And yes, the things I listed are exactly what women want, no matter how many times you hear the opposite.
“Women want to be strong and independent. They want to be leaders!”
I call bullshit. Let’s look at the facts.
Most women don’t want to be leaders and even the ones who choose this path in their professional lives, don’t want it in a relationship. Heck, the most successful women I seduced were the most submissive at home and in the bedroom.
Political indoctrination can’t win over millions of years of evolution…
2. Culture Can’t Win against Biology
The most successful women are the most submissive.
Read that again. You wouldn’t be the first guy who doesn’t believe me when I say this. But it’s true. The desire to be dominated by a man is in their DNA. The same is true for the desire of men to be the dominant part in a relationship. It’s part of our DNA.
What about feminism?
Yeah, what about it? Well, let’s look at the facts. In countries with the highest gender equality, more women decide AGAINST typical male-dominated jobs and AGAINST leadership positions. Dr. Jordan B. Peterson mentioned these studies several times…but the media will continue to ignore them.
The truth is not popular these days.
It’s a fact that women, when they have the freedom, choose jobs that require nurturing feminine qualities instead of dominant masculine qualities. It shouldn’t come to a surprise that women desire men who have the power to dominate them.
3. Women Desire Confident and Powerful Men
Speaking of power…
What does it mean for a man to have power?
These things are only possible if you have self-confidence and women know are aware of that. Think about it. You won’t take action unless you have the confidence to stop the excuses and take the necessary steps. A man with low self-confidence is a slave to his negative emotions.
Women know all this.
And they also know that dominant men have the confidence that’s required to take action, make decisions, and to control their emotions. Confidence is attractive and “he’s confident” is just another way of saying “he’s dominant”.
4. Women Want to Be Taken Care of and Protected
Why do women like to be dominated by men?
It’s a natural instinct. The ability of a man to dominate a woman proves that he is an attractive man. It might sound weird, but women feel protected when they can allow themselves to submit to a man and in a relationship. And no, it’s not all about sex.
Women want to be taken care of and protected.
Yes, I know. They are strong and independent and blah blah blah. That’s all fine and dandy. But like I already said: Cultural conditioning will never be able to win against biological programming.
What if you think I’m wrong?
That’s fine. I respect your opinion. However, I want you to imagine a specific scenario. Imagine how a woman snuggles up to you right after sex. She’s vulnerable and she rests her head on your chest. She covers herself with your arm.
Now tell me again that women don’t want to be taken care of and protected.
5. Modern Women Love the Feeling of Losing Control
Why do I say modern women?
Well, because modern women have been conditioned to believe that they are super women. They must have control over everything. This belief has turned a lot of women into controlling girlfriends and wives. But that’s not the main problem.
Here’s the untold truth about modern women:
The more they try to control every aspect of their life, the more they have the desire to lose control. In fact, the same is true for men. You might not believe it, but a lot of high-profile CEO’s are into dominatrix and cuckolding. I won’t say names.
You always want what you can’t have.
That’s why modern women crave for a man who dominates them and makes them lose control…especially in the bedroom.
6. She Wants to Submit to a Man Who Deserves Her
Women want to submit to men…but only to men who deserve it.
I hate to say it, but most guys don’t deserve to dominate women. They act strong, but are weak. They act hard, but reveal nothing but a pitiful attempt to oppress her. That’s not the man who deserves her and her submissive feminine energy.
I have to warn you:
What I’m about to say sounds counterintuitive. It sounds as if I had lost my mind. But I haven’t (at least, I think so). Being this man has absolutely nothing to do with being physically strong or loud or any other quality the “alpha hype” bloggers love to talk about.
It’s about doing the opposite:
Now you’re the kind of man who deserves her soul, her heart, and her submission.
7. A Weak Man in Bed is a Turn-Off for Girls
Girls who like to be dominated want strong men.
Strong men are dominant and weak men are submissive.
That’s a universal truth and it becomes more and more relevant, the closer you get to the bedroom. Sorry, but women don’t want to sleep with weak men. And no, I’m not talking about physical weakness. You don’t need a penis that’s longer than a fire hose.
You need the mental and emotional strength to…
That’s what allows you to enjoy the sex with her. And that’s what allows her to feel relaxed and comfortable in your bed.
8. Some Positions Don’t Work for Her without Being Dominated
Imagine an equal blowjob.
God, I hope you’re not imagining something crazy with a ladyboy. That’s not what I’m talking about. Imagine it with a woman. You have a modern 50/50 relationship…the feminist dream. Now she goes down on you.
I mean, she has to be at eye level. That’s what equality is all about. Yes, I’m exaggerating a bit, but you get the point. If even the best women didn’t like to be dominated in bed, they wouldn’t enjoy blowjobs and doggy style as much as they do.
9. Women Love Rough Sex
Let’s stay in the bedroom…
Every woman is different, but I’ve NEVER met a girl who didn’t like it rough. Dominating girls in bed is not an option. It’s a necessity, at least if you want to satisfy women. And you need to satisfy her if you want to keep her.
An unsatisfied woman will satisfy her urges somewhere else.
A lot of guys have this problem:
“She’s not that kind of girl. She’s so sweet and so romantic. She’s my angel.”
Be careful that you’re angel doesn’t spread her wings for a guy who gives it to her rough.
10. Women are the Receiving Gender
Do girls like to be dominated?
I hope you’re not one of those morons who believe that gender doesn’t exist because if you are, the following words will trigger you like a screaming tigglypuff.
Here you go:
Women are the receiving gender…in every possible way.
You are the giver and she is the receiver. That’s why you receive so many signs from women to make the first move. She invites you to give her what she wants and she’s happy to receive it.
Despite popular belief, dominant men are givers and not takers.
Summed Up Wisdom
Why do women like to be dominated? Before you try to answer this question, you have to realize that this desire has nothing to do with having a domineering man. She doesn’t want a disrespectful tyrant. She wants a man who leads her, protects her, and guides her.
It’s no secret that women are attracted to powerful and confident men. And guess what? Dominance and confidence go hand in hand. She can be strong and independent, but she still wants a man who protects her and takes care of her. This is especially true for modern women.
She wants to submit to a man who deserves her and yes, she wants to lose control. Weak men are a turn-off for women, especially in the bedroom. She’s biologically designed to be attracted to men who dominate her because women are the receiving gender.