Can you imagine what being a beautiful woman actually means?
Do you have any idea how much some women invest in order to appear in a way that you perceive as attractive?
In case you still suffer from approach anxiety, you should take a few seconds to think about all the women who make themselves pretty every day, just because they hope that a self-confident guy like you approaches them.
If you are a single woman who is currently looking for a man and you accidently stumbled upon my site, you know what I mean. You know how many hours and dollars you invest in order to look in a way that makes you comfortable in the presence of a guy you are attracted to.
Being a beautiful woman is not an easy job.
That’s why it is really important for me to help you and all my other male readers to understand that the women that they are afraid of do nearly everything to appear desirable and attractive.
I want you to understand that being a beautiful woman has nothing to do with being a perfect angel who has been blessed by god with incredible genetics. I hope that you realize that being afraid of them is completely irrational.
The next time you see a beautiful girl in a nice dress with flawless makeup I don’t want you to worry about whether or not she will appreciate your approach. Instead, you should think of all the sweat, time and money she invested in looking the way she looks. This will help you to realize that getting a compliment for her investment is exactly what she needs.
Being a Beautiful Woman is Expensive
Imagine you are in a shop and you stumble upon one of those brain-dead celebrity magazines that contain more beauty advertisement than written words. You are leafing through the countless pages and all of them show absolutely flawless models with perfect makeup, perfect skin and a perfect smile.
What besides “I want to fuck her” do you think when you see such an advertisement?
I can tell you what I think when I see one of those perfect girls on paper. Besides having the urge to congratulate the graphic designer for the great job he did I think about all the money that this girl (or her sugar daddy) had to invest in order to finance her beautiful body.
In case you have never thought of something like that, you shouldn’t worry too much. Maybe it’s because I am German and we are raised to constantly worry about costs and debt.
Anyway, have you ever thought about the fact that the beauty industry for women is a billion dollar business?
I could write a whole book about all the stuff that women spend money on, just because they want to be beautiful for the men around them. Because I don’t want to bore you with a 100 page long lampoon about the beauty industry, I just want to give you a short overview with what we have to deal here.
Fake nails, fake eye lashes, skin tanning studios, nail studios, makeup, makeup removal crème, push-up bras, moisturizer, shaving crème, razors, lipstick, laser treatment, gyms, weight loss products, diet books and plastic surgery.
There are women who spend thousands of dollars every year on being a beautiful woman.
Here you can read an article from a woman who spends more than $4000 on beauty products every year.
Don’t be so naive to think that the perfect blond girl in the red dress that you are afraid of is a product of Mother Nature. If she wouldn’t shave her legs and if she wouldn’t wear any makeup you wouldn’t even recognize her.
What makes it even harder for them is that our ignorant society tends to love women when they wear tons of makeup and despise them as soon as they dare to take off the mask:
The actual costs that women are faced with in order to look beautiful are not the only costs that you have to consider. When you enjoy looking at all the gorgeous women during the next night out with your friends you should also think about the opportunity costs.
Opportunity costs can be defined as the money that she can’t spend on other things because she already spent it on being a beautiful woman. I have a very good female friend who is originally from the Ukraine and she once told me that she didn’t go on vacation because she wanted to buy certain clothes that made her feel pretty.
To be honest, the last thing I would do is to abstain from traveling to a country with gorgeous foreign women, just to buy some stupid jeans in which my dick looks good. Some women see this different.
They rather spend all their money on being a beautiful woman than on enjoying their life.
Being a Beautiful Woman is Hard Work
Claiming that being a beautiful woman is harder than some men think doesn’t automatically make me a male feminist. The only reason why I say this is because it is true.
The time and effort that some women invest in making themselves beautiful is beyond everything that you and I can imagine.
I had girlfriends who spent at least one hour every day to make themselves pretty before they went out of the house. It can take women a long fucking time to look in a way that we consider as attractive and sexy.
When you think about the typical morning routine of a woman before she leaves the house, you might understand why giving her a compliment is the best thing you can do.
The first thing a woman does after she took a shit (sorry, but this is true), is to hop under the shower to wash all the dirt from her body, especially from her ass (sorry again).
She then shaves her legs, dries her long hair and puts on makeup. Once she got out of the bathroom she gets dressed, puts on perfume to mask her sweaty armpits (and sorry again). After she smells nice, she puts on some nail polish and then some lipstick.
After this whole procedure she is finally ready to go to work in the local strip club.
I’m just kidding.
A woman who works as a marketing manager in a big company might even need more time in the bathroom than a girl whose job consists of getting naked. No matter what profession a woman is in, she will definitely spend a huge amount of time and effort to get ready in the morning.
Being a beautiful woman includes a lot of hard work that gets even harder when she has a night out with her friends. You can confidently assume that a woman who prepares herself for a night out with her best friends needs twice as long as she usually needs in the morning.
She invests all this time, money and energy, just to NOT get approached by you.
While you think that giving her a compliment would be too offensive, she asks herself if there will ever be a guy who appreciates all her hard work.
Why Extremely Beautiful Women are Rare
I really hope you are going out regularly to approach women.
In case you are already at a stage where you approach women on a regular basis you have probably realized by now that not every woman attracts your attention.
When I think back to the days where I lived in a small town in Germany I maybe saw one or two women a day with whom I would have had sex with without demanding money from them. Due to the fact that being a beautiful woman can be hard work and can cost a lot of money, there are a lot of women who stopped caring about their looks.
In case you think that I am an asshole who only considers models as pretty who put at least one kilo makeup on, you are wrong. I personally believe that every girl who isn’t completely genetically handicapped has the ability to shine.
I have seen transformations from an ugly duckling into a beautiful swan and I am 100% convinced that (nearly) every woman who is willing to invest some time, money and energy is able to look amazing.
It is the same with guys who want to get good with women. If you are willing to invest some time, money and energy you will eventually succeed.
For now, let’s have a look at the reasons why being a beautiful woman seems to be an impossible objective for so many girls.
Her Natural Desire
The first reason why some females on this planet invest a lot of energy in being a beautiful woman who attracts the attention of many men is because they have the natural desire to do so.
Some girls absolutely love to look beautiful, hot and sexy.
On the other hand, there are women who don’t care about looking pretty for men and who have no interest whatsoever to invest more than five minutes a day in their looks. These are women who don’t care about their weight, their skin and their hair, but who at the same time complain why they can’t get a handsome, rich and successful man.
Of course their friends from the feminist cracker-barrel try to convince them that they don’t need a man and that it is much better to use a razor for a proper haircut instead of investing some time in their looks.
All I can say to my female readers is this:
Before you trim your hair down to one millimeter and wear shirts with the label This is What a Feminist Looks Like, you should rather stay the beautiful woman you are.
By investing some energy in your beauty your chances of finding your dream guy are much higher.
To you, dear male reader and partner in crime I just want to say this:
As soon as you meet a woman who thinks that investing time and energy in her looks is not worth the effort, you should only do one thing. Run as fast as you can and keep running until you run into a girl who thinks that being a beautiful woman is a privilege and not a burden.
I am from Germany and I don’t want to be too mean, but it is definitely no secret that wearing makeup and dressing nicely is not particularly a core competence of German women.
I have to thank my first trip to Poland for opening my eyes and showing me a world in which the majority of women consider being a beautiful woman as an honor and not as something that should be left to prostitutes and strippers.
There are extreme cultural differences when it comes to the effort that women invest to look beautiful.
Every time I compare German women with Russian women it gives me the creeps. It is no secret that looking good is one of the most important values for a Russian girl.
In case you are sick and tired of women who don’t care about how they look, you should buy a plane ticket, leave the Western hemisphere and enjoy a world in which women love to look breathtaking and love to hear from men that they take their breath away.
Another reason why some women love to look attractive and others don’t give a shit are external influences.
Examples for external influences can be past experiences or the upbringing. Whereas the upbringing is closely related to the culture in which a woman is born into, past experiences can be seen independently from the cultural background.
Maybe some girl who was jealous told her that she looks like a slut and since then she stopped dressing up. Maybe she watched too many Hollywood movies and came to the conclusion that all beautiful girls are stupid, because the prettiest actresses always play some blonde bimbo.
Different external influences can motivate a girl to stop caring about the way she looks, but one external influence is more powerful than anything else.
The most powerful external influence is YOU!
Do you think that being a beautiful woman is a desirable goal for a girl if she never gets any appreciation for her effort?
Do you think a woman wants to spend more than one hour of her time every day to put on makeup and to dress in a sexy way without ever hearing from a guy that she is indeed beautiful?
You and I have an incredible power over a woman’s desire to be beautiful.
The chance that a gorgeous woman will continue to invest the same time and effort in her looks exponentially increases when you decide to tell her how gorgeous she is.
You have the power to multiply the number of women who think that being pretty is actually not a very bad idea.
All you have to do is to approach them and to give them an honest compliment.
How to Appreciate Beautiful Women
Now you know that some women spend a lot of time, effort and money on looking gorgeous and you also know that the ones who consider being beautiful as important are very rare. Now that you know all those things I want to ask you one simple question:
How the hell can you not appreciate beautiful women?
Even if you live in Russia and you lost the ability to recognize a drop-dead gorgeous girl, because you see so many amazingly beautiful women every day, I want you to appreciate them. In case you live in a country like Germany I not only WANT YOU to appreciate them, I BEG YOU to give the few beautiful girls you see that they should continue to look amazing.
Otherwise there won’t be any beautiful women left in a couple of years…
Don’t Judge Their Beauty
Unfortunately, there are some guys who make one big mistake that is directly related to the Madonna-whore-complex. In case you have never heard of this complex that approximately 90% of guys suffer from, I want to briefly explain it.
The Madonna-whore-complex describes the fact that men always categorize girls as either the Madonna or the whore. If a man who has this complex sees a girl who wears high heels, a lot of makeup and a mini skirt, he will automatically label her as a whore who fucks everyone she meets. If the same guy sees a girl who wears long trousers, a turtleneck sweater and big glasses, he automatically labels her as a holy Madonna who has never had any naughty thoughts.
Well, this is complete rubbish…
I have met quite a few girls who looked like a holy Madonna just to find out that they were dirty whores in the bedroom. On the other hand, I met some girls in mini skirt and high heels who would only sleep with a guy after they are together with him for at least three months.
By judging a woman for her desire to look beautiful you contribute to the decline of beauty.
Do you really think that a woman who is constantly labeled as a slut has any motivation to put on some makeup the next time she goes out of the house?
Of course not!
In case you are one of the guys who tend to judge girls for wearing makeup and short skirts, you have absolutely no right to complain about the lack of beautiful women.
Verbalize your Appreciation
Do yourself a favor and stop judging women who want to look good for you. Don’t be so narrow-minded and label women who want to be beautiful as whores, especially because we both know that you get horny when you look at them.
You can label them as sluts, whores or bimbos as much as you want. The truth is that every heterosexual man loves it when a woman invests the time, effort and money to look amazing.
All you have to do in order to motivate the women around you to take the necessary action steps to look fabulous is to recognize their beauty, to appreciate it and to verbalize your appreciation.
The best way to do this is to approach them and to give them an honest compliment.
You can’t imagine how beautiful the women around you become as soon as you do that.
How would you feel if you could attract girls that are so hot that you can’t believe it?
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you know why being a beautiful woman must be appreciated? First of all, gorgeous girls have to invest a lot of money and they have to abstain from quite a few things in order to look the way they look. In addition to that, being a beautiful woman can be very hard and requires a lot of time and effort.
Another reason why you should appreciate pretty girls is because they are very rare. The natural desire of a woman, cultural differences and external influences (especially you), can contribute to the sad fact that amazingly beautiful girls are extremely rare.
That’s why you should stop judging women who try to look attractive. Start to appreciate them instead. This also includes verbalizing your appreciation in form of an honest compliment.