Are you ready to meet black women looking for white men to date?
Do you lie awake at night, dreaming of waking up next to a breathtakingly beautiful black girl who whispers “I love you” in your ear?
Don’t worry. You are not alone.
UPDATE 08.10.2016 (IMPORTANT):
I no longer recommend Interracial Cupid for guys who want to meet black women in the USA.
I ONLY recommend Afrointroductions.com (and I do it with all my heart), no matter if you live in the USA, Europe or any other part of the world.
Since I published this article in July 2016, Afrointroductions.com grew by more than 500.000 members and has now way more black female members from the USA than InterracialCupid.com. It's now the BIGGEST and the FASTEST GROWING dating site for men who dream about dating black women. Update over.
Now enjoy reading the article...
Just because some white men are still reluctant to admit that they are attracted to dark-skinned women, doesn’t mean that they don’t exist. Some people are still scared of getting judged for dating interracially, but there are thousands of men who have the same preference as you have.
Your desire to meet and date black women as a white guy is totally okay. Some of the world most famous celebrities already know that. Robert De Niro knows that it’s okay. George Lucas knows that it’s okay. You know that it’s okay…hopefully.
Unfortunately, a lot of white men who are into black girls don’t know where to meet them and what to do once they are with them in one room.
When I came to England I was surrounded by beautiful dark-skinned women. I wanted to approach them. I wanted to meet them. But I was confused and didn’t know how to do it. I was as clueless as this guy:
He has the same question as you have. He is a successful white man who wants to know where he can meet black women who want to date him.
You can consider yourself lucky, that you stumbled upon this article. I am going to show you where and how to meet black women online (I made a statistical experiment) and I’m also going to show you where and how to meet the dark-skinned woman of your dreams in real life.
Oh, and I have some bonus tips for you at the end of this article.
Are you ready to meet thousands of beautiful black women seeking a white man like you?
Then lean back and have a look at my experiment…
Where to Meet Black Women Online
You want to meet the black beauty of your dreams, right?
And you also have a laptop, a smartphone or a tablet at home, right?
I know that both things are true, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article. And guess what? Meeting the woman of your dreams online is really, really easy. But I don’t just say that without any data to back up my claims.
I went undercover and tested three of the most popular dating websites in the “black woman white man” niche.
I am not joking when I say that you can consider me your dating crash test dummy.
I wanted to know which dating site for black women and white men you should use and which one you shouldn’t use. I also wanted to know if people from the USA (there’s a high chance that you are one of them) have a different experience than people who are looking for black women in the UK or in France….or who want to date an African woman.
As the statistics nerd that I am I wanted to figure out where to find black women looking for white men to date.
Here are my findings…
My Black Women Dating Experience on Interracial Cupid
Interracial Cupid was the first dating site that I tested. It’s from the same company as the site on which I met my wonderful girlfriend. I can recommend this company with all my heart. They offer the best service. Period.
While I knew that other sites of their portfolio are absolutely amazing, I never tested Interracial Cupid.
I had my doubts. I mean, the homepage shows a black man with a white woman. I am by no means against that, but I assumed that this site was a place for white women seeking black men.
Well, I was wrong and I am happy that I ignored my doubts and gave it a shot…
How I Started My Interracial Cupid Experiment (No Longer Recommended)
I went to the homepage and signed up for free:
Sounds too simple?
I am sorry to disappoint you, but it really is that simple.
I chose a username and a password and wooop…I had my free account on Interracial Cupid.
In the next step I was asked to upload a profile picture. I chose one in which I didn’t look like a sleep-deprived zombie, which is quite hard to find, and continued.
Oh, here’s one little tip in regards to your profile picture:
You are a white man who wants to meet black women online. You are not Lil Wayne and you are not Kanye West. Don’t even think about wearing a golden necklace and in case you have ordered grillz, you can already open your bin.
The women you find on Interracial dating sites are black women looking for white men to date. They want you because you are different. Don’t even try to “be black” on your picture. I’m just saying.
Filling Out My Profile and Contacting the Ladies
After I signed up, I spent a couple of minutes on my profile. I didn’t write a novel, but enough to show the beautiful women I wanted to contact that I am a normal white guy who is looking for a normal black woman.
I was honest, I was authentic and you should do the same.
Don’t pretend to be someone you are not. Sooner or later she will find out that you can’t dance like Chris Brown.
I mean, I didn’t even put that much work into my profile. As you can see, I only filled out 58% before I started to contact the first black female member.
The only problem was that there weren’t a lot of members to contact…
The One Country Where Interracial Cupid Rocks
Not many black girls in Germany. Not many in France. Not many in the UK. Shit, I landed in the desert.
I could only find a handful of women when I searched in different locations in Europe. I contacted some of these girls and I actually received one interest…and zero messages.
It was a disaster. Then I switched on my brain.
“The concept of interracial dating is not so popular in Europe, but extremely popular in the USA” I thought to myself.
This is true. We Europeans call a relationship between a white man and a black woman a relationship. We don’t make a big deal out of it. In the USA, however, the expressions interracial relationships and interracial dating are very widespread.
I did what I had to do. I changed my location to New York City and searched for women in the USA.
No more desert. Now I was playing in the big league.
I was surrounded by thousands of beautiful black women who were happy to meet me. Once I upgraded my account (which I highly recommend), I started to message all these beautiful black women who were living in New York, Los Angeles, Chicago and many other places in the USA.
Jesus, my message board changed from lonely planet to a Hollywood party. I received four messages and 8 interests within ten minutes.
So, where to meet black women looking for white men to date?
In case you are living in the USA, Interracial Cupid is THE best place to find thousands of girls who dream about their Caucasian prince charming.
In case you are from Europe you should keep reading…
My Black Women Dating Experience on Black Cupid
Interracial Cupid is not the only heaven on earth (at least when you are in the USA) for white guys who want to meet black girls online. There’s another site that goes by the name of Black Cupid. As the name says, it’s a dating site for black people.
Unfortunately, it really is a dating site that is STRICTLY for black people.
And yes, I tried to game the system. I signed up on Black Cupid and goddammit, I even paid to upgrade my account to contact beautiful dark-skinned women...
Why Black Cupid is No Place for White Breads
While Interracial Cupid is heaven on earth for every white man who lives in the USA, I can’t say the same about Black Cupid. It’s a site that is dedicated to bring black people together. No room for white breads like me.
I tried it. I really did. I tried to turn these ladies from the dark side to the white side. It didn’t work. I didn’t receive any interest and only two nice messages (thanks Josie and Tatjana!). Oh, and I got one message from a girl who complained that I am not black.
You are a man looking for black women seeking white men to date, so stay away from Black Cupid, unless you want to look at a statistic like this:
It’s not our playground.
My Black Women Dating Experience on Afro Introductions
I already found the interracial dreamland for the American guys, but after my Black Cupid fiasco, I doubted that I would find the interracial dreamland for my European readers.
Then I decided to test a third site…
The Big Afro Introductions Experiment
I signed up for free on a site that’s called Afro Introductions and you can (and should!) do the same right now:
I was full of doubt. I mean, I was convinced that this site was not bad for white men seeking women from Africa (maybe you are one of them). However, I was extremely skeptical if it would work for guys in Germany, the UK, France or even the USA who were looking for black women in their neighborhood.
I hate to admit it, but I was wrong again.
In case you are living in a European country (yes, also Brexit England), Afro Introductions is your heaven on earth...at least when you are a white man who wants to meet black women online.
As you can see, my profile was as incomplete (shame on me, I know), but the results were absolutely astonishing:
Afro Introductions is the Best Site to Meet Black Women, If…
I tried it as Sebastian from California. There are thousands of active female members who live in the USA, but I received more interests and messages from Afro-American women on Interracial Cupid.
As an American man who wants to meet black women who are seeking white men, you have to sign up on Interracial Cupid.
Now I just had to test it for my European readers…
I searched for black women in France as Jean-Claude from Paris (hey, I wanted to make this test as authentic as possible). I searched for black women in the UK as Sebastian from London. Oh, and I searched for black women in Germany as Sebastian from Berlin. The results in Germany surprised me the most.
It’s hard for me to describe how amazing this experience was.
I already knew that France and England is the home of many black women. I mean, I have dated one or two (maybe three J) black women during my time in London. But the sheer amount of beautiful black women who replied to my emails and who sent me interests was astonishing.
Afro Introductions gives you access to thousands of black women who are looking for a white man. Oh, and in case you want to meet a woman who is living in Africa, the amount of women you get access to is unlimited.
Yes, with Afro Introductions you WILL easily meet black women online, but do you also have what it takes to attract and seduce them?
How to Approach Black Women Online
Now you know where to meet black women online who want to date a white guy like you.
“Okay, that’s where I meet them, but HOW do I get them?”
Good question. Here’s my answer.
How to Attract Black Girls Online as a White Man
I have to warn you. There’s one piece of advice that I am going to slap in your face throughout this whole article. And it starts right here and right now. There’s one thing you must understand, if you ever want to meet black women looking for white men to date.
DON’T ACT BLACK!
As a white guy, the fastest way to lose a black girl is by acting black
Don’t dress like a gangster rapper and please don’t try to “talk black”.
That’s the number one mistake that I see white guys make in interactions with dark-skinned women. Yes, even online. It all starts with your profile picture and the gold chains and baseball caps in it and no, it is NOT cool, stylish or swag.
First off all, not ALL black men are throwing around cash in Hip Hop music videos. Communicating that you assume that this stereotype is true will make you look like a fool.
Please don’t destroy your chances of finding the woman of your dreams because you leave the impression that you think that Lil Wayne and 50 Cent represent the black community. They don’t. There are millions of educated black people who don’t start every sentence with “hoe”.
She wants to date a white man who knows that.
Second of all, think about it for a second. Why should a black girl who is looking for white men to date want to date a white guy who acts black? It doesn’t make any sense. She seeks a man like you BECAUSE you do NOT act, dress, talk and behave that way.
This sums it up (click it)
1. Don’t upload a “ghetto” profile picture
2. Don’t copy and paste song lyrics from Lil Wayne in your profile…yes, also none from Tyga.
3. Don’t use any gangster language in your first message.
The Perfect First Message to Send to Black Girls Online
Good luck sending “lick me like a lollipop” as a first message. Well, at least you can send “these hoes ain’t loyal” when she doesn’t reply, but I doubt that this makes you feel better.
The perfect first message should show two things:
1. You are really interested in her and not just her blackness.
2. You are confident with the fact that you are a white man who is attracted to a black woman
As long as you communicate these two things, you have already won. That means no racial innuendos and no misleading compliment. Black women love when a white guy compliments their hair (they are very cautious about that), but some men take it one step too far.
A dark-skinned female friend of mine told me that she had tears in her eyes when a guy she was interested in gave her the infamous “you are really beautiful for a black woman” compliment. That’s what I mean with misleading compliments.
"you are really beautiful for a black woman" is not a compliment. It's a stab in the heart
Just write her in the same way as you would do it with a white or an Asian girl.
How about this:
First Message to Send to Black Girls Online
I just had a look at your profile picture and your style is amazing. Your hair, God I absolutely love your hair.
And in case you didn’t lie in your profile, we both love action movies and ice cream. Now I just imagine us sitting in the cinema and eating ice cream. Okay, I should stop daydreaming.
But hey, I would invite you to an ice cream. How about Independence Day?
Your best first date,
That’s the message that I used with a lot of girls and I got many replies. Feel free to copy and paste it.
How to Connect on a Black Women White Men Dating Site
You sent the first message. She replied. You feel like…
Okay, calm down big guy. You won the first battle, but you did not yet win the war. You want her. I know that and she knows it too. She likes that fact, otherwise she wouldn’t have replied. But you can still mess it up.
How can you mess it up?
Yep, that’s the answer.
While white guys can get away with curly hair compliments and even with booty compliments in a way that black guys can’t (sorry, but it’s the truth), she still wants to be seen as a human being.
Yes, she likes the fact that you are attracted to her curly curls and her curvy curves. However, and that’s a big HOWEVER, she doesn’t want to be your sexual fetish.
The one thing you don’t want to do in the next ten to twenty messages is to give her the feeling that you fetishize her. Be careful with sexual stereotypes and avoid stupid comments like “Is it true that black women are passionate lovers?” unless you want to have your next first date with a white girl.
Where to Meet Black Women Who Are NOT on an Interracial Dating Site
Meeting black women online is by far the best strategy, no matter if you are living in the USA, in Europe or in another galaxy (as long as they have internet).
But what if you want to meet and date a black woman who is too scared that her father who wanted to name her Malcolm X discovers her pretty face on a dating site with white guys?
Well, have no fear. The solution is near.
Meet Black Girls on the Right Campus
Do you want to meet black women who are beautiful, intelligent and educated?
Then go to McDonalds.
Nah, just kidding…
Don’t go there. Don’t even go there to get something to eat and for sure don’t go there to meet the woman of your dreams.
Go to university, even if you are not a student. Pretend to be a student. And yes, some people begin to study again after the midlife crisis 😉
But don’t go to any random college.
Go to a college that allows you to meet black women easily and effortlessly.
Are you living in the USA?
I mean, you don’t go to a vegetarian restaurant when you want to order a steak.
Meet Black Girls in the Right Club
I am originally from Germany and in comparison to the UK, the USA and France we don’t have many black immigrants. However, you can find a black music party on every corner. And yes, even some small clubs in the middle of nowhere have a high percentage of black party guests.
Here’s a simple three-step process of what you have to do:
- 1. Learn how to pick up girls in clubs
- 2. Remember what Sebastian said about acting black
- 3. Dominate the club with opposite game
“What the hell is opposite game?” you probably ask yourself right now.
I’ll tell you later.
Approach Black Girls in the Right Neighborhood
Where are you more likely to meet the black woman of your dreams?
And no, I don’t ask this question because I am racist. I just want to make a point, the same point I tried to make a couple of lines above.
Remember, you don’t go to a vegetarian restaurant when you want to order a steak.
You don’t do day game in a white neighborhood, if you want to meet black women looking for white men.
I don’t say that you have to move to Detroit. All I say is that it is a bit dumb to expect to meet the black woman of your dreams in a neighborhood with 98% white people.
Meet Black Women in the Church
I am not religious by any means. I am a spiritual person, but when it comes to the church, I believe that it does more harm than good. But who am I to judge. Maybe you are a Christian and you love to go to church. More power to you.
Oh, and in case you are a Christian man with a preference for black women, the church might provide you with the love you asked for in your prayers.
It is no secret that many black women are very religious.
They believe in God, they go to church and they are looking for a man who does the same. In case you are looking for a black Christian wife, the church can be your Holy Grail.
Meet Black Women at Cultural Events
A couple of days ago I visited my family in my small German hometown. While I was walking through the city I saw a poster for an African cultural event in the next city.
Remove your blinders and you will see countless opportunities to meet black women who would be happy if a white guy approaches them. A cultural event that is visited by thousands of black people is just one opportunity.
Keep your eyes wide open and more opportunities will arise.
How to Pick Up Black Women in Real Life
Now you know where to meet black women who are seeking white men to date. You know that some neighborhoods are better than others and that a Japanese Shushi parade might not be the perfect event for you.
Are you ready to go out and to meet the woman of your dreams?
Do you have any clue how to attract and approach your future wife?
Then let’s have a look at how to woo black women with the power of opposite game…
How to Attract Black Women as a White Man
How do you attract the black woman of your dreams?
Well, you treat her like any other woman and attract her in the same way as you would do it with any other woman.
Attraction article 1:
Attraction article 2:
I am sure both will help you.
But is attracting black women really the same as attracting white women?
Well, yes, with one little exception and you already know it. Hell, you are probably already sick and tired of me telling you, but the one exception is…again:
Don’t try to act black!
Don’t run around in pants that a horse could fit in, don’t hide your blonde hair under ten baseball caps and please leave the gold chains at home.
How to Approach Black Women in the Daytime
There are two keys to success when it comes to approaching black in the daytime. And yes, it’s different than approaching her in the nighttime, but we will get to that later.
- You can get away with compliments that black guys can't get away with
- You NEED confidence
During my time in London I had a really eye-opening conversation with one of my black friends. We were talking about interracial dating and at some point he looked at me and said:
“You know, somehow it’s unfair. When I walk up to a black chick and tell her that she has a beautiful ass, she turns into a drama queen. When a white guy walks up to a black girl and tells her that she has a beautiful ass, she smiles and giggles.”
I was flabbergasted. I never thought that this is true. The moment he said this I wanted to test it.
And I did. I tested it.
Well, what can I say? My black buddy was right. I know that it’s politically incorrect, but approaching black women with a direct compliment about her juicy booty and her curly hair works like gangbusters…at least when you are a white guy.
The reason for that is simple. The one thing that black women who are seeking white men to date are afraid of is that white guys prefer slim girls with straight hair. By complimenting her on these two features, you take away all her insecurities and make her day.
However, you need confidence when you deliver your compliment.
No confidence = no success with black women looking for white men to date
“I can’t believe that you approached me. Most white guys are so shy.”
That’s what one black girl I approached said to me and that’s what many dark-skinned women believe.
It’s time that you prove them wrong. It’s time that you read my Collection of Confidence review.
How to Approach Black Women in the Nighttime
Do you remember how I told you that running opposite game is the key to success with dark-skinned ladies?
It is, especially in the nighttime and here’s a quick story that shows why:
I moved to England as a young German man who has spoken to two black women in his whole life. Suddenly, I was surrounded by black women. I was so attracted to them and when I finally hit the club for the very first time, I couldn’t believe what I saw.
Clubbing in Germany:
Clubbing in the UK:
I was in heaven. The only problem was that all the beautiful dark-skinned angels where surrounded by aggressive guys. Yep, black men are very sexually aggressive on the dancefloor. They are grabbing them, pulling them and spinning them. And that’s fine. It works for them. It’s just not for me and maybe it’s also not for you.
That’s when I decided to try opposite game.
All I did was to walk up to a black girl who was surrounded by two young black men who tried to grab her ass. I just looked into her eyes and invited her to dance by reaching out my hand.
She smiled and they looked at me as if I had made fire with my left thumb.
I was her white knight in shining armor…not in a political correct sense.
How to Seduce Black Women
You are ready for the seduction. For you this is an exciting time. For her, this is the scariest time of all.
She is scared, at least when she thinks about you as her future boyfriend. She is scared of being a box on your checklist. She is afraid that you will tick the box “slept with a black girl” after she opened the gate for you.
She is afraid that she only has a place on your bucket list and not a place in your heart.
Address her fear. Tell her what you feel. Tell her that she means so much more to you and that you don’t just want to “test how it is”.
Once she knows that you are serious, she will show her affection for you very clearly. This transforms the seduction into an effortless and beautiful process.
5 Tips for Your Relationship With a Black Woman
“This transforms the seduction into an effortless and beautiful process.”
That would have been beautiful last words…
Yep, but I promised that there will be a bonus at the end of this article. And I keep my promises.
I showed you where to meet black women online, in the daytime, in the nighttime and I also showed you how to attract, approach and seduce them.
But as you probably know, my vision is to help you to find love, happiness and fulfillment through global dating.
Maybe the next black woman you meet is not just looking for a white man to date, but for a man who is exactly like you. Maybe you are the man of her dreams and she is the woman of your dreams.
Wouldn’t it be great to know how to turn your romance into an amazing relationship WTHOUT making all the mistakes that other white guys make?
Just like these mistakes…
Then look at the following five black girl dating tips and don’t forget to invite me to your wedding…
1. Be Her Gentleman and Not Her Swagger Boy
I keep it short. I promise. But again, I have to emphasize the importance of…
A: Not acting black
B: The power of opposite game.
Yep, that shit becomes even more important when you are in a relationship with her.
Be her gentleman. She doesn’t give a damn about how fly you are (does that make any sense?) or how much swagger you have. Be yourself.
You love chess more than gangster rap? Embrace it.
You don’t need to break your legs during a break dance session, just because you want to prove something to her. She loves you for who you are.
2. Act Normal Around Her Friends and Family
The same is true for her family and friends. Be yourself and don’t put on a black mask. Ignore this advice and you will wake up in loneliness land on the ridiculousness street.
During my time in England I dated a black girl who invited me to her birthday. A couple of days after her birthday she told me that she couldn’t see me anymore. I still don’t know the reason, but that’s not the point I want to make.
The point I want to make is this:
I was incredibly nervous. I mean, I was the ONLY white human being on this party.
I felt like a grain of salt in a chocolate fondue.
I know how hard it is to stay calm and relaxed in this situation, but she wants to know if you have what it takes to be her boyfriend. Act normal and you can only win. Shit, I guess that’s how I messed up everything.
3. Introduce Her to Your Family and Friends
I already told you that her biggest fear is to be the checkbox on your bucket list. Telling her that this is not true is great, but proving it is even better. If you really want this relationship, you shouldn’t be afraid of introducing her to your friends and family.
Yes, depending on how racist your parents are this can be a scary thought, but sooner or later you have to do it. As long as you don’t do this she won’t have the feeling that she really is your girlfriend. She will rather feel like the unwanted unofficial girlfriend.
Take this important step. You probably worry too much about it anyway. Your mom will love her.
4. Deal With Stereotypical Conflicts
Will your interracial relationship have zero conflicts?
Hell no. I am in an interracial relationship and I don’t want to lie to you. There will be conflicts and problems, but it’s on you to deal with them properly.
Some friend makes an inappropriate joke. Someone looks at you in a way that says “he shouldn’t be dating her” or “she shouldn’t be dating him”. It happens and it’s inevitable.
Just don’t pretend that it’s not there. Talk about it and support each other.
These moments can either destroy a relationship or strengthen your relationship. The choice is yours.
5. Love Her For Who She Is
In the end the only thing that matters is love (cliché, but true).
Be there for each other. Support each other. Talk about everything. Enjoy your relationship.
It all starts with a “hello” in your first message and it doesn’t have to end after the first night.
Yes, you are white and she is black, but in the end you are both two amazing human beings who love each other.
Interracial dating can be a bit scary at the beginning, but I know from my own experience that it can lead to love, happiness and fulfillment.
Don’t let your fears and doubts destroy something beautiful before it even starts.
Take action and meet the black woman of your dreams right now…
Summed Up Wisdom
You want to know where to meet black women looking for white men to date?
I will show you where. I tested three of the most popular interracial dating sites that specialize on brining white men and black women together. I tested everything and my findings are truly impressive.
There actually is one best interracial dating site for guys who live in the USA and one for guys who live outside of the USA. Read the article and you will find out.
Oh, and I am going to show you exactly how to meet, attract, approach, seduce and date black women seeking white men to date. I reveal everything and I truly hope that this article inspires you to take action to meet the black woman of your dreams.