What Is Self-Deception?

Am I really honest to myself?

What is Self-Deception?

It is waking up in the morning and telling yourself that your life is perfect, even though you haven’t talked to a woman in months. Of course you could talk to a hot girl whenever you want, but somehow you don’t have the desire to talk to women and to get to know them. That’s also the reason why you gaze after every attractive girl while beating yourself up for not having the balls to walk up to her. Just keep telling yourself that you have no interest in getting to know women. You might even believe yourself one day, hopefully before you suffer from age-related erectile dysfunction.

It is knowing that you haven’t had one number close within the last three months, while telling yourself that you are the best pick up artist in the world and that you could have every girl you want. Keep telling yourself that you are the greatest PUA that has ever walked on this earth and that every girl begs you to take her number. Continue with this ridiculous self-deception until you have the courage to admit that you have a problem and that you should work on it. Hopefully, the day will come when you finally realize that the phone number of your sister, your mom and your brother’s girlfriend don’t count when you say that you can get every girl’s number.

What is Self-Deception?

It is telling yourself that you are completely satisfied with your life, even though you haven’t had sex for more than one year. I mean, who needs sex when he has video games? Sex is something for primitive bad boys, not for educated and intelligent men like you. You spend your time doing things you really like and when you are honest to yourself, a girlfriend or a fuck buddy would only distract you from reaching the next level in Call of Duty or from finishing that amazing puzzle that you started one week ago.

You don’t need sex. That’s why you start to sweat and blush whenever one of your buddies asks you about your sex life. That’s why you masturbate every night until you cry yourself to sleep. Sex is the last thing you want.

What is Self-Deception?

It is talking yourself into believing that one day your dream girl will knock on your door and ask you if she can come in. As soon as she walks into your room she takes off her jacket and reveals that the only thing she wears underneath is a red string. Too bad that she only exists in your fantasy and that this day will never come. This day will never come, unless you take action and create it. But hey, you keep telling yourself that everything is fine. Life is good, right?

It is looking at incredibly beautiful women on your computer screen while they get fucked by some hung guy who gets paid to fuck them. Why don’t you acquire the necessary skills that allow you to seduce and to fuck girls who are even hotter than the ones you see in porn movies? I mean, you don’t have to exaggerate it and demand money to have sex with them, but when you are honest to yourself you would do everything to fuck women like the ones you see in porn movies for free. Oh, sorry, I totally forgot that it is easier to move your mouse and to open ten browser tabs, than it is to take responsibility for your life and to learn how to seduce women. Sorry, my fault!

What is Self-Deception?

It is letting one woman after another walk past you while feeding your brain with stupid excuses. You are not handsome enough. You are not rich enough. We both know that you don’t look like Liam Hemsworth and that you are not rich as Bill Gates. I really hate to disillusion you, but unless you invest a lot of money in plastic surgery and unless you have a genius business idea, you will never be as handsome and rich as those two guys. As we all know this is the perfect reason to not approach her, right?

It is being in a conversation with a girl and pretending to be the coolest motherfucker on earth, while you are sweating, shaking and mumbling some incomprehensible catchwords. Of course you could tell her that you are nervous, which would allow a real connection that it is based on authenticity and honesty, but then she would find out that you are not the perfect alpha that you want to be so bad. You can’t do that. Then everyone would find out that you are a vulnerable human being with emotions. We both know that you are the strong alpha pick up artist who doesn’t give a shit if a woman rejects him.

What is Self-Deception?

It is being on a date with a girl and desperately trying to impress her for two hours. You can go on and tell her about your car, about the promotion you got last week and about how you met ten celebrities whose names you memorized right before you went on the date. You can go on and on with this behavior, but maybe you should first become confident around women, so that you don’t need to impress them, before you end up on dates with girls who get to know your fake persona instead of your real self. Thank god we all know that you are just yourself when you are telling her all your little lies and that only the confident men see the need to impress women.

It is sleeping with a girl you are not even attracted to. You know her from your social circle and she was the one who made the first move. How could you say no? Everyone would agree with you that you couldn’t say no. Who cares about the fact that you sleep with a woman who you are not even attracted to and that you lower your standards as soon as you jump in bed with her? Who cares that you take what you can get without loving yourself enough to know that you deserve women who you are really attracted to. As long as you get laid everything is fine, isn’t it?

What is Self-Deception?

It is pretending to not be jealous, while you are checking your girlfriend’s emails and getting a heart attack whenever her smartphone vibrates. No, you don’t have to learn how to deal with jealousy. As we all know jealously is completely normal in a relationship. It is just a sign of how much you love her. Everybody who claims that being jealous is related to insecurities, low self-esteem and the fear of loss is a liar. We all know that.

It is ending up in a relationship or even marrying a girl who has some serious issues. She has a severe bipolar disorder and takes antidepressants every day, but you get sex once a week. She freaks out because of every little thing and the thought of raising children with her is actually really scary. Did I mention that you get sex every week? Continue with your self-deception, marry her and put a baby in her belly. Everything is fine. Just make sure that you get the best divorce lawyer in town.

What is Self-Deception?

It is telling yourself that you don’t need to change anything in your life, when you obviously need to change something.

It is convincing yourself that you can get every girl you want, without becoming a man who is attractive to women.

It is talking yourself into believing that you can have sex with amazing women without learning to seduce them.

Self-deception is lying to the only person who doesn’t believe your lies.

Self-deception is wasting another three years before you finally buy my book. 

Summed Up Wisdom

Self-deception is talking yourself into believing that you have an amazing dating and sex life, even though it sucks ass.

Self-deception is wasting your money on alcohol in the hope that the liquid courage will finally help you to get laid, while you are too stingy to invest a couple of dollars in a book that has the power to change your life.