59 Subtle Signs She Secretly Likes You Back

Did you see the subtle signs she secretly likes you back?

SHE is everywhere.

Let me tell you something that will shock you:

On average, you see between five and twenty girls every day who give you clues and signs with their body, their words, and their behavior. They are hoping you see it. 

Most men are blind to the subtle signs a girl secretly likes you. It’s time to take off the blinders and to open your eyes to a new reality. This new reality gives you x-ray vision. You’ll no longer ask yourself if she’s into you.

You’ll know it because I show you:

The following 59 subtle signs she secretly likes you back will provide you with the Predator vision you absolutely need to become a deadly seducer…

I Was Blind to these 59 Subtle Signs She Secretly Likes You 

“Sebastian, it’s easy for you. You have experience. I don’t.” I hear you saying.

Don’t give up before you start!

I learned 10 of the following 59 signs from two of the most successful dating coaches of all time. These 10 signs allowed me to see what other men don’t see…and to take action. It didn’t take long until I saw more than my mentors were able to see.

The Result:

In other words, it doesn’t matter if you have years of experience as a pickup artist or if you’ve never approached a woman.

The following subtle signs she likes you make it impossible to fail…

1. She Invades Your Space 

If a girl likes you, personal space doesn’t exist.

Don’t freak out when she stands so close that you can feel her nose poking your left eyes. That means she’s really into you. Pray to God that she hasn’t eaten a stinky kebab because you’ll feel her breath on your skin.

And you might get a boner from it. Just saying. 

2. She’s Overly Polite 

Have you ever talked to a girl who was way too polite?

She says “I’m sorry, but…” or “please excuse me” in every sentence. You might think she has good manners. That might be true. But I’m pretty sure she swears like a sailor when she’s talking to her friends.

Here’s why she doesn’t do it with you:

She is too afraid to mess things up. That’s why she plays it safe.

3. She Shows You What Her Momma Gave Her 

Okay, we’re talking about subtle signs she likes you.

A girl grinding on you in a club is not a subtle sign. It’s pretty obvious. But there are situations when it’s not so obvious.

Let’s say you meet her at work or at the office.

Most men don’t see this, but the second it takes to push her out can make all the difference. And a straight posture can turn her B-Cup into C-Cup.

4. Her Hands Don’t Form a Barrier 

What does it mean when a woman crosses her arms?

An open body language means the opposite. 

No, not that she has diarrhea. It means that she likes you and is comfortable talking to you. If her arms hang, chances are high that your dick will stand later on.

5. Her Legs Are Pointed Towards You

This is one of the most obvious signs.

Imagine you sit next to a girl. She crosses her legs (as women always do). Look closely. Observe her legs and have a look in which direction they point.  

Do her legs point towards you or in the other direction?

Her legs are like a compass.

They point in the direction her heart wants to go. Let’s hope they point towards you.

6. She Tries to Avoid Eye Contact by Looking to the Ground

The fact that she avoids eye contact doesn’t have to be a bad sign.

She either does it because she’s not interested or she does it because she’s interested. I know. Women are confusing.

I’ll explain.

Her legs reveal a lot, but her eyes reveal even more.

7. She Looks in Your Eyes 

But it’s always better to be sure.

And prolonged eye contact is one of the subtle signs she likes you that speak a clear language. If she looks in your eyes and smiles, she likes you. If she blushes, she likes you even more.

You know this feeling when your heart beats faster and your dick grows slowly?

That can happen when she shows this sign.

8. Her Lips are Shaking 

God, I love this clue.

I would say that 99% of men are not able to recognize it. Congratulations. You belong to the top 1% because you see the subtle movements her lips make.

This is a sign that she’s nervous…and aroused.

I once talked to a girl whose lips were shaking so much that she touched them every couple of seconds. 

I knew it was on. I ended up spending the weekend with her.

9. Her Leg Touches Yours  

Some signs she secretly likes you look like accidents.

But they aren’t.

It’s not an accident that her leg touches yours. She might do it under the table and she might even apologize. But her “sorry” doesn’t mean “sorry”. The direct translation is “you’re next”.

So, what will be your next move?

10. She Gives You a Shoulder Bump 

“You are so mean!”

Whenever a girl says this to you, you’re allowed to give yourself a mental high five. She wants you. Don’t even think about apologizing for being mean. She wants you to be mean because she wants a reason to bump your shoulder.

Or maybe she wants to pinch you.

Let her do whatever she wants to do. That’s her way of saying “no that I touch you, you’re allowed to touch me”.

What are you waiting for?

Touch her!

11. She Makes up a Reason to Hug You 

Women are pretty good at making up reasons to touch you.

And they have to because touching you without a reason would mean that she’s a bad girl. But touching you with a reason means that it’s okay. You don’t have to understand her female logic. You just have to see the subtle signs she likes you.

Here are some common reasons:

I remember this one date where a girl told me “everything will be okay”, even though I was smiling. I was confused and told her I’m okay. I messed up.

Now I know better.

12. She Plays with Her Hair 

Her hair is so interesting.

She plays with it and styles it….while talking to you.

She does all these things while talking to you. It seems like she’s more interested in her hair than in you. Well, nothing is as it seems. She only changes her hairstyle every couple of seconds because she’s so nervous.

You make her nervous. That’s good.

13. She Plays with Her Hands 

Women have beautiful hair, but they also have soft hands.

Playing with her hands is just another way to hide her shyness. The only problem is that she doesn’t hide her feelings by kneading them like her grandmas birthday cake.

Let her play with her hands and enjoy the show.

All you have to know is that she’s nervous and ready for the next step. 

14. She Stutters and Forgets Words

This rarely happens. But sometimes it does.

I remember this one girl.

God, she was so nervous and so cute. So no, she doesn’t have Alzheimer’s. If she was talking to a guy she doesn’t give a shit about, she wouldn’t be nervous.

But she’s talking to you.

15. She Moves Just Like You 

Mirroring is one of the most popular signs she secretly likes you back.

It’s not a coincidence.

She might not even realize that she’s mirroring you. It’s mostly subconscious. But for the trained eye, it’s so damn obvious.

16. She Blushes When You Give Her a Compliment

You tell her that she’s beautiful.

What happens next?

If she likes you, she’ll smile and blush. Her cheeks turn into red tomatoes and her hands have only one purpose. They do the best they can to hide her red cheeks from you.

Enjoy the moment.

Now give her another compliment and let her repeat the game. 

17. She Scratches Her Neck and Arms 

Maybe she’s itchy.

Well, maybe. But maybe she’s not. People tend to scratch their neck and their arms when they are nervous.

Just be careful when you’re dating a girl in South East Asia.

It might be the result of a mosquito bite. But if there’s not mosquito around, this is one of the most obvious clues that she likes you.

18. She Gives You the Puppy Look

Have you ever watched Japanese videos?

Come on. I know you did. Every man has. And even though I think it’s better to quit videos, this is the only example I can think of. Japanese women have mastered the art of the puppy look. But white and black chicks are also not bad at it.

She looks at you with big eyes.

There’s hope in her eyes. It’s the hope that you’ll do everything in your power to get laid tonight….with her.

19. She Dressed Up for You

A girl doesn’t wear high heels and a mini skirt to play a board game.

I recently got an email from a guy who asked me if the girl he was on a date with is interested in him. I asked him how she dressed. He told me that she wore a tight skirt, high heels, and that he could even see her G-string through her shirt.

Yes, she dresses up because she wants you to undress her. Believe it or not, but she wants you to get hard. That’s the whole purpose.

20. Her Friends Ask You about Her

Imagine the following situation:

You’ve been on a date with a girl. It was okay, but you’re not sure if she’s into you. You haven’t seen any of the subtle signs she secretly likes you back I shared so far. The next day you run into one of her friends.

She asks you:

There’s only one reason why her friend asks these questions:

Emily wants to know if you like her back.

21. Her Friends Giggle Behind Her Back 

And again, you have to observe her friends.

Let’s say you run into her friends and they don’t ask you questions. That’s fine. Maybe Emily didn’t want them to know about you and her. But they know. And they can’t hide it.

The moment you turn away, the giggling starts.

Believe me. They wouldn’t giggle, if there was nothing to giggle about.

22. Her Friends Stop Talking When You Show up 

Let’s continue with your crush Emily and their friends.

Britney and Tiffany are talking. They have an interesting conversation. You walk past them and say “hey guys” before you move on.

Here’s what happens:

They immediately stop the conversation and stare at you. No, they don’t just look at you.

They do this:

While you run to the bathroom to check if you have something in your face, Emily sits at home thinking about you.

23. She Laughs about Your Terrible Jokes 

I’m famous for my bad jokes.

They are not only bad. They are also extremely inappropriate. Okay, as one of my readers, you already know that I’m always inappropriate.

Anyway…

No matter how bad your jokes are, she will laugh…but only if she likes you. She might even say that it’s the funniest thing she has ever heard. In fact, it’s the most retarded thing she has ever heard.

But it doesn’t matter because she wants to sleep with you.

24. She Doesn’t Text Back Immediately

Most guys interpret this signal the wrong way.

They think that it’s a good sign when she’s fast at replying to texts. Sorry, but I have bad news for you. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but my experience says something else.

The faster she texts back, the less interest she has.  

Here’s why:

A girl who likes you wants to play hard to get. Her friends told her to do it and mommy told her to not be a bad girl. She thinks that’s the only way to get you. That’s why she waits at least 20 minutes with the reply…even though she stares at her phone the whole day.

The girl who doesn’t care if you like her texts back immediately.

25. She Indirectly Asks if You Have a Girlfriend 

She won’t ask you if you have a girlfriend.

No, that’s too obvious. Here’s what she’ll say instead:

Here’s what she wants to hear from you:

“Oh, I don’t have a girlfriend.”

Please don’t make the mistake and ask her why she asks this. She’ll make up some stupid excuse. Just shoot the goal. Her pass is so good.

26. She’s Always Hot or Cold

Here’s what not to do when a girl says she’s cold:

“Yeah, I know. Winter sucks, right?”

She wants to test if you take care of her. And you failed miserably. She wanted to know if you give her your jacket. Now she knows that you let her freeze to death. She deleted your name from her Boyfriend Material List.

What if she says she’s hot?

She doesn’t want you to turn on the air conditioner. She wants you to say “it’s freaking hot, just take off your jacket”. She’ll do as (she) you pleases. 

27. She Shows Interest in Your Nerdy Hobbies 

Imagine you talk to a girl.

She looks like she’s into fashion. She smells as if perfumes are her biggest passion. Then you start talking about your love for board games. Suddenly, she’s the biggest board game lover on earth…

…even though she has no clue what you’re talking about.

But that doesn’t matter because she just shows one of the most obvious signs she secretly likes you back. And you shouldn’t call her out for knowing nothing. Let her be John Snow. 

28. She Smiles and Waves  

Saying goodbye isn’t easy.

But it’s a great opportunity to observe her behavior. A girl who likes you doesn’t just say “bye”, turns around and walks away as if she didn’t give a beep about you. Nope, that’s not what women do.

Okay, okay, I admit it. The girls in the video smile and wave because they get paid for showing interest. But unless you’re “dating” a hooker, she’ll show the same signs without asking for money.

She’s just asking for your attention.

29. She Licks and Bites Her Lips 

What is she thinking of when she bites and lips her licks?

I can tell you.

All you have to know is that it’s a good sign. She wants to do something with her lips. It’s your job to find out how far she wants to go.

30. She Behaves Strange When You Talk to Other Girls

You’re talking to other girls?

How dare you!

That’s the last thing a woman who shows subtle signs she secretly likes you wants to see. She’ll be pissed and jealous. But she doesn’t want to show it. I mean, she doesn’t want you to know that she’s an overly attached girlfriend.

That’s why she reacts, well, strange.

Enjoy the show.

31. She Gives You “Ask Me Out” Hints

No, she won’t say “do you want to go out with me?”

That’s your job.

Instead, she’ll give you clues…a lot of clues. She casually mentions that she has nothing to do on Sunday. Maybe she tells you about this move she wants to watch. Hint: She wants to watch it with you.

I once met a girl who told me that her bed is too big for her and that she always cuddles her pillow before she falls asleep. The invitation was obvious.

Would you have seen the sign?

32. She Leaves Others for You 

Imagine you enter a room.

The girl of your dreams is talking to two guys and a girl. They are her friends, even though the two guys want to get out of the friend zone. Yep, they want to get out. But they can’t because you step into the room.

Suddenly, she loses all interest in her friends.

She leaves them in the middle of the conversation to hug you and asks you about your day. This, my friend, is one of the most obvious signs she secretly likes you back.

33. She Gives You a Compliment

Okay, this one is obvious.

But I decided to include it in this list of subtlesigns because some guys don’t see the char of honey that’s right in front of their eyes.

No, she doesn’t want to be nice.

If she wanted to be nice, she’d say “you’re a really good friend” instead of “wow, you look really handsome today”.  A compliment about your looks is always a (not so subtle) sign she’s interested in you. 

34. She Talks about Very Intimate Stuff

Have you ever been on a date with a girl who talked about her childhood trauma? 

I have. She did it because she trusted me and because she liked me. In fact, she was totally into me. No woman talks about such a topic with a man she doesn’t care about.

Here’s what it means:

She wants you to be her boyfriend.

35. She Gives Clues about Her Relationship Status

She won’t scream “I’m single! Kiss me!”

That’s not how it works. Here’s how it works:

These are all subtle signs she likes you. Be this someone for her.

36. She Smiles Whenever You Smile 

You don’t believe me?

Make the test.

Come on. There must be a girl who you think is into you. Test her and see what happens. Talk to her and observe if she’s mirroring your smile. There’s a high chance that she’ll do exactly that.

You smile in her presence.

She’ll smile too because it makes her happy to see you happy.

37. She Agrees to Everything You Say 

Here’s what happens when a woman likes you:

The strong and independent female leader is nothing but a myth. Women are extremely adaptive, especially when they like a guy. Suddenly, all her opinions are gone. Unfortunately, the same is true for a lot of men, especially when they like a girl.

Make sure that she’s not allergic to spaghetti.

38. She Agrees to Hang Out with You Alone

“Was this a sign?” he asked me.

Recently, one of my Skype coaching clients went on his first date in two years. I was so proud of him. Only one Skype coaching session and bam…he had a date with a hot 25-year-old waitress. I was so proud of him.

Did he get laid on the first date?

I don’t want to like to you. No, he didn’t. But he could have. She INVITED HERSELF to his apartment. She took off her jacket and her shoes. She was ready to get down and dirty. He, however, wasn’t sure if the green light was on.

Let me tell you something:

If she wants to be alone with you, she wants to be on top of you.

39. She Has Plans for the Future

Another subtle sign she secretly likes you is The Future Talk.

Here are some examples:

Pay close attention. Whenever she talks about the future and she includes you in the picture, she likes you. In fact, she likes you so much that she can imagine a future with you.

40. You and Her Suddenly Become We 

Why don’t we go camping in the summer?

Take a closer look at this question. Maybe something attracts your attention. Okay, stop thinking about banging her in the tent. This is important. The word WE is important.

A girl who talks about “we” wants to be with you.

She already imagines a relationship with you. In her mind you’re already boyfriend and girlfriend. Now you just have to close the deal.

41. She Doesn’t Care about the Others in the Group 

Imagine you’re talking in a group.

You, your future girlfriend, and two of your friends are having a conversation. Now your friend is talking, but she keeps looking at you. It seems as if she doesn’t care about what your friend says. And it’s true. She doesn’t give a beep.

All she can think of is being alone with you.

Her body is in the group, but her mind is in your heart. Oh my God, that was the cheesiest crap I’ve written in a long time.  

42. She Wants You to Meet Her Friends

There are two reasons why a girl wants her friends to meet you.

1. She wants the “approved” stamp from their friends.

2. She wants her friends to like you.

Choose either one of these reasons. Both mean the same. She likes you and asking you to meet her friends is one of the subtle signs she secretly likes you.

43. She Puts her Phone on Silent 

God, I hate it so much.

Nowadays, it’s hard to talk to a girl without her staring at her smartphone. It’s all about texting, texting, texting. What an epidemic!

But what if she’s really into you?

She’ll put that damn thing on silent and listen to every word you say. In today’s day and age this can be considered the ultimate sign of love.

44. She Texts You Every Day 

She wants to know how you are.

Hah! You didn’t believe that, right?

Here are the real reasons why she texts you every day:

I think it’s cute, unless the texting turns into text bombing. Then it’s freaking annoying.

45. Her Responses are Shy and Full of Smileys 

What does she text you when she texts you every day?

The texts from a girl who likes you differ from the texts sent by a girl who doesn’t give a fly about you. The latter speaks in plain English.

The girl who likes you uses:

If she likes you, her texts look like the diary entries from a 16-year-old schoolgirl. I think it’s cute. What do you think? Let me know in the comments below.

46. She Lets Others Know about “We”

Remember what I said about WE?

It’s time to let the world know that you and she are WE. Back in the days it was all about telling her friends. Today it’s all about sharing it with her 200 friends and 500 creepy friendzoned followers on Facebook and Instagram.

But that’s okay.

Let her upload the photos and hashtag herself to death. Smile and thank me for telling you about this sign she likes you back. 

47. She Calls You

Do you want another clue?

She calls you.

Nobody call anymore. Okay, if you’ve read my book Rise of the Phoenix, you know why calling is the only way to set up a date in 76 seconds. But hey, maybe she’s an exception. In case she is, she really, really likes you.

I approached this one girl at the mall.

Two days later she called me. I was too busy to text her. I picked up the phone and she asked me on a date. It was a done deal.

Praise the Lord whenever that happens.

48. She Leans in When You Touch Her

This is one of the body signs she likes you.

You try to touch her and she leans in. The green light is bright and clear. Seriously, in this situation it’s harder to mess up than to get laid.

49. The Teasing Works like Gangbusters 

You tease her and she loves it.

This is definitely one of the signs she secretly likes you. You see, men always think that teasing is this ultimate seduction weapon. And it is, but only if she ALLOWS you to tease her. The tricky thing about teasing is that women hate it when they’re not into the guy who teases.

They love it when a guy they like teases them.

That’s all I have to say.

50. Her Cleavage Magically Gets Bigger  

It’s like magic!

Her breasts get bigger, and bigger and bigger. Okay, that’s not true. They don’t get bigger. The only thing that changes is the position of her top.

She pulls it down…and a little bit more…and…

Why does she do it?

Of course, she wants you to see her neck! 😉

51. She Asks Question after Question  

Her effort to find out more about you is directly correlated with her desire to sleep with you, date you, and breed with you. Okay, forget about the last one. Use a condom.

She wants to know everything about her future boyfriend.

52. She Positions Herself Next to You

Imagine you’re at the bar.

You turn around and see nothing. Two minutes later you turn around again and see a beautiful woman. What a coincidence!

Well, it’s not a coincidence…

53. She Links Arms with You 

It’s also not a coincidence that she links arms with you.

This is a clear sign she secretly likes you. In fact, there’s no bigger clue than that. She’s begging you to make her your girlfriend.

How will you decide?

54. She Cleans Your Clothes

Nope, I don’t mean that she’s washing your clothes.

FYI: if she does that, she really likes you.

But we’re not quite there yet. Before she puts your dirty socks in the washing machine, she brushes fluff off your clothes. Don’t you dare to say that there’s no fluff. The fluff is there, even if it’s just in her mind.

She needs an excuse to touch you.

55. She Feeds You Like a Child

Oh, this is so cute!

Yes, it is. I know, it’ a bit anti-alpha to get fed by a girl, especially when she does it in a restaurant. Let the waitress giggle and the grumpy old man next to you look grumpy.

They wish someone would feed them.

If she feeds you, she likes you. And if she kisses your dirty mouth afterwards, she likes you even more.

56. She Gives You Small Presents

Everyone likes to get presents.

Women know that and use this “technique” to impress you. It might be a self-made card. Or maybe she prepares something to eat for you.

Appreciate it.

She wants to show you how much she likes you.

57. She Shares Her Favorite Songs with You

Every song triggers certain emotions.

I mean, what do you think when you listen to Lil Wayne’s Lollipop?

Okay, that was a terrible example. 

But seriously, she wants to share her favorite songs with you because…yeah…why? Well, you could say it’s because she wants to feel a strong heart to heart connection.

But I guess it’s because she’d never date a guy who hates Beyoncé.

58. Her Voice Goes up When She Talks to You 

Does she sound like a chipmunk?

This is one of the signs she secretly likes you. I’m not making this up. According to a study in the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology, women’s voice pitch changes when they’re attracted to a guy. You have to listen to her voice and observe how it's changing.  

If she sounds like this…

…she really likes you.

59. She Asks You What You Want Her to Wear

She doesn’t want to hear “I don’t care. Wear whatever you want.”

Don’t say this unless you want her to hate you forever and ever. She wants you to say “wear your blue dress. I love it.”

Remember that she wants to sleep with you instead of playing board games.

Tell her to wear her sexy blue dress. 

Then check out these secrets to get her out of her dress...

Summed Up Wisdom 

God, I never thought that this article would be THAT long. Jeez, more than 5000 words…you must be drooling on your laptop. Wake the f@*k up! It’s finally over. You made it to the finish line.

I can’t possibly sum up 59 subtle signs she secretly likes you back in two or three paragraphs. What? You already forgot everything?

I guess you have to read the article again…