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I want to ask you a question that you MUST answer before you read this Speak to Spark Arousal review:
Do you also believe that words are the key to a woman’s heart?
I really do believe that.
I believe it because years of studying psychology (and scientific studies) and working as a dating coach who has helped thousands of men all over the world have proved it to be true. Words have the power to make or break a seduction.
Seducing a woman sounds so complex, but it all comes down to one thing:
Unless a woman FEELS, connected, attached, and attracted to you, she won’t sleep with you. That’s why I was so excited to test and review Speak to Spark Arousal. Finally, after years of working as a dating coach, I contacted Jessica J (no, not the Price Tag singer) and asked her to give me access to her product.
She said “yes” and this allowed me to:
But that’s not all…
Jessica loved my work and the Global Seducer community so much, that she was willing to give YOU a discount of 62%.
Yes, that’s 62%!
If you purchase Speak to Spark Arousal through one of the links or buttons in this review, you get the product with all the free bonuses for $37 instead of $97.
Let’s find out if this dating product is worth one single dollar…
WARNING: You are Entering Female Territory
“Jessica...mhh…Jessica…wait! Is that a product from a WOMAN?”
I know what you’re thinking right now.
“Women can’t teach men how to pick up chicks. I don’t want to hear about buying her flowers and shit.”
Calm down. She’s not that kind of girl.
Jessica J is one of those dating coaches that don’t look legit…but are legit. She’s a tiny Asian American girl (and pretty cute), but when it comes to dating advice, she has bigger balls than the guys from Real Social Dynamics.
She has worked as a marriage and family therapist and she’s a host for Playboy Radio. It shouldn’t come to a surprise that she talks about sex, dating, and one-night stands when she’s on air.
You won’t hear any feminist bullshit from her…
Enter Dating Coach Jessica J: The Anti-Feminist
She’s the nerdy girl gone bad type of girl. And she’s the anti-female dating coach.
I’ve worked with and met dozens of female dating coaches and I can count the ones that are legit on one hand. Most of them give advice that doesn’t work because they want to be politically correct. I mean, that’s the only way to appear on Dr. Drew.
Neither I nor Jessica J will ever appear on his show.
The advice that Jessica shares in Speak to Spark Arousal is real, straightforward and politically incorrect.
You won’t hear any of this “just be nice” blah blah from her. Instead, she tells you to stop acting like a dog and to start acting like a wolf.
“The dog waits till he gets fed. Wolves feed themselves. Women want wolves.”
Think about this quote from Jessy before you check out my Speak to Spark Arousal review case study…
Case Study: I Spoke and Sparked Arousal (With 6 Girls)
I did it. I went through the whole program.
It took me two days to…
And I’m proud to say that going through Jessica’s course made me a better seducer and (hopefully) a better dating coach.
Does that mean that Speak to Spark Arousal is only for experienced seducers?
No, not at all!
In fact, this product is better for beginners because it guides you through the whole seduction process while giving you the right words and mindsets.
It was fun to put Jessica’s advice into practice.
Here’s what happened…
1. I Manipulated So Many Girls with the Trusty Triangle
Manipulation is such a bad word.
Let’s say I pushed many girls in the right direction by making them feel good.
Does that sound better?
Great because that’s exactly what I did for years. And that’s what every other seducer does too, no matter how many times he claims that he’s not manipulating women. Communication is manipulation. Always.
You’ll believe me after watching the first video in module 1.
The principle that you’ll learn is The Trusty Triangle and I used it in almost every interaction with a woman. Before I decided to write this Speak to Spark Arousal review, I did it subconsciously.
Now I’m fully aware of the power of my actions.
2. I’m Done with the German Job Interview
I will never ask the 21 questions (that’s how Jessy calls it in her program,) again in my life. It doesn’t work. Whenever I used this technique, the girls I’ve been on dates with were falling asleep…and drooling on the table.
I tried the German Job interview style one last time for this Speak to Spark Arousal review.
It was three days ago and I just wanted to see how hard this mistake can kick you in the balls. Well, the girl I tortured made up an excuse to leave the café. The next time I do exactly what Jessica wants me to do.
And you should do the same.
3. How the PRS and HAY Technique Made Her Stay
This happened last week. And it was so much fun.
I met a girl at the mall and I tried to combine the PRS and the HAY technique. These are two conversation techniques from module 2.
First, I related my own experiences to her personality (with PRS)
She listened with an intense focus that I’ve never seen before.
Next, I engaged her in my experiences (with HAY)
As a result, she was so intrigued and so emotionally connected to me that she didn’t want to leave. She only left when the waiter told us that they are closing.
4. I Knew Exactly What She was Going to Say Next
At one point of the course, Jessy gives you a list of things a woman might say. She also gives you practical exercises to practice your responses.
But I have to be honest. Number 4 and 6 confused me.
I can’t remember that a girl ever said this to me. But number 2 and 7 made perfect sense. In fact, one of the girls I approached for this Speak to Spark Arousal review case study, said number 7 to me.
It was hilarious because I knew exactly how to react.
5. This Made Her Giggle and Blush
I didn’t use all the three techniques that you’ll learn in module 3.
I only used one of them with a girl I recently met at a meetup. But it was enough to make her put her number in my phone. But in case you think that this is some crazy psychological secret from outer space, I have to disappoint you.
I just had fun with a little role play.
Jessica shows you exactly how to use this playful technique…and two more.
6. I Can’t Believe I said This in Starbucks
In module 3 Jessica also shares six flirting techniques.
At the beginning of the video in module 3c, she used Starbucks as an example venue. So I thought to myself “why don’t you test it at Starbucks?”
That’s what I did.
I have to admit. I was a bit nervous because the example in this video is sexually ambivalent. But it worked. She smiled and laughed. The only one who didn’t smile and laugh was her boyfriend who I didn’t see.
He was standing right behind me.
Revealed: Does Speak to Spark Arousal Work?
The goal of Speak to Spark arousal (at least the way I understand it) is to give you the power to attract and seduce women by mastering the art of communication.
The question is:
Does Jessica J deliver on this promise?
Yes, she does. And she does it in a way that allows you to improve your seduction skills without becoming someone you are not. Her female perspective on how it feels for a woman when you say certain things is invaluable.
I’m a big believer of Jessica’s core message. I also believe in her teaching style that is based on metaphors, exercises, self-reflection and the big picture.
I learned to be a wolf, not a dog.
What You Can Watch and Download in Your Member’s Area
I had to laugh when I looked at other Speak to Spark Arousal reviews.
I mean, who are these people kidding?
I found dozens of reviewers that talk about downloading the PDF. Then they go on about how much the eBook helped them to improve their seduction skills.
Speak to Spark Arousal is NOT an eBook product. Yes, some modules contain separate PDF documents with exercises and additional tips, but the main product is an online course with 6 modules.
The only freaking eBooks you can download are the bonuses!
Each module consists of videos, audio files and PDFs. You’ll get 20 video and 20 audio lessons in total. The audio lessons are mainly the video lessons in audio format, but there are also additional audio files.
This is how the member’s area looks like:
Of course, you also get a lot of additional bonuses. But they are a bit hard to find. You have to click on module 0 (welcome) and there you find the download links.
And now I’m going to do something that I might regret:
On the sales page, Jessica reveals three bonus products that you get for free, but she doesn’t reveal bonus product 4 and 5. I hope she doesn’t kill me for revealing bonus 4.
Here’s what you’ll get (including bonus 4):
The Speak to Spark Arousal video and audio course (6 modules)
The Friend Zone Escape Hatch bonus eBook (12 pages)
The Natural Conversation Starters bonus eBook (8 pages)
The Never Feel Lost With Women/ What to Say Next audio file (18.48 minutes)
The Seven Secret Signals – What a Woman Really Wants bonus eBook (26 pages)
I already revealed bonus 4 but I’m not allowed to reveal bonus 5.
Do you want to find out what you will learn in each in each module?
Then continue reading this Speak to Spark Arousal review…
The Speak to Spark Arousal video and audio course
The course consists of 6 modules and her final thoughts.
There’s also a welcome video from Jessica J. You can count that as module 0 (it contains the download links of the bonuses). Anyway, some of the modules consist of one video lesson, but there are also modules that have four or five lessons (as you can see in the screenshot below).
Here’s what you’re going to learn in the individual modules…
Module 1: The Rule of 3
In this module you’re going to learn the most painful communication mistakes that most guys make…and what to do instead.
Jessica shares specific techniques and principles that help you to connect with women in an authentic way. Oh, and you’ll also learn how to sexually escalate within minutes (yes, in the first module).
Module 2: 1-2-3 Talk
Module 2 is an eye-opener.
Once you watched the five videos, you know why you’ve looked at approaching women the completely wrong way. Forget about ice breakers. You learn how to give her a gift and how to make her want to return the favor (NOT a material gift).
Jessy also teaches you how to find out if a girl is right for you.
Module 3: Mixing Ingredients and Baking the Cake
The sub-modules teach you how to be more playful in conversations and how to flirt in a way that makes women addicted to you.
Here dating coach Jessica J presents different techniques (6 flirting techniques) that help you to become a master communicator.
Module 4: The Number Sandwich & Going Home
What could you possibly learn in module that’s called The Number Sandwich & Going Home?
First: How to get her number.
Second: How to get her home.
In this module Jessica proves that she’s not like other female dating coaches. She admits that girls secretly fantasies about going home with a guy. Yes, you can skip getting her number. You just have to bring it up the right way.
Module 5: Getting a Strong Rope
In this module you’ll learn three techniques that allow you to make a more intense connection with her.
You’ll also learn how to get her excited about the idea to be with you AND to sleep with you.
Module 6: Don’t Be a HO!
This module surprised me because Jessica’s definition of a Ho is not my definition.
For a moment I really thought that she doesn’t want you to sleep with multiple girls…which wouldn’t make any sense after you learned how to seduce women with words. But no, she doesn’t give a damn if you become a man whore (in fact, she encourages you).
In Speak to Spark Arousal this word has another meaning and she’s right. No girl wants to date a Ho.
The Friend Zone Escape Hatch bonus eBook
It’s pretty obvious that this 12-page eBook teaches you how to escape the friend zone.
But it’s written in a unique way.
Jessica presents different techniques that help you to escape the friend zone and she always tells you what this technique is, why it’s necessary and how you apply it. No fluff and pure value.
The Natural Conversation Starters bonus eBook
This bonus eBook has only 8 pages, but again…no fluff, pure value.
This small eBook contains conversations starters for all kinds of different places. You get 33 conversation starters with practical examples. Memorize one or two of them and you’ll never have to think about what to say.
The Never Feel Lost With Women/ What to Say Next audio file
I’m still not so sure about this bonus product. Maybe I’m too stupid.
On the sales page it’s called Never Feel Lost With Women. But in the member’s area this audio bonus is called What to Say Next. And when you download it, it’s called What to Say Next – 3 Mistakes.
It’s a bit confusing but the 18:48 audio file offers solid advice.
The Seven Secret Signals bonus eBook
Uups…this is one of the bonuses that I shouldn’t reveal.
Well, I hope she forgives me. And I hope you enjoy reading this 26-page eBook. It’s really good because it reveals…
The Speak to Spark Arousal Review Q&A
By now, you probably have questions.
Let’s find out what you have to pay, if it’s worth it, and if I’m an evil prankster…
Is This Just another Dating PDF eBook?
Sorry, I have to say it again.
So many people are searching for the Speak to Spark Arousal PDF eBook that I have to say it one last time:
This is an online course with video and audio lessons and NOT and eBook.
No matter how many reviewers try to sell you their Speak to Spark Arousal eBook…it does not exist. I went through every module (and the bonuses). You can believe me.
Is This Product Just another Scam?
Nope, it’s definitely not a scam.
Let’s face it:
It’s a great product for beginners and it doesn’t cause your wallet to throw up.
What Does Speak to Spark Arousal Cost?
Listen very carefully:
Yes, you read right. If you purchase the product through one of the links or buttons in this Speak to Spark Arousal review, you save $60…and I’ll send you my bestselling eBook for free.
This is an exclusive Global Seducer discount for you. Say “thank you, Jessica”.
Is There any Additional Risk because of the Exclusive Discount?
Yes, you get the exclusive discount and no, you don’t have any risk.
However, I don’t believe that you will refund it because after reading my Speak to Spark Arousal review, you should know if this is the right product for you.
Pros of Jessica J’s Speak to Spark Arousal
Cons of Jessica J’s Speak to Spark Arousal
- Not the perfect product for advanced seducers
- More practical examples would have been great
- The product could have been structured more clearly
- It takes regular practice to master the techniques
- Not many lines that you can copy and paste
- Jessica as a lecturer would be more powerful than video presentations
- Jessica gives enough practice questions but the answers are missing
Speak to Spark Arousal is Not for You if…
Speak to Spark Arousal is Perfect for You if...
The Most Important Minutes in the 6 Modules of Speak to Spark Arousal
I prepared something special for you.
Usually, I use the last section of a product review to show you how to get started with the product. In this case, it’s pretty straightforward. You just have to go through module 1-6 and then go through the bonus material.
In this review I do something else:
This online course contains so much material. I admit that it can be overwhelming. That’s why I decided to give you a brief overview of one section in each module that helped me the most. I even share the exact minutes so that you can jump right to these sections.
This makes it easier for you to get started (and to decide if you want to get started).
Does that sound like a plan?
Then let’s get started…
Shift Your Focus (and Reality) with Module 1
For me, the eye-opening part of module 1 was in the first video from minute 01:21 to minute 05:10.
She talks about the mistakes her brother made with girls. It’s a mindset that is killing thousands of newbie Global Seducers (I know this from the emails I get). You’ll learn how you can be in charge of the conversation and why you don’t have to prove anything.
Shit, I already revealed too much. You can connect the dots.
Module 2 Shows You How to Resolve Your Approach Anxiety
In this module Jessica introduces “what if scenarios” that will change the way you look at women and your fear of them.
This is some powerful stuff and you can find it from minute 04:31-07:25.
Become Whoever You Want in Module 3
The most important section in this module is the video in module 3b.
The good stuff starts at minute 02:37. That’s when dating coach Jessica J introduces the power of role plays and how you can use them to seduce women.
Watch Module 4b and You’ll Know How to Take Her Home
I have to be honest.
The first video in this module didn’t blow me away. But the second one did.
From minute 05:19 to minute 09:22, Jessica gives you the exact lines you can use to get a girl to your place. I used them myself and they work.
Minute 15:07 in Module 5 Answers Your Most Painful Question
Why do hot girls go for assholes?
I’m sure you’ve asked yourself this question a million times. Well, in this video you find the answer. But that’s not all.
You’re also going to learn how to use some of the qualities of assholes to your advantage without changing your personality. Don’t worry. This video will make you a better seducer, not a bigger asshole.
You Could be Jessica J’s Client in Module 6
The juicy part starts at minute 01:07.
In this video Jessica shares a personal experience with one of her clients. She talks about how he found an amazing woman, total girlfriend material…but he messed it up because…
Well, it’s not what you think.
I already revealed more about the product than I’m allowed to. I hope I won’t get into trouble with Jessy. Heck, I hope she won’t stop offering the exclusive discount for you.
And I really hope that this review helped you to decide whether or not you want to become a man who has the power to get the hottest girls…with a few simple words.