Imagine you could see the signs she wants you to make a move on her.
I’m sure you’ve been in such a situation.
How many times did you NOT make a move because you couldn’t see what’s so obvious?
You might hate me for saying that it’s obvious. But it is. And after you’ve read this article, you’ll feel like Neo in the Matrix. Suddenly, everything will make sense. You’ll see what you’ve never seen before…and what 99% of men will never see.
That’s my promise to you because I’ll show you…
And it gets even better.
I reveal all the signs she wants you to make a move on her before the approach, the kiss, and the sex. And yes, sex will happen.
You just have to open your eyes…
Forget about 10 Signs She Wants You to Make a Move on Her (Here are 33)
A couple of lines above I said “I’m sure you’ve been in such a situation.”
What about me?
I was worse at reading a woman’s signs than you can possibly imagine. That’s why I know how much it hurts when she’s already at your place and you still don’t know if she’s hot or cold.
This is one of the regrets you’ll never get over.
I still remember this one day. A beautiful 21-year-old Polish girl came over to my apartment. She was all dressed up and sitting on my couch.
Her signs screamed: “Make a move on me, you idiot!”
But I didn’t see them…and I never saw her again. Two weeks later I found out that she had a new boyfriend. I guess he saw the signs that I missed.
And I guess you’ll be happy that this article is not filled with the typical “if she talks to you, she wants you to make a move on her” advice. I mean, come on. My female boss talked to me, but that doesn’t mean that she liked me.
Here are not 10 but 33 signs she wants you to make a move on her...
1-10: Signs She Wants You to Make a Move on Her (Before the Approach)
Before the game is after the game…and before the approach is after the approach.
You read her signs before the approach. She’ll want to kiss you.
You read her signs before the kiss. She’ll want to sleep with you.
You read her signs before the sex. She’ll sleep with you… again and again.
That’s how it works.
And it all starts with her slowing the F down…
1. She Slows Down for You
Here’s a simple truth that will blow your mind:
Women know that they get approached before it happens. No, they don’t have eyes in their head. But they have sensitive senses. She can feel that somebody is hunting her, walking up to her, and right behind her.
Just because she doesn’t show it, doesn’t mean that she’s not aware.
There are three things women do before an approach, depending on how she feels about you and about getting approached by you:
Remember this sign the next time you chase a girl and it seems too easy. It’s not easy. She makes it easy for you.
2. She Stands Really Close to You
This happens a lot in bars and clubs.
You’re standing at the bar with your buddy. You’re talking. The air conditioning is blowing right in your face. But for some reason your back feels comfortably warm.
You turn around.
A beautiful brunette girl stands right behind you. Her back faces your back. She’s like a ladder and you’re the wall she’s leaning against. You wonder why the hell she stands there and continue the conversation with your buddy.
Two minutes ago she was wet. Now she’s pissed at you.
What will you do the next time this happens?
She’ll turn around, smile, and thank the Lord that there are still men who have eyes in the back of their head.
3. She Asks You to Go Somewhere Quiet
Technically speaking, this happens during a conversation.
But hey, it turns a casual conversation into a sexual one, so it deserves to be in the “before the approach” list. It happens whenever a girl wants you to make a move on her at a private party or social event.
The social pressure is high. You need a private space.
Here’s what she says:
Whenever she says “I want to/have to/ need to” she means “WE want to/have to/ need to”. I’ve seen it so many times that the guy answers with a confused “okay” and stands still like a mentally retarded tree.
Go with her!
4. She Accidentally Bumps into You
God, she is so sorry that it happens.
It was an accident. Oh, her purse fell down and you have to pick it up for her. That was not her intention. And while she helps you to pick it up, she presents her body and touches your hand.
What a terrible, terrible accident!
All these unplanned things happen, but she smiles like a child when you look into her eyes. Mhh, could it be that she wants you? No, that can’t be, right?
Whenever a woman bumps into you, it’s always planned and never an accident. Give her some credit. She has perfected this Hollywood move.
5. She Looks You in the Eyes and Smiles
I know, “she smiles at you” is one of those generic tips you find in a Cosmopolitan article…but I have to mention it anyway.
Well, because it’s one of the signs she wants you to make a move on her.
Imagine you’re walking down the street. You see this beautiful girl. Your eyes meet her eyes. You smile. She looks you in the eyes and smiles back. If you don’t approach her, you can consider yourself slapped by me.
What if she looks at you as if she wanted to kill you?
She either had a really bad day or she’s German. But if she smiles, the green light is brighter than the moon.
6. She Smiles and Looks Down
What does it mean when a woman looks down?
Feminist don’t want to hear it, but I have to use the S word. Yes, she submits to you. If you look a woman in the eyes and she smiles and moves her eyes to the ground, she speaks in a language that only seducers understand.
“My guards are down. I submit to you. Please approach me.”
What? You don’t want to approach her because you’re not sure?
I’ll come over and strangle you with an IPhone charger until you take action.
7. Her Eyelashes Move Like a Tornado
This is one of those signs she wants you to make a move on her that even a lot of dating coaches aren’t aware of.
This is a very subtle sign.
Don’t beat yourself up if you don’t see it the next time you want to approach a cute girl at the bar. Continue to observe women’s eyes and soon you will see what’s invisible to most men.
8. She Plays with Everything She Can Find on Her Body
Okay, she won’t play with the lips between her legs…unless you approach her in a strip club.
Heck, there’s nothing funnier than to flirt with a cute girl who’s wearing a hoodie. She’ll show her interest by playing with the strings of her hoodie. And she won’t even realize it. You can say something along the line of “these strings must be very soft”.
She’ll blush and giggle.
9. She Makes the Belly-in-Tits-out Move
What do women do when they want to make you drool?
They present what their momma gave them. Or maybe she has her body from daddy. You never know who paid for them.
She wants you to see her beautiful round C-Cups. That’s why she makes the Belly-in-Tits-out move. This move works, no matter if her body can breathe or if it’s pressed on a small bar chair. Standing or sitting, the sign is obvious.
Here’s what she does:
She inhales and pushes her cleavage out.
You can try it for yourself. Oh, and sometimes she gently pulls her top down to make her melons look even bigger. Enjoy the show.
10. She Asks You if You Have a Girlfriend
Okay, okay…I admit it.
That doesn’t happen before the approach. It happens during the conversation. But it’s the perfect transition to the next section (where things get sloppy). So, what’s so important that I have to put it at the end of this section?
“Uhmm…do you have a girlfriend?”
Whenever a woman asks you this question…
She wants to take things further...and she wants to be your girlfriend.
Not so fast.
She wants to be your girlfriend. But first, you need to kiss her. Without a kiss you’re nothing but a friendzoned (boy)friend, which is the last thing you want.
How do you get the kiss?
Read the signs she wants you to make a move on her…
11-21: Signs She Wants You to Make a Move on Her (Before the Kiss)
You clicked on this article because you want to know how to know if a girl wants you to make a move on her. And you want to kiss her.
Am I right?
“But Sebastian, going for the kiss is so hard. I always wait for the perfect moment and then I end up not kissing her. Why does this happen?”
Well, here’s why:
Here are the signs she wants you to make a move on her (and kiss her!) that you have to look out for…
11. She Touches You Whenever You Make Her Laugh
You’re already talking to her.
You’ve read the signs before the approach, you approached her, and now she’s giggling, smiling, and laughing while you unload all your terrible jokes.
Because she wants you!
You don’t make her laugh. You’re jokes are lame (sorry, buddy). She makes herself laugh because she wants to touch you. And she wants to touch you because she wants to kiss you.
But she wants you to make the first move.
12. She Stares into Your Eyes and at Your Lips
Prolonged eye contact is so powerful and speaks louder than thunder:
“Kiss me. Please, kiss me!”
But there’s one sign that speaks even louder and clearer. Yes, she stares into your eyes, but only every two seconds. She does it whenever she doesn’t stare at your lips. Oh, your lips…she wants to touch them, taste them, and feel them.
Give her what she’s craving for.
Her eyes wander where her lips want to be.
13. She Touches, Licks of Bites Her Lips
Speaking of her lips…
There’s a reason why she touches her lips with her fingernails. She doesn’t even realize it. It happens subconsciously. And there’s a reason why she licks her lips. It’s not because they are dry. It’s because of the images in her head.
Unfortunately, she won’t make it THAT easy for you:
What if she bites her lips?
She wants to feel what it’s like when a confident man like you bites her lips. Of course, it doesn’t feel that amazing when she does it herself. That’s why she still hopes that you read her signs and make a move on her.
14. She Fills the Silence with “Sooo…”
You’ve seen this in countless Hollywood movies.
And you know me. I hate Hollywood romance movies. The infamous “sooo…” sign exists. And guys all over the world don’t get it.
Here’s how it looks in practice:
- 1You’re standing with her at the bus stop.
- 2She comes closer and smiles in the hope that you kiss her.
- 3She says “sooo…” as a last attempt to activate your brain cells.
She wants her “soo…” to end with a kiss. Heck, she wants to taste your slimy tongue before the third o.
Finish her sentence.
15. She Tells You That You Have Beautiful Lips
Here’s how I reacted the first time a girl told me that I have beautiful lips:
“Oh God, are you crazy? My lips are so big and now that it’s cold they are always dry. They keep cracking up. I don’t know why.”
Yup, I’m an idiot.
Today, I would make everything different. Here’s how I would react:
Then I would kiss her. Mission accomplished.
16. She Blushes When You Tell Her the Same
Let’s turn the tables.
Now it’s your job to tell her that she has beautiful lips.
How does she react?
These are three green lights and unless you want to end up in a dead-end street, you should press the gas pedal.
17. She Rests Her Head on Your Shoulder
It doesn’t matter if you’re walking or standing.
You might be walking in a park and she leans in to rest her head on your shoulder. Or she might do the same when you’re standing outside…right before it’s time to say “goodbye” and “I’ll call you tomorrow”.
The meaning is always the same:
The worst thing you could do is to give her a little push to free your shoulders from her heavy head…or to walk away and make her lose balance.
You know what to do instead.
18. Her Body Language Screams “Attack Me!”
This is one of the signs she wants you to make a move on her that are freaking hard to explain.
I’ll do my best.
Here’s what an open body language looks like:
In other words, it’s the complete opposite of THIS:
Approach three girls today and you’ll see what I mean.
19. She’s Comfortable with Holding Hands
There’s one situation that’s perfect for holding hands.
You’re about to cross a busy street and you want to make sure that she’s safe. Invite her to take her hand. Then lead her on the other side of the street.
Keep walking, with her hand in yours.
How does she react?
If she does not remove her hand from yours, she trusts you and wants to be your girl. In my experience, you can ALWAYS kiss a girl who’s comfortable with holding hands. This is the golden rule.
You don’t believe me? Try it!
20. She Gives You The Lost Puppy Look
Oh…the Lost Puppy Look. I love this sign.
It’s a bit similar to the way the Japanese girls look in the dirty movies you love so much.
Just don’t kiss her like the dudes in Japanese movies do it.
What is she hoping for?
She hopes that you’re smart enough to kiss her, to play with her tongue, and to pull her closer.
21. She Gets Impatient While Waiting for the Bus
Imagine you’re on a date with a girl.
You had fun. But it’s already late and her daddy is very strict. She has to take the bus home. Now you’re at the bus stop and you have no clue why she’s acting so weird.
“Does she have to pee?” you’re asking yourself.
Nope, she doesn’t. She’s nervous because her bus comes in exactly three minutes and a proper kiss takes at least one minute. You have two minutes.
The clock is ticking.
22-33: Signs She Wants You to Make a Move on Her (Before the Sex)
You already kissed her.
It’s time for the final round, the grand finale.
It’s time to put your you know what in her you know what. Let’s end the night with an explosion she will never forget. You want her. She wants it too. But you won’t get it, unless you catch the alley-oops she throws at you.
Are you ready for the slam dunk?
Let me show you how to read all the signs she wants you to make a move on her that allow you to close the deal…
22. She Asks You to Bring Her Home
That’s an invitation.
Sorry, that’s all I have to say to this sign she wants you to make a move on her. If she asks you to bring her home, she wants you to ENTER her (home). Read that again. She does NOT want you to wait in the car.
Don’t you dare to stay in the car!
Move your body out and follow her. Bring her to the door and wait what happens. I know exactly what’s going to happen.
- 1She puts the key in the lock and looks at you.
- 2She starts the sentence with “sooo…”
- 3You better say something.
What if she says that she has a roommate?
Tell her that you’re a quiet Ninja.
23. She Shows up at Your Place
Let’s change the venue.
She doesn’t want you to bring her home because she doesn’t want you to see her dirty room with her dirty panties (sorry for that image). Instead, she wants to come over.
All three scenarios mean the same thing:
She knows what’s going to happen and she wants it to happen. Heck, I had coaching clients tell me that they didn’t make a move because they were afraid that it was too soon….while the girl was sitting ON THEIR COUCH.
Dude, she came over!
She knows the deal and you better close it.
24. She’s Dressed Up to Undress
Imagine you open the door and there she stands in her red dress:
You see her and your brain says “goodbye”. But your body says “hello”. You can’t think straight. And that’s exactly what she wants. A woman doesn’t spend two hours getting ready, shaving her legs (and other parts) and choosing the perfect dress for nothing.
She expects something to happen.
Your job is to make it happen. Let her know that she makes your heart race and your little (uhhm, sorry…big) friend grow.
What if you get a boner?
Don’t hide it. That’s the reason why she came over.
25. Her Breathing Gets Heavy While She Kisses You
You kissed her before. You can do it again.
I know, it’s hard to stay focused while you taste her lips. God, it’s even harder because she wears this damn tight dress. But you have to try it anyway, at least if you want to see one of the most obvious signs she wants you to make a move on her…and sleep with you.
Here it is:
She kisses you and her breathing gets heavy.
You could swear that you heard her moaning. It was a soft moaning, but it was there. Let your hand wander. She’s soaking wet.
26. She Says That it’s Really Hot Here
It sound like the beginning of a really bad movie, but it happens.
So many girls have said “it’s really hot in here” when they entered my apartment. And so many times I was dumb enough to turn on the air conditioner. I told you. I’m an idiot.
But you’re a smart guy.
You allow her to make up an excuse to reveal more of her flawless body.
Don’t even think about touching the air conditioner!
27. She Falls for the I’m so Tense Trick
You are so tense. You really need a massage.
What if you’re softer than jelly?
Nobody cares. You need a massage anyway. All you have to do is to pretend to be in pain. Come on, move your body a bit and make this face…
Of course, she won’t believe you.
But she’ll pretend to fall for your trick because she wants to fall for it. She knows which game you’re playing and she wants to be the hero.
28. She Emphasizes How Adventurous She is
This sign she wants you to make a move on her is so funny.
The message couldn’t be clearer.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys don’t understand that there’s a reason why she tells the story of her swimming naked. She doesn’t do it because it’s fun.
She wants to put pictures in your mind.
29. She Nervously Touches Her Thigh or Her Neck
What if she touches her back?
That means she’s itchy. Don’t pay attention to it.
What if she touches her thighs or her neck?
That means she’s ready. Pay close attention to it.
A woman’s thighs and her neck are erogenous zones. In case you don’t know, erogenous zones are the areas that set her private parts on fire when you touch them.
Do as she pleases and let your hands wander in every direction.
30. She Gives You a Very Direct Compliment
Let’s assume she gives you one of the following compliments:
She likes you, she wants you, and yes, she wants you to make a move on her because her signs are obvious.
Don’t be blind to the obvious.
31. She Leans in When You Touch Her
You touch her.
She comes a bit closer.
You touch her again.
She comes really close.
Play this game until you’re so close that you can feel her breath and sex is inevitable.
32. She Asks You What Type of Girl You Like
Oh, this is another awesome sign.
Imagine she’s sitting next to her on the couch. You already made out. The sexual tension is so strong that you start shaking. She’s shaking too. But she wants to have your permission to release her inner devil.
That’s why she asks:
“What kind of girl do you like?”
Here’s the perfect answer:
“I like girls who live out their desires and who go for what they want. I don’t judge women for being unapologetically honest.”
Bam! She jumps on you.
33. She Behaves Like a Cat that Wants Attention
Women and cats are very similar, especially when they want attention:
So, she’s back at your place. You are sitting on the couch and drinking a glass of red wine. It’s time for her to show you her cat powers.
Let her do her cat moves.
And don’t forget to take your cat to the bedroom.
Now that You Know the Signs She Wants You to Make a Move on Her…
It’s time to open your eyes to a new world.
You are no longer blind. You can finally see. There’s no turning back. From now on, you’ll see dozens of signs that you’ve never seen before.
And you will take action.
Share your experiences in the comments below and remember that knowing the signs she wants you to make a move on her is only the tip of the iceberg.
Summed Up Wisdom
Come on. This is already a long article. I can’t repeat all the 33 signs she wants you to make a move on her. I don’t want to make you fall asleep.
That’s why I want to end this article with one important tip:
Observe her words, her actions, and her body language and the curtain opens itself.