You’re asking yourself:
Does she want to chase me?
You wouldn’t be asking this question if you knew about all the signs a woman wants you to run after her, catch her, and seduce her.
Have you ever wondered what these hints are?
I’m sure you have. And I’m sure you tried to figure out whether or not a specific girl wants you to pursue her. Believe me. I’ve been in this situation more times than I can count. It’s always the same game. And it’s always the same problem.
I want you to see all the subtle signs she wants you to chase her.
Here’s what you will discover in this article:
Oh, speaking of the magic invitation…
Does She Want Me to Chase Her? The Invitation
Do you even realize that you’re a baller?
You clicked on this article because you’re asking yourself whether or not she wants you to chase her. This means that there’s a 90% chance that a hot girl is totally into you. If there wasn’t a high chance that she’s into you, you wouldn’t be asking yourself this question.
How does she do it?
She does it with one simple principle. Every one of the 18 signs I’m about to share with you is based on this principle. It’s all about inviting you to pursue her. The sad truth is that most men are blind to a woman’s invitation.
These men don’t see the obvious…
1. She Gives You More than One Bread Crumb
Do you know the fairytale of Hansel and Gretel?
Sorry to bother you with German fairytales. But I just thought about how Hansel and Gretel leave a tail of bread crumbs to find the way home. Women do the same when they want a man to chase them.
They leave bread crumbs for you:
These, my friend, are bread crumbs. She wants you to follow these bread crumbs and take action. Save her from boredom and take what you want. She wants it too.
2. She Accepts Your Invitation without Saying “Yes”
This is one of the signs she wants you to chase her that’s so cute.
She doesn’t just say “yes” is you ask her out. Oh no! She wants you to do the work. Jumping up and down like a kangaroo while screaming “yes, yes, yes” would be way too obvious. She’s not easy, you know.
That’s why she makes up a story that allows her to join you:
She doesn’t even have a schedule and she’s never been in this area. But it doesn’t matter. Play along and let her make up her story. Let her pretend to be busy. Inside she’s jumping up and down like a kangaroo.
3. She Invites Herself
Sometimes she’s faster than you.
You want to ask her out, but you don’t even have to do it. She’s first. Of course, she doesn’t ask you to go out with her. No, she does it in a much more subtle way. Okay, once you see the sign it’s not that subtle anymore.
Here’s what she might say:
Let her invite herself. You don’t have to lead her when she leads herself to follow you. It couldn’t be easier.
4. She Gives You THE Smile
A normal smile can mean a thousand things.
It can be a friendly “you’re welcome.” Or a fake “fuck off”. I don’t understand a word she says, but the following video contains a good demonstration of THE smile:
This smile says so much more than “I come in peace”:
That’s THE smile you’re looking for. A woman who looks at you like this doesn’t want to be friendly. She wants to show you that she’ a little devil hiding behind the innocent smile of an angel. This devil wants you to chase her.
5. She Teases You the Way You Like It
Not every sign is as innocent as a smile.
Some women are more straightforward than others. In fact, some girls are so bad at hiding their intention that it can be a bit too much for some guys. I’m serious. I once met a girl who touched me five minutes after we met for the first time. I thought she was a prostitute.
I have to admit that these obvious signs are quite rare.
But it happens. The more time you spend with her and the more you get to know each other, the more she’ll touch and tease you.
6. She Chases You When You Don’t Act
What if she touches you and licks your face and you still don’t get it?
Okay, she probably won’t lick you face. That would be a bit too much. I just hope that you are not completely blind to the signs that a woman wants you to chase her. Actually, now that I think about it…
Being blind can be a blessing, dressed as a curse.
Just think about it. What do you do when you call your dog and he doesn’t come? At some point you chase after him. Not that you’re a dog, but you get what I mean…hopefully.
God, my metaphors suck.
She wants you to chase her, but you don’t do as she pleases. Now she sees herself forced to run after you. You change the sides. Now you can make her chase you.
7. She Apologizes After Every Joke
A woman who wants you to pursue her doesn’t just tease you with her body.
Even though negging is known as a technique for pickup artists, women are the true masters of the neg. When a woman likes you and wants you to chase her, she will neg you until she runs out of words. But there’s one crucial difference.
She’ll apologize after every neg, joke, and tease.
She believes that negging you motivates you to get her. However, she’s also afraid to offend you. And yes, you can use this to your advantage. Pretend to be offended and see what happens. You’ll have a lot of fun.
Enjoy the show while she says the word sorry three times in a row.
8. She Either Gets or Pretends to Be Jealous
You don’t have to understand them. You just have to love them. And you have to deal with their cute little jealousy attacks.
Why? Because it’s one of the signs she wants you to chase her!
There’s a very simple way to find out if she’s into you. Just tell her about your weekend and mention a female name. That’s all you have to do. She’ll ask you tons of questions and you’ll look into THIS face for two reasons.
Reason #1: She is jealous because she’s really into you.
Reason #2: She pretends to be jealous because she wants you to be into her.
Yep, that’s female logic. Women believe that showing signs of jealousy makes a man want them more.
What do you think about this?
Let me know in the comments below.
9. She Comes Closer Just to Draw Back
This can be confusing.
In fact, a lot of guys are so confused by this behavior that they assume she’s not interested in them. Well, that’s not the case. It’s an obvious sign she wants you to chase her.
Here’s how the three-step process looks like:
- 1First she comes closer.
- 2Then she draws back.
- 3Now she teases you.
Why does she tease you after coming closer and drawing back?
Because she loves the chase!
She acts like a heater that turns into a fridge and then becomes a heater again because she wants you to make the next move. Now it’s your turn. Don’t be one of those guys who give up. It’s a challenge and she loves the competition.
10. She Hopes You Show Up
This is definitely one of the funniest signs a woman wants you to chase her. It’s funny because it’s so obvious and yet, most guys don’t see it.
Here’s what she does:
What do you do?
Hopefully, you don’t do what all the other guys do and answer with “oh, that’s great. Have fun.” Yes, she wants to have fun. But she wants to have fun with YOU and not alone. She wants you to say “oh, that sounds great. Can I join?”
Yes, you can.
11. She Invites You to Dig Deeper
Have you ever seen the Pokémon Diglett?
Imagine this cute little fella whenever you ask yourself “does she want me to chase her?” If she digs deeper, she wants you to do exactly that. She does it in person, through text, online…you name it.
Here’s how it usually goes:
Like I said, she loves the chase. And no, she doesn’t care that she wastes you time and drives you nuts with her stupid games. She wants you to dig.
12. She Gives You Short Answers Like This
The “short answer” tease is even more annoying.
I mean, I can deal with revealing only one part of the answer. That’s fine. I just have to ask for the second part and boom…the riddle is solved. But I get pissed when a woman communicates that she wants me to chase her by using these annoying short answers that end with…
Here are some examples:
There is no “but”, she totally knows it and yes, she can tell you. But she wants you to pursue her. You can either play the game or stop replying.
Let’s see what happens if you stop replying to her texts…
13. She Texts You Again and Again
She doesn’t give up that easily.
Let’s say you don’t reply to her last text. She sent you “I don’t know yet…” as a response when you asked her to join you on Sunday. Maybe you asked her to go to this crazy pool party…or to church. It doesn’t matter.
You stop playing the game. You stop responding.
There’s a 99% chance that she’ll get nervous. She’ll get so nervous that she has to text you again, and again, and again. I call this the “text wall”. It’s the desperate attempt of a woman who realizes that the signs she wants you to chase her didn’t work.
Enjoy the show and take your time with your response.
14. She Gives You Compliments
Most women won’t give you direct compliments.
I only experienced it two or three times that a girl told me that I’m really handsome or that she likes me. Oh no. Actually, it happened four times. The fourth girl only admitted it after her aunt told me that she thinks I’m handsome. She got red like a tomato.
But it doesn’t happen often.
Maybe it’s because I’m ugly as hell. I don’t know. All I know is that women are more subtle when it comes to compliments. They tend to ignore your body parts and focus on your qualities and your personality.
Here are some compliments you can expect to hear:
The compliment is the bait and she hopes that you’re a good fish. Don’t miss out on this obvious sign to chase her.
15. Her Dress Makes Your Head Spin
Women know how to use their weapons.
Don’t assume for one second that she accidentally grabbed this dress from her wardrobe. And don’t think that it’s a coincidence that she wears high heels. She didn’t wear them for months and you see it when she tries to walk.
There’s only one mission on her mind:
She wants to make your head spin until you run faster than the poor girl in the image above. She wants you to run after her and chase her like a hungry dog. And then she wants to do something else with you and it’s a combination of the words “dog” and “Oggy”.
16. She Tries to Talk about Your Hobbies
What’s your favorite hobby?
In case my second assumption is correct, I have to ask you:
What the hell is wrong with you?
It doesn’t matter. She doesn’t care what you’re interested in, as long as she can pretend that she loves it too. Women think that sharing the same interests increases the odds that you chase after them. And they are right. Researchers in the US came to the same conclusion.
So don’t make fun of her when she tries to be an NBA expert.
What if she believes that a basketball is white?
Laugh it off. She just wants to appear more interesting. She wants you to pursue her, even if it means talking about something she doesn’t have a clue about.
17. She Talks about Her Friend’s Boyfriends
This is one of my all-time favorite signs a woman wants you to chase her.
Here’s how it goes:
The message couldn’t be any clearer. There’s only one thing she wants. She wants you to be her boyfriend, but she doesn’t want to admit it. Instead, she gives you a clue that’s so obvious that it hurts.
Remember: She’s not easy. That’s why you have to chase her.
If a woman mentions her boyfriend, she’s not interested. If a woman mentions a boyfriend from another girl or even from a freaking TV show, she’s desperately asking you to step up and to fill this void.
18. Did You Miss Me?
I know you miss me when you don’t hear from me every day (Read my book to overcome your pain).
But that’s not what I’m talking about. I don’t ask you if you miss ME. I want to prepare you for the moment she’ll ask you if you miss HER. Believe me. This moment will come. And you better know what to answer.
I mean, it makes sense. If you don’t miss her, you won’t chase her. That would break her soft heart. That’s why she asks you this question. But I have to warn you. She won’t ask it in a serious, let alone in a romantic way.
She’ll disguise it as a joke.
She won’t admit that she missed you and she also won’t admit that she wants to know if you missed her. She’s just joking, you know.
Oh no! She’s dead serious!
What’s the best way to respond to this threat, uhhm question?
“I missed you every second of the day, even while I was sleeping.”
Every woman knows that it’s the truth disguised as a joke.
Summed Up Wisdom
What are the typical signs a woman wants you to chase her? First of all, you need to understand that every clue she gives you is disguised as an invitation. Observe her words and her actions. It’s not an accident that she’s wearing this sexy dress for you.
Let her tease you and enjoy the way she smiles at you. She might not give you a direct compliment, but she’ll text you again and again. But first, you have to dig deeper and survive her one-word answers.
What if you don’t react to all the signs she wants you to chase her? Then you have to do the work. Or you wait until she uses her body as a weapon to tease you until you run after her. Either way you win.
Sebastian Harris says
not if you are smart about it and find the right girl 😉
Here’s 1 reason why I won’t be chasing any woman: Cost exceeds benefit, every time.