You might have played truth or dare in high school, but I am pretty sure that you have never played the sexual version…
Even if you have never tried it I am pretty sure that you have played the G-rated version of this game when you were in high school. Maybe you have had your first kiss while you played this game at some idiot’s 16th Birthday party.
Even though you might have had some tentative experiences with the opposite sex while you have played the non-explicit version of this game, I am confident to say that the way I play this game is quite different.
Let’s leave the innocent schoolboy bullshit behind you and get ready for a sexual version of truth or dare that motivates women to take off their clothes while they giggle like little girlies.
You probably heard about the fact that some people play the X-rated version of this game with their partner but do you know anyone who plays it on a date with a girl he hadn’t had sex with?
Have you ever heard about someone who used this game to get a girl naked before he even kissed her?
If you have never heard about such a guy you and me are the only two guys you know who are cheeky and sneaky enough to do this. I also couldn’t imagine that it is possible to have sex on the first date with a girl by playing such a goofy game…
…until I tested it.
What I am going to share with you is way more risky and way more exciting than the boring stuff that couples experience together when they ask about truths that they already know and when they do the dares they have already done a thousand times.
Be ready to get laid on the first date by playing a fun and simple game.
Sexual Truth or Dare: The Two Naughty Methods
What is sexual truth or dare and how do you play this game?
Well, I hope you know what the normal version of this game is. If not, I am really sorry for you. You must have had a shitty high school time without girls who were “forced” to kiss you because they chose dare instead of truth.
Don’t worry. You haven’t missed out on a lot. I have never played this game when I was a teenager and today I have sex with amazing women who are way hotter than the girls who would have probably chosen truth instead of dare back then, just to avoid kissing me.
The fun I have when I play the naughty version of this game helped me a lot to get over the fact that I never played the G-rated version.
Let’s have a look at the two ways you can enjoy and utilize the adult version of this game.
Method 1: Be Sexual From the Start
The first way of playing the game is by going all in right from the beginning. You could call this the extreme version. Instead of starting out with the regular truth or dare, you give a shit about the boring G-rated version and design your first question or your first test in a very sexual way.
Let’s say you went on a date with a girl and she agrees to go back to your apartment for another ten minutes. You talk with her and after a while you suggest to play a game. Of course she says yes.
You can’t imagine how much women love to play games.
The following REAL scene of a private video tape that is definitely NOT the intro of a shady porn movie and that is totally child-friendly is proof enough:
By asking her a very explicit question right from the start you directly set the frame that this is not an innocent game.
The benefits are obvious. The sooner you start to get sexual, the sooner she will drop one piece of clothing after another. However, don’t forget the risks that this method brings along. Even though you will get laid faster, chances that she is not ready to become sexual this early and that it is too extreme for her are higher.
If she, however, loves to play a naughty game with you, you will have a lot of fun after a few dares.
Method 2: The Smooth Transition
Wherever there is a fast way there is also a slow way.
You can either go all in right from the beginning or you can decide to choose the smooth transition from a regular game to a very kinky game.
Instead of bombarding her with sexually explicit questions you ask her if she wants to play the normal version of the game. As soon as she says “yes”, you start out with some totally innocent questions. Laugh together, think about funny questions and funny challenges and make her comfortable.
As soon as you notice that she is in an excited state you start to slowly transition into a more sexual direction by asking her questions about her sex life. After she is comfortable answering those questions, you can start to think about some dares that are anything but boring.
Sexual Truth or Dare: Basic Requirements
Does this naughty game work with every girl? Of course one of the most important things is that she is interested in you and that she is not a lesbian.
Other than that I can’t think of any girl it wouldn’t work with.
I mean, if you decide to date the most boring girl that his planet has to offer, you might have some problems. In this case you should ask yourself whether her sexy ass is really worth the mental stress that you’ll inevitably experience if you decide to take things further with her.
Even though every normal woman who likes to have fun and who is open to games is the perfect candidate for the game you want to play, there are some basic requirements that have to be fulfilled if you want to get laid by playing sexual truth or dares.
Establish a Strong Sexual Connection
I am sorry to say this but the pure interest that a girl has in getting to know you is not enough for successfully introducing the X-rated version of this popular game. Even if she might think that you are a cool guy and even if she is eager to get to know you, she must be sexually attracted to you if you want her to take her clothes off after the third dare. Otherwise you have to wait until the third date.
A girl who thinks that you are cute and interesting is by far not enough. You must have a strong sexual connection with a girl before she can be comfortable with the thought of talking about her sex life and getting rid of her clothes.
The same rules that apply for a regular seduction process that ends with sex on the third date apply to the seduction process that ends with sex after the third dare.
The big difference is that inviting her to play sexual truth or dare saves you a lot of time.
Before you suggest playing this kinky game with her you have to make sure that she is comfortable with getting touched by you. You should also have had at least a couple of minutes of conversations in which the word “sex” appeared.
Without a sexual connection this kind of truth or dare is nearly impossible.
How do you find out if you have a sexual connection with her?
By running a few simple tests…
Create a Playful Atmosphere
Besides being sexually attracted to each other you also have to create an atmosphere that is suitable for starting a game. If a game is the last thing that she would expect, it probably doesn’t fit in the context.
Let’s say you take her back to your place, make a coffee and sit next to her. The worst thing you can do now is to start a deep and emotional conversation about the meaning of life. I don’t say that this is generally a bad idea. Talking about deep stuff can create an incredibly strong connection between two people.
The only problem is that it is completely unnatural and also slightly awkward if you’ve just talked about the relationship to her dead grandfather and you suddenly scream: “do you know what…let’s play a game!”
After such a conversation she is definitely not in the mood to get naked, let alone to play a game.
Before you suggest playing a game you have to create a playful atmosphere. Talk about funny topics, joke around and make her laugh. In this state she will say yes to every form of game, especially when the game requires her to get naughty.
Accept Her Private Space
What I am going to say now is pretty obvious, but just in case you love to have a few Whiskies and a decent joint before you go on a date, I say it anyway.
Don’t start a sexual truth or dare in a public place!
The last thing a woman wants is to sit in a café with a guy who has the glorious idea to ask her all kinds of raunchy questions while all the people around them can hear them. The social judgment is way too high and it gets even higher when you start with the dares.
Unless the girl you are dating is a professional stripper she won’t be comfortable with taking her clothes off or biting your neck in public. Of course this doesn’t mean that talking about sexual topics in dating venues is generally a bad idea. It’s actually a very good idea, as long as you keep a conversation about private things private.
If you want you can even start to whisper naughty questions in her ear to find out more about her sexual preferences. However, as soon as you come up with the first dare, you have to be in a private setting. Otherwise she won’t do all the crazy stuff you want her to do.
The best place for sexual truth or dares is your own apartment. Here nobody disturbs you and you have enough private space to find out her preferences and to playfully explore each other’s bodies.
The Step-By-Step Guide On How the Game Gets You Laid
By now you know what sexual truth or dare is and what requirements need to be fulfilled to make it work.
Now that you know all those things I am pretty sure that you and your dick want to know the answer to the following question:
“What exact steps do I have to follow in order to get laid by playing the sexual version of truth or dare?”
Well, as simple it is to have sex with a girl after a session of this game, as easy it is to completely mess up the process by being either too reserved or too pushy.
Let’s have a look at the four steps that lead you directly to the final step.
What is the final step?
If you adhere to the following step this will be the stage at which you thrust her so hard that she can’t stop screaming your name.
Step 1: The Innocent Start
No matter if you decide to be sexual from the beginning or if you decide to follow a smooth transition on a sexual level, you have to start innocent. Of course the definition of innocent is very different when you compare those two methods.
An exemplary innocent truth and an innocent dare for the smooth transition would be:
Truth: “What is your favorite food?”
Dare: “Jump on one leg for ten seconds!”
Whereas an exemplary innocent truth and an innocent dare for the extreme form of playing the game would be:
Truth: “Do you like to be kissed slowly or fast?”
Dare: “Show me your belly button!”
Even though the second example is slightly sexual, it is still not so extreme that it could freak her out. I know that it can be quite tempting to go straight to the hard stuff when an incredibly beautiful girl is sitting and giggling next to you. I mean, she is probably more excited to play this game than you are.
Nevertheless, it can be a bit too extreme for some girls to ask them if they prefer to be submissive during sex or if they derive satisfaction from playing the dominant part. The time when this is the perfect question will come, but this time is not now…
Step 2: The Naughty Middle
…it is now!
As soon as you have asked her a few kinky questions and let her do some dares that point in a sexual direction without being too extreme, it is time to shift up one gear. It is finally time to take the whole thing to the next level by asking her sexual questions that have the semantic power to rock her panties.
The only things I would wait with are the naughty dares.
Unless her panties are already soaking wet and unless her mind isn’t 100% focused on reproduction, she might not yet be ready to bite your neck and to play with her boobs.
Continue to ask her sexual questions and continually increase the intensity of those questions. Wait till you are sure that she is absolutely turned on by the thought that this game will lead directly to your bedroom.
After ten or more questions she will be the one who asks you to do the first dare. Why I am so sure that she will be the one who introduces the dares? If a woman wants to be seduced by you she does everything to help you to seduce her. When she lets you do the first naughty dare, you can be sure that she won’t back down when you choose dare the next time.
Step 3: The Dirty Final
You have focused on the questions long enough. She is turned on by the game and she is comfortable with doing some naughty dares that involve revealing all the beautiful parts that her body has to offer.
Don’t even think of worrying about whether or not she is ready to sleep with you.
Listen to me very carefully:
It is not possible that a girl who is happy to show you her breasts and to bite your neck won’t sleep with you. This alternative doesn’t exist. If she does all the dares you ask her to do and if she also wants you to do some dares that involve physical contact, she definitely wants to have sex with you.
The only thing you have to do now is to not fuck everything up.
How could you possibly fuck this up?
There is only one way to ruin everything…
If a girl is comfortable with being in a circle of dares, the worst thing you can do is to switch back to the truths.
Don’t ever do that!
She is already comfortable with taking her shirt off. Don’t dare to ask her another question at this stage, no matter how brilliant the question might be. Instead of switching back to a verbal level of playing the game you have to increase the physical intensity. If you do that she will do the same.
The reason why you play sexual truth or dare with girls is to get laid. I hope I don’t have to tell you that sex is a physical and not a verbal activity. That’s why it is so immensely important that you don’t leave the physical level.
Step 4: Her Mind-Blowing Orgasm
At some point of the game both of you will be nearly (or completely) naked and you have already kissed, licked and touched every part of each other’s bodies. The only spots that are probably still untouched are your dick and her pussy.
Now it is time to end the game and to take care of the two untouched body parts.
The only thing to do now is to immerse in the physical escalation without saying a freaking word. You are both turned on, you are both at least half-naked and you both found out more about each other’s fantasies and body parts than some couples do in more than ten years.
Having sex is the only logical thing to do now and she knows that.
Summed Up Wisdom
How can you have sex on the first date by playing sexual truth or dare? Well, before you jump straight into the naughty part you should know that there are two different ways of playing this game. On the one hand, you can directly ask very sexual questions, which is riskier but it can also lead sex quite fast. On the other hand, you can start by playing the classic version of the game and transition to the kinky part at a later point of time.
What do you need to successfully play sexual truth or dare on the first date? It is necessary to have a sexual connection with the girl you want to play with and to create a playful atmosphere as soon as you are back at your place. Don’t start to play the game at the dating venue. Most girls won’t get naughty when other people who could judge them for their behavior are around.
Start with innocent questions and make her comfortable with the game. After a while you can ask her more explicit questions. Once she is completely comfortable with revealing her deepest sexual desires, it is time to start the circle of dares. Don’t ever switch back to the truths once she shows you what you want to see. Make sure that she also shows you the rest and enjoy fucking the shit out of her.