10 Reasons Why Reading Her Signs Saved My Life

I love my girlfriend. She saved my life.

I’m dead serious.

To be honest, I don’t know where I would be without her. She believes in me more than I believe in myself. She supports me more than anyone I ever met. Whenever I want to give up, she’s the one who convinces me to keep going.

Heck, she’s the reason why I’m so passionate about helping YOU to find, meet, and seduce the woman of your dreams.

However, I could have never made her my girlfriend if I hadn’t learned to read the signs of female attraction. The only reason why she’s sitting next to me while I’m typing these words is because I knew (and still know) how to read female signs of attraction.   

Without this knowledge, she wouldn’t be by my side.

Here’s why…

1. I Would Have Not Made the First Move 

There’s one reason why you absolutely must learn to read the signs of female attraction. It’s the most important reason of all. And it has to do with your belief in yourself.  

Just think about it:

Most men would.

Most men wouldn’t do that.

One of my early mentors said that every man would approach a woman if he’s 100% sure that she likes him. That’s true. But most men don’t approach women. Most men don’t even dare to look at one.

You’ll never have 100% certainty in life. But you can have 90% certainty.

The fact that I had this certainty when I saw my girlfriend made me pursue her instead of hiding behind my fear. I knew that she liked me because I read her signals.

2. I Would Have Misinterpreted Her Initial Reaction  

What do men who don’t know how to tell if a girl likes them do? 

They guess.

I mean, it’s not that they want to play the guessing game. They don’t have any other choice. Every smile is an invitation to kiss her and every emotionless expression is a final warning to fuck off.

I’m sure you’ve been there.

It hurts to admit it, but I’ve been in this situation a million times. Until I learned how to read the signs of women, I had no idea what it meant when a woman smiles longer than one second, when she crosses her legs, and when she licks her lips.

I had no idea.

I’m so thankful that I learned to read the signs of women BEFORE I accidentally stumbled upon the woman who's now my girlfriend.

Just imagine how your life would look like if you knew whether or not a woman is interested in you…within the first 30 seconds.

Think about it. That’s a powerful skill that only a few guys have.

You can be one of these guys.

3. I Would Have Continued to Sabotage Myself 

When I think back to our first date, I want to slap myself in the face.

I did everything wrong that you can possibly do wrong. I tried to impress her with everything that’s not impressive. You know what I’m talking about. I bored her to death with my job, my car, and my awesomeness.

Okay, I didn’t talk about my car. I never had one. But you get the point.

I was talking, talking, and talking…until I finally realized something. I just wanted to start a new sentence when I looked into her face and saw this…

“Shit…what have I done?”

I had to rescue the situation.

Her signals spoke loud and clear. They said “if you don’t change course, you’re going to ram a big ice berg.”

I had to act fast.

That’s why I immediately switched the topic, rescued the situation and thanked the Lord that I had the ability to read her signals.

4. I Would Have Listened without Understanding a Word 

Listening is hard, especially for men.

Let’s admit it. We love to talk about ourselves, our experiences, and our opinions. Most of us are good at talking. But we are terrible at listening.

“He never listens!”

From all my female friends who are in a relationship, none has ever said that their boyfriend is such a good listener. They all complain that he never listens. And I can’t blame them. We don’t. But we should.

You should listen to her words and to her actions.

Have you ever been on a date where she said A but meant B?

These are the situations when men who know how to tell if a girl likes them have a huge advantage. Women talk with their mouths, but they communicate with their bodies. If you don’t listen to her body, you won’t hear the full story.

I read the signs and listened to her body.

She said that she doesn’t know if she can imagine more than friendship with me. Her body said the opposite.

5. She Wouldn’t Have Felt and Instant Connection 

If you can read a woman like a book, you can lead her to the page that she wants to read the most.

Okay, that was confusing.

Sometimes I have weird thoughts. Here’s what I mean:

The ability to read a woman’s signs, mind, and subtle signals, gives you the power to act instead of react. You now have the choice to say and do things in certain situations, that you wouldn’t say or do if you had no idea what she wants, feels, and thinks.

This can make you incredibly attractive.

Here’s an example.

On our first date, my girlfriend became less interested in me when I talked about my apartment. However, she became more interested in me when I talked about my favorite music.

How did I know that?

I could tell if she liked what I was talking about…and if she liked me.

Her body, her movement, and the tone of her voice revealed everything I needed to know. That’s why I continued to talk about music. And that’s why she felt an instant connection.

She thinks it was destiny. I know that it was because of my skills.

6. She Would Not Have Agreed to Come with Me

Women are complicit in their own seduction.

That’s a quote from one of the most gifted seducers who has ever walked on this earth. His name is Zan Perrion and I learned so much from him.

But there’s something missing.

The quote is not complete because it leaves out one crucial aspect. Women are complicit in their own seduction, but it needs a leader to turn them into an accomplice.

And you can only lead her if you can read her.

There’s only one reason why my girlfriend agreed to follow me to the train station, to my apartment, and eventually to my bedroom.

I read her and I lead her.

7. I Wouldn’t Have Been so Sure About It 

How did I know that leading her to my place was the right decision?

She was an open book for me. I just had to turn the page and read the words. And I know how unromantic and manipulative that sounds. But it’s the truth.

Today we are both thankful for my reading skills.  

Sometimes I imagine what would have happened if I wasn’t so sure. Maybe I would have hugged her at the train station before saying goodbye…forever. I could have tried to call her the next day, but who knows. She might not have picked up.

Listen:

I don’t want your dating life to be full of could, would, and might.

You only regret the things you don’t do. But you can only do the things that you don’t regret, if you know that she wants you to do them.

8. I Would Have Wasted My Time (Like So Many Times Before)  

There was a time when I didn’t know how to tell if a girl likes me.

It sucked.

Who is SHE?

Well, basically every girl I ever dated before I learned to read a woman’s signals. I could have spent all this time improving myself, working on this site (okay, back then it didn’t exist), or reading interesting books.

But no, I went on dates with girls who didn’t like me. And I didn’t even know it.

I’m so glad that I knew after a couple of seconds that the first date with my girlfriend was NOT a waste of time.

9. I Would Have Never Said “I Love You” 

Let me tell you a secret.

My girlfriend will kill me for what I’m about to say now, but I’ll say it anyway:

I knew that she loves me.

I knew it days before she said it for the very first time. Actually, I knew it weeks before she said it. But don’t tell her.

Nevertheless, I was the one who said it first.

I did it because it just felt right. 

However…

I knew that I didn’t have to worry about an “oh…uhmmm…okay” type of answer. I knew that she felt the same for me. Her signals revealed it. All I had to do was to take action and to seal the deal.

Jeez, that was even more unromantic.

10. She Wouldn't Be My Girlfriend Today

Why did I tell you all these things?

Well, because I have a food poisoning and I don’t have anything better to do between running from my office to the toilet and back.

But that’s not the real reason.  

The real reason why I decided to write this article is you…and your skills (or the absence of your skills). Yep, I’m talking about your skill to read a woman’s signals and to tell if she likes you.

If I wouldn’t have learned this skill, my girlfriend would not be my girlfriend. She would be someone else’s girlfriend. Ouch…that thought hurts.

Anyway, I want to leave you with this:

If you can read a woman like a book, you can lead her to the page that she wants to read the most.

Still confused?