Have you ever heard of Mike Cernovich from Danger and Play?
He started his blogging career with articles about agro text game, muscle game and an article about how to choke women during sex.
Now he’s married, expects a child, and writes about mindset, politics and media hoaxes.
He evolved and his blog evolved with him.
The same is true for me. I evolved. And my website, the Global Seducer Community, will evolve with me. The shift is inevitable.
I already know for a long time that I had to write this article. Today I finally sat down to write about what you might already feel and expect.
It’s time for a new era…
I Was Always Honest With You
First, I want to make one thing clear:
I never lied to you.
Every single story I shared with you is true. Every experience I wrote about was something that I actually experienced.
What about the story in which I share how I lost my virginity? True!
What about the day I nearly died through a blowjob? True!
What about my embarrassing threesome experience in Bangkok? True! (I even uploaded a photo)
I never lied to you once and I won’t lie to you today or anywhere in the future.
And in case you just stumbled upon this site one or two months ago, you won’t understand what kind of shift I’m talking about. I used the past two months to introduce the change that is about to happen.
But what if you follow my blog since I published my very first article?
Well, without loyal readers like you I wouldn’t even be able to talk about the new era that I’m about to introduce. Without you the Global Seducer Community wouldn’t exist. I can’t thank you enough for your support and your loyalty.
I honestly hope that you will continue to read my articles and to share your pain, goals and progress with me. Keep sending these emails. I love hearing from you.
Why I Never Wanted to Be Like THEM
I never wanted to be like all the other dating and seduction blogs.
The one thing that always fascinated me the most was global dating and the relationship between Western men and traditional foreign women.
That’s why I went on an epic five-year global dating journey all around the world after I learned the art of picking up women from Sasha Daygame and other famous dating coaches. That’s also why I called this website Globalseducer.com.
The blueprint was there, but eventually I lost my focus.
I wanted to establish the best resource for men who are interested in international dating and foreign women. That was the plan. But then I doubted myself and my plan. I thought that it was impossible to achieve what I wanted to achieve.
You have to understand…
The only two guys I knew of who wrote about global dating were RooshV and the guys from Swoop The World. Even though I don’t agree with everything they say, I have a lot of respect for them. Yes, their lifestyle inspired me, but I never wanted to be like them.
I never wanted to be one of these guys who write ego-based articles full of hate and resentment about how I banged so and so many women in so and so many days. That’s not who I am. That’s not how I think.
On the other hand, I know hundreds of mainstream dating coaches (I worked together with quite a few of them) who are extremely successful. They focus on politically correct dating advice and disassociate themselves from everything that's just remotely related to the one topic that goes against the feminist agenda…global dating.
Now I was in a dilemma.
I thought that the only way I could succeed was to...
A: Be like the popular global dating writers
B: Be like the mainstream dating coaches
But who did I really want to be and why did I REALLY founded the Global Seducer Community?
I had the vision to help Western men like you to discover the power and beauty of global dating. I wanted to help YOU to find the foreign woman of your dreams.
There was just one problem:
I didn’t believe that I could succeed without turning into the next RooshV...
Why The Shift Is Long Overdue
I never had the writing style of a mainstream dating coaches (I guess I’m too honest for that), but I already gave you a lot of advice about general dating topics.
I wrote about how to attract women. I wrote about how to approach women. And I even wrote about how to get sex on the first date.
Do I regret that I wrote these articles?
My articles helped hundreds of men. I received emails from men all over the world who thanked me for writing them. Heck, one guy wrote me that one of my articles motivated him to NOT commit suicide. His email made me cry.
I’m immensely proud of what I accomplished with my writing.
But I can no longer hide the fact that I’m not the same person anymore. Just like Mike Cernovich evolved and changed, I evolved and changed.
I’m no longer the guy who travels all around the world to pick up women. I’m no longer the guy who believes that having sex with as many girls as possible is the path to happiness. I’m no longer the guy who believes that the West is the right place to find a girlfriend, let alone a wife.
Please don’t get me wrong.
Mastering the art of seduction is essential. Having sexual experiences is important. And I will continue to provide you with honest and no-bullshit dating advice.
The only thing that changes is the context in which I will give this advice.
To make it short:
I will focus less on picking up random girls and more on meeting and attracting a foreign girlfriend or wife.
To be honest, I wanted to make this shift a lot earlier.
I thought about it when I received the first email from a guy who found the woman of his dreams because of one of my articles.
I thought about it when I looked through over a dozen global dating blogs and all I could find were articles in which guys bragged about how many girls they fucked (say hello to your ego!) and how they banged hookers for free (Congratulations!).
And I thought about it when I met my amazing girlfriend, a beautiful and traditional Thai woman, who will never understand the Western hookup culture.
But what if you’re at a stage in your life where you don’t want a relationship?
No worries. I already published more than 200 articles. In most of them I share insights and advice that will improve your skills with women, regardless of whether you want one-night stands, friends with benefits or a serious relationship.
However, since I announced that I have a Thai girlfriend, I received more than 100 emails from men (maybe one of them from you) who all have the same problem.
“Sebastian, I want a girlfriend. I want to be in a relationship with a woman who supports me and loves me. But I can’t find such a woman in INSERT WESTERN COUNTRY HERE!”
What You Can Expect from The New Era of The Global Seducer
If you have read every article I published in the last two months, you already have an idea of what The New Era of The Global Seducer will look like.
I say it again:
I will focus less on picking up random girls and more on meeting and attracting a foreign girlfriend, partner or wife.
I already introduced this shift within the past couple of months, and the feedback was astonishing. The emails I received from men like you motivated me to finally have the guts to head in this new direction.
I received too many emails to share them all here. Thank you for each and every one of them.
And again I state my vision. This time not with fear, but with pride:
I have the vision to help Western men like you to discover the power and beauty of international dating. I want to help YOU to find the foreign woman of your dreams.
Now you're probably asking yourself…
“What can I except from The New Era of The Global Seducer?”
Here’s a foretaste of what awaits you in 2017:
- I will go public and show my face to the world (and my girlfriend from behind).
- I will publish a new book. Maybe two.
- I will continue to test and review international dating sites to uncover where you have the best chances to meet the woman of your dreams.
- I will publish more and more guides about women in specific countries (My goal is to write at least one article about EVERY country).
- I will offer coaching programs in Thailand (I’m going to move to Thailand at the beginning of 2017) that are designed to help you to meet, date, and attract beautiful foreign women.
There's a lot to come. But for now...
P.S: Please share your thoughts in the comments below and send me an email in case you have any questions about the future of The Global Seducer Community.
Sebastian Harris says
Hey my friend,
thanks a lot for your support!
woua your projects are so fucking great !
Sebastian Harris says
thanks a lot for sharing your experience. Wow, I’m really happy for you. It sounds like you met the right girl. And everything you say about how this is a journey is true. I would love to meet you in Bangkok one day.
Mike Oberstrom says
From another prior seducer who married a stunning Thai Hi-So (category 3-middle class and earned her way with her own cosmetic company) woman met on thaifirendly.com. I can tell your readers that I originally used asiandating.com to hookup with Indonesian, Korean, Filipino, Vietnamese and Thai women. That dating site is a minefield of hookers and scanners and took too much effort to navigate. I know you recommend thaicupid.com but for anyone who really wants success with finding a Thai bride thaifriendly was superior in finding “real” wife material candidates. Like you, I was smitten by my future bride instantly by her candid profile and model photos. In real life she has the most amazing heart and soul I could ever dream of finding. You are right about Asian women being much better marriage material then western woman. Trust me from a twice failed marriage perspective. I appreciate you candor. There comes a time when sex is a game that no longer holds any appeal and just becomes a legacy act of ego. Now living in Bangkok and building a home in Hua Hin my life has become fulfilling and fulfilled. Having to no longer play the empty game of proving how many women I can seduce has been a complete liberation for my soul. I hope all of your readers understand that this is a journey and they will probably need to go through the various stages to finally come to the moment that their life will change for the best. They cannot expect to find Mrs. Perfect if they have no game or are not experienced enough to know Mrs. Right and that it is right now time.
Best wishes for the future with your Significant Other!
Sebastian Harris says
thanks a lot for your support…and for calling me a sneaky bastard 😛
Sebastian Harris says
I don’t think it won’t be THAT bad, but if you really believe it will, you can always leave the USA.
Lon Spector says
Sebastian, you are so correct! A new era is indeed coming. Here in the U.S. a vile witch
is about to assume uncontested power through the powers of Satan.
Predictabily, guys will assume they will find solace between a woman’s legs. They will not.
What happened in Germany 70 years ago, is going to happen right here in the U.S.
I agree with MOST of what you said. But why should I rejoice if the white race dissolves like an
I knew it. You are indeed a sneaky bastard 😀
I compared your articles from 2015 with the ones you wrote in the past two months. Good job. I really like the direction you are goin. Can’t wait to read your new stuff.
You have my support!
Sebastian Harris says
I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed my article about Russian women. Don’t worry, I want to cover every county on this big and beautiful planet. One step after another 😉
Sebastian Harris says
thank you so much. Your support means a lot to me!
Sebastian Harris says
thank you so much for your feedback and your encouraging words.
I hope I can help you to reach your goals in 2017.
Sebastian, I come across your site every once in a while and this is a smart move for you (focused and niche branded).
What I’ve always liked about you is your global mindset and positive perspective (so many other bloggers have such a negative and somewhat bigoted view).
Looking forward to purchasing your upcoming products.
Wishing you all the best and 2017 is the year you “Get Rich in your Niche.”
Ryan N. says
I just wanted to say that I think it’s great that you’re making this particular shift. I always say that people who stay the same and don’t change their perspectives are often very boring, closed minded, and have no capacity for introspection or self-criticism. I’m in full support of the new vision, and I’m genuinely happy for you.
Anand Venigalla says
Thanks Sebastian Harris. Your articles have been a source of delight to me. The recent one on Russian brides is wonderful, and I want to perhaps get a Russian woman.
As you spoke of many different countries, i’: like to know a little more, as an American, about France (particularly Paris and more regional areas), Italy, Spain, Greece (basically, continental and Western Europe), Ireland, and others.