What are Moldovan women like?
This is the question I asked myself as I stood in front of the bus that would take me to Chisinau. I was in a small town in Romania (article is coming soon). Next to me were one Russian guy in his 50s, three Romanian guys, and a Moldovan girl who was so beautiful that I couldn’t stop staring.
I was the only Western European in miles.
I had no idea what would wait for me on the other side of the border. Nobody understood what I was saying. And here I was, on the way to one of the most unexplored and ignored ex-Soviet countries.
I was on my way to the poorest country in Europe…to get laid.
That’s what I wanted and that’s what I did. At first, I didn’t want to go there because I thought it’s dangerous, not worth it, and a waste of time. Then I didn’t want to write this article because I wanted to keep this hidden paradise for myself.
“Don’t be so selfish.” I thought to myself.
Here’s the truth about dating in the inconspicuous country between Romania and Ukraine…
Dating as a Lone Wolf in the Poorest Country in Europe
Here’s what I found out after my two weeks in Chisinau:
It’s fascinating. I was in the poorest country in Europe and yet, none of the girls tried to lure me into buying her handbags, expensive cocktails, or the latest IPhone.
Whenever I paid for a drink or a meal, I experienced gratefulness, warmth, and affection.and I think I know why:
The girls (and the one Moldovan model) I met didn’t look at me as just another foreigner. I was the ONLY foreigner. I was treated like the winning lottery ticket in a bowl with only one ticket. The fact that I was the only Western man in miles didn’t change after our bus crossed the border.
Most men don’t even know that Moldova exists.
Every guy tries to score with Russian women in Moscow and Ukrainian women in Odessa while ignoring the country right next to the Ukraine. Discount airlines don’t even fly to Chisinau. None of the dating coaches I know has ever been there.
You’re a lone wolf in a country that treats you like a welcome guest.
The Beauty of Moldavian Women is Out of This World
Do I really have to tell you how beautiful the women of Moldova are?
Okay. Imagine a girl who has…
Here’s what happens when you mix Russian genes with Romanian genes:
The result is indescribable. I still can’t believe what I say next, but that’s how I feel. In my opinion, Colombian and Ukrainian women are on top of the beauty chain.
Moldovan girls can compete with both.
3 Surprising Facts about Moldovan Women
But it’s not just their beauty that made me depressed whenever I thought about going back to Germany.
Their personalities shine light on the grey soviet blocks.
It was so easy to meet them, be with them, and to enjoy their presence. It was effortless. But no, I don’t say that they are easy (more on that later).
You’ll soon understand…
1. It’s (Almost) Impossible to Meet Dumb Moldovan Girls
During my trip to Chisinau, I went on three dates. Eventually, I decided to spend my time with a beautiful local girl with a Master’s degree in political science.
What about the other two girls?
One of them was studying at the Moldova State University and the other one just finished high school (calm down. She was over 18). She wanted to become a doctor.
That’s when I realized that I love smart women.
Back then I was so sick and tired of going on dates with girls who answered “I don’t know, I like shopping” when I asked them about their interests. It’s impossible to experience this in Chisinau or any other part of the country.
Moldovan ladies have interests.
They want to educated themselves for the simple reason that working abroad is their only ticket to a better life.
Don’t you need English skills to work abroad?
2. Most Moldovan Girls Speak English
I couldn’t believe it.
I met two of the three girls I went on dates with online (I share the dating site in just a second). They all spoke English. And no, not the kind of “I Anastasia, where from?” English. Their grammar was better than mine.
I mentioned it in point #1. They want to work abroad. They HAVE TO learn English. Their desire to get educated and to get the fuck out of there drives them. The local guys drown their sorrow in alcohol and drugs. The local women are more proactive.
Oh, and their language is pretty similar to Romanian.
It’s ten times easier for a Romanian woman to learn English than for a Russian woman. I would say that 50% of the girls you’ll meet can speak English.
Focus on online dating and the number rises to 70%.
3. Your Moldovan Girlfriend is Christian But…
Yes, she’s Christian.
No, she’s not Catholica and she’s also not Protestant.
Only 0.5% of the locals are Catholic and even less are Protestant. With 96.8% of the people being Eastern Orthodox, this is by far the most popular religion.
Does that mean that you can’t date them?
Don’t worry. It doesn’t matter that you’re not Eastern Orthodox. As long as you are Christian, everything is alright. Besides a few special rules when it comes to bishops, the religions are pretty similar.
However, I don’t know if Muslims have the same chances with Moldovan girls.
3 Tips for Meeting Beautiful Moldovan Girls Online
Why do I recommend meeting them online when they are so friendly?
Here are the three reasons:
- 1The girls are specifically looking for Western men.
- 2It’s even easier to find English-speaking women online.
- 3You don’t have to worry about getting cockblocked by local guy.
Online dating in Moldova works.
But be careful. Don’t just sign up on the first website that promises you unlimited access to Moldovan models. This could drain your bank account and shatter your confidence.
1. Why You Can’t Trust Moldovan Marriage Agencies
You could sign up on a Moldovan marriage agency, but if I were you, I wouldn’t do it.
First of all, it’s hard to find a trustworthy agency. Don’t get me wrong. There are a few exceptions. But even if you find the golden unicorn, it will cost you ten times as much as an independent dating site.
Most of them are scammers.
After you spent hundreds of dollars on chatting, emailing, and a $120 dinner in the most expensive hotel in the city, she tells you that she loves you and that she’ll write you as soon as you’re at the airport. You never hear from her again.
I don’t want this to happen to you.
Instead, I want you to join a dating site that allows you to…
You don’t have to waste hundreds of dollars on shady marriage agencies when you join the following dating site for free…
2. THIS is the Best Moldovan Dating Site
I signed up for quite a few dating sites until I found the perfect one.
Russian Cupid was the last site I had in mind. I mean, there is no Moldovan dating site. But I thought that International Cupid would have more local members. Heck, I thought Ukrainedate.com would win because the Ukraine is the direct neighbor.
I have to admit that I was wrong.
The winner is Russian Cupid because, well, look for yourself…
You can meet so many Moldovan girls on this dating site. It’s unbelievable. I had no idea that this is one of the most popular countries on Russian Cupid.
Want to find out if this dating site delivers on its promise?
3. Don’t Overestimate the Moldavian Visa Hassle
I don’t know why everyone keeps saying that it’s so hard to travel to Moldova.
Yeah, okay. You can’t fly to Chisinau with a cheap $35 Ryanair flight, but come on. You can book a flight for $200 from most European cities and you can even travel by bus from Romania. Oh, but the visa…
Apparently, the visa is a hassle.
I read it over and over again from bloggers who claim they’ve been to Moldova…and obviously haven’t been. I’m German and I didn’t even need a visa. I stayed for 14 days, but I could have stayed for 90 days without a visa. This rule applies to most Western European countries.
What if you’re from the USA (like most of my readers)?
The same rule applies.
I don’t know about this “Moldovan visa hassle” bullshit. It’s just another lie that’s been spread buy people who have no clue what they’re talking about.
The 3 Best Cities to Meet and Date Moldovan Women
You’re not in the USA.
This country has less than 3.5 million inhabitants. You can’t just go to five different cities and expect to meet hordes of young and beautiful girls. Some cities are such shitholes that you don’t want to go there. Others are perfect for a little dating adventure.
I’ve only been to Chisinau.
But I’ve heard a lot of good things about the two other places I share with you.
So pack your suitcase and get ready for the trip of a lifetime…
1. Meet Moldovan Women in Chisinau
20% of the country’s population lives in Chisinau.
That’s all I have to say.
I’m serious. There’s nothing special about this city. The weather is grey (unless it’s summer). The buildings are even greyer. The only things you can look at are grey communist bungalows. They are everywhere.
The only beauty you see in Chisinau walks on high heels.
Yep, the women are the only reason why any sane man would visit this place. And they are so beautiful that it’s easy to lose your sanity.
2. Meet Moldovan Women in Bender
Nope. I’m not talking about the robot in Futurama.
Bender is a small town next to Tiraspol (the city I introduce next). There’s nothing special about this place. It’s a small town with less than 100.000 people.
So why do I even mention it?
Well, because of what one guy I met years later told me:
“If you think that it’s easy to meet women who are starving for Western men in Chisinau, you need to go to Bender. You can find a few foreigners in Tiraspol, but nobody visits Bender. You’re a celebrity.”
You can at least give it a shot.
3. Meet Moldovan Women in Tiraspol
Tiraspol is a little bit bigger.
Come on. 133.000 inhabitants are not that bad. But that’s not the reason why you should check out Tiraspol…especially in the summer.
Tiraspol has a beach.
It’s not a big beach. There’s no ocean, only a long lake. But that doesn’t matter because you’ll be so busy gazing after all the beautiful young women in tight bikinis.
Who cares about the ocean when he stares paradise in the eyes?
Don’t Underestimate the Moldavian Nightlife (and Party Girls)
I hate clubs.
The loud music, the fake atmosphere, and the overpriced drinks make me sick to my stomach. Everyone who knows me can confirm that. But I love clubbing in Chisinau.
How is that possible?
Here are some reasons:
Welcome to a country where men can’t pay the entry fee and women can get in for free. 90% of the competition can’t even get in. And once you are in, you’ll be one of ten guys and from these ten guys you’re one of two foreigners.
You are winning big time.
Oh, and here’s another reason:
Check out the Famous Club or the Decadence Club in Chisinau. I had a blast.
4 Tips for Surviving the Moldovan Dating Culture
Have you watched the video?
I didn’t see one ugly woman in it. And you won’t be able to find one ugly Moldovan woman on Russian Cupid. Okay, maybe one. But you don’t have to contact her.
You can choose among hundreds of hot girls.
But be careful. It’s easy to meet beautiful women in this country, but it’s also easy to mess everything up.
One wrong answer and your dream of dating one of the hottest girls of Moldova will turn into a nightmare…
1. Think about Your WHY Before Dating in Moldova
What about sex tourism and human trafficking in Moldova?
It exists, it’s dirty, and you don’t want to have anything to do with it. The last thing she wants is to meet some sleazy guy who offers her money for sex. You are a Global Seducer, goddammit! You don’t pay for fun.
That’s why you need a good WHY.
Let’s face it. She won’t believe you when you say that you’re interested in the Moldovan culture and the sights in Chisinau. What culture and what sights? I don’t want to be rude, but you have to be blind to call this city beautiful.
That’s why she will ask you: “Why are you in Chisinau?”
Here are some good answers:
I hate to lie, but if you tell her that you’re here for the culture (which is also a lie) or even worse, for the girls, she’ll stand up and leave.
2. You Don’t Hit the Russian Wall with Moldovan Women
What happens when you approach a Russian woman?
She stares at you and tests you with silence. I call this the Russian Wall. In case you’ve been to Russia, you know how it feels to hit this wall. These ladies are cold as ice until you pass the shit tests. Then they are hot as lava.
Moldovan women are different.
Instead, you get hit by openness, friendliness, and curiosity. And yes, I strongly believe that the lack of male tourists is the reason. They are not used to getting approached. They don’t have to sift out the bad apples because you are the only apple in the basket.
3. Moldova Copied the Ukrainian Dating Culture
I know what you want.
You want to sleep with beautiful girls from Moldova. When I traveled to Chisinau, I had the exact same intention. All I could think of was to wake up next to a beautiful local girl, kissing her, and enjoying the sight of her naked body while she walks into the shower.
This can become reality…but not in the first night.
It’s not impossible to get a one-night stand. But it’s not that easy. Most girls want you to wait. You are not on a college campus in California. The Moldovan dating culture is similar to the Ukrainian dating culture.
Take your time. Don’t pressure her. If she needs three dates, she needs three dates. If you’re too aggressive and pushy, you might never see her again after the second date.
4. Order a Glass of Red Wine and She is Yours
Every woman in this country drinks wine.
Maybe it’s because of their addiction to education. I guess they believe that drinking wine turns them into sophisticated academics. I don’t know. There must be a reason.
Here I was on my first date with a 21-year-old girl from Chisinau.
She must have thought I’m crazy. But that’s okay. I’m confident enough to stick to my “no alcohol” rule, even in the face of failure.
But I didn’t fail. She liked me, even though I was sober. I liked her even more when she was a bit tipsy…and without inhibitions.
3 Pieces of Advice for Everyone Who Wants a Moldovan Girlfriend or Bride
I have to warn you.
You probably visit Moldova with the intention to meet beautiful women and to have one or two dating adventures. You want to keep it casual. And that’s okay. But just because you have the intention to do something doesn’t mean that your plans can’t change.
“Sebastian, the last thing I want is a relationship…”
Yeah, buddy. I’ve been there.
Things can happen. Life can change in a blink of an eye. The only question is:
Can you resist the irresistible?
1. What You Get When You Date a Moldovan Girl
You get the full package.
It’s the perfect mixture and it’s hard to resist.
She will take care of you and she will do everything to make you happy. And believe me. You just have to see her naked and boom…the spell is successful. It can be broken, but that takes a lot of energy and time.
Oh Elena…I will never forget you.
2. Your Moldovan Girlfriend Wants the Full Package
Speaking of getting the full package…
You get the full package, but she also expects the full package. And no, a one-night stand and breakfast at Mc Donald’s is not the full package.
She wants to be your mail order bride…or at least your girlfriend.
You can’t imagine how happy she is that she found you. You are smart, well-mannered, and worldly. You are everything she ever wanted. She feels like a princess in her own Hollywood story. You are the gentleman that Moldovan girls only see on TV.
Don’t confuse fast sex with a casual intention.
Even though she probably waits until date #3, she might sleep with you on the first. She does it because she’s afraid to lose you. She wants to keep you. And no, she’s not too young. For her it’s completely normal to settle down in your 20s.
3. Why Your Moldovan Bride Doesn’t Leave You
What if you decide to make one of the many Moldovan brides you can meet online your wife?
I hope you treat her better than any local guy has ever treater her (not that hard). And I hope that she’ll never leave you (not that hard either).
And yes, I just made up these numbers. But there’s one thing I don’t make up and that’s the fact that Moldovan brides who return home, are shunned, shamed, and ridiculed. They are called whores, sluts and prostitutes.
That’s the Moldovan way of motivating the girls to date locals.
The local guys slut-shame them until they believe that every woman who dates a foreigner is a worthless whore. They want them to stay. But apparently, it doesn’t work. Otherwise the girls wouldn’t be so friendly when you approach them and so eager to meet you.
Summed Up Wisdom
What are Moldovan girls like? I asked myself the same question as I was about to cross the border. I was on my way to Chisinau, the capital. Today I know what they are like. They are beautiful, feminine, and way friendlier than the women in Russia.
It’s one of the poorest countries in the world. And that’s why the nightlife rocks. You’ll see twice as many women than men in the popular clubs. However, online dating is still the most efficient way to meet hundreds of girls.
Russian Cupid is the best Moldovan dating site (scroll up for the link to my review). The dating culture is similar to the one in Ukraine. But even if she sleeps with you on the first date doesn’t mean that she wants a casual relationship. No, she wants the whole package.