Are you an American, Canadian, or maybe even a Korean guy looking for Filipina women?
Heck, maybe you are from Europe or from any other place on this beautiful planet. And maybe you’re not just looking for girls, but for your future wife…or at least for a girlfriend who sees more in you than a walking ATM.
Don’t you worry, don’t you worry, child. See Sebastian’s got a plan for you.
And the plan is pretty simple:
I know that you want to meet and date Filipina women. That’s why I don’t want to bore you with “oh, they are so beautiful” and “oh, their caramel skin is so sexy”. I’m German. I hate to beat around the bush. Let’s cut to the chase.
Here’s what I want for you:
I want to show you what to expect, what to avoid, and what to embrace when looking for Filipinas.
Once you know these three aspects, you are ready to take the next step (I’ll show you what it is).
But first, you need to complete the following short and sweet Filipina dating bootcamp…
What to Expect When Looking for Filipina Women
“This is your last chance. After this, there is not turning back.”
That’s what Morpheus said to Neo when he gave him the choice. He gave him the choice to either take the blue pill, or the red pill. We all know how the story continues.
What about your story?
As a man who is looking for Filipinas, you want to see how deep the rabbit-hole goes. And believe me. It goes very, very deep.
Things are about to change…
Hundreds of Girls are Competing for Your Attention
I don’t care if you’re over 40. She doesn’t care either. And I don’t care if you’ve never had a six-pack. She doesn’t care either.
Who is she?
She’s the 21-year-old Filipina college girl who sends you a message on the online dating site you’ll join. But she could also be the 19-year-old single mum who knows that you are her last chance for marriage because no local guy wants to date a woman with a child. Or maybe, yes maybe, you’ll get a message from a sexy business woman who can’t find a guy in her league.
You are in her league.
I know. You don’t believe me because you’ve never experienced something like this before. But it will happen. I promise.
When I joined the largest Filipina dating site with more than 3.5 million members, I had 16 messages in my inbox…after 20 minutes.
The Attention is Too Much for Your Ego
Would you consider yourself a friendly, down-to-earth guy?
This might change.
No matter how much Dr. Jekyll is in you, the process of looking for Filipina women will release your inner Mr. Hyde.
On a Filipina online dating site, Joe Average becomes Tom Cruise.
It’s an instant change and it overwhelms a lot of guys because it changes everything. Suddenly, you are in demand. Suddenly, you can decide who you want to meet and who you want to reject. You feel invincible and your ego loves it.
That’s dangerous. Remember what Uncle Ben said...
I know a lot of Filipinas who received disrespectful, disgusting, and downright rude messages on dating sites. Well, some male egos can’t handle the instant fame.
Here’s my advice:
Appreciate the fact that you are now a celebrity. But use your power wisely. Don’t take revenge on innocent Filipinas, just because some Western women treated you like shit.
You Want to Make Her Your Girlfriend on the First Date
You might not even want a girlfriend. Maybe you’re just looking for Filipina women because you want to have fun. That’s okay…and a bit naïve.
Here’s the truth:
Filipinas are so good at treating you like a king that you don’t want to leave your queen.
It’s super easy to fall in love with a Pinay because your feelings will go bonkers. You know that you will NEVER experience something like that with a Western woman. You want to hold on to this feeling.
That can be the most beautiful thing in the world. But it can also lead to a lot of trouble…
What to Avoid When Looking for Filipina Women
If she looks like trouble, she is trouble.
That’s what years of international dating experience taught me.
I know dozens of guys who have Pinay girlfriends and wives and who couldn’t be happier. But they chose the right girls and threw the bad apples out of the basket. They avoided the ones who cause frustrated men to write things like “all Filipinas are gold-digging whores” in various forums.
The decision to look for a Filipina girlfriend or wife is the best decision you ever made.
But you need to avoid this…
Your Intelligence is too High to Get Scammed
I thought about not mentioning dating scams at all because I honestly believe that you are too intelligent to fall for them.
But hey, I’m talking about the things to avoid. And scams are one of them.
Here are three truths about getting scammed by Pinays:
Here’s the list with 13 tips to avoid scams on Filipina dating sites. You should check it out.
Let me ask you something:
You wouldn’t cross the street with closed eyes, would you?
Keep your eyes open and pump some blood back from your pants into your brain and you’re on the safe side.
Your Life is too Precious to Fall for the Wrong Girl
Now it’s time to listen up.
You can meet all kinds of different Filipinas online. There are single moms, curious college girls, and girls with sexy bodies and good jobs. However, there are also girls with sexy bodies and jobs that require them to show up naked at work.
You want to avoid these girls when you’re looking for Filipina women.
Yes, a “relationship” with a bar girl can be intense and I’m pretty sure that she does things that your ex-girlfriend didn’t do. But it’s not worth it. The risk is higher than the pleasure.
Fall for a Filipina bar girl and your heart gets broken, your wallet gets emptied, and your trust in women gets shattered.
Speaking of empty wallets…
Her Family is too Big for Your Wallet
You have fewer coins in your wallet than she has members in her family.
And that’s okay. In the Philippines it’s normal to have big families. You’ll have a great time talking to her relatives and making selfies with all her cousins (yes, they all want a selfie with you).
Here’s when it gets tricky:
“My grandmother is sick. Can you please help to pay the hospital bill? I’m so desperate!”
Her grandmother is probably dead since the fall of the Soviet Union. But that doesn’t matter. Even if she’s still alive, she’s probably not in the hospital.
What do you do when a girl you meet online asks for money?
Do NOT open your wallet unless you are in a relationship with her and know the person who is sick and that the person is sick.
What to Embrace When Looking for Filipina Women
Now you know what to expect and what to avoid at all costs.
You have what it takes to avoid the wrong girls and to choose the right girls. Yes, you have the choice because Pinays are crazy for men like you.
The amazing, incredible, and fulfilling…
Embrace the Way She Looks at You on Your First Date
The first date with a Filipina is fun…and pretty confusing.
She’s all dressed up. She put her tiny body into an even tinier dress because she wants to impress you. Don’t fool yourself. She knows that there are hundreds of girls who would date you…and they look just like her.
That’s why she’s so nervous.
In fact, she can’t even look you into the eyes without blushing. When you tell her that she’s beautiful, she giggles and her head turns into a red balloon. Her lips are shaking when you go for the kiss.
Enjoy every second of it.
Embrace the Way She Reacts When You Make Her Your Girlfriend
There’s one thing you need to know about Filipinas and relationships.
She wants to be in one. The moment she sees you walking up to her on your first date, she wants to be your girlfriend. Okay, let’s be honest. She already thought of cute nicknames for you when you chatted with her online.
Here’s what happens when you ask her to be your girlfriend:
The way a Filipina reacts when you make her your girlfriend is more intense than the way a Western woman reacts when you propose to her.
You’ll love it.
Embrace the Choice You Have When Looking for a Filipina Girlfriend or Wife
Do you even realize how lucky you are?
This is a huge opportunity. It’s an opportunity that your father and your grandfather never had. In fact, it blows my mind that so many guys don’t take this chance. Instead, they continue to watch naked Asian girls on the websites that you know too well. They continue to waste their life.
“Online dating is just not for me because INSERT STUPID EXCUSE”
Every man who says that is afraid to take action. And every man who takes action and looks for Filipinas online knows how rewarding it is.
It all starts with the first step. And it ends with an inbox full of messages from cute Filipinas.
Summed Up Wisdom
Are you looking for Filipina women? Then this article will rock your boat and keep you afloat because you need to know what to expect, what to avoid and what to embrace.
Yes, some of the stories you read on forums are true. You’ll really get a lot of attention from girls. In fact, you’ll get so much attention that your ego goes crazy. Try to control it. And don’t be shocked when you suddenly want a girlfriend even though you had no intention whatsoever.
Oh, and avoid the bar girls and the scams. I’ve written about that before. And don’t open your wallet unless you know that she’s worth it and that there’s a reason. The good news is that you’ll love the way she reacts when she’s with you and the fact that you have the choice. Choose wisely.