Japan Cupid Review: My Japanese Chat Room Search

Is Japan Cupid the perfect dating site to meet a woman like her?

That’s what I wanted to find out. And that’s why I decided to write this review.

You see, as a man who doesn’t care about Manga, Samurai swords and crazy tentacle videos (shame on me), I thought that I would have no chance with these beautiful Asian girls.

As it turns out, my ignorance of the Japanese culture and language didn’t stop a bunch of cute girls from replying to my incredibly cheesy firs message.

God, you can’t believe how cute some of these girls are.

Come on, be honest.

I know that you dream about sexy Japanese girls with smooth skin and big wide eyes.

Don’t worry. I don’t call you a pervert. It’s totally okay to have these fantasies. Hell, I’m sure that about 85% of men (at least!) have a thing for these cute Asian women. I just typed “I have a thing for Japanese women” and over 386.000 search results showed up.

You are not alone.

I’m also attracted to Japanese women. I can’t help it. That’s why I couldn’t wait to join, test, and review this dating site in order to find out if…

The moment I joined Japan Cupid, my heart started to race.

I was excited to find out if what they say about Japanese women is true…

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Why I Couldn’t Wait to Join the Japan Cupid Chat Room

What do they say about Japanese women?

Well, I’m sure that you’ve heard that these light-skinned Asian ladies…

Before I tested these beliefs by sending messages and by skyping with two Japanese cuties, I did a lot of research.

And I discovered something truly fascinating…

It’s true. You are big in Japan.

These sexy Asian ladies treat Western men, especially white Western men, like superstars. The skype conversations that I had with the two ladies proved what this article reveals.

Do you know what else is true?

The women in Japan are desperate. They are lonely and they are starving for physical intimacy and love. I might get a few hate comments for saying this, but I talked to a few Japanese women about this issue.

In case you still doubt that the women in Japan have a hard time to find guys in their country, you just have to look at this picture…

While the men abandon women for their virtual girlfriends, video game characters, or pillows (yes, pillows!), the women are signing up on Japancupid.com because they hope to meet a man who can satisfy their deepest desires…

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Is Japan Cupid a Good Site or Should You Use OkCupid?

Before I decided to write this Japan Cupid review, I received between 10-12 emails (I can’t remember the exact number) from guys who asked me to write an article about Japanese women.

In 5 of these emails, I got asked if OkCupid.com or Japancupid.com is better to meet sexy Asian girls in school girl uniforms…sorry, my fantasies are taking over again.

Honest as I am, I replied with “I have no freaking idea”.

Yesterday, I decided to test it. I just had to answer this question in this review. That’s why I also signed up on OkCupid.

Here’s what I found out:

If you are lucky, you will find two or three Japanese girls on OkCupid. The remaining 98% are Western women who are living in Japan. Some of them even try to hide their identity by dressing up like Avril Lavigne in her stupid Hello Kitty music video. It’s kind of scary.

OkCupid is good for Japanese guys who want to meet crazy Western chicks with Anime fetishes.

As a Western man who wants to date Japanese women, you should stay away from OkCupid and join Japan Cupid instead.

With over 700.000 active members it is the largest Japanese dating site on the internet.

The 291 testimonials from couples who met on this site prove that it’s possible to meet the right girl…

But what kind of girls will you meet on this Japanese dating site?

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Who Are the Geishas That Want to Meet a Gaijin?

Japanese women are different, very different.

I don’t even know how to describe the girls I talked to on Japancupid.com. I think “wacky” is the perfect word.

Some of the girls I chatted with had profile photos that showed them with…

I’m dead serious. I don’t make this shit up. These are real girls I talked to in the past 48 hours. And yes, it’s sexy and a bit creepy at the same time.

If you join Japan Cupid, you will see girls in all kinds of crazy costumes. But don’t be fooled. They don’t belong in the nuthouse. They have normal jobs. That’s just the way they like to express themselves.

I have the feeling that every single girl on this site tries to look as cute as possible. It’s a relentless cuteness competition.

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My Japan Cupid Review Experience in Tokyo, Osaka, and Yokohama

The moment of truth has come.

Will I get replies from cute Japanese girls?

In order to conduct my Japanese Cupid Review Experiment, I joined the dating site and upgraded my account to a Platinum Membership (Later I’ll tell you why).

But I had no idea if Japanese women…

I wanted to know if this is really THE BEST site for Western men who want to meet Japanese girls.

That’s why I conducted the following experiment:

Apparently, one of the Japanese girls I messaged has no sense of humor and thought that I really want to know the difference between Dragon Ball and Sailor Moon…

Anyway, here are the results of my little experiment:

After 48 hours, I had 18 replies. When you consider that only 38 of the 60 girls I messaged looked at my profile and the fact that I admitted that I have no clue about the Japanese culture, this is a pretty good result.

Of course, this is not as high as the response rates that you’ll get when you want to date Filipinas.

Nevertheless, a few Japanese cuties agreed to meet me…

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Will I Find My Japanese Cupid in Tokyo?

One of the first replies I got was from a 19-year old beauty (with a Hello Kitty cap) who is obviously happy that I sent her my cheesy message.

But I have to admit something. It took another four messages until she agreed to go on a date with me.

Remember, you are not in the Philippines. It takes more time and effort to set up dates with Japanese women.

In general, Japanese women want to get to know you more before they agree to go on a date with you.

But not all girls in Kimonos need a lot of time.

This beautiful girl wants to meet me straight away…

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Will I Find My Japanese Cupid in Yokohama?

The women in Yokohama were more willing to go on a date with me after one message…

They were more talkative than the women in Tokyo. They made more of an effort. They had a real desire to meet me.

Oh, and they thought that I was interesting.

My thought on this:

The women in Tokyo are used to foreigners. Yokohama is not a famous tourist destination. As a result, the girls are more excited when a foreigner wants to meet them.

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Will I Find My Japanese Cupid in Osaka?

I’m in love with the women in Osaka.

9 of the 18 replies I got are from Osaka girls and most of the replies were positive.

It didn’t take long until I got my first “hai”.

Then I got the second “hai”.

And even though 23-year old Japanese student replied with “sure” instead of “hai”, I had a lot of success with the ladies in Osaka.

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What My Japan Cupid Review Experiment Says About Finding Love?

Is it possible to meet your dream girl on JapanCupid.com?

Yes, but it’s not as easy as in Thailand or in the Philippines. You can’t expect to get bombarded with messages. You will get replies, but not from every girl.

Japanese women want to meet foreigners and some of them will go on a date with you after one message. Others need more time. Keep than in mind.

But the moment you receive a reply like this one, you’ll know that it’s possible.

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Allow Me to Answer 9 Questions about JapanCupid

I know you can’t wait to chat with dozens of cute Japanese girls.

But you can’t join the largest Japanese dating site, at least not yet. Not until you have the right answers to the most important questions.

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1. Is Japan Cupid Legit or a Scam?

“It’s a scam, it’s a scam, it’s a scaaam!”

No, it’s not.

Japancupid.com is owned by the Cupid Media Group, a company with more than 16 years of experience who have dozens of international dating sites.

When it comes to international dating sites, they are the best. Period.

How do I know?

I met the love of my life on one of their dating sites.

But hey, that’s just me. Several of my readers (yes, guys like you) have also met their girlfriends after I recommended this company to them. You could be the next.

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2. Do Japanese Women Speak English?

According to some pretty funny YouTube videos, they can speak at least some English. But you don’t care about some random girls on YouTube. You care about the girls on Japancupid.com.

That’s why I conducted another experiment:

Here are my results:

In case I don’t have a brain tumor this calculation is correct:

797-766 =31

What does that mean?

That means that only 31 women between the age of 18 and 30 who live in Osaka and who are looking for romance or marriage have no English skills at all.

The majority of the girls can speak “some” English and approximately 17% of the women (135/797) have “very good” English skills.

I hope this answers your question.

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3. Is the Japan Cupid Customer Service Helpful?

First, I had a look at the support section in my dashboard.

There you’ll find a member help section that provides you with detailed FAQs to every possible question you might have…even though I doubt that you still have questions after reading this Japan Cupid review.

From there you can access a contact form that allows you to ask the support team additional questions.

And yes, I tested the responsiveness of the support team.

It took less than 10 hours until I had a reply.

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4. What about Fake Profiles on Japan Cupid?

Maybe the women who didn’t reply to my genius message had fake profiles.

Okay, I admit it. That’s just an excuse that my ego wants to hear.

I wouldn’t worry about fake profiles on Japan Cupid.

I never heard that someone got scammed on a Japanese dating site. You would be the first one. I mean, this is one of the richest countries in the world. Why should any of these girls try to scam you out of money?

She probably has more than you.

Oh, and just because a woman doesn’t reply, doesn’t mean that her profile is fake….no matter how bad your ego wants it.

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5. What Do People on Reddit Say about Japan Cupid?

Yep, even the people on Reddit have experience with this dating site, even though I wouldn’t describe the women on this dating site as “screamingly desperate for marriage”.

Another guy on Reddit claims that OkCupid is bigger than Plenty of Fish, but not as big as JapanCupid.

He’s right.

What he doesn’t know is that I already debunked the myth that OkCupid is an alternative.

But Reddit is not the only place where men who tested the largest Japanese dating site on the internet. There are dozens of forums where you can find experience reports.

I agree with him. Japan Cupid has a lot of women who are looking for a relationship.

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6. Is it Easy to Search for Girls on Japan Cupid?

It’s easy to search for them and it’s even easier to find them.

Thanks to an advanced matching algorithm and multiple search functions, it’s impossible to not find the right girl.

Later, when I give you a step-by-step walkthrough of the signup process, I’ll explain these search features in more detail.

But yeah, it’s ridiculously easy to find the most beautiful women of Japan on this site.

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7. What’s Included in the Free Japan Cupid Standard Membership?

It’s free to join. But you already know that. I revealed it in the headline.

But joining is not the only thing you can do for free. You can also…

But…

Sorry, but there’s always a but.

Most women (the ones who have a free account), can’t read the messages you send them, at least when you also have a free account.

The moment you upgrade your account to a Gold Membership or to a Platinum Membership (the one that I chose), all the girls can read your messages.

And that’s by far not the only advantage of a premium membership…

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8. Is the Premium Membership Worth It?

Do you know what THAT is?

That’s the message you’ll see when you try to contact the women who made it into the Japanese Desire Photo Gallery. Believe me, you want to contact them.

But in order to do that, you need a Platinum Membership.

“Who gives a shit about that photo gallery? I find the hottest women anyway!”

That’s cool, but without a Platinum Membership…

That sucks. And that’s exactly why I chose the Platinum Membership.

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9. What Does a Premium Membership on Japanese Cupid Cost?

Don’t worry. You don’t have to file for bankruptcy.

Just have a look at the prices for the two membership options (Gold Membership vs. Platinum Membership) that you can choose from.

The principle is simple:

The longer you stay, the less you pay.

Are you committed to finding the woman of our dreams?

Good, then you will pay a very small monthly fee because you naturally choose the 3-month or the 12-month membership.

A premium membership can be less than 35 cents a day.

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The Pros of Japancupid.com

“That shit costs less than 35 cents a day?”

Yep, do the math.

And even though that’s already a big, fat pro, this Japanese dating site has some other benefits that are worth mentioning.

Here are the pros:

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The Cons of Japancupid.com

Does that mean that everything about this site is perfect?

Nope.

I just can’t deny the following cons:

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You Should NOT Join Japan Cupid If…

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You Should Join Japan Cupid If…

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The Step-by-Step Japan Cupid Review Guide

Now there’s only one question left:

Do you want to join the leading Japanese dating site or not?

In case you scream “yes, yes, yes” while you imagine all the pretty girls in Kimonos and Hello Kitty costumes, you need to continue reading.

I’m sure you want to know…

I’ll show you everything in my step-by-step Japan Cupid review guide…

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1. It’s Free to Join Japan Cupid

Let’s start with the first step.

Click here to join Japan Cupid for FREE

Yep, that’s the first step. All you need to do is to click on the link above and you will automatically get redirected to the Japan Cupid homepage.

And don’t worry. The site opens in a new tab. You can continue reading this step-by-step guide right after you typed in your email address.

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2. Choose a Photo that Japanese Ladies Love

The best picture you can upload is one that shows you without a beard.

I don’t want to insult you, especially if you are a hipster and proud of your beard, but Japanese women don’t like men with beards. In fact, most Asian women prefer men who are clean shaven.

You don’t believe me?

Then upload one picture that shows you with a beard and one that shows you clean shaven. Share your experience in the comments below. I already know the result.

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3. Get Fast Results With The Right Profile

How does you profile look right now?

That’s how it looks:

It’s empty. It doesn’t say anything.

As a pretty girl with big boobs you can get away with a “no answer” profile. As a guy you can’t. That’s why you need to turn your profile into a deadly weapon…

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Gaijin Action 1: Your appearance

Let’s start with your appearance.

Are you a Caucasian male?

Then you have nothing to worry about.

Do you have blonde or light-brown hair?

Even better!

I don’t say that it’s impossible for black men to get dates with Japanese girls. But it’s definitely easier when you are Caucasian.

No, I’m not a racist bastard. I’m just telling the truth. And the truth is that Japanese women are obsessed with white Western men.

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Gaijin Action 2: Your lifestyle

Of course, they don’t just want to date any white guy.

They want a man who has a healthy and interesting lifestyle.

You’ll have more “luck” when you are NOT an alcoholic and when you don’t live with your mom, your five dogs and your reptile Figgis.

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Gaijin Action 3: Your Background/Cultural Values

As you can see in my “Your Background / Cultural Values” section, I’m honest about my Japanese language skills. They do not exist.

But that doesn’t matter. My experiments have shown that most Japanese women speak English. You have nothing to worry about.

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Gaijin Action 4: A few sentences about yourself

The “in your own words” section is your biggest asset. Even if you have a beard like Mel Gibson, this section can save your ass.

Don’t write the typical boring “I’m looking for love blah blah”. Everyone does that and you don’t want to be like everyone.

I tried to be different by addressing the Elephant in the room…the Japanese fetish. As you could see in the messages I shared with you, many girls told me that I’m interesting.

That happens when you are different.

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4. What Kind of Japanese Cutie Are You Looking For?

Do you want a sexy nurse?

Do you want a traditional beauty in a Kimono?

Do you want a freaky college girl who is into cosplay?

The choice is yours. You just have to let the matching algorithm know what you want and poof…you can find her.

You can also determine the lifestyle of your dream girl, but I didn’t want to share another four screenshots with you. Ah fuck it, here comes another screenshot.

Usually, I’m looking for girls who have at least a Bachelor’s degree, but for some weird reason I wanted to chat with Japanese high school girls.

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5. Do You Like What Japanese Girls Like?

What do Japanese girls like?

They like Manga, Karaoke and Sushi.

What does Sebastian Harris like?

I like libraries, meditation and computers.

My advice: Be honest and be yourself.

Don’t say that you like Japanese food when you hate it. Otherwise, she might invite you to a Shushi place on the first date and you will spend two hours puking in the bathroom.

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6. What Kind of Gaijin Are You?

Heck, did I even explain the word “Gaijin”?

Gaijin means “foreigner” and girls who are obsessed with white Western men are called “Gaijin hunters”. Makes sense right?

As you can see, I’m a nerdy and introverted (but romantic) Gaijin who likes to read and to listen to Nickelback (haters gonna hate).

Let her know what kind of Gaijin you are.

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7. Find Your Japanese Girlfriend with the Right Tag

What are Cupid Tags and how do they work?

Simple…

You tag yourself with a certain quality that describes you and whenever a girl searches for a guy with this quality, your profile shows up.

The tag “sexy ass” was just for fun. My ass is actually pale and unsexy.

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8. Do Japanese Girls Want a Verified Profile?

You don’t have to verify your profile, but it doesn’t hurt.

I assume that you will receive more messages and interests when you verify your profile.

I didn’t do it and I still got a lot of replies. It’s up to you.

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9. In the Search for the Japanese Schoolgirl

God, I’m so bad.

Sorry, I didn’t want to put any fantasies in your head. Anyway, there are at least 600 Japanese school…uhm…women online at any time of the day (maybe not in the middle of the night).

Thanks to the Advanced Search function, it’s easy to find the right girl among the 600 women who are online and among the over 350.000 women who are currently offline.

What if you don’t find the right girl?

In the unlikely event that you don’t want to contact any of the beautiful girls who show up, you can use one of the Popular Searches.

Even though the new members are usually more excited when a Western man like you sends them a message, I urge you to take a look at the Japanese Desire Photo Gallery.

You need a Platinum membership to see all the girls who made it into this gallery.

But it’s worth it. You won’t be disappointed.

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10. Unleash the Full Power of Your Japan Cupid Membership

It’s time to press the button.

Once you click this ugly green button, you can choose between the Gold and the Platinum Membership.

And don’t worry. You can choose from a bunch of payment options.

What happens after you have upgraded your Japan Cupid membership?

You can finally chat with beautiful women who all look like 18 even though they are in their 20s and 30s.

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Say “Hai” to Your Cute Japanese Girlfriend

Don’t wait for too long.

You are not the first guy who stumbled upon this Japan Cupid review and you won’t be the last. If you act fast, your dashboard will soon look like this…

This is your chance to prove everyone wrong.

This is your chance to show all the people who made fun of you for your obsession with Japanese women that you have what it takes.

Make them stare in awe when they see you with your hot Japanese girlfriend…