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I had to write this Insider Internet Dating review.
From the moment I founded the Global Seducer community, I had a vision. I had the vision to turn this website into the largest, most honest (and most politically incorrect) international dating blog on the web.
Now, more than 300.000 monthly readers and thousands of emails from guys like you later, I can say that I’m on a good way. And there are two ingredients that led to this success.
YOU (thanks buddy!) and my unapologetically honest dating site reviews.
They are the cornerstone of this site and they are the reason why I’m such a big fan of online dating. Seriously, I believe that meeting women online, especially when these women are young, stunning, and exotic, is the way to go.
That’s why I decided to write a review about one of the most popular online dating products and to show you…
Okay, I’m going to reveal one thing. Yes, it’s true. You really get more than 20 free bonus products. But that’s only the beginning.
Let’s have a look at the member’s area, the product, and at my personal experience using it…
Reality Check: Is Being an Insider Internet Dater Still Worth it?
Online dating is dead.
That’s the topic of an article I recently read…and it made me laugh out loud. Why? Well, because online dating is anything but dead. It’s more alive than ever before.
You can’t ignore it anymore.
Since the product was released, the dating field has changed a lot. Everything is going online and thousands of women are signing up on dating sites every single day.
Insider Internet Dating is more relevant than ever before…
Big Insider Internet Dating Review Question: Does it Work in 2017?
Hold your breath. This will shock you.
This online dating product is older than Justin Bieber. Or when was he born? Anyway, it’s older than 10 years. It was created in the year 2005 and to the younger folks, yes, we had internet back then.
There are just a few problems::
95% of the advice is still relevant.
Yahoo Personals doesn’t exist anymore, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t use Dave’s tips and tricks on this international dating site…or any of the other ones that I reviewed.
The advice still works 12 years later.
But you have to be open-minded. I don’t want you to buy the product and then get a refund after two minutes because you didn’t like the fact that he used old dating sites and browsers in his video tutorials.
No, no, no…that’s not how it works.
Bitch about the old presentation style and you’ll hate the product. Absorb David’s knowledge and apply his advice on modern dating sites and you’ll love it.
How I Became an Insider Internet Dater (I Tested the 4 Modules)
Just in case you ask…
No, I didn’t test Insider Internet Dating with the dating sites that David recommends. I didn’t sign up on Yahoo Personals because it doesn’t exist anymore and I also didn’t join match.com. I stuck with the dating sites I love…and they are international.
I mean, I’m the Global Seducer.
All I can say is that I tested all four modules (and the bonuses) on real women on real dating sites.
Here’s how my beautiful guinea pigs reacted…
Module 1 Made Me Look for Pornstar Escorts
It’s not what you think. It’s better.
Let me explain.
I used the advice that Dave shares in video 6 of module 1 and it improved my online dating profile tremendously. In fact, my response rate increased by 100% after I followed his advice. I honestly couldn’t believe it.
Did I upload a picture of Brad Pitt when he was 25?
All I did was to look at escort sites. I eventually stumbled upon a famous pornstar escort site and there I found everything I needed to know.
Module 2 Made Me Literally Hitler
Okay, I have to explain that.
Yes, I am German, but no, I’m not a Nazi. And I’m also not Donald Trump. Calm down. You don’t have to report this site to the social justice warrior committee.
However, I used a tactic that has a German name (Hint: from WW2). Dave shares it at the beginning of module 2 and I combined it with the copy and paste conversation starters that you’ll get in a separate PDF.
The word is politically incorrect, but the tactic works like gangbusters.
Module 3 Made Me Call a Cute Thai Girl
I tested the phone call script with a girl I met on Thai Cupid.
It was so funny. Her English was really bad and I had to repeat myself over and over again. I guess I should have signed up on match.com. Anyway, I called her via WhatsApp and I have to admit it.
Dave’s phone call script works…and I’m pretty sure it works even better with girls who can actually speak English.
Module 4 Made Me Turn the Tables
Module 4 contains advice on what you have to do to get her out of her pants and into your bed once you meet her in real life.
I used the advice from the fourth audio file in module 4 to make a cute 20-year old college student ask for a second date. I hope her heart doesn’t break when she finds out that I only used her as a guinea pig for this Insider Internet Dating review.
How These 4 Insider Internet Dating Bonuses Improved My Online Game
Yes, this product has bonuses…as shit-ton of bonuses.
And I’m going to share
all of them most of them with you in this Insider Internet Dating review. I’m going to show you what each and every bonus contains and why some are better than others.
But first, I want to show you what I learned while going through the bonus material…
1. Minute 7:51 of Instant Messaging Magic Made Her Swallow
Oh, you dirty bastard. I know what you’re thinking.
But I have to disappoint you.
She didn’t swallow my you know what. She swallowed her coffee. Let’s say she tried to because she ended up swallowing it up and spitting it all over her keyboard. That’s at least what she told me.
All I did was to use the technique that Scott McKay shared at minute 14:23 of the Instant Messaging Magic bonus audio. Since then I use this technique in almost every online interaction.
2. Page 8-9 of Stephen Nash’s Book Got Me My Girlfriend
I’m not allowed to share the content of the book with you, but I think I am allowed to tell you what it taught me. Or let’s say what it reminded me of.
It turned out that I used the exact leading and screening techniques that Stephen shares in this bonus book when I met my girlfriend online. Back then I didn’t know about his book, but I knew that telling the right stories triggers the right feelings.
In case you’ve never heard of leading and screening, this book will open your eyes.
3. I Used the Subject Line from This 32-Minute Interview
When it comes to subject lines, I’m a lazy bum.
I mean, you just have to look at any of my dating site reviews. In 9 out of 10 I use the exact same subject line. That’s boring.
I had to try something new.
Thank God I listened to The Naked Truth bonus audio file in which famous dating coach David Wygant shares his best subject lines.
I used the exact subject line he shares at minute 7:13 and it worked.
4. Minute 13:42 of Dr. Paul’s Interview Turned Her On
I have to admit it. Dr. Paul is a strange dude.
Don’t get me wrong. I enjoyed the long interview between David M and Dr. Paul, but I couldn’t get rid of the feeling that he’s a weirdo. And his approach is strange too. But it works.
He links his research on different personality types to online dating.
After listening to this interview, you can look at profiles and see the personality of the girl. Then you can contact her in a way that makes her personality type jump up and down.
4 Major Questions for Future Insider Internet Daters
You have questions. I know that you have them.
You want to know…
Allow me to answer all your questions…
1. Who is David M and is He Legit?
His name is David. But that doesn’t make him unique. It seems like every dating coach in the world (besides me) has this name. David X, David DeAngelo, David Wygant…weird.
But Dave M is still unique.
He’s unique because he is NOT a dating guru.
Yes, his online dating techniques have been featured in Vanity Fair, The Wall Street Journal, ABC, and Playboy. And yes, he has worked with David DeAngelo and other dating expects…but he’s just a regular dude.
He shows you how regular dudes can win on the online dating battlefield.
2. What Does Insider Internet Marketing Cost?
I have to warn you. It’s not the cheapest product.
But it’s also not your typical dating PDF eBook. Okay, the product has more than 20 bonuses and dozens of PDFs, but the product itself is a video and audio course with four modules and a shitload of lessons.
That’s why the Insider Internet Dating system costs $59.95.
Like I said, it’s not the cheapest product. But if you want to improve your online game, it might be worth the money.
3. Is Purchasing the Product Risky?
You have zero risk because you are backed by a 60-day money-back guarantee.
Even if you purchase the product and you get eye cancer because of the old browsers and outdated dating sites, you can simply get your money back.
You don’t even have to give a reason.
You have nothing to lose.
4. What if I Have a Question about a Template?
You’ll find a lot of email/message templates in the member’s area.
The templates are good, but you might have a question to one. Or you want to know something about a certain video in module 1 or module 2.
Just ask the support team. They’ll answer…even though it took more than four days when I tested it.
Result: Does Insider Internet Dating Pass the Crash Test?
The question is:
Does Insider Internet Dating pass the crash test?
Yes and no.
There are so many pros that I can think of…but there are also quite a few cons. Like I said in the beginning, you have to be open-minded. You have to take everything you learn and apply to dating sites that are relevant in 2017.
If you do that, this product can solve your online dating problems.
Pros of Insider Internet Dating
Cons of Insider Internet Dating
- Some dating sites that are used are outdated
- The headlines inside the modules are confusing
- I don’t agree with his list of favorite dating sites
- Module 3 includes advice on calling but not on texting
- David M doesn’t have the typical dating coach credentials
- You need to play the numbers game because you use templates
- Reveals traits that women love but not how to implement them
- You might need to adjust some templates to certain cultures
- I disagree with David’s tip to wait a few days before you call her
- Some of the advice on succeeding on the first date is too superficial
Step-by-Step Walkthrough of The Insider Internet Dating (+ Most Important Sections)
This is the biggest step-by-step walkthrough I’ve ever done for a review.
I mean, you get so much content when you purchase this product. It’s unbelievable and it can be a bit overwhelming.
That’s why I decided to invite you in my member’s area.
But I want to give you all the information you could possibly need to make a decision. You should not only know what you’ll learn in each module. You deserve to know what you learn in each video, audio file, and PDF.
I went all the way.
In the following paragraphs I’m going to share everything you get when you purchase Insider Internet Dating. Yes, EVERYTHING.
Here’s a brief overview:
Insider Internet Dating Module 1 (2 PDFs, 4 audio files, 6 videos)
Insider Internet Dating Module 2 (2 PDF eBooks, 5 message templates, 12 videos, 3 audio files)
Insider Internet Dating Module 3 (5 audio files and one PDF script)
Insider Internet Dating Module 4 (16 audio files)
And here are the nitty-gritty details…
Insider Internet Dating Module 1 (Your Magnetic Profile)
Let’s start with module 1.
In this module Dave shows you how to turn an ordinary online dating profile into your biggest seduction asset…
Awesome Profiles PDF
This is the first PDF you can download in module 1.
It contains two example profiles that you can copy and paste. I think I’ll use one of them for my future online dating reviews.
The Magnetic Profile PDF
This a 6-page eBook in which he shares three ways to talk about yourself in your dating profile.
I can’t reveal the content of the eBook, but I can give you a hint. The last way is what leadership expert Simon Sinek loves to talk about.
Oh, and the small book is full of copy and paste examples that you can use in your profile.
Audio 1 – An Introduction
This audio file gives you an understanding of how and why he created the course.
It’s interesting to hear his life story. Listen to it and get inspired.
Audio 2 – The Power of Competent Confidence
In this audio file, you’ll discover the principles behind the Insider Internet Dating system. You should listen to it before you get started with audio 3.
Audio 3 – The Real Reason
In this audio file, he shares the real reason why women are looking for men on online dating sites and how you can use it to your advantage.
What he says in this audio is even more important today than at the time when the product was created.
Audio 4 – How to Be the Man Women Want
This over 20-minute audio presents different mindsets and techniques to become a more attractive man and to ultimately have more success with the ladies (and no, it’s not just about the looks).
Minute 5:20 and minute 7:30 are the real deal.
Video 5 – His Favorite Online Dating Sites
Word of warning:
This video is completely outdated because half of the dating sites he mentions don’t even exist anymore.
Here are the best online dating sites for 2017:
Video 6 – What You Can Learn from Adult Escort Sites
This is one of my favorite videos.
Never in a million years would I have thought that you can improve your online dating skills by looking at naked prostitutes. Apparently, you can.
Video 7 – The Photo Rating System
This video is so good.
I mean, the idea is so simple. You just have to look at one website and you immediately know whether or not your profile picture is good.
Do you have any idea which website this could be?
Ask me in the comments below and I’ll reveal it.
Video 8 – Set Up Your Magnetic Profile
This video is a step-by-step tutorial that shows you how to create an online dating profile that rocks.
Dave shows his own profile and copies his description into a word document before he breaks down everything in details.
This video contains excellent advice that you can put immediately into practice.
Video 9 – Make Women Message You First
This video contains additional tips on how to make a woman message you first.
Yeah, that’s about it.
Video 10 – Ninja Tips for His Favorite Sites
And here’s another video that’s a bit outdated.
Some of the dating sites that he talks about don’t exist anymore. Others are not that amazing. But that doesn’t mean that his ninja tricks don’t work. They work…even though there’s nothing “ninja” about them.
You can use the advice on any of the dating sites I reviewed.
Insider Internet Dating Module 2 (Mailing Women and Getting Numbers)
Module 2 is the core of the Insider Internet Dating system (at least in my opinion).
In this module, Dave shows you how to mail, message, and chat with girls and how to get their numbers. He does this by sharing his own messages, the replies from women, and templates.
Here’s what you’ll get…
The Paper Napkin Pickup Report
The Paper Napkin Pickup Report has a weird name, but solid advice.
In this 18-page PDF, David M breaks down an entire conversation with a woman. He shares every single word from the initial contact to the first meeting (including a phone conversation script).
Emailing Women Video
This 53-minute video shows the inbox of one of his students. David goes through every message and tells his student what he’s doing wrong and how he can improve it.
The advice is spot-on and the juicy stuff starts at minute 17:36.
Copy and Paste Conversation Starters
This is a short PDF full of conversation starters.
It doesn’t contain one word of fluff, but dozens of examples that you can copy and paste directly into your messages.
The POF Video
This video is pretty much useless.
Sorry, but that’s the truth. I mean, back in 2005 Plenty of Fish was the Holy Grail of online dating. Today it’s just another dating site. I might review it in the future…not sure yet.
To make it short:
This video won’t help you, unless you use Plenty of Fish.
The Low Hanging Fruit Video
This video reveals two simple steps for getting fast results by looking for low hanging fruits.
The advice is solid. I use the same technique on international dating sites because low hanging fruits always reply.
Wink Magic Video
This video is designed for match.com, but it works also on all international dating sites I reviewed in the past.
You just have to replace the word winks with interests.
First Contact Email Template Video
In this 15:40-minute video, David M shares the template he uses for his first messages. He shows you why it works and when to use it.
There’s also another video with an alternative version that contains a new template. And you can download another email template in a PDF file.
P.S. The image above is small but you can watch every video on full screen.
The No Reply Email Template Video
This one is funny.
In this video, Dave shares an email template that you can use when a woman doesn’t reply. It works so well because it addresses the fears that women who date online have. And again, there is an alternative version and a template to download.
The Number Close Email Template
Here’s another video with a template that you can use. This time the goal is to get her number.
And yes, this video has also an alternative version.
The No Number Email Template
The more time I spent testing the product, the more I got the feeling that Dave wants to prepare us for every possible outcome.
So, what if you don’t get her number?
Use this template to get her invested without chasing after her.
The Subject Line Video
This video contains subject lines that are supposed to be creative. But I have to be honest.
They are not.
This was the only video that really disappointed me. Rather listen to David Wygant’s advice in his bonus interview The Naked Truth. He gives better advice on subject lines.
At least you can download a cheat sheet with additional subject lines. They are not that bad.
The Audio File from the Stone Age
Sorry, but this audio file was helpful in 2005 but it’s not helpful in 2017.
In this audio, Dave talks about the best time of the week to send emails. Remember, the program was designed at a time when nobody had smartphones with internet access and dating site apps.
Chuckle and continue with the last audio file of module 2…
The Artist Trick Audio
As you could already see, I don’t agree with everything Dave says. But I agree with the advice from this audio.
Yes, it’s a bit cheeky and slightly unethical, but it works. In fact, it works so well that I use the principle in most of my online interactions.
Insider Internet Dating Module 3 (Setting Up the First Meeting)
Module 3 is about calling women and before you close this Insider internet Dating review and throw your laptop out of the window, I want you to listen:
The advice is still relevant.
Yes, high-end smartphones with free texting apps didn’t exist back then and WhatsApp was founded four years later. But just because everyone texts girls, doesn’t mean that calling is dead.
In fact, it’s the easiest way to set yourself apart from the other guys. So listen carefully to what David has to say about setting up dates via phone.
P.S. If you are looking for excellent advice on texting women, you have to check out my Text That Girl review.
Audio 1 – The Only Purpose
This audio gives you the why and it’s more relevant than ever before.
Just think about it…
The product was created in 2005. Back then everyone called a girl after getting her number. It was the only option. What about today? Nobody does it anymore. The average girl gets hundreds of texts every day and zero calls.
Listen to this audio, call her, and stand out from the crowd.
Audio 2 – The Best Time to Call
I can tell you from my experience as a dating coach that David is right about the best times to call a girl.
That’s all I have to say about this audio.
Audio 3 – What to Do After You Got the Number
This section contains an audio file and a PDF with a phone call script.
I tested the script and it worked…even though it turned out that she was a bit crazy.
Audio 4 – The Best Day for Dates
I agree with the mindset that he shares in this audio. It’s especially important for inexperienced guys. But I don’t agree with his best day for dates. I do the opposite.
You can decide for yourself which approach is better.
Audio 5 - The Perfect first Date
I disagree with audio 4, but I agree with audio 5.
This audio contains good advice on how to avoid gold diggers and how to get better results while investing less.
Insider Internet Dating Module 4 (Setting Up the First Meeting)
Are you ready for the last module?
Then find out what you have to turn a girl you met online into your girlfriend…
Audio 1 – Tips & Tricks of the First Date
This audio contains general tips for your first date.
The advice is solid, but for someone who has read most of my articles, it contains nothing new.
Audio 2 – Direct vs. Indirect
This audio file introduces you to an important aspect of female psychology. I agree with him on this.
He also gives different examples of female actions and what they mean.
Audio 3 – The Truth behind Dating Multiple Women
This is pure gold for newbies.
David shares why you need to date more than one woman, but it has NOTHING to do with sex. It has everything to do with the biggest mistake that an inexperienced guy can make.
If you’re an inexperienced guy, listen to it very carefully...especially at minute 1:30.
Audio 4 – Turn the Tables
Are you ready to turn the tables?
This audio is for you if you want to make women pursue YOU. Listen carefully to what he says at minute 0:55 about qualification.
Audio 5 – The Best Conversation Topics
To be honest, I don’t like the first topic he introduces. I think it does more harm than good.
But I agree with the idea behind it.
And I also agree with the story he tells girls, even though I tell it a bit different.
Audio 6 – The 2 Magic Phrases
I don’t know if the first magic phrase works, but the second magic phrase definitely works.
In fact, it works so well because it’s cocky, confident, and unexpected. He reveals the phrases at minute 1:50.
Audio 7 – How to Tell if She’s Attracted
This really is an under the radar stealth technique.
I usually hate it when dating coaches call their techniques stealth, under the radar, or any other fancy name, but this time it’s true.
Audio 8 – What to Do When There are No Signs
What if she doesn’t show any signs of interest?
You can either run out crying and sobbing, or you can use the test that David reveals in this audio. It’s a test that can be done without saying a single word.
Audio 9 – A Shift in Thinking
In this audio, David M compares dating to something that we all do every day. But we hate to admit it…and many of us to it pretty poorly.
This section will either make you furious or open your eyes.
Audio 10 – The Multi Date
I wrote about this in so many articles.
As one of my loyal readers, you know about the multi date. In case you don’t, you should listen closely at minute 1:23 when he reveals an effective technique that has to do with one of her body parts.
Audio 11 – The Art of Misdirection
In this audio, James reveals a concept that’s often used in Hollywood movies. Girls love it.
He uses a movie with John Travolta and Halle Berry as an example. It’s the same principle that magicians use and you can use it too after listening to this 4:11-minute audio.
Audio 12 - 16 – All About Getting Physical
Audio 12 is all about getting physical without scaring the shit out of her and audio 13 is…
Okay, I already revealed enough. By now you should know if Insider Internet Dating is the right product for you.
I just want you to know that you’ll also get audio 13, 14, 15, and 16.
Oh, shit. I totally forgot about the 20 free bonuses…
20 Bonuses You Get When You Buy Insider Internet Dating
If you purchase this product, you’ll get 20 bonus products. In fact, you’ll get even more because you also get additional weekly bonuses for 8 weeks.
But don’t worry. I won’t torture you with 20 bonuses.
This Insider Internet Dating review has already more than 5.000 words.
I’m going to share 7 of the most popular bonuses with you…and what you can learn from them. Most of them have been added this year. Dave didn’t lie when he told me that he updates the member’s area regularly.
1. The S.W.A.T Guide by Dean Cortez
This 83-page eBook contains dozens of attraction tips and tactics. It’s from Dean Cortez, the same guy who created the Female Mind Control System.
The only downside is that the eBook contains a lot of advertising for one of his other programs. Just ignore the ads and focus on the advice.
2. Meeting Women by Remote Control Audio
This is a 62-minute audio packed with practical advice on how to meet women online.
I just don’t know the guy he’s interviewing. But it doesn’t matter. The only thing that matters is that the first half of the interview is pretty boring but that it gets really good at the 25-minute mark.
3. Instant Messaging Magic by Scott McKay
This audio bonus teaches you how to use instant messaging to connect with women and to turn them on.
It’s a 14:23-minute audio but the good stuff starts at minute 7:40.
4. Excerpt from The Natural Art of Pickup
Do you know Stephen Nash?
Nope, not the basketball player. That’s Steve Nash. Steven Nash aka Playboy, was one of the PUA dudes in the bestselling book The Game.
Apparently, his book is also not that bad, at least the 22 pages you get as a free bonus.
5. Physique as a Weapon
This is a 32-page eBook by Brad Howard, one of the industry leading style experts.
In this eBook he shares tips on how to manipulate your looks to look more attractive. The advice is okay, but the book contains nothing new.
6. 32 Minutes of The Naked Truth with David Wygant
This interview is simply amazing.
David Wygant, one of the most famous dating coaches of all time, shares the naked truth of how you have to change your mindset to meet women online.
7. 46 Minutes of Social Magnetism with Dr. Paul
I told you that he’s kind of weird, right?
Yep, he is. But his teachings are pretty much in alignment with scientific studies about personality profiles in online dating.
The good stuff starts at minute 12. I enjoyed every minute.
Last Question: What about the Weekly Bonuses?
Yep, it doesn’t end there.
David M bombards you with more bonuses than Oprah Winfrey on her show.
But this Insider Internet Dating review is already longer than I expected. That’s why I won’t reveal every weekly bonus. And I don’t want to get into trouble with Dave.
I hope he don’t mind that I reveal the first weekly bonus…
Week 1 Bonus – A Live Critique of an Email Interaction
In this bonus video, Dave shows a client’s online interaction. He analyzes what he’s doing right and what he’s doing wrong.
This video contains a bunch of practical advice. But that’s only the beginning. There are 8 weekly bonuses in total and if you decide to take your online game to the next level, you get all of them…
…plus all the videos, audios, and PDFs from the four core modules and the other 20 bonuses.