Have you ever wondered how to test a woman’s character?
Imagine the following situation…
You walk down the street and you see a young woman. She’s stunning. You have to approach her. And because you’ve read my book Rise of the Phoenix, you know exactly what to say. She smiles when you give her a compliment. She’s totally into you.
Within minutes you sweep her off her feet.
You really like her. That’s why you ask her out. No, you don’t want to waste another day. You want to get to know her now. And that’s why you take her on an instant date. She follows you across the street to a small restaurant. She smiles all the time. You feel like the king of the world.
Then it happens:
You don’t even realize what’s going on. All you can think of is you and this girl. God, you want to make her your girlfriend. After you ate your meal, the waitress shows up with the bill. You look at it and pay for your meal and drink. Then you look at her.
“I didn’t bring my wallet” she says.
Well, you should have tested her character…
10 Tests to Test a Woman’s Character
This is one of the most underestimated skills.
Yes, a lot of my readers and podcast listeners want to get laid. But sooner or later, most of them want more. They want a relationship with a loyal, and supportive woman. And that’s great. More power to you!
But let me ask you a question:
Would you want to date ANY random girl?
Okay, a lot of inexperienced guys would say “yeah, sure.” But that’s not why you’re here. You’re a Global Seducer. As the seductive man you are, you have standards. You want a girlfriend who’s girlfriend material and not…
How do you find out if she’s your dream girl or a nightmare?
You have to learn how to test a woman’s character…
1. The “I’m Broke” Test
I have this friend.
He’s a successful business owner and his girlfriend is the stereotypical gold digger. She has bleach blonde hair, and she loves Prada and Gucci. The only thing she doesn’t love is my friend. In all honesty, she doesn’t give a beep about him.
Here’s what he recently asked me:
“She spends so much of my money. How do I find out if she really loves me?”
“Tell her that you’re broke and see how she reacts.”
It can’t get any easier. You just have to tell her that you lost all your money. Take money out of the equation and the only thing that’s left is you. Then you know if she likes you or if she loves all the stuff your money can buy for her.
This is the most effective gold digger test.
A girl who loves you will think about a plan to help you to get back on your feet. She’ll comfort you, hug you and tell you that everything will be alright. A woman who doesn’t give a flying beep about you will say “bye bye” and leave you the moment you (supposedly) ran out of money.
That’s the moment when you should tell her the truth with a smile on your face.
2. The “I Have to Work Today” Test
Some girls are possessive.
I mean, I get it. If you really like someone, you want to spend a lot of time with this person. Your girlfriend is a human being. She has physical and emotional needs. She wants to be a part of your life…every single day.
That’s great, but you’re a man, a real man.
That’s what a man with a vision does. Remember what I always say. Don’t ever change your path for a woman. Follow your path. She has to respect that. She can either come along or get out of the car. You have to go somewhere.
The good news: Most women understand this and respect a man with a vision.
The bad news: Women are great at wasting a man’s time.
And no, I’m not embittered. I’m just realistic. I love women, but I’m also aware of their nature. If you give up your dreams for a woman, she’ll kiss, cuddle, and watch movies with you until you’re broke. Then she’ll leave you because of it.
That’s how women are and that’s why learning how to test a woman’s character is so essential.
“Honey, I have to work today. We can meet tomorrow.”
Does she create drama? She’s free to go.
Does she respect it? She’s a keeper.
3. The “We Pay Separately” Test
Remember the story from the beginning?
I hope you do. Otherwise you have to eat less MSG…that poison makes you forget everything. But hey, you’re smart. That’s why you remember the instant date story I shared with you. Yep, I’m talking about the woman who ordered the most expensive dish on the menu.
I’ve been in the exact same situation.
A girl I dated in England did this to me. She ordered the most expensive meal. Then she said “oh my God, I didn’t bring my wallet.” What a freaking coincidence, right? Back then I paid and I still regret it whenever I think about it.
Here’s what I say nowadays:
I use one of these lines. Every girl I’ve been on a date with said “yeah, sure.” Some women said it with a smile on their face. Others said it with a disappointed face. I never heard from those ladies again and I’m really thankful for that.
I want a girl who wants me and not the food I pay for her.
4. The “I’ll Meet a Female Friend” Test
Who wants to have an overly attached girlfriend?
I don’t. I mean, yeah. I want a girlfriend who’s attached. She should be loving and caring. But she shouldn’t be paranoid. I don’t want to argue whenever I meet a friend, especially when this friend has a pretty face. If you see it the same way, you should test her.
Tell her that you want to meet a female friend.
That’s an easy way to test a woman’s character. She might be a bit jealous. That’s totally fine. However, there’s a difference between being a bit jealous and screaming at you like a maniac on an overdose. There’s a fine line and she shouldn’t cross it.
Here’s my rule:
My girlfriend must allow me to meet my female friends.
What if she doesn’t?
Then I don’t want her as a girlfriend because I don’t allow anyone to tell me who to meet and who not to meet.
5. The “I Plan to Start a Business” Test
I love this test.
Being supportive is the number one quality she must have. And yes, this goes beyond washing my clothes and cooking a delicious dinner. In my opinion, supportiveness is about trusting you and following you on your path.
It sounds a bit idealistic but that’s how I see it.
That’s why I want to make sure that the girl I’m with is on my side. Unless she’s a part of team Sebastian, I don’t want to date her. One of the best ways to test a woman’s character is to tell her that you want to start a business.
This is the ultimate support test.
“God, this is a terrible idea. You can’t do that. That’s too risky. You will fail.”
I wouldn’t want to date a girl who says that to me.
Instead, I choose to spend my time with women who inspire me and encourage me on my path.
6. The “I Think about Moving Abroad” Test
“These hoe’s ain’t loyal…”
Well, you can make the test. Not every girl is loyal, but you’re also not a man who would date any random girl. You know that you deserve a woman who’s supportive AND loyal. Yes, you really deserve such a woman.
How do you find out if she’s loyal?
You could ask her if she cheats. She might say no…or avoid the question. You could also ask her what she would do if you wanted to move to another city. That’s a great idea. But I’m a man who loves extreme challenges.
How about this:
“What would you say if I wanted to move to another country? Would you come with me?”
You can expect one of three answers:
The second and the third answer are perfect. The first is, well, not so perfect. And yes, I admit it. This test is really extreme. But extreme situations require extreme measures. If she really wants to move abroad with you, she’s loyal.
Now you know that she’s not one of those hoes.
7. The “I’m a Minimalist” Test
I really am a minimalist.
I don’t care about brands and if you want to make me cry, you can invite me on a shopping trip. I only go to malls to pick up girls. I’m not interested in shopping. Heck, my mom offered me to buy shoes for me because she can’t comprehend how I could survive with only one pair.
Here’s my opinion:
It’s stupid to buy things you don’t need to impress people you don’t know.
Maybe I’m weird. That’s why I want a girlfriend who’s as weird as me. I recently dated a model who is totally into Gucci and Prada. It was nice to spend time with her and inside of her (God, this woman had a body to die for).
Despite her perfect body I don’t want a relationship with her.
She’d never pass my “I’m a minimalist” test. That’s why I’m now dating a woman who doesn’t care about brands and other unnecessary luxury items. I can make her smile with a dinner on her birthday. That model chick would have expected a Prada handbag.
I made my choice. You have to make yours, too.
8. The “I Don’t Like Women Who…” Test
That’s how you find out if a woman really likes you.
Here’s what you do:
Talk about certain qualities that you like in a woman. You can do the same with the qualities you dislike. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just mention one or two qualities and observe how she reacts. This will reveal whether or not she’s the kind of girl you want to date.
Here are some qualities I mention on dates:
I’m just sharing my truth. Now she has the chance to either reject my values or to agree with them. The choice is hers. Either way, I win. I either find a girl who’s compatible with me or I no longer waste my time with a woman who’s not compatible.
But be careful: Some girls play a game and say what you want to hear.
Remember that actions speak louder than words.
9. The “I Want X” Test
Are you really compatible?
The “I don’t like women who…” test is a great start. But like I said, some women play a game. They say what you want to hear and one month later…everything changes. Suddenly, she sees a Gucci bag and looks at it as if it was a 6 inch dick.
That’s why it’s so important to say what you want.
Heck, I say these things on the first date because I hate wasting time. I don’t want to waste my time with a girl who wants to settle down and get married. I’ve made this mistake and it resulted in a huge drama. Never again!
Tell her what you want and give her the chance to decide if she wants the same.
Summed Up Wisdom
Why would anyone want to know how to test a woman’s character? Well, maybe because you don’t want to end up dating a heartless gold digger who’s less loyal than a stripper from Atlanta. If that seems like a good idea, you should tell her that you won’t pay for her restaurant bill.
You can take it to the next level by saying that you’re broke. That can be a fun test that leads to surprising results. What if you want to find out if she’s loyal and supportive? Let her know that you want to start a business. And find out how she’d react if you wanted to move to another country.
Do you want to have a possessive girlfriend? No? Then test her and find out how she reacts when you want to meet a friend. And you for sure don’t want a drama queen. You need a woman who allows you to follow your path. Sorry, but you have to work on Sunday. Don’t cry, baby.