Don’t you also want to know how to tell if a girl wants to kiss you?
I’m sure you do because we both know the following situation too well:
You meet this girl. She’s really into you. You ask her out and she says “yes”. You feel like the luckiest guy on earth. You start to prepare your first date and you can’t believe she actually shows up. You spend hours talking and laughing. It’s perfect. You just have to kiss her.
But you don’t do it.
You don’t do it because:
Does this sound familiar to you?
It does to me. I went on so many dates without getting what I wanted. All I wanted was to touch, taste, and feel the soft lips of a woman. But I couldn’t see the signs. And without the clues I needed, I didn’t give her what she wanted.
Yes, most women want a kiss on the first date.
Read this article and you’ll know how to give them what they want:
Are you ready to become a man who gets the kiss every single time?
Then continue reading…
16 Physical Signs She Wants to Kiss You
I didn’t know how to tell if a girl wants to kiss you…
I couldn’t even close the deal once she was in my bedroom.
And yes, I know how pathetic this is. I mean, I was pretty good at kissing girls when they were clearly not ready. I was an expert at making them feel awkward and at getting this “okay…” look that every man is terrified of.
Over the years, however, I gained the experience to read the physical signs of a woman. First, I was able to see the green light by looking at a girl’s lips. Hundreds of approaches and dates later, I was able to see all 16 signs.
In just a few minutes you’ll have the same ability…
1. She Does the Lip Twitch
It’s just a matter of time until you kiss her.
She can’t wait. The anticipation is killing her…and making her lips do weird moves.
Have you ever been close to a girl whose lips were shaking?
In case you have no clue what the heck I’m talking about, you can have a look at the following video. It’s the best example I could find.
If she does this while you’re close to her, there’s only one thing you should do. Kiss her and make her lips twitch even faster.
2. She Licks Her Lips
Of course, there are other physical signs she wants to kiss you.
Let’s continue with her lips. I’m sure you’ve seen this clue before. It’s one of the most obvious ones. Yes, I’m talking about the infamous lip licking. And no, it’s not like in the dirty movies you watch.
She won’t do it that obvious…unless she’s a hooker.
But still, whenever a girl licks her lips, even if she just touches her lips with her tongue, she has naughty thoughts. She either thinks about kissing you or giving you a blowjob. Let’s hope she thinks about both.
I hope you’ll make a move.
3. She Stares at Your Lips
We love to look at things we like.
Just think about it. If you see a really beautiful woman, you stop and stare. You can’t help yourself. You have to look after this girl. Her butt cheeks are too delicious. Heck, I almost crashed my car while checking out a girl… and I did it not once but twice.
Women are no different.
They check out guys when they want to talk to them. And they check out your lips when they want to kiss them.
This is an obvious sign that she wants to taste them.
4. She Touches her Lips with Her Fingers
Can you tell if she wants to kiss you by looking at her fingers?
Yes, you can.
Look at her fingers and follow their movement. They might be shaking because she’s nervous, but that’s only the tip of the iceberg. Observe if she uses her fingers to touch her lips. Girls often do this after licking their lips.
Here’s why she does it:
This whole process is comparable to a child that hides candy behind his back because it got caught eating it. Don’t let her get away with it. Do what her lips and her fingers want you to do.
5. She Shows Her Gorilla Nostrils
Have you ever seen a Gorilla in the zoo?
You probably have. But I’m sure you haven’t looked at his nostrils. They widen when he’s excited. Well, forget about the Gorilla. Girls do the same. In fact, every human being does it when we need extra air to cope with our excitement.
There are three reasons why I girl’s nostrils widen:
You’re already talking to her so you can ignore reason number one. And if you didn’t throw coffee in her face or called her a fat pig, you can also forget about reason number two. I guess it must be reason number three.
6. Her Pupils Get Bigger
This is one of the signs she wants to kiss you that’s the hardest to detect.
Here’s the rule:
The wider her pupils are, the higher your chances to get the kiss. Your eyes speak a clear language and your pupils are the megaphone. Pupils dilate for different reasons but one of the most prominent reasons is sexual attraction.
She can’t help it and she can’t control it. It’s a subconscious signal that she isn’t even aware of. And it’s hard to detect. You have to look deep into her eyes to see it.
7. Her Smile Gets Brighter While You Come Closer
You don’t go for the kiss, at least not yet.
But you get closer because you want to see how she reacts. Look at her face. I’m sure her mimic changes while you get closer. Maybe she looks a bit irritated and backs off.
That’s a sign that she is not ready for it.
What if she smiles like a child in a candy store?
That’s the green light you’ve been waiting for. Go for it. You won’t regret it.
8. She Touches You and Lets You Do the Same
Here’s how to know if she wants to kiss you:
Imagine she leans in and touches your arm. You do the same. You touch her arm because you want to know what happens. She smiles and touches your arm too. That’s the clue you’ve been looking for.
Here’s the rule:
Whenever a girl touches you AND shows that she likes it when you do the same, you can go for the kiss. You don’t have to wait any longer. The Game God’s have heard your prayers. Women don’t touch their friends.
They only touch guys they want to taste.
9. She Keeps Standing or Sitting When it’s Time to Go
Imagine the following situation…
You take her hand and lead her outside. She had fun on your first date. The coffee was good and the conversation was even better. You assume that she likes you, but you’re not sure. That’s why you hesitate.
You decide to play it safe.
A hug won’t be too much, but a kiss…you don’t want her to freak out. You decide to go for the hug. She leans in. You still don’t kiss her. You let go off her. She’s keeps standing there. You smile. She smiles and doesn’t move.
She keeps standing because she hopes that you will change your mind.
Now imagine the following situation…
She’s sitting next to you in your car. You had a great time at the cinema, but now it’s time to say goodbye. You drove her back to your place. She smiled the whole way. But you’re not sure if it’s too early for a kiss. You say “I hope you had a great time”. She says “yes”, smiles…and keeps sitting.
She’s waiting for you to kiss her. Do it, for God’s sake!
10. She Squeezes You When You Hug Her
You want to know how to tell if a woman wants to kiss you, right?
Hug her and see what happens.
Whenever a girl pressed her body (especially her boobs) against yours, she wants you to go for the kiss. In fact, she wants so much more. She knows that the sensation of her boobs against your chest makes you lose your mind.
She wants you to loser your mind and to kiss her with passion.
11. She Allows You to Hold Her Hand
When a woman holds your hand, she wants to taste your lips.
That’s a universal rule. I’m serious. I never failed with this rule. Just try it. Take her hand and walk hand in hand with her.
Here’s what to do next:
12. She Positions Her Mouth When You Hug Her
How do you know if the wants to kiss you?
Hug her and you’ll find out. And no, I won’t repeat myself. I already told you that squeezing you is a good signal. But that’s not what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about a more subtle signal. For experienced seducers, it’s easy to detect.
Here’s what happens:
You hug her and while you lean in, she positions her mouth close to your mouth. No matter if your head is above her left or above her right shoulder, she’ll position herself in a way that makes it easy for you to close the deal.
It’s not too uncommon that a kiss is inevitable.
I hugged so many girls who made it harder for me to not kiss her than to do it. Remember that women are complicit in their own seduction. If she wants you, she does everything to help you to get her.
13. She Blushes and Avoids Eye Contact
It’s not an obvious sign but it’s a sign nonetheless.
A woman doesn’t blush when you don’t make her feel anything. Blushing is a widely-known physical sign for excitement and arousal…especially arousal. She likes you and she wants you. It’s your job to take it to the next level.
What about her avoiding eye contact?
Well, it depends…
Look at the way she avoids eye contact with you and you’ll know what she wants you to do.
14. She Talks about Kissing
This is an obvious but an extremely rare sign.
Let me ask you something:
Have you ever talked to a girl who mentioned one of the following words?
Kissing, mouth, lips, tongue…
That’s a good sign, a VERY good sign. It doesn’t happen often, but when it happens, you can go for the kiss within the next couple of minutes. In fact, I’ll break your legs and set your balls on fire if you don’t do it.
Whenever a woman talks about something, she wants it.
I mean, we all know what girlfriends do before Christmas. They talk about this one dress they love so much. They mention it over and over again. Why do they do it? Because they hope you get the clue and buy it.
Will you get the clues when she wants you to kiss her?
15. She Leans in When You Pull Back
There’s a funny way to find out if a girl wants to kiss you.
Here’s what you have to do:
How does she respond?
A woman who doesn’t to kiss you, pulls back when you come that close. A woman who wants to kiss you takes her chance and leans in. Let her lean in, smile, and go for the kiss.
First you test. Then you strike.
16. She Says “Sure”
This is controversial.
I thought about whether or not I should mention this tip, because 99% of all pickup artists and dating coaches disagree with me on that. But you know me. I don’t care. The old pickup school says you should NEVER tell a girl that you want to kiss her.
That’s complete bullshit.
Don’t get me wrong. This technique can be a bit tricky for beginners, but as a man who has read my book Rise of the Phoenix, you know what to do. It’s really simple. All you have to do is to whisper “I want to kiss you so bad” in her ear.
Formulate it as a desire, not as a question.
If she wants to kiss you, she’ll say “sure”, “yeah”, or “okay”. Come on. That’s your green light. What are you waiting for?
Give her a kiss that makes her toenails wiggle.
Summed Up Wisdom
You want to know how to tell if a girl wants to kiss you. And you’re looking for obvious physical signs. Okay, not all the signs are so obvious, but once you know where to look at, you’ll see what other men don’t see.
You have to observe the way she looks, smiles, and acts. Start with her eyes. Observe the way she looks at you and how the size of her pupils changes when you come closer. And don’t forget to look at her lips. She might lick them, touch them, or move them. These are all signs that her lips want to taste yours.
You can also take action and see how she reacts. Hug her and read her body. Does she lean in or back off? Does she squeeze you or does she let go? Heck, you can even tell her what you want to do with her. She’ll let you know.
Sebastian Harris says
Sebastian Harris says
I hope this article helped you
yeah, i never know when to go for a kiss. and its for the same reasons you listed: think its too soon, waiting for the right moment, etc
sebastian, in the next few days, i’m meeting this girl from tinder and we’re going bowling. i don’t know if its a “Date”, but we’ll be meeting each other.
so most girls want a kiss on the FIRST date, huh? i guess i’ll try to gauge how our “date” is going and go for a kiss if it feels right…
Sébastien Maurice says
amazing article, especillay the controvercial tip about whispering in her ear “i want to kiss you so bad”