Here’s how to tell if a girl is obsessed with you…
The last thing you want is a date with a girl whose head explodes. I mean, you don’t want to clean up that mess. No, you have to look out for other signs. And believe me, there are a lot of signals that the average guy doesn’t even notice.
Heck, most guys don’t even know what they have to look for.
Or they confuse them with the clues a girl gives you when she likes you. But it’s not the same. A woman who is obsessed with a guy acts completely different than a woman who just likes a guy. The emotions she feels and the signs she shows are much more intense.
She feels very intense emotions and she expresses them by…
Are you ready to uncover the true power of female obsession?
Discover what she will inevitably ask you, why she’s angry at other girls, and what she wants you to say…
12 Signs a Girl is Obsessed with You
I still remember the first girl who became obsessed with me.
At that time, I didn’t know what I was doing. I was at the beginning of my journey and after reading some posts on a popular pickup forum, I tested the advice on a date. I must have done a good job because the behavior of this shy and innocent girl changed.
It took me a while to figure out how to make girls obsessed with you.
I got better at it. It didn’t take long until I knew which buttons I had to push and why the things I did where so effective. Eventually, I knew how to make women want me, desire me. But I still didn’t know how to tell if a girl is obsessed with you.
That was the big problem:
I was able to get girls into this state but I didn’t know how to detect it. In other words, I used all these amazing techniques and I had no idea if they worked. Goddammit, I didn’t know the signs!
Today I know what to look out for…
1. She Wants to Hang Out Every Day
She wants to see you every day.
A girl who likes you wants to see you once or twice a week. She’s busy, you know. She has her work, her family and her friends. Don’t get me wrong. You’re an important part of her life. But she can’t spend every day with you. It’s just not possible.
Girls who are obsessed with a guy make it possible.
She does it because she wants to hang out with you every day, every hour, and every minute. That’s what a girl does when she can’t get you out of her pretty head.
2. She’s Constantly Texting or Calling You
What happens when you don’t text her back?
Good Lord have mercy…
One of my friends has a girlfriend. She’s nice, loyal and a sweetheart. However, she’s so obsessed with him that he struggles with it from time to time. I mean, he loves her. But being her boyfriend can be exhausting because she wants him to look at his phone 24/7.
Here’s what happened the last time I met him:
We were having lunch and she texted him. He didn’t reply because we were talking. He was engaged in the conversation. So was I. But guess what? His sweetheart girlfriend didn’t like it. She must have thought that Sebastian’s real name is Sarah or Seraphina.
Here’s what she did:
“Why didn’t you text back? Is everything okay? Where are you?”
All this happened within a timeframe of a couple of minutes.
3. She’s Pissed When You Meet Your Friends
Actually, my friend can consider himself lucky.
She didn’t create drama when he told her that he wants to hang out with me. Other girls are pissed whenever their boyfriend wants to meet one of his buddies. They want to be the center of attention. The thought of you spending time with someone else kills them…even if it’s a hairy dude.
This is a clear signs she’s obsessed with you.
Here’s why she gets pissed:
That’s the reality of dating a girl who’s more into you than mice are into cheese.
4. She Moves in With You Without Your Consent
Imagine you meet a girl.
She’s amazing. You click and she’s totally into you. You feel the same way. You can’t get enough of her. You want to be with her every day…and especially every night. The sex is mind-blowing and you want her naked in your bed, every night of the week.
You ask yourself…
You wake up…
Yep, she did it. She moved in without your consent. You didn’t even realize it. Not once did she mention it. You didn’t see it coming. She did it step by step. First she left her panties, then her socks, and then she bought new furniture.
Good luck reclaiming your space.
5. She Asks You if You See other Girls
Let’s talk about the one question men fear the most.
“Are you seeing other girls?”
Damn, she said it. How should you react? Well, you could lie and tell her that she’s the only one for you and that you don’t see Stacy, Lisa, and Laura on a regular basis (you do). Or you could tell her the truth and risk a hurricane of drama and accusations.
What should you do?
Only you can decide that.
All I know is this:
If she asks you this question, you know that she’s obsessed with you. A girl who only likes you and wants to get to know you doesn’t care. She only cares when you’re officially dating. However, a girl who’s addicted to you wants to know it…NOW!
You’ll have to face this question and you have to deal with the consequences of your answer.
6. She Wants another Kiss and another One
I like making out with girls.
It’s embarrassing. I don’t just look like a freaking teenager. Sometimes I act like one. I enjoy kissing, fumbling, and making out. I mean, yeah. Having mind-blowing sex is better than kissing until your tongue hurts. But I won’t complain when all I get is liters of saliva and a jaw cramp.
That’s good because most girls love to make out.
And they love it even more when they’re into a guy. The more she’s into you, the more kisses she wants. If she’s obsessed with you, your lips will eventually fall off…or at least almost. Yep, she’ll want to kiss you a lot of times.
What if she doesn’t want to kiss you at all?
Sorry, but she’s just not that into you.
7. She Doesn’t want to Let You Go Home
That’s one of the cutest signs a girl is obsessed with you.
She does everything in her power to keep you around. That’s the moment when girls turn into Koalas. She can’t live without you…or at least she doesn’t want to live without you. No matter what you do, she comes up with a reason to stay or to make you stay.
Here are some examples:
Some girls don’t say anything.
They literally turn into Koalas. They hug you and don’t let go until you sit down on the couch. What if you look in the direction of the door? No chance! She’ll jump on you like a hungry lion.
If she’s really into you, she’ll take off all her clothes during the jump.
8. She Freaks Out When You Talk to another Girl
“What gives you the right to talk to this girl?!”
A girl who’s obsessed with you doesn’t care that…
Remember: She wants you for herself. The last thing she wants is to share her precious butter cup cake (FYI: that’s you) with any other living and breathing female. Heck, you should stop talking to your dog Sheila. She’s a woman, too.
That might sound extreme but I experienced it.
I once had a date with a girl who went ballistic because I talked to the waitress. All I said was “could I get the ham and cheese sandwich with a fried egg?” with a smile on my face. God, I shouldn’t have smiled at her. That was too much for the innocent girl with the beautiful C-cups.
Her behavior was too much for me.
Not even her monstrous boobies could rescue the situation.
9. She Wants You to Be Sick
Have you ever watched Two and a Half Men?
No, I don’t mean the remake with Ashton Kutcher after Charlie Sheen went completely crazy. That’s not worth mentioning. The real Two and a Half Men is with Charlie Sheen…and Rose. In case you have no idea what I’m talking about...
Rose is obsessed with Charlie.
She’s so obsessed that she gives him drugs that turn him into a walking zombie. At some point, he can’t even walk anymore. She wants him to be sick because then she can take care of him.
I once dated a girl like that.
Yep, some girls are a bit crazy.
Do you want to know how to tell if a girl is obsessed with you?
If she tries to turn you into a zombie, she is.
10. She Wants You to Call Her Your Girlfriend
“I want you to be my girlfriend.”
These are the sweetest words you can say to an obsessed female. That’s music in her ears. She wants to hear these words since you approached her. She didn’t tell you but she fantasized about it on your second date…and on the first.
In her mind, you’re already her boyfriend.
What if you don’t want to call her “girlfriend”?
Ohh…don’t believe that a crying woman is the worst possible outcome. It’s not. Read the second line again. I wrote she wants to change that. And I mean it. Some girls do everything in their power to turn a maybe relationship into a serious relationship.
Be careful. She might forget her pill, just so that you call her your girlfriend…and eventually your wife.
11. She Cuddles Your Breath Away
I recently met this girl.
She’s incredible. She’s one of those girls who are so cute that you can’t stop cuddling them. No matter how many times you see them, you always want to give them a big fat hug. I have to be honest. I feel amazing when she snuggles up to me.
Then everything changed.
She started to show the typical signs she’s obsessed with you. First, the cuddling was affectionate and loving. Slowly but steadily, the cuddling became more, well, aggressive is the wrong word. Let’s call it captivating.
Come on. You know what I mean.
It got out of hand. It didn’t take long until I felt as if I was in a cuddle prison. She used her affection as a weapon to make me obedient. Once it didn’t work anymore, she used her naked body. She wanted to sleep with me all the freaking time.
I have to admit it. It worked.
12. She Upgrades Your Condoms with Her Nails
It can be hard to choose the right words.
Maybe I shouldn’t call it upgrading…even though that’s exactly what she thinks it is. Of course, not every woman does it. But I can’t deny that there are women who use every means possible to get what the man they are obsessed with.
Here are some of the most terrifying examples:
Hey, don’t complain. I told you that being obsessed with you is a much stronger emotion than liking a you or being attracted to a you. Yep, some women are totally insane. They do everything to get you…and yes, I mean everything.
You better hide your condoms in a safe place.
And you better read my book Rise of the Phoenix to attract girl who are not that insane.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know how to tell if a girl is obsessed with you? Well, let me ask you a simple question. Does she want to hang out with you every day? And don’t forget the texts and the missed calls. Your phone is vibrating every hour.
She might even be one of the sneaky ladies who move in with you and you don’t even realize it until it’s too late. I can only hope that she’s not one of these crazy Rose types of girls who want to make you sick to take care of you.
She definitely wants you to call her your girlfriend. But she doesn’t want you to talk about other girls and to see other girls. She wants to be your one and only and if she isn’t, she freaks out. But that’s still better than having holes in your condoms and finding it out when it’s already too late.
So I made the massive mistake of dating a classmate in college. I didn’t really know how attached she would be because she carried herself in a casual kind of way. Long story short, we broke up (quite badly). We’re both Art majors and almost of her paintings afterwards were about our old relationship. Seriously. She also has a website where she sells her work and there’s a whole section dedicated to me.