How to Tell If a Girl is Horny (12 Signs)

Here’s how to tell if a girl is horny:

Does that sound like the scene of a terrible adult movie?

You’re damn right. I wish it was that easy. But it’s not. Women don’t just simply undress in front of you to show how aroused they are. Okay, she might do it when you’re her boyfriend. But let me guess. You’re here for another reason.

You want to know if she’s horny BEFORE she becomes your girlfriend.

First, you have to know if it’s the right time to escalate. I mean, you don’t want her to jump off the couch because she’s not ready for second base. Be careful. She might be in shock and fall out the window. Good luck explaining the situation to the police.

You want to know if she wants the D or if she’s not ready for the friend in your pants.

Here are the obvious signs…

How to Tell if a Woman is Horny: The Obvious Signs 

Is it really that obvious? 

Well, yeah. It is, but only if you know what to look out for. Unfortunately, most men don’t have the slightest clue. For them, every seduction is a guessing game. They guess she’s not horny and that’s why they don’t take action.

Don’t they see that she’s begging for the kiss?

I want to cry when I think back to all the situations where I didn’t touch, kiss, or undress a girl because I wasn’t sure. Now that I think about it…this one Polish girl asked me where I live and I showed her a picture in Google Maps.

Here’s what I should have done instead:

I want you to make the right choice once you are in this situation…

1. She Does Everything to Invade Your Private Space

Private space doesn’t exist for horny girls.

I’m sure you won’t complain about that. I mean, there’s nothing better than a hot girl who invades your private space. And believe me, it will happen. You can tell how horny she is by the inches that are left between you and her.

Girls are very creative when it comes to operation Private Space Invasion:

“Why the hell would she tickle me?” I hear you asking.

Think about it. Tickling is just another way of touching. But that’s not all. Women know exactly what you will do when you get tickled. You also tickle her. And then you hug her. Eventually, you kiss her and the kissing leads to a make out session.  

That’s exactly what she wants you to do.

2. She Invites Herself to Your Place

But she doesn’t do it the way you want.

Let’s be honest. You want her to walk up to you, look at you in a seductive way and say “come on, baby. Let’s go to your place.” Good luck waiting for this moment because it will never come. Remember, she doesn’t want to be the slut.

Yeah, some girls suggest it, but most don’t.

She invites herself with subtle clues and sneaky hints:

Don’t laugh. I had multiple girls ask me about my furniture. Of course, none of them gave a damn about my ugly picture on the wall. They wanted me to get the hint and say “You have to see my cupboard. Let’s go.”

That’s how women invite themselves to your place.

3. She Motivates You to Kiss Her  

Here’s another way to tell if a girl is horny:

She wants to kiss you.

Well, great. That’s good to know but how do you know that she wants to taste your dry lips? There are a lot of signs for that. If you want a comprehensive guide on signs she wants to kiss you, you have to check out this article.

What if you’re too lazy to read another article?

I got you covered:

Yep, when she moves her head in a way that almost makes it impossible for you to not kiss her, she’s ready for a sloppy exchange of saliva. And guess what? She wouldn’t want to exchange saliva with you, if she wasn’t horny.

4. She Dresses Up for You to Undress Her  

I call this move dressed up to undress.

And yes, it’s about more than just looking hot. Some girls look hot in elegant dresses. But that’s not what dressing up to undress means. It’s more provocative. An elegant evening dress is too conservative, even if it reveals her legs.

Here are some examples of dressed up to undress:

What are the perfect colors?

Think about a white shirt and a black bra. You can definitely see the bra. Or imagine a sexy girl with a light grey jeans and a dark red thong. Don’t tell me you can’t see her thong. That’s what she wants because she doesn’t want to be the only one who’s horny.  

5. Her Voice Has this Sexual Undertone  

Oh God, that’s so hard to describe.

I spent hours looking for the perfect examples. And I’m a bit embarrassed that the best example I found is from a TV show I never watched. I had no idea who the hell Buffy was before I found the following video clip.

It’s a perfect example of a horny woman talking.

Okay, in this scene Buffy just had sex with this dude. No wonder she’s charged like a battery. But it’s still a perfect example. If her voice has this sexual undertone, her panties aren’t dry anymore. She wants you to move things further.

6. She Talks about How Long it Has Been Since…

What if she doesn’t talk like Buffy?

There’s still a way to tell when she’s horny. But this time, don’t focus on how she speaks. Focus on the words she says. Stop looking at her breasts! Try to listen to every word she says. She might reveal something she hasn’t done in a while.

Most girls don’t say the last sentence, but some do. Seriously, I met girls who told me on the first date that they haven’t had sex in years. And believe me. She didn’t choose these words by accident. In this moment she revealed that she wanted to change that.

Don’t just nod your head and say “oh, that’s cool.”

It’s not cool because it’s your job to make the thing she hasn't done in a while happen. No matter if she talks about kissing, hugging, or fucking…it’s a cry for help. Unfortunately, a lot of guys ignore her screams.

Fulfill your duty and help this poor girl.

7. She Looks at You with Her Puppy Eyes  

What are puppy eyes? 

Watch the following video and you’ll know how to tell when a girl is horny:

Yeah, it’s true. Asian women are the champions when it comes to puppy eyes. But that doesn’t mean that white girls or black girls don’t do it. They also do it, especially when they’re aroused. And even thought the girl in the video does it on purpose to get something, it’s not always on purpose.

Women do it subconsciously to communicate that…

Be honest:

What do you want to do when a girl gives you the puppy eyes?

Your heart melts and your dick grows. You want to hug her, give her a kiss and undress her while she softly moans. She’s not stupid. She knows the effect her puppy eyes have on you. That’s why she uses them to get laid.

8. The Conversation Gets More NSFW  

What do you talk about with a girl?

Well, you can talk about all kinds of things. I recently released a podcast in which I discuss all the topics you can talk about. Her passions are always good. What if she loves her family? Talk about family values and her family members.

But what if she’s too horny to talk about these things?

You’ll find out.

It’s pretty obvious when SHE is the one who steers the conversation in a different direction. Suddenly, she shares crazy stories. She talks about sex. And she mentions that every guy loves to watch porn and that she has watched it, too.

Does it make any sense that she talks about porn?

Nope, but who cares? She does it because she’s aroused and she wants to make you feel the same.

9. She Turns into Clumsy Giggly Girl  

I love the Clumsy Giggly Girl move.

She can’t hide the fact that she’s turned on. Whenever a woman turns into Clumsy Giggly Girl, it’s one of those signs a girl is horny. She doesn’t do it on purpose. It just happens. Her excitement and nervousness turn her into another person.

Here’s what this person does:

In other words, she turns into a cute girl who acts silly around daddy. I don’t want to sound too inappropriate but she wants you to be her daddy…in a sexual way. Yep, women love to call their man daddy, especially when they’re in Clumsy Giggly Girl mode.

10. She Pretends to Not Hear You  

Quick story…

I was on a date with a beautiful Korean girl. We were at a rooftop bar. It was really romantic (as if I care). We were talking while listening to a band that was playing in the background. The music was not very loud. I could understand every word she said.

She, however, seemed to be deaf.

Whenever I said something, she leaned in. The music was not loud. It was clear to me that she understood every word I said. I knew exactly what kind of game she was playing. That’s why I played along with it.

Pretending to be deaf allowed her to come closer.

After a while she was so close that I could already feel her lips. That’s when I kissed her.

11. She Gives You a Sneak Preview  

This is one of those sings a woman is horny a lot of guys don’t see.

Here’s what happens:

Women do this all the time and most men don’t even realize it. They lift their skirt and pull their top down…but just a little bit. Some girls do it unconsciously. They just can’t hide (or don’t want to hide) the fact that they are horny as hell.

You’re a potential sexual partner and she wants you to see her in the same light.

That’s why she gives you a sneak preview.

12. She Snuggles Up to You

Imagine the following situation…

Your first date was great. You had a lot of fun talking about her biggest passion, her family, and your hamster that tragically exploded last week. You suggested one last drink at your place and she agreed. She agreed because she wants something to happen.

Now you’re at your place.

She sits on your bed while you get your laptop. You convinced her to watch a movie. Okay, you didn’t have to convince her. She said “yeah, sure” before you could finish the sentence. You sit next to her and the movie starts.

What does she do?

It’s not always that easy. Some girls need an invitation. A short “come here” is enough. That’s all she wants to hear. Now she can do what she wants to do. She can snuggle up to you and put her hand on your belly. It’s no coincidence that her hand is directly above your dick.

She enjoys the body heat while something below her hand is growing.

Here’s how you make sure that this growing thing ends up inside of her.

Summed Up Wisdom 

Do you want to know how to tell if a girl is horny? Look at your private space. Do you still have it? If she’s really turned on, she has already invaded it. And she’ll invade even more. She’ll also invade your apartment because she invites herself to your place.

She wants you to kiss her and that’s why she dresses up to undress. She chooses something that makes your head spin. You can probably see her thong. While you’re still staring at her butt, she looks at you with her big puppy eyes. She knows the effect this look has on you.

Did you notice how the way she talks with you changes? Suddenly, the conversation has this sexual undertone. And she talks about topics that are not safe for work. Just wait until she turns into Clumsy Giggly Girl who gives you a sneak preview. These are clear signs she’s horny.