How do you make her feel special with words?
You talk to her.
Yep, that’s the first step. You open your pretty mouth and move your disgusting tongue in a way that creates words. Wow, that was freaking poetic. But seriously, that’s all you need to do. You don’t need any fancy pickup techniques to make women feel amazing.
You just need to know what to say.
That’s the big problem. I’m sure you’ve been in this situation. You were talking to a girl for the first time or maybe you were on a date. Then, suddenly, you had a blackout. You wanted to say something but you couldn’t. The words were stuck in your throat.
Have you ever made this painful experience?
Then you have to learn everything about…
You’re about to learn how to make her feel good. Sorry, that’s not the right way to say it. You will learn how to make her feel so special that she wants to go out with you, go on a date with you, and sleep with you before midnight.
I hope you’re ready to make her brain release many sweet endorphins…
How to Make Her Feel Special With Words
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
You don’t want to end up in this position. You want the opposite. Being talkative, knowing what to say, finding the right words…that’s what you want. And believe me. You can have this power. You just need to ask yourself the following question.
What words and expressions make her feel unique?
That’s the whole secret. Remember, you want to know how to make her feel special with words. In other words, you want to make her feel unique. You want to give her the feeling that she’s more important than you than other women.
But you don’t want to do it in a needy way.
She should have the feeling that you chose her among all the women you could choose from…
1. Tell Her Exactly Why You Like Her
How do you give her the feeling that you chose her for a reason?
Tell her what you like about her. Don’t just say “I really like you” or “I enjoy spending time with you.” Something is missing and this little but important something is called BECAUSE. She wants to know the reason why you like her.
Most men are lazy.
Being specific is not their strength. They beat around the bush or believe that expressing your feelings and your admiration are not that important. Well, they are wrong. If you tell her why you like her and if you do it with confidence, she’ll like you even more.
2. Compare Her to Other Girls
This one is tricky.
Don’t tell her that her sister has a better ass and that her best friend has bigger boobs. That’s how you make a girl feel inferior, not special. Your job is to compare her in a way that allows her to hold the winner trophy in her hand.
What if her sister is really has the better ass?
Well, in this case you might want to date her sister. If you don’t want her sister (she has crooked teeth), compare her with someone who’s almost as pretty as she is…but just almost. Make sure that you don’t sound fake. Don’t lie to her for the sake of making her feel good.
The truth will always come out.
And it’s true that she has a more beautiful smile than her sister with the big ass. Tell her that.
3. Find the Right Words in the Right Situation
What’s the right situation?
Every moment that feels right. You want to use the moments that give her the feeling that she doesn’t want to be anywhere else. These are the minutes and seconds you should describe. Okay, you want a specific answer. Let me give you some examples.
Think about the following situations:
These are the moments that remind women of Hollywood movies. As a guy, you probably give zero fucks about these moments. However, women enjoy and remember them. Make sure that she REALLY remembers them.
Here’s what you do:
Imagine you’re in the middle of such a moment. You could say nothing. But you could also tell her how much you enjoy these moments with her. Or you could tell her how you feel about her. Or you could let her know that you love these moments because of her.
The sky is the limit and your words are the weapons.
4. Describe Her with Words that Make Her Feel Special
What words make you feel special?
Let’s face it. You won’t feel special if a woman tells you that you’re too ugly to look at and too stupid to talk to. The words ugly and stupid don’t make you feel special. Believe me. The same is true for her. Calling her an ugly idiot won’t cut it.
Now have a look at the following words:
Precious, beautiful, incredible, empathic, caring, loving, amazing, better, admirable, valuable, passionate, seductive, cute, romantic…
Believe it or not, but any woman on earth prefers being called “romantic cutie” over “ugly idiot”. That’s why you need to use the right words. Use words that make her feel good whenever your talk to her and whenever you talk about her.
That’s how to make her feel special with words.
5. Only Use Special Compliments
You are entering dangerous territory. Using generic compliments is not allowed. I repeat. Using generic compliments is not allowed. I hope I made myself clear with this warning. Let the other guys use generic (and boring) compliments.
You, on the other hand, make her feel special.
Come on, man. You’re a Global Seducer. You don’t just tell her that she’s beautiful. You tell her WHY she’s beautiful and WHAT’s beautiful about her. You can also tell her WHEN she looks the most beautiful…I bet it’s when she’s wearing her tightest skirt.
Yes, generic compliments can work.
But you’re not here because you want to send her a short text with a compliment. You’re here because you want to know how to make her feel special with words. And the fastest way to do that is by being personal…and a bit more creative than the competition.
First, get personal. Then you can get physical.
6. Come Up with a Cute Nickname for Her
How about this one…
Fluffy puff knuffi duffi. Okay, I admit it. That might be a bit too long. But I’m sure you can come up with a cute nickname for her. It doesn’t have to be insanely creative. Let’s say she’s really into basketball. You could call her basket.
No, no, that’s a terrible idea.
Nobody likes to be called basket and it kind of implies that she’s the easy girl every guy can slam his balls in. Give me another chance. Let’s say she’s really into traveling…and her name is Amy. You could call her Adventure Amy.
Fuck it…I’m not creative today.
But you get the point. Think about her qualities, her personality, and her hobbies. Mix those components together and boom…you have a nickname. You don’t want to be the fifth guy who calls her honey. Her four ex-boyfriends chose this incredibly creative nickname.
You want to be the creative guy who calls her…I leave it to your imagination.
7. Have at Least One Insider Joke
Come one. Just one…
Is that really too much to ask for?
Maybe you don’t like to laugh. I mean, you might be German. We Germans are known for our big beer bellies and for our non-existent humor. Or you’re as serious as Darth Vader when he finds out that the Death Star plans have been stolen.
I don’t know you (feel free to shoot men an email and to say hi). But I know that women love insider jokes. These jokes make her feel special because only you and she know them. The hot chick across the bar has no freaking clue.
Here’s what I like to do:
Then I repeat the pattern. I make her laugh with the same stupid shit…again and again. That’s what she wants. She wants to be the one you share your feelings and jokes with. She wants to be the one who laughs the hardest with you.
If you make her laugh the hardest, she will beep you the hardest.
8. Come Up With Special Words that Describe Her
I once dated this Russian chick.
She was one of the most beautiful women I’ve been with. Her body was perfect, and so was her face. The only thing that was missing was the perfect personality. She had an attitude and arrogance was her surname. Oh, and she was incredibly nosy.
She wanted to know everything:
That’s why I ended it. But before I ended it, I used the word combination nosy bosy whenever I talked to her. “You’re so nosy bosy”. It was true. She was nosy. I just added the bosy because it sounded funny. Another girl I dated (a Thai girl) used to pronounce adventurous the wrong way.
I ended up using the word adventurouselic around her (long story).
I’m sure you can come up with words (real or fictional ones) that describe her and that you only use around her.
9. Speak in a Way that Makes Her Feel Special
Don’t be a boring fart.
That’s the moral of the story. You want to make her feel special with words. Then speak accordingly. You can’t just speak in a monotonous voice and expect her to be head over heels for you. That’s neither exciting nor engaging.
You also can’t talk like a German (Believe me. I tried.)…
No, you have to talk in a way that’s engaging, interesting…and a little bit seductive.
Speak slowly and lower your voice when you want to create a romantic atmosphere. You can adjust your voice depending on the situation. Sometimes an upbeat voice is exactly what you need (when you’re excited). Other times a slow speed is better (when you’re undressing her).
You’ll figure it out. Just don’t stop talking.
10. Only Say What You Mean
I don’t want to bore you but…
I have to say it again: Speak your truth. I will repeat these words in countless articles and in even more podcasts. I’ll do it until each and every Global Seducer who allows me to help him on his journey follows this simple, yet important advice.
Say what you mean.
This is the fastest and easiest way to make a girl feel special with words. Women are sick and tired of the bullshit. They don’t want another liar who promises them the world and gives them a chewed chewing gum. They want the real deal.
Are you the real deal?
Then speak your truth and choose your words wisely.
And no, I don’t just say this because I watched too many Jordan Peterson videos (God, I should really stop listening to him while uploading articles). I say it because it’s so important…and rare. Women all over the world are craving men who are not afraid to speak their truth.
Follow this advice and she’ll feel special whenever she’s with you.
Summed Up Wisdom
You’re a Global Seducer. You’re not boring. In fact, you’re the opposite of boring. You don’t use generic compliments and you don’t tell her that you like her without telling her WHY you like her. It’s like starting a business. If you know the WHY, you will figure the rest out. And if you compare her to other women, she’ll get the feeling that you chose her for a reason.
You chose her because you have the same humor. That’s why it’s easy for you to come up with one or two insider jokes. It’s also easy to come up with a cute nickname for her. You just have to think about her positive qualities. What about creating new words that describe her? We both know that you can do it because you are more creative than the average dude.
But don’t forget to speak in a way that makes her feel good. You can change your voice whenever it’s necessary. Romantic situations require a different voice than funny situations. As long as you find the right words to describe the situation, you’re on the right track. Once you are on this track, you’ll know how to make her feel special with words.