So you want to know how to make a good impression on a girl?
I hope you know that the answer you expect won’t get you laid.
Please don’t get me wrong. What I am going to share with you in this article will definitely get you laid and it also has the power to make a girl fall for you right after your first date. However, this has nothing to do with your initial question.
Whenever a guy tells me that he hopes to leave a good impression I only hear desperation, helplessness and the fear of failure. All those things are not particularly appealing to women.
The desire to leave this said impression is nothing but a fear of not being enough.
A man who is really successful with women and who knows how to get the girls he wants, doesn’t even ask himself this question. He knows that his presence is enough to cast a spell over a woman. He knows that it is easy for him to leave a good impression if he would really want to do that.
But he doesn’t want that and do you know why?
Because all he cares about is leaving a fucking great impression. Instead of asking yourself how to make a good impression on girls, you should ask yourself what you have to do to leave one that makes her want to jump in bed with your within the first few minutes of knowing you. I am sorry but in order to achieve this goal, good is not enough.
By being the good guy who wants to make a good impression, you won’t knock her socks of. Everybody wants to do what you do and because it is so easy to appear good, every nice guy on this earth can achieve this goal.
You are better than good. You are a Global Seducer.
You are a great man and an aspiring seducer who seeks for excellence.
How to Make a Good Impression on a Girl: You Don’t
As a great guy who wants to have excellent seduction skills in order to live an amazing lifestyle you have to understand that knowing how to make a good impression on a girl doesn’t mean shit. Everyone can do it and nearly every guy does it.
Congratulations. You are one of millions of men who talk about the same boring topics, just because you are afraid to offend her. You are just another guy who takes her to a nice dinner, talks about nice things and ends up with his nice hand around his dick, while she fucks the bad boy in the restroom.
And why are you doing that?
Because you want to make a good impression and in order to achieve that you have to be good, be nice, not offend her and not risk a rejection.
I say: Fuck that!
Stop trying to be the good guy and start being the great, amazing and awesome guy that she really wants.
Don’t Try to Be Like Everyone Else
I just congratulated you on being one of a million other guys who do the same things to leave the same impression. In case you think I am joking I want to show you how that looks in practice:
Where do most guys take girls on dates? Most guys go either to the cinema or to a restaurant. In the cinema you can’t connect with a woman, because the loud movies makes it impossible to communicate with her, while a chic restaurant doesn’t allow you to touch her and to get sexual.
WORST DATE EVER!
What do most guys talk about on the first date? They talk about their studies and about other irrelevant bullshit that doesn’t build up any form of sexual connection. What they don’t do is to talk about their wildest experiences, about her favorite sex position and about her fantasies.
Why? Because that would make a bad impression, wouldn’t it?
Stop Being Nice and Polite
Being like everyone else means being nice, being polite and talking about nice things. This WILL leave a good impression. If that’s what you want, go for it. However, it WON’T get you near to the comfortable and warm place between her legs.
Stop trying to be nice and polite.
Of course you should adhere to a few social rules and you should use the bathroom to take a dump and not her handbag, but behaving like a well-trained puppy, just to leave “the right” impression is not always the best idea.
If you want to play with her ass and her tits, instead of playing PlayStation with her, you should stop wasting your time hoping to make a good impression. Achieving this goal won’t help you to get lucky.
Now it is time to reframe what you want to learn. It is time to never ask yourself how to make a good impression on a girl again and to start asking yourself how you can make a great impression that ends with her legs wide spread.
How to Make a Great Impression on a Girl: Meet Her In Style
I would love to tell you that it doesn’t matter how you look, but that would be a lie. Okay, it doesn’t really matter how you look when you define your looks as the genetic wonder that your parents produced.
Even though a nice six pack and a face that doesn’t look as if you belong in a ghost train is a slight advantage, it is way more important to wear the right clothes. You can’t deny the fact that the clothes you are wearing communicate who you are, at least to a certain extent.
The perfect clothes with the right attitude and the right behavior transform you into a man who doesn’t have to ask himself how to make a good impression on a girl ever again. To make a girl want you, you don’t need swag. What you really need is style.
Dress to Impress
How do you dress to impress?
Don’t overdo it, but also don’t hide yourself and your body under clothes that were made for people who don’t want to be seen. Your clothes should communicate that you are a confident guy.
What do you communicate when you wear old jeans, a beige pullover and brown low shoes?
With this outfit you certainly don’t communicate that you are the most confident person in the world, that you have a sense of style and that you want to be seen.
What do you communicate when you wear a yellow heat, a purple scarf, a white leather jacket and sunglasses?
This only shows that you should stop taking THE GAME so serious and that you failed miserably while you tried to take the peacocking seduction technique on a whole new level.
Choose something in between and you are good to go.
How about a black shirt and a stylish brown leather jacket? How about stylish jeans with not too many holes? How about brown boots? How about a black or grey scarf? How about a blazer?
Those are all just suggestions, but sometimes the simplest suggestions can have the most impact. Now that you look like a boss it is time to behave like a boss.
Behave According to Your Style
In order to make a good impression on a girl you just have to behave like a typical nice guy who won’t offend her. If you, however, want to make a great impression on her it is your job to behave like a great man whose style is in alignment with who he really is. Your style has to be authentic, calibrated and congruent.
It is anything but congruent if you behave like a serious and cold business man (which can be very attractive), while you are walking around with an out of bed look, jeans that consist of more holes than jeans and a heavy metal shirt.
The only way to make a great impression is by representing the best version of yourself.
Not by being someone who you only pretend to be, because you hope it gets you results. That’s why it is so important to choose a style that represents who you truly are.
How to Make a Fucking Great Impression on a Girl: Be a Sexual Man
If you want to know how to make a good impression on a girl you don’t have to be sexual at all. It is enough to be polite and to agree on every word she says. When you behave like that she will say that you are a nice guy and that she had a good time with you. Right after the date you can successfully tick the box with the label GOOD IMPRESSION. What you won’t be able to do is to tick the box with the label HAD SEX.
This box can be ticked by the guy who understood that a great impression is way more powerful than a good one. Do you want to be that guy? I hope so. The good news is that it is really not that hard to be that guy. The bad news is…
…there is no bad news.
Okay, there is no bad news unless you think that being a man and showing her that you have a dick that you want to use in close combat is something bad.
Escalate From the Beginning
Now you know that you don’t need to be sexual if you just want to know how to make a good impression on a girl, but that you need to show your sexual side when you want to be a man who she desires, who she is attracted to and who she wants to be with.
The first impression might only consist of a couple of minutes or even a couple of seconds, but in this short time frame you already have to show her that you have a sexual interest in her.
Shake her hand when you approach her, touch her arm when she puts her number in your phone and hug her when she meets you for the first date. Give her enough signs within the first couple of seconds that you are not here to find a scrabble partner. If she is interested, that’s the best impression you can possibly make.
Lead Her From the First Second On
Yes gentleman, I am talking about leading again. Why do I talk about this again and again? Because it is so freaking important!
If you want to know how to make a good impression on a girl it is enough to show up on the date while you hold a box of chocolates in your hand.
If you want to trade the word good for the word great you have to do a bit more than that.
Some people would define the first date as the time to leave your first impression and others would say that the approach already provides you with enough time to show her who you are and what you are about. No matter which definition you prefer, you have to lead her.
You are the one who approaches her. You take her number and not the other way around. You are the one who promises her to call her and you are the one who then also calls her in order to set up a date.
When it is finally time for your first date you decide where you take her and at which time she has to be there. The willingness to lead her from the first second on makes her want to feel you inside her.
Use Your Weapons
Do you know that women also try to find out how to make a good impression? They do. Otherwise they wouldn’t show you through their body language that they are ready to make some babies. It is no coincidence that women cross their legs to emphasize their hips when you approach them.
They know that showing you their prolific hips will pump your blood from your brain to another part of your body. If they are attracted to you they do that within the first couple of seconds of meeting you.
Do you also know how to use your weapons to leave an impression that makes her want to jump in bed with you right away?
What you can do to achieve the same effect as she does with her feminine posture is to focus on your body language and on your eye contact.
I have already written an article about that, so I don’t have to repeat myself. All you have to know is that looking a girl in the eyes while you are thinking about all the naughty things you want to do with her is a great way to leave an impression that she won’t forget so fast.
How to Make a Fucking Great Impression on a Girl: Be the Most Exciting Guy She Ever Met
What besides being sexual do you have to do to successfully compete against all those guys who only learned how to make a good impression on a girl, without ever learning how to be as great as you are?
Being sexual is the first ingredient, but being exciting is the salt in the soup.
Without being exciting, being sexual is only half as effective.
No matter if you call it excitement, adventure, or passion…she wants to feel it.
How can you convince her that you are an exciting and fun guy without telling her that you have those characteristics (I tried that back in the days and it didn’t work)?
You just have to do the following things and you will be the first guy she has sex with on the first date.
Don’t Take Her on Dull Dates
What do you do when you want to leave an amazing impression on your first date?
Well, you for sure don’t take her to the cinema and you also don’t take her to a restaurant. I know girls who cringe when they just hear the word date. They are scared to end up on a date that is either a staring contest or a desperate attempt to get close to her by yawning in the cinema…just like they experienced it the last five times.
Nice guys who learned how to make a good impression on a girl take her to a cinema or a restaurant. Why? They either don’t know what to say, or they are afraid to touch her and of course because they don’t know any better.
You know it better.
You know that being adventurous and exciting are advantages. That’s why you take her on exciting dates. You go ice skating with her. You take her on an adventurous road trip. You go to a fancy bar you have never been before. You take her to an amusement park. You take her where the other guys didn’t take her, in order to make the impression that the other guys couldn’t make.
Don’t Hush and Don’t Judge
A guy who wants to teach you how to make a good impression on a girl will probably tell you how important it is to agree on everything she says, to say what she wants to hear and to behave appropriately…whatever the hell appropriately even means.
If you follow this strategy you are doomed to fail. The last thing a woman wants, at least when she is looking for some good dick for the night, for a year or for a lifetime, is a guy who agrees on everything and who only tells her what she (supposedly) wants to hear. What she really wants is a man with two balls, who says what he wants to say.
Things that you want to say, especially when the person next to you has C-cups and a cute face, are direct compliments and other naughty things.
Say it and enjoy the sexual conversation you will have with her.
Just don’t make the mistake to judge her. There are already enough guys who judge women who are open about their sexuality. You don’t have to be one of those idiots.
Reveal Who You Are
What’s the last thing you should do that ultimately sets you apart from the bunch of chronically masturbating losers who only learned how to make a good impression on a girl without ever learning how to be great men who have the ability to impress the shit out of her?
I already told you that you should dress in a way that represents who you truly are. Dress authentic, talk authentic and be authentic. Women are so sick and tired of guys who pretend to be someone they are not, just to appear cool, swaggy, alpha or whatever other buzzword they think leads to dating success.
Being honest and authentic, even if it means sharing your deepest desires and fears with her, is ten times more effective than pretending to be someone you are not.
A man who is able to do that is already attractive. If have the balls to be 100% authentic from the beginning of your interaction, she will get the impression that you should be in her bed right now.
How would you feel if every girl fell for you right after the first impression?
Summed Up Wisdom
Instead of asking yourself how to make a good impression on a girl you should rather ask yourself how you can make a great impression that will actually set you apart from your competitors. Being just like everyone else and being nice and polite will leave a good impression, but it won’t get you near her pussy.
A great guy knows how to dress and how to behave in a way that matches his personality. If you want to be such a guy you have to become confident with being sexual. Escalate from the beginning, show her from the moment you meet her that you are a leader and use the seduction weapons that Mother Nature gave you.
Besides being sexual, you should be exciting. Don’t take her on the same boring dates she has been dozens of times before, say what you want to say and take off the mask and reveal who you really are.