Do you want to know how to make a girl want you sexually?
It’s all about the tension, baby!
I’m sure you’re familiar with the following situation:
You see a girl. She’s absolutely beautiful. Maybe you’ve talked to her before. Maybe you haven’t. The only thing that matters is that you want her. And no, you don’t want her as a friend and you also don’t want to be her tissue paper when her bad boy boyfriend dumps her.
You want her naked in your bed.
But you don’t know how to get her out of her clothes and on your goddamn mattress. No chance. Every time you are in this situation, it doesn’t work out the way you planned. You try everything, but something is missing.
I’ve been there way too many times before I found my path.
Thankfully, I found a way, or let’s say 14 techniques, that help you to solve this problem once and for all. And no, this won’t be one of those “just be nice” or “be yourself” posts. You, I, and the girls that are waiting for you don’t have time for BS.
Here’s what you will learn today:
Are you ready?
Then open your eyes to a new world, a world in which you have the power to make any girl want you sexually…
How to Make a Girl Want You Sexually by Increasing the Sexual Tension
Why was I so bad at getting laid?
That’s a good question and here’s the answer:
It’s all about the tension, baby. I wrote these lines at the beginning of this article. Believe it or not, but this is what learning how to make a girl want you sexually is all about. That’s the secret sauce.
It’s about gradually increasing the sexual tension.
Build it up, step-by-step, until she explodes…and wants you to explode inside of her. This was the puzzle piece I was missing for years. I wasted years of my life living a sexless existence, even though...
I could do all these things and yet, I still didn’t get laid.
Eventually, I discovered the secrets to build up sexual tension, fast, efficient, and ridiculously easy.
Put the following 14 techniques into practice and you’ll be able to make any girl want you sexually…and she’ll want you so bad…
1. Look and Smell like Danger
How does a nice guy smell?
He takes a bath in rose shampoo and believes that colognes are too aggressive. He doesn’t want to attract attention. That’s why he’s happy with his natural smell. It’s too bad that his natural smell is like a salmon in the sun.
Wear cologne. Use one that matches your personality and yes, choose one that’s specifically for men. I know, our society is all about gender mainstreaming, but forget about that shit. You need manly cologne to smell manly. She wants a man, not a boy.
What about your dress code?
Don’t wear the ugly turtleneck sweater your mom bought for you. Yep, that turquoise piece of dirt (sorry, mom). Instead, wear something that makes you look dangerous.
“Women don’t even like harmless men, they hate them. They like to claw them apart. What women want are dangerous men who are civilized.” – Jordan B. Peterson.
You’re civilized. But you’re still not dangerous.
Get that leather jacket out of your closet. I don’t know about you, but whenever I wear my leather jacket, I feel like a bull that sees red.
Get her, torero!
2. Communicate Your Way Out of the Friend Zone
You want to know how to make a girl want you sexually.
I mean, you already want her. That’s for sure. But you want her to want you back. And the only way to reach this goal is to let her know that you want her. Don’t “stealth” your way in her pussy. That’s marketing bullshit that doesn’t work.
Replace the word stealth with honesty.
In other words, don’t hide your dick. You have it, you own it, and you want to use it. And that’s okay. She wants to use it too. In fact, she can’t wait because she hadn’t had sex in months. But by being her friend, you force her to wait for another month.
Tell her that you think she’s beautiful, sexy, or hot. Let her know that you’re not harmless.
Remember: Women hate harmless men.
3. Use the Power of Sexual Innuendo
The urban dictionary defines sexual innuendo as something you say that is meant to be totally innocent but that sounds terribly sexual at the same time.
That hits the nail on the head.
The idea is simple:
While you say completely innocent things, you place sexual thoughts in her head without her even realizing it. Okay, sometimes it’s so obvious that she will realize it. But most of the time she won’t, especially if you practice and get really good at it.
Here are some examples:
- A friend of mine destroyed a vase in my living room. The whole floor was wet.
- I played baseball yesterday and the bat was way too long for me.
- Come here. Come one. Let’s come inside. I want you to come with me.
- I always wake up by our neighbor’s cock. This thing is so annoying.
- I love this song. It’s so raw and the lyrics are really kinky.
- It’s so hot in here. My shirt is already soaked.
Don’t be shy. Try sexual innuendos and you’ll see how powerful they are. Just use the examples I shared and enjoy talking about hot, raw, long, and wet things.
4. Use the Eyes to Mouth Technique
No, not ass to mouth!
You dirty bastard. You’re here to learn how to make any girl want you sexually. Stop thinking about ass to mouth and start thinking about eyes to mouth. That’s a way better (and less disgusting) technique. And it helps you to get laid.
Here’s how you do it:
The tension is rising.
She knows that you’re checking out her lips. And then you’re eye contact…she’s already wet. She doesn’t know if you think about kissing her or about putting your…mhh…she can’t wait to find out.
5. Accidentally Touch Her
I know you want to touch her.
But I also know that it’s too soon to grab her and press her against you. Your sexual innuendos are effective, but you have to make her feel comfortable with your touch. You can’t just go all in and hope that it works.
Sometimes it does. Mostly it doesn’t.
Here’s what you need to do instead:
That’s the beauty of the game. You can do all these things without her realizing it. She won’t even be aware that you’re touching her. It feels natural…and it feels so good. At some point, she’ll start to touch YOU because touching has become a natural way of communicating with you.
6. Combine Teasing and Touching
Let’s take the touching game to the next level.
Touching alone is good, but when you add teasing to the mix, you’ll be unstoppable. That’s how you make a girl want you sexually. And that’s how you get more opportunities to touch and feel her than you could possibly imagine.
Here’s what you need to do:
Tease her with something that naturally leads to touching.
I know. It sounds so simple. It does because it really is that simple. All you have to do is to add a tease in front of the touch. Tease, then touch, then smile. That’s the whole secret.
Let me give you some examples:
“You have really big muscles, like a Ninja Turtle.” Touch her biceps.
“You are so mean. Didn’t your parents raise you?” Bump her arm.
“You walk slower than a turtle. I’m dying here.” Offer her a piggy back ride.
7. Start with Her Cheeks and Finish in Her Mouth
Here’s how to make any girl want to sleep with you:
Start with her cheeks and finish in her mouth.
Okay, I don’t know what naughty thoughts jump from your left to your right brain hemisphere, but this section is not about sex. We’re not quite there yet. Delete your mental porn from your brain and stay focused.
I’m talking about kissing and here’s what you should do:
You see, you start with her cheeks and you finish in her mouth.
There’s nothing naughty about that. But if you follow this simple three-step plan, she’ll do all kinds of naughty things with you. Oh, and just because it’s a three-step plan doesn’t mean that you have to jump from one step to the other.
Take your time.
Kiss her cheek. Then do it again. Smile. Now kiss her lips very softly. No need to rush. Give her another soft kiss on the cheek. Now you kiss her lips again, this a bit more passionate. Do this for a while and you’ll either have a mouth cramp or she’ll make out with you.
8. Don’t React to Her Shit Tests
Women sleep with men they respect.
Sorry, but she doesn’t respect you if you beg for forgiveness whenever she tests you. And no, she’s not serious when she says that you’re so mean because you said X, Y, or Z. Okay, if you called her grandmother a dirty whore, she might be serious.
But most of the time she’s not.
She wants to test you. Why? Well, because she wants to find out if you still have your backbone or if you’ve already shitted it out. Women don’t test you because they are mean.
They do it because they want to give you the chance to prove yourself…and to get fucked.
Here are some popular shit tests:
I love the last shit test the most. I usually say something along the lines of “wait until we’re home. I’m a naughty boy.”
What if you’re not sure if you can handle shit tests?
Read this guide on handing shit tests and making any girl want you sexually will get a lot easier.
9. Hold Her Hand Longer than Appropriate
Your hands are a seduction weapon.
You need them to get her number, to pull her panties down, and to make sure that she’s wetter than a fresh lake in spring.
Here’s a sneaky little trick to make a girl want you bad:
That’s so inappropriate. I know. You learned that a handshake should be fast and strong. And that’s true. But it’s only true when you’re in office. It’s definitely not true when you’re talking to a cute girl over a glass of wine.
I mean, you can ignore my advice and shake her hand like Donald Trump.
But I’m not so sure if she’ll get horny when you pull her in and make her lose balance. She might fall and break her ankle.
How will you explain that to her mom, huh?
10. Stare into Her Eyes (Even if She Looks Away)
Staring at girls is so creepy, buhuuu!
No, it’s not. I mean, okay, it’s creepy if you start into her eyes while she’s talking to someone else. But if she’s talking to you AND if you want to make her want you sexually, direct eye contact is a necessity.
The more you stare, the hornier she’ll get.
Seriously, that’s how it works. She might even look down from time to time or avoid your eye contact because of the high pressure. Keep calm and continue. It’s called sexual TENSION. So yeah, there is tension. And she likes it.
Here’s what my experience tells me:
The stronger and deeper your eye contact, the higher the chance that you’ll get laid. That’s how it is, my friend. You don’t have to believe me. Just try it out. Your eyes are like magnets that pull her bra and panties away from her body.
11. Tell Naughty and Kinky Stories
Yes, you can talk about your travel adventures.
But why don’t you add a bit salt and pepper to your story?
Let me give you an example:
When you talk about your backpacking trip all over South America, you can mention this one HOT night where it was raining so heavy that the floor was completely WET. You ran out of clothes because the washing machine didn’t work and you had to sleep NAKED. You were so sweaty and the next morning you had to go down the stairs to fix the washing machine. While walking down the stairs, you were covered with nothing but a small towel and you felt as if you could GET CAUGHT at any minute.
You get the point.
Make your stories a bit kinkier and add sexual innuendos wherever you can. After you talked about your washing machine adventure and your crazy trip to a nudist beach, she won’t be able to stop imagining you naked…on top of her.
It’s story time…
12. Be a Dangerous Gentleman
It’s easy to make a girl want you so bad when you’re a dangerous gentleman.
No, you’re more than a gentleman.
“What’s the difference between a dangerous gentleman and George Clooney?”
Well, first of all, George Clooney is married and if he read an article about how to make any girl want you sexually, Amal would slap him across the face. But that’s not all. You are more dangerous than George.
Here’s what you do:
A gentleman opens the door for her. You open the door for her and put your hand above her ass to lead you.
A gentleman pulls out her chair. You pull out her chair and whisper a dirty secret in her ear.
A gentleman orders her a dessert. You order her a dessert and kiss her chocolate lips.
Are you ready to be a dangerous gentleman?
13. Treat Her as If She Was Your Girlfriend
I hope you’re ready because women love dangerous gentlemen.
In fact, they love them so much that they want to get them, tame them, and keep them. Yes, while you’re thinking about how to get her to want you sexually, she’s already thinking about cute nicknames for you.
She wants to be your girlfriend.
Let me tell you a secret:
Treat her like your girlfriend and she’ll want you even more.
You are not a couple, at least not yet. But that shouldn’t stop you from treating her as if you were. Pretend to be a couple and she’ll want to do things with you that couples do on a Friday night…and I’m not talking about watching Netflix.
Here are some ideas:
In other words, touch her as much as you can until she feels a sweet endorphin rush.
14. Perfect the Art of Taking Her Clothes off
You’re at the finish line.
One more step and you’ll reach your goal. One more step and she stands in front of you…completely naked. She moans when you kiss her and she rams her fingernails in your back when you bite her neck.
It’s not as painful as it sounds. Actually, it feels really good. But wait a second. She’s still not naked. Goddammit, you forgot to take off her clothes. Or maybe you did it the wrong way. All I know is that she’s still wearing her jeans, shirt, bra, and panties.
Here’s how to remove her clothes:
Do this and she’ll want you sexually. She’ll want you so bad that the neighbors think about calling the FBI because the screams are so loud.
How would you feel if you could end every first date with a bang?
Summed Up Wisdom
Now you know how to make a girl want you sexually. It’s not about being her friend and it’s not about innocent topics and stories. Add pepper, no, add chilly to your stories and use the power of sexual innuendos.
Don’t be afraid to kiss her and to touch her. Of course, your touches should be subtle and build up the sexual tension. Just follow the step-by-step instructions in the article and she’ll want you so bad. And she’ll want to be in your bed.
Therefore, you have to help her to take off her clothes. She wants your help, but only if you know what you have to turn this simple action into a pleasurable experience. Now you know.