Why do you want know how to make a girl think about you?
Let me guess:
Am I right?
Of course, you’ve tried so many different things. Unfortunately, you always ended up in the only zone that’s worse than the Sahel Zone. Women described you as their friend. They told you how nice you are and that any girls would be lucky to find a guy like you.
But they didn’t think about you…at least not the way you want it.
Something has to change.
I hate to say it, but your behavior has to change. And no, I don’t say this because I want to stab a dagger in your heart. I say it because I had the same problem. No woman ever thought of me as her boyfriend, lover, or dirty little secret.
Eventually, I realize what I had done wrong:
Today I know how to make women think about you sexually and romantically.
Here’s what it comes down to…
How to Get a Girl to Think About You with Emotional Leadership
What the heck is emotional leadership?
Well, it’s a concept a lot of men don’t practice. I mean, let’s face it. Most guys try to make a girl think about them by using facts and figures. They try to impress the ladies with all kind of gibberish and logical nonsense.
That’s all nice and dandy…but it’s logical. And women don’t react logically. They are emotional creatures. Every seduction is an emotional experience. As soon as you try to turn it into a logical experience, you’ll mess everything up.
Why do women prefer broke but life-affirming artists over rich but insecure guys?
The first guy makes her feel something.
The second guy tries to convince her on a logical level. That never works. Make her think with her brain and she’ll forget you. Make her feel with her heart and she’ll remember you.
That’s what emotional leadership is all about.
You lead her emotions in the direction you want them to flow.
How to Make a Woman Think About You (The Basics)
Are you ready to be her emotional leader?
Then you have what it takes to make her think of you.
You’ll be the splinter in her mind. She doesn’t know why, but you are in her head 24/7. And not just that: You’re also in her heart…and you’re vibrating in her panties.
Is that what you want?
Then let’s have a look at the basics...
1. Reveal Something But Not Everything
Which one of these guys gets a girl to think about him?
- 1The guy who reveals everything about himself.
- 2The dude who reveals nothing about himself.
- 3The man who reveals a bit about himself.
Okay, you already know the answer. I shouldn’t have made the headline that obvious. So yeah, the guy who reveals a bit about himself wins.
The question is: Why?
Well, the guy who reveals everything is boring. She already knows everything. Imagine you watch a movie and after five minutes you already know how it ends. It’s boring. However, it also sucks if you don’t know who the main characters are and what the heck they are doing.
Women don’t sleep with complete strangers.
She wants to know something but she doesn’t want to know everything. Be the mysterious seducer and she won’t give up until she has solved the mystery.
2. Hold Eye Contact Like a Seducer
Girls don’t think about guys who look away.
Here’s what you need to do instead:
Nope, prolonged eye contact is not creepy…if you do it the right way. She wants to see the raw attraction in your eyes. She wants to feel your dirty thoughts. And she wants to see the cheeky smile of a naughty boy.
Imagine you’re a raptor in Jurassic World.
That’s how you look a woman in the eyes and make her remember your face.
3. Make the Decisions and Lead Her Confidently
Submissive men don’t even exist.
I mean, they do exist. But for women, they don’t. A submissive man is not a man to remember. In fact, he’s not even a man. Women are attracted to and therefore think about the guys who take their breath away….not the guys who are too afraid to breathe.
Here’s the kind of guy she can’t get out of her head:
Are you this kind of guy?
If the answer is “no”, you have to read her first chapter of my book Rise of the Phoenix and become the confident, dominant, and decisive leader women want.
4. Don’t Let Her Get Away with Bratty Behavior
Some women are bratty little girls.
They misbehave and guess what? They do it on purpose. These saucy little misses know exactly what they are doing. They test you and they want to see how you react. It’s your job to pass the test and to not do what most guys do.
What do you do?
A lot of guys don’t do anything and smile.
Sorry, but she won’t remember a spineless guy with balls smaller than raisins. She’ll remember the guy who tells her to stop this shit…and yes, I know it’s counterintuitive.
5. Share an Exciting Confession with Her
How can you make a girl think about you?
You have to confess.
What do you have to confess?
Well, it doesn’t really matter. You can confess whatever the heck you want. Just make sure that it’s an exciting confession. I mean, you don’t have to confess how you shat your pants when you were five years old. It’s neither exciting nor mysterious.
Here are some ideas:
Tell her “I have a confession to make.” Then you share it with her. Encourage her to do the same. That’s how you connect and bond.
She won’t forget you and your confession.
6. Show But Don’t Tell Who You Are
Actions speak louder than words.
- She doesn’t care that you’re a leader unless you lead her.
- She doesn’t care that you’re honest unless you speak your truth.
- She doesn’t care that you’re respectful unless you show her respect.
Talk is cheap and doing is king. That’s not a saying but it makes sense. Most guys try to impress girls by talking about who they are and what they can do. Guess what? She’s heard it before. Come on. You can do better than that.
Everyone can talk about their positive qualities.
Only a few selected Global Seducers have these qualities.
7. Tell Her About Your Guilty Pleasure
How to get a woman to think about you
What’s your guilty pleasure?
If you were a woman and I would say that it’s ice cream. But you’re (most likely) not a woman. It doesn’t matter. You don’t need a vagina to have a guilty pleasure. Think about something you really love to do.
Share your guilty pleasure with her.
It matters because women can related to it (they all have a guilty pleasure) and because she’ll create a mental note. Now she thinks about you whenever she thinks about her guilty pleasure.
And believe me. She’ll think about it (and you) every couple of minutes.
How to Make a Girl Think About You Through Text
What if you want to text her?
You don’t need to talk to her in person.
You can use the power of your smartphone to put romantic, fun, or sexual thoughts in her mind. Actually, it’s pretty easy. You just have to send the kind of texts other guys don’t even think of.
Let me give you some examples…
8. Send Her a Good Night Text
How to make a woman think about you
Don’t underestimate the power of a good night text.
Here’s what I did in the past:
I’ll never do that again since I discovered this one game-changing secret:
One good night message is all you need.
Forget about texting back and forth. It’s a waste of time. Follow the principle of the Recency Effect. You can remember the last item in a list. The rest becomes irrelevant. That’s true for your texts, too.
“Sweet dreams ;-)”
Send this at the end of the day and she’ll think about you first in the morning.
9. Send Her Storyline Texts
What the heck are storyline texts?
Well, let’s first have a look at the definition of a storyline:
A storyline is a plot of a novel, film, or story. It’s the meat between the action scenes. As human beings, we are designed to listen to stories, to learn through stories and to bond through stories. And yes, women are human beings, too.
Here’s what you need to do:
Let me give you an example:
Your first text might be about how you arrive at your workplace. You send a selfie in your brand new suit. Then you send a text about something funny that happened. Later, you text her again on your way home with “I wish you were here.”
You send her your life story and allow her to sit in the audience.
10. Send Her the I Can’t Sleep Text Text
Here’s another way to make her think about you through text:
I stumbled upon this technique (as usually) by trial and error. I did it once and it worked surprisingly well. Then I did it again and bam…it worked a second time.
I call it the I Can’t Sleep Text.
Here’s what you do:
She expects something along the lines of “I ate too much” or “I’m stressed”. She doesn’t expect you to say something romantic. And women love surprises, especially romantic surprises.
Give it a shot.
How to Make a Girl Think About You Sexually
Do you just want her to think about you?
I mean, yeah. It’s nice when a girl remembers you and can’t get you out of her mind. It’s even better when she imagines herself being your girlfriend. But let’s face it.
You want her to have sexual thoughts about you.
You want her to think about you sexually and here’s how you can pull it off…
11. Whisper a Dirty Secret in Her Ear
This is so effective, it should be forbidden.
It doesn’t even have to be a dirty secret. It can be a simple compliment. The moment you whisper something in her ear, she get goosebumps. That’s when she feels this warm shiver that makes her labia scream “hallelujah.”
Here are some things I like to whisper:
It can be anything. Something you’re thinking of, something she might be thinking of…be creative. Just make sure that you whisper and that you speak slowly.
That’s the whisper effect.
12. Talk in the Daddy Voice
God, how should I describe that?
The Daddy Voice is hard to explain. I don’t want you to watch porn movies because they mess with your brain and your dick, but that’s the best way to explain it. Imagine a porn movie where the male actor punishes his naughty step daughter.
Talk to her like that.
Here are some tips for the perfect Daddy Voice:
That’s the voice that makes women think of you all day…especially in their dreams.
13. Touch Her at the Same Spot
How to get her thinking about you
Have you ever heard of classical conditioning?
In case you’ve never heard of it, you can read more about it here. Classical conditioning describes the principle that a stimulus leads to a response and therefore to a reflexive or automatic type of learning. It sounds complicated but it’s really simple.
Let’s take your future girlfriend as an example:
Here’s what most guys do:
They touch a girl’s arm once and then they continue with another body part.
Here’s what I do:
I touch the same spot a couple of times to make sure that she associates my touch with a good feeling.
14. Tell Her That This is Your Little Secret
Women love secrets.
I mean, one of the main reasons why women don’t have sex with a guy they want to sleep with is because they are afraid he won’t keep it a secret. They are afraid that you’ll kiss and tell. Then they are the slut and they don’t want that.
Keeping your relationship a secret increases your chances to get laid.
But there’s more to it:
It’s exciting. Telling her that this is your little secret creates an intimate world for you and her and nobody else. You are the only ones who know about it. You are the insiders. The others are outsiders and therefore irrelevant.
She constantly thinks about the one man who’s in her inner circle.
15. End the Conversation with a (Sexual) Compliment
How to make a girl think of you
When do you usually compliment a girl?
I used to do it at the beginning.
Today I do the opposite. I leave her with a compliment and as a result, she thinks about me the whole night. And yes, it has to do with the power of the Recency Effect.
Let’s say I go on a date with a girl…
She shows up and I give her a compliment. That’s what you usually do. And I still do that from time to time. But I discovered a better way, a more effective way. I don’t shoot the bullet at the beginning.
I load my gun and pull the trigger at the end.
Yep, I wait until the date is (almost) over. First, I go for the kiss. Once I tasted her sweet lips, I whisper something in her ear. It’s nothing special…just an innocent compliment. But after a kiss, right before you have to say goodbye, the words “you look really amazing” get a whole new meaning.
Summed Up Wisdom
You want to know how to get a girl to think about you. Then reveal something about yourself but don’t reveal everything. You are the mysterious seducer and your eye contact reflects your intent. You want her and you want to lead her.
As a leader, you also lead the storyline. You invite her to be in the audience and you’re not afraid to make her miss you right before she goes to bed. You can even tell her that you can’t sleep. The next day you can show her who you really are.
What if you want to make her think about you sexually? Well, whispering is better than screaming and having patience can lead to a great reward. And don’t forget to touch her. Nobody has to know about it. It’s your little secret.