Do you want to know how to make a girl obsessed with you?
What kind of things?
Come on. You know what I’m talking about. The word starts with m and it ends with asturbation. That’s what you want her to do while imagining your face…or other parts of your body. Maybe you have a specific girl in mind. Maybe not.
All I know is that you’re about to reach the next level.
Of course, you’ve tried it before. You tried to reach the next level multiple times with different approaches. Well, today’s article is not about indirect vs. direct approaches. We’ll go deeper than that…much deeper.
Here are some of the things you’ll learn:
Are you ready to become her secret obsession?
Read this article until the end and she’ll think and fantasize about you 24/7…
How to Make a Woman Obsessed With You
What does it mean when a girl obsesses over you?
It means that you continually preoccupy her mind. She can’t stop thinking of you. She imagines being with you. She desires you constantly. No matter what she does, you are in her head. That’s the definition of obsession.
Do you really want that?
If I could choose between a woman who wants me, desires me, or is obsessed with me, I would always choose the latter. This is the ultimate state of dependence and submission and yes, I know that sounds so wrong.
But it feels so good.
Let’s forget about political correctness for a moment and face the truth:
That’s the ultimate goal of every seducer.
She thinks about you day and night (in all kinds of positions) and all you have to do is…
1. Don’t Get Obsessed with Her
This is VERY important.
And yes, I had to use all caps for this. That’s how freaking important it is. The first thing you have to do to make a woman obsessed with you is to NOT obsess over her. You want her to chase you. You don’t want to be the one who’s chasing her.
Don’t fall into the trap you build for her.
Unfortunately, it happens all the time:
That’s like doing what this guy does…
You are the goalkeeper and you do everything to get the ball in your damn goal. You don’t want to be that guy. You don’t want to shoot the ball in her direction and wait until it turns around and hits you on the head.
You are either the leader or the follower.
Make her follow you but don’t follow her, no matter how big her well...are…
2. Be Obsessed with Greatness
Great men have the hottest girls.
Here are some of the men women are naturally attracted to:
I can already hear you screaming “gold diggers, gold diggers”. But think about it. Not all adventurers and artists are rich. However, they are great men…at least in the eyes of women. They are obsessed with their craft, with adventure and with their passion.
That’s what women want!
You have to be obsessed with something…just not with her. That’s the whole secret. Women don’t want to be your number one. She might tell you she wants to be your number one. But that’s a lie she doesn’t even believe herself. She always has to come seconds, never first.
Your vision, your mission, and your goals are first.
Make time for the things that matter to you. Follow your vision and she will follow you. Of course, you can also neglect your vision and make time for her whenever she wants. Then you follow her.
That’s when the tables turn and you become obsessed with her.
That’s the last thing she wants.
3. Talk About Your Vision and Not about Your Possessions
Let’s continue to talk about your vision…
What you want to achieve is more important than what you own. Why do you think people love Steve Jobs? Nobody cares about his net worth. Yes, he’s rich, but so what? Other guys are rich, too. The reason why everyone admired (and still admires) Steve Jobs is because of his vision.
Be a bit more like Steve Jobs.
You won’t be able to make her obsess over you by being the twentieth guy who talks about his possessions. She does not care…unless she’s a gold digger. And you don’t want to date gold diggers. So stop talking about your car and your recent promotion.
Instead, tell her what you want to achieve in life. That’s the stuff she’ll remember.
4. Live a Life She Wants to Obsess About
Lifestyle design is one of these annoying buzzwords.
What the heck does it mean?
Well, it means exactly that. You design your own life. Come on. Do a little exercise with me. Take a look at your life. Think about all the things you do on a regular basis. Then think about all the things you don’t do but want to do.
Now answer the following questions:
In case the last question makes you feel sad, angry, or resentful, you already know the answer. Unfortunately, a lot of guys don’t have an interesting lifestyle. And yes, I get it. You are busy. I’m also busy…but I do what I love.
What about you?
Women don’t obsess over men who are addicted to fast food, video games.
Control your life and you’ll control what she thinks about you.
5. Flirt with Her 24/7
You don’t want to be her friend.
Or do you?
Hell no, you’re here because you want to learn how to make a woman obsess over you. In other words, you want her to crave you and to desire you. That’s not exactly how girls feel about the guys they put in the friend zone.
Stop being her friend!
Your job is to be sexual…always. You don’t treat her like a friend. It doesn’t matter how she behaves around you. You are consistent with your sexual intent. Don’t even think about reverting back to “oh so nice” mode.
You could say “you look beautiful today.”
But you could also say “this dress makes me want to undress you.”
Both compliments mean the same. Yet, they are so different. One is nice and the other one leads her on the fast track to obsession.
6. Realize that Logic is the Enemy of Obsession
Women are not logical.
Why are so many men (especially married men) blind to this fundamental truth?
It blows my mind. Every couple of weeks I get an email from a guy who cries about the fact that his wife of five, ten, or twenty years suddenly wants a divorce. He didn’t see it coming. He can’t explain it. For years, everything was great…there was just this one argument.
Well, accept the truth:
Women are not logical and that’s why…
And no, I don’t say this because I hate women. Not at all. I’m a seducer and I absolutely love the fact that women are slaves to their emotions. That’s my biggest advantage…but it’s the worst nightmare for every married dude. I guess that’s why most guys deny it.
But denying it doesn’t make it less true.
If you want to make a girl obsessed with you, you have to make her feel emotions. Tell exciting stories. Share your deepest feelings. Don’t be afraid of controversial topics. Controversial topics lead to extreme emotional reactions.
That’s what she needs to feel in order to think of you.
7. Let Her Emotions Jump Up and Down
Take her on a roller coaster ride.
You want her emotions to bounce up and down. You can’t just talk about your dying grandmother for two hours and expect her to want her like a mouse wants cheese. Yep, you can talk about your granny. But mix it up a little.
Most guys don’t even try it. They believe that funny and exciting makes a girl wet and sad makes her run away. But that’s not true. Sad stories or sad topics are immensely powerful. She’s a woman. She wants to feel the whole range of emotions.
Women are slaves to their emotions.
Make her feel everything and she’ll obsess over you every second of the day.
8. Make Her Laugh Harder Than Chris Rock
I love Chris Rock.
He’s one of the funniest standup comedians of all time (at least in my opinion). But hey, I get it. You’re not as funny as Chris. You also don’t have George Carlin’s sarcasm gene. Heck, you can’t even remember one damn joke.
Nah, you’re not screwed. You just have to be funnier than this guy…
Women are attracted to men who make them laugh. Everyone knows that. Unfortunately, most guys are terribly afraid to bomb. That’s why they don’t even try. If they only knew that it’s so simple.
Here’s what you have to do:
“Just be yourself “ is the dumbest dating advice on earth. However, when it comes to being funny, it’s the best thing you can do.
9. Put Her in the Friend Zone But Leave the Door Open
I love this technique.
It’s easy to make a girl obsessed with you once the tables are turned. You’re afraid that she puts you in the friend zone, right? Well, you can do the same. You can put her in the friend zone and enjoy her reaction.
Hint: This works especially well with hot girls.
Hot girls are used to guys chasing them. Just think about the average Instagram model. She has thousands of Instagram followers who would give everything for a piece of her body. That’s her reality. Now you destroy her reality with one sentence.
“You’re an amazing girl, but I don’t know if we’re a good match…”
What happens now?
Her reality comes crashing down like a spaceship that has been hit by a star destroyer. She can’t believe it. This has NEVER happened before. No guy has ever rejected her. Or wait…it’s not a rejection. You’re just not sure. You leave her in the unknown.
The unknown is killing her.
That’s why you have to heal her pain before she dies:
“…but somehow I like you.”
Now she feels like Luke Skywalker after he destroyed the Death Star. She becomes obsessed with victory.
10. Be Obsessed with Honesty
Honesty is the greatest aphrodisiac.
Zan Perrion said these words. And they are true. Honesty really is the greatest aphrodisiac. We live in a day and age of fakeness. Every post on Facebook, every photo you upload on Instagram, every text message…it’s all fake.
But it doesn’t end there.
“I’m fine” answers the clinically depressed patient on the question “how are you?”
That’s the world we live in and she hates it.
She craves a man who is honest:
You are her honest rock in the sea of lies.
Be relentlessly honest and expect the same from her because honest men are desirable men.
11. Make Her Obsessed with Exciting Unpredictability
Unpredictability is a virtue.
What if she never knows what you’ll do next?
That’s what you want. That’s when she becomes obsessed with you. You are the man who takes her breath away. All the other guys are predictable. Guess what? Predictability is boring. And in case you didn’t know…
Women hate boring men!
Here’s what women really want:
Do the things you want to do and surprise her. It can be a piggyback ride or a plane ticket to a foreign country. It’s up to you. Just be unpredictable.
12. Communicate Your Desire Non-Verbally
Desire leads to obsession.
Yes, it’s true. Women don’t want you to chase after them like a donkey chases the carrot. With this strategy, you’ll never get the carrot. However, that doesn’t mean that you should hide your true intentions. She still wants to be wanted.
Give her the feeling that you desire her:
She already knows the answer but she’s still asking herself “does he want me or not?”
She becomes obsessed with finding the answer.
13. Send an Open-Ended Good Night Text
One message is all that is needed.
Send her a text right before she goes to bed. This is how to make a girl become obsessed with you over text. Most guys make the mistake and think that texting back and forth is the answer. It’s not. One text is better than 100.
Here’s what I text girls right before bedtime:
“Good night and sweet dreams.”
That’s it. It’s the simplest text on earth…but it’s also the deadliest. You put yourself in her mind, right before she goes to bed. She’ll think of you when she closes her eyes. And she’ll think of you when she opens her eyes the next morning.
You are the first and the last person she thinks of.
Do this every day and you’ll become the splinter in her mind that drives her crazy…in a good way.
14. Obsess Over the Woman Next to Her
High risk leads to high reward.
The only downside is that you can mess it up. That’s the nature of taking risks. You win big time or you ram your precious head in a concrete wall.
It’s up to you if you give it a shot.
Here’s what you need to do (only for the courageous):
In other words, you obsess over a girl right in front of the chick you want to make addicted to you. This works so well because she sees the other girl as competition. Andshe wants to win. Oh, and you’re the first guy who has the balls to do that.
That’s how to make a girl obsessed over you by making her furiously jealous.
15. Use Mystery to Make Her Obsessed with You
No, I don’t want you to use the pickup artist Mystery.
I want you to reveals something, but not everything.
What about the rest?
Hush! Be quiet. Don’t reveal too much about yourself. Give her the information she needs to feel safe in your presence. But don’t give her more. She has to go on a quest. If she wants you, she has to find the missing pieces. And believe me. If she has to find out more, she wants you even more.
You are a mysterious seducer.
She’ll become obsessed with you because she won’t stop until she knows everything about you. But you don’t reveal the last details until she’s in your bed.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know how to make a girl obsessed with you? It’s time to become the splinter in her mind. But be careful, you don’t want to have her as a splinter in your mind. Your job is to become obsessed with greatness and with your lifestyle.
Your vision is more important than your possessions. Oh, and women don’t get obsessed over friends. So stop being the nice friend. Start taking her on an emotional roller coaster ride. Make her emotions jump up and down and she’ll jump in bed with you.
Make her remember you with your exciting unpredictability. You are the mysterious seducer with the dominant body language. You are the guy who has the courage to admire the girl next to her. You are a Global Seducer.