Why do you want to know how to make a girl feel special over text?
Oh God, you’re a smartphone addict.
It’s time for an extensive therapy. You can learn to live without that thing. I believe in you. Okay, let’s stop the bullshit. I’m sure you’re not an addict. I mean, you’re not a woman with a gigantic ass. But hey, you can still use your phone to get girls.
Here’s the reality women face every day:
Most guys send boring messages that make them look boring.
Do you want to be one of them?
The answer is obvious. You don’t. You want to use the device that’s responsible for more traffic accidents than deer to your advantage. You want to have the power to make any girl feel special by simply typing a few words on a screen.
Here’s what I want to show you:
Let’s uncover the secrets to make her feel like Taylor Swift after a music award show without Kanye West on the guest list…
How to Make a Girl Feel Special Through Text
I’m ashamed to admit it, but…
I had no idea how to make a girl feel special over text. I was clueless. And I refused to listen to my mentors. Yep, I was an ignorant child who considered himself a great seducer…classic Napoleon syndrome.
“You have to start texting girls. What’s wrong with you?”
I refused to follow his advice because I didn’t want to be one of dozens of other guys who text her every day. I wanted to set myself apart from the others. Eventually, I realized that I just had to follow one simple rule. This mindset-shift changed everything.
I had to do things differently…
1. Create a Texting Habit
Have you ever heard of classical conditioning?
The idea is really simple. You condition someone with a specific stimulus to respond in a certain way. The founder of classical conditioning conditioned dogs to drool when a bell rang because the dogs expected food.
I don’t say that women are like dogs, but the principle works.
Text her at the same time every day and she’ll expect your text. She’ll anticipate your next message and whenever her phone vibrates, her heart (and her panties) vibrates, too. Your message is the stimulus. Her reaction is the response.
You conditioned her to expect your special message at the same time. Don’t disappoint her.
2. Send Her a Romantic Good Night Text
I do this with every girl.
“Good night and sweet dreams…”
No matter if she’s my girlfriend or a side chick…I send her a goodnight message. I do it because I want to be the last person she thinks of before she goes to bed. I want her to close her eyes, picturing my ugly face.
That sounds terribly creepy, but it’s very effective.
Yes, it sounds creepy, but it’s very romantic. She thinks about you in the morning and in the evening. And if you then send her a daily snapshot (more on that later) she’ll also think about you during lunch break. That’s how you make a girl feel special through text.
3. Use Special Smileys Nobody Else Uses
I’m in Asia for way too long. ..
In Germany we use WhatsApp. I know from my American friends that you also use it in the USA. What if you’re from another country (or another planet)? You’ve probably heard of WhatsApp. I mean, even a camel in the desert knows what it is.
But have you heard of LINE?
That’s the messenger app that’s used in South East Asia, especially in Thailand. This application has probably more smileys, emoticons, and Gifs than any other application in the world. It’s no secret that Asians love cute things.
Why do I tell you this?
Well, because I love to experiment with these smileys.
At first, I thought it’s ridiculous. Then I tried to have fun with it. Now I know that choosing special smileys for special women can get you laid. Since I made this discovery, I love LINE and the various smileys.
Choose one weird smiley that you only send her. Give it a funny name that’s related to her name. She’ll love it.
4. Share Snapshots of Your Daily Life
I do this all the time.
Heck, I did it five minutes ago. A girl I’m seeing asked me if I already had lunch. I sent her a picture of my food…and my face. I hope she didn’t throw up. The food already looked bad but my face looked even worse. But hey, it’s snapshot of my daily life.
I love to send these messages because…
Oh, and did I mention that nobody else sends these kind of texts?
It doesn’t matter where you are. You can make a selfie in the library, in the gym, or when you’re having dinner with your family. And you don’t even have to think about what to write. Make a picture, caption it, and press send.
5. Share Your Favorite Music and Videos with Her
She wants to be a part of your life.
That’s the dream of every girl. She wants to meet a guy who invites her in his private bubble. Your private bubble is filled with all the things you do, like, and enjoy. It’s your life and if she likes you, she wants to be a part of it.
Think about that before you send her a boring “hey, what’s up?” message.
We live in a day and age in which sharing is caring. We don’t just share food. We share everything on our Facebook timeline and on our Instagram profiles. God, I hate social media. Anyway, you can share something with her that you didn’t already share on your Facebook timeline.
You don’t do that with every random girl you meet.
You only share these things with her. By doing this, you allow her to be a part of your life. That’s how to make a girl feel special through text messages.
P.S. She doesn’t have to know that you sent the same message to Laura and Cathy.
6. Send Her Special Reminder Texts
What else can you do?
Well, you could send her short remind texts. I’d love to say that I do this regularly, but I usually forget it. I’m super busy and I can’t even remember my mom’s birthday. But just because I’m too stupid to do it doesn’t mean that you have to make the same mistake.
Be smart and send her special reminder texts.
Show that you care about her and she’ll care about you.
7. Send Her the “This Made Me Think of You” Text
This is another Sebastian Harris special.
She’ll love the “this made me think of you” text because everyone wants someone who thinks of them. Come on. Be honest. It feels good when someone thinks of you…even if it’s just your mom. But let’s face it. It feels better if the person who thinks of you is a hot girl who wants to sleep with you.
She feels the same about you (even though you’re not a hot girl).
Here’s what you need to do:
Observe your environment. Look out for the beautiful, funny, and weird. Don’t overcomplicate this. Look around. Maybe there’s a squirrel. Maybe there’s a rainbow. Maybe there’s an overweight gender study student. These little things can have a big impact in a text message. Okay, forget about the last one.
“I just saw a cute squirrel and this made me think of you.”
You think she’s cute and now she knows it. She’ll smile like a happy squirrel.
8. Start a Flirty Text Conversation
Flirting doesn’t have to be physical.
You can use the power of flirting to make a girl feel special through text. And no, fliting is not the same as making her uncontrollably horny. Calm down hungry lion. You first have to observe the antelope before you can hunt it.
Send her flirty text messages to test the waters.
Okay, maybe it is about making her horny…at least a little bit. The wonderful think about flirting over text is that the first couple of texts can be innocent. But that doesn’t mean that the last text can’t be charged with sexual tension.
Don’t be shy. Take your phone and flirt with her.
9. Ask Her What She’s Thinking Right Now
Everyone asks her what she’s doing and where she’s going.
Boring, boring, and boring!
Remember, you want to be different. You want to set yourself apart from the other clueless guys. Let them be walking texting disasters. You take a different path. You don’t ask her what she’s doing or where she’s going.
You ask her what she’s thinking.
“Hey, I just wondered what you’re thinking right now.”
It might sound like a strange thing to ask, especially in a text message. But it works. It works because most girls, especially the really beautiful ones, are only judged by how they look or by what they do. Nobody ever asks them what they think.
You’ll be the first and she’ll never forget it.
10. Remind Her to Be a Good Girl
Sorry, I can’t stop using the word “remind”…
You already know why reminder texts work like a charm. Now you’ll learn why reminding her to be a good girl is so powerful. Good girl…the one expression that makes a woman more submissive than Jamie Dornan in a suit.
Here’s when you can use this expression:
I know. Number one and two don’t have anything in common with number three. Or do they? Well, a woman you undress and sleep with wants to feel special, too. The expression “good girl” gives her this feeling because it combines kink with reward.
“Be a good girl today…”
Remind her to be a good girl and she’ll think about doing bad things with you.
Just like I remind you to be a good Global Seducer and check out my book.
Summed Up Wisdom
I refused to text girls. Yep, I was young and dumb. I thought that my strategy was brilliant. I though it set me apart from the other guys. Eventually, I realized that there are ways to text a girl that make every second you spent with your phone worth it.
Habits are powerful. If you text her every day at the same time, she’ll feel that you care about her. And every woman wants to have the feeling that the man she likes cares about her. Oh, and don’t forget to send her a good night message. That’s the most effective text you can send.
What if you’re too lazy to type? I guess your smartphone has a camera. Make a picture and send her a snapshot of your daily life. It doesn’t matter if you’re at the gym or at a restaurant. You can even remind her to eat something. She must be hungry.
What if you’re thinking of her? Let her know. But you’re not the only one with the ability to think. Ask her what she’s thinking. Everyone else asks her what she’s doing. You’re different. You even flirt with her and remind her to be a good girl because you know how to make a girl feel special over text.